Mustafa Khattab – Brotherhood

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the meaning of brotherhood in Islam, including the importance of loving one another and not giving up. They also mention a story of a brother who was a true brother and had a fake friend, leading them to raise money together to pay their rent. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning from the example of the Sahaba of the prophet and not giving up.
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So the first level of brotherhood in Islam

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is brotherhood in humanity.

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And wherever Allah subhanahu wa'ala speaks about prophets

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in the Quran,

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Allah speaks about prophets, stand abroad, unless it's

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to such people or such tribe and town,

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we send their brother

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so and so. And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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gives the names of the prophets. And the

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prophets were believers and most of their peoples

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were not believers.

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So when you walk in the street and

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you see,

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someone who is Christian or Jewish or Buddhist

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or Hindu, he or she is your brother

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or sister in human hands. So this is

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the basic one. We come from the same

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father and the same.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala speaks about brotherhood of

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this guy. So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala speaks

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about Yusuf and his brothers from the same

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father and the same mother.

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The highest level of brotherhood in Islam is

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brotherhood

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in faith.

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Your brother and sister in Islam.

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You look at the Sahaba of the prophet

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and they come from different backgrounds. You will

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find Sahaba from Asia like Abu Bakr, Nohawad,

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and Muslim, and Amin, and all the great

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Arabs Sahaba,

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and you have some man in the Persian,

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and so on and so forth.

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Then you see some African

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Sahaba

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you see some brothers and sisters from Europe,

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Kosovo, and other places.

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You'll see some brothers from Africa, from Nigeria,

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from Egypt, from different places just like the

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Sahaba of the prophet

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and they cared for one another and they

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loved one another.

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So this is the true meaning of brotherhood

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in Islam that you love someone

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because worse he or she is your brother

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your brother or sister

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in Islam.

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Sometimes we forget this meaning because we live

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in a materialistic society we have to work

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one job, put 3 jobs, put food on

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the table and pay the bills so you

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don't have time to socialize

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with other Muslims you see around.

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Jumah or other prayers

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and they don't follow the brother or sister

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who prays this to death and they pray

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together for 25 years they just finish Shala

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Asa and they rush to work or they

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rush to school and they don't have the

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time to ask people what their names are

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or what they do in life. Nobody has

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time.

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Sometimes,

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even if we have time in the masjid

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we usually tend to get closer to people

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of our

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So we need to learn from the example

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of the Sahaba get close to each other.

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So when you finish salah today at least

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the brother and sister to your life will

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last give the salah and just ask for

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the name, not anymore.

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Had you visited them, you would have found

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my war with them.

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I needed your help, oh, son of Adam,

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you never gave me help.

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So the servant will say, oh, Allah, how

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how do you need my help and you

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are the Lord of everything that exists?

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So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will say didn't

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you know that your brother needed help and

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you never gave him a hand? Has you

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given him help? He would have found their

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war with me. And this is the meaning

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of the hadith.

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If he asks

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for your advice, give him advice.

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Whether he asks for it literally,

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I need your advice for this and that

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or

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their situation. You feel like you're in a

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difficult situation they need your advice so offer

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your advice.

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Sneezes

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and says,

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may Allah give you, his mercy. If

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this person

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falls sick

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visit them,

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give them hope,

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show them that you care about them and

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this is probably more important than the medication

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they take oh there's somebody in the community

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who cares about me choose the time you

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go to them choose your topic go stay

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forever

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So, if you and your little brother or

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sister

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are

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applying for a job, you will feel happy

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for them if they get the job just

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like you will feel happy for yourself if

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you get the same job. This is what

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it means.

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And the same also applies to the opposite.

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You hate for them

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what you get for yourself because

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this is the thing sometimes,

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you love to make the good things for

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yourself and give the junk to your brothers

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and sisters.

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And Allah

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says in the Quran even when you give

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salah

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or zagah

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take the best out of what you have,

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don't keep the good for yourself and give

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the junk for salah. Allah is the best

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and he accepts only what is best.

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So, this is a game of loving for

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your brother for what you love for yourself.

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And, I think a long time I mentioned

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the story of a brother who was a

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true brother and he had a fake friend,

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a fake,

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brother.

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So, the true brother wanted to cast his

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brother to see if he's a true brother

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or not. So, together, they were having dinner

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and they had 2 apples in front of

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him. One of them was big and nice

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and the other one was small and it

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had a worm.

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So the true brother

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said to his friend go first take one

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apple.

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So his fake brother, he took the big

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and the nice one and he left the

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small and

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the the the the rotten one.

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So the true brother said, I thought you

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were my true brother if I let you

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choose first, it would take the small and

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give me the big and the nice one.

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So the fake brother said, brother, if I

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let you choose first,

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And whoever covers the Muslim in this dunya

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Allah Subhanahu Wa'ala

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will cover them on the day of judgement.

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A few weeks back,

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I was talking to my brother and and

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we realized that there's a Muslim brother he

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needs he needed to pay his rent or

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something

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and that brother is a student he didn't

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have money to pay the rent.

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So we decided that we'll raise the money

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together and pay the rents for that brother.

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From my standpoint he only knew the name

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of that brother.

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He was he was not like they were

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living together in the same house for him.

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No. He knew that his Muslim brother was

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indeed that he offered him something and

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the third one which is fairness for your

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Muslim brothers and sisters.

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Say for example, you have this agreement with

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someone,

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don't make a scene

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and go on abuse them because you have

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this agreement with them.

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Prophet says in the Quran.

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We used to be students

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and we're staying at the door when some

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of us were evil. They're evil. And what

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they did, they got clinics like this. And

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I see this with my own eyes. Sometimes,

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when we asleep,

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they get a clinic or a t shirt

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like this and they put it between the

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brother's fingers, or he gets some matches, and

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they put it between his fingers, and they

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light them up, and the guys makes out

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that his feet are on fire. And he

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screams,

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yeah, we're just joking on you.

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