Mustafa Khattab – Closer to Allah 10 Good Manners Ramadan 2011

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The speaker discusses the importance of good manners, including having a good relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and being nice to people. The speaker also mentions the tension between India and Pakistan due to politics and the importance of fasting during the pandemic. The speaker concludes with a joke about 2 Indian brothers traveling together and finding their way to Jannah with the lamp in the desert.

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			So today is the 10th night of Tawhid,
		
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			and in a few days, inshaAllah, we'll say
		
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			goodbye to the month of Ramadan.
		
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			And some of you
		
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			might have wondered why would they call it
		
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			fasting
		
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			because it goes by so fast.
		
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			God made that up. But anyway,
		
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			So Islam
		
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			stands on 2 feet.
		
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			The first one is theology,
		
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			knowing Allah
		
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			and knowing how to worship and serve Him.
		
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			And the second foot is dealing with people.
		
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			We read in the Qur'an those who have
		
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			faith and do good. Those who have faith
		
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			and do good.
		
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			So if you look at the previous
		
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			faith,
		
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			the teachings of Musa Alaihi Salam, the teachings
		
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			of Isa and the previous prophets.
		
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			Like, for example, if you look at the
		
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			3 Commandments,
		
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			the first
		
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			few Commandments, they talk about worshiping Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala and having a good relationship
		
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			with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Then the rest of the commandments, they say,
		
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			be a nice person.
		
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			Don't abuse people. Be good to the people.
		
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			Be kind. Be nice to the people. And
		
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			the same is also true in the Quran.
		
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			If you read the Surat and Isra,
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has decreed
		
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			that you worship none but Him
		
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			and you honor your parents. And the verses
		
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			go on to talk about how nice you
		
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			should be to the people. You shouldn't steal
		
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			or lie or
		
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			cheat and so on and so forth.
		
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			So all faiths including
		
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			Islam are all of us having a good
		
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			relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, worshiping Him
		
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			properly
		
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			and being nice to the people.
		
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			When
		
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			and good manners. The
		
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			prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam, I don't have a Hadith
		
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			Sahafid in the
		
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			Also, in another Hadith
		
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			by the Madi, the prophet says
		
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			that the most beloved of you to my
		
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			heart on the day of judgment
		
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			and the closest of you to me in
		
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			Jannah are those who have the best manners.
		
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			He didn't say that the closest of you
		
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			are those who pray more or fast more
		
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			or they do,
		
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			15 Hajj. No. He said, those who have
		
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			the best manners.
		
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			You have to fast, you have to pray.
		
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			I mean, this this is taken for granted.
		
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			I mean, there's no question about this, but
		
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			good manners is what makes a difference.
		
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			And
		
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			The Prophet
		
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			says in the hadith that
		
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			a prostitute
		
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			from the children of Israel, this is in
		
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			the authentic hadith,
		
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			went to Jannah because she gave water to
		
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			a dog in the desert to drink. It's
		
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			an authentic hadith.
		
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			In another Hadith, the Prophet SAW says that
		
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			a woman went to the hellfire
		
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			for abusing a cat until the cat died.
		
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			We all know these are Hadith.
		
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			So good manners to humans and animals and
		
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			to anything.
		
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			Because as we said before,
		
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			at the end of the day, you are
		
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			dealing with Allah
		
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			not with the people.
		
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			One example
		
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			of good manners is to love for your
		
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			brother or your sister what you love for
		
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			yourself, and you hate for them what you
		
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			hate for yourself. And the Prophet says in
		
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			the authentic Hadith. And I conclude with this
		
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			story.
		
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			So
		
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			this
		
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			is a story we conclude with.
		
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			We probably are aware of the tension between
		
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			India and Pakistan because of the politics in
		
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			Kashmir and what happened. So an Indian brother
		
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			told me this, this joke.
		
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			He said 2 Indian brothers
		
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			and 1 Pakistani brother, they were traveling together,
		
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			and they had the tension because of the
		
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			politics. They almost talked about politics. So they
		
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			were traveling in the desert,
		
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			they ran out of water, they ran out
		
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			of food, and they were that close
		
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			to death.
		
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			And they started crying and making God to
		
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			Allah
		
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			and all of a sudden, they found the
		
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			magic lamp of Aladdin, Aladdin.
		
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			Okay. So they dropped
		
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			the lamp and the genie came out and
		
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			he said,
		
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			masters,
		
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			I have one wish for each one of
		
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			you. Three wishes, 1 each.
		
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			So the first Indian brother, he said, I
		
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			feel so sorry. You know, I was very
		
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			disobedient and and I'm very close to death
		
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			now, And I wish I will go for
		
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			Hajj. And boom, he disappeared.
		
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			He disappeared and he found himself on Jabal
		
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			Al Fath.
		
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			So what Indian is done?
		
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			The second one said, I was disobedient to
		
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			my mother
		
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			and I gave her a hard time. I
		
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			wish that I can, you know, dedicate the
		
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			rest of my life in her service.
		
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			Boom. It's Satir. He found himself in Mumbai,
		
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			India.
		
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			The other brother,
		
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			he was not so happy that one of
		
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			them is not in hatch. The other one
		
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			is happy with his mother and his wife,
		
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			Umunbe. He said, these guys are happy now,
		
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			and they left me in this miserable situation.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Okay. My wish is to bring these 2
		
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			back here.
		
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			And boom, they get back.
		
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			Wish for your brother what you wish for
		
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			yourself.
		
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			The question
		
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			the question for yesterday was if the question
		
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			the question for yesterday was, if someone missed
		
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			a few days of Ramadan 4 years ago
		
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			and they didn't make up the days yet,
		
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			after 4 years, they will have to make
		
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			up the days. And as a punishment, they
		
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			will have to feed a poor person for
		
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			every day or to give a saw of
		
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			of food, either way.
		
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			The winner for today is Hajj Milkel Hamur.
		
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			Where is he?
		
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			Hajj Milkel Hamur.
		
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			Is he here?
		
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			Question for today, if someone is asthmatic,
		
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			okay, and they have to use the puffer
		
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			all day, he won't have Ramadan.
		
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			Does the puffer using the puffer in the
		
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			day of Ramadan invalidate the fasting or not?