Mustafa Khattab – ArRomaisaa Om Sulaim
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So last time we spoke about Musulayim bin
Khan and we said that the Prophet
gave her
the glad news of Jannah while she was
living in this world.
And there are several sahaba males and females
who are given the the glad news of
Jannah while they were living with the prophet
We said that she is a woman that
is worth a 1,000 men.
And the reason is
she dedicated her whole life to Allah Subhanahu
Waqqara to the service of Islam and the
service of the prophet
For example,
she was divorced from her first husband,
Madik ibn Nada, the father of anti Semitic
because he refused to become Muslim.
He was forcing her to leave Islam. Eventually,
he had to give her a divorce. And
as they say in English, if you can't
stand the heat,
leave the kitchen. And this is what he
eventually did. He left the whole building, not
only the kitchen.
The reason she got married to the her
second husband, Abu Talha, is because he accepted
Islam.
Of course, he was a Catholic before he
got married. She said, listen. You are a
great guy, and I want to marry you.
But I would never marry someone who is
Catholic. If you want
to to to marry me, you have to
accept Islam.
And the Sahaba used to say that this
is the greatest dollar in Islam.
She didn't ask for gold. She didn't ask
for silver. She didn't ask for a Ferrari.
She asked for Islam.
This is number 1.
So she dedicated her son to the service
of the Prophet
When he was 10 years old,
she said, he will serve you.
Then Anna said in Anathintik Hamid, I served
the Prophet
for 10 years.
He never said a guff to me.
He was never mad at me. He never
hit me. And if I did something, he
would never question me, why did he do
this? And if I didn't do something, he
would never ask me, why didn't he do
this?
She used to go out with for the
battles with the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
to defend him.
And we said last time that some men
held strong
among the Sahaba, they didn't go out in
the battles
So the prophet
used to give salah to the children
in the streets, and he used
to joke with them including
Abu
jokingly,
And when and when this little bird when
it died, the colonel came to him to
offer his condolences
to,
you know,
to, to to, yeah. So you will forget
about the birds.
The story of whom Solange is a great
one and there are so many great events
in her life, but the event that will
stand out
the test of time as the great event
for work for for which Umulsulayl could be
remembered is the death of her son, Almaith,
the one we just mentioned.
And
So her son, Abu Umay, was sick,
and her husband Abu Talha was away for
some reason.
Her son died the same day that her
husband was returned back home. So she said
to her family and neighbors, don't tell
Abu about the death of his son and
let me be the first to inform him.
And as I said, she told his family,
you know, the family don't tell him about
the death of his son.
So
she prepared food for her husband,
and she beautified herself.
She wore the best clothing,
makeup,
the available beads at that time. She looked
good in every way. She's felt good. So
they had dinner. They had a good time
together.
And in the morning, she said,
Yeah. But, Allah, listen. If someone gives you
something,
if you borrow something from someone or someone
lends you something, then they come to take
it from you. Would you say no?
He said, no. I'll give it to them.
So she said Allah
gave you
your son,
Abu Umai, as a trust, a man, and
he took it back from you.
He said,
and
he got angry. He said,
My son was dead before I came.
Now you prepared the best food for me.
You look good until we had a good
time together. They they, you know, they had
an intimate relationship that night. They slept together.
So he went to the prophet and he
was furious. And he said, look look what
this lady did.
I'm coming from this journey, and she is
preparing food, and she looked good until we
had a good time. We, you know, and
my son was dead in his room.
Another narration in al bazaar, it says that
the prophet
says that Allah
has put a son in her womb
because of her patience for her son.
And according to the different narrations,
9 months after this story, Allah Subhanahu Wa
Ta'ala gave them Abu Allah, a son. Instead
of what Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala took from
them. And according to the different narrations, this
Abu Allah,
he had 10 children all memorized the whole
Quran. They began to fast.
Just Allah
blessing them for their patience.
She was very patient. And Allah Subhanahu Wa
Ta'ala rewarded them for their patience.
So I said, I will tell you just
one thing. If you put a law over
your head,
it would put the people under your feet.
But if you put the people over your
head, Allah
will put you under the feet,
which means Allah
takes priority in your life. Everything you do,
you do for Allah, not for the people.
As we said in the story of, she
got married
because of Islam, and she was divorced from
her first husband because of Islam.
If you want to accept Islam
because you love Islam,
because you want to be a Muslim, because
you want to be to live a decent
life,
to be a good Muslim, then fine. Then
you can marry the Muslim system.
Accept this land just to get permission to
marry the lady, then I mean, what is
the point? There are millions of other ladies
out there who are non Muslim who can
go and
marry her. But it's a
Patience
is the best policy in this life. Because
sometimes, when something bad happens, you keep complaining,
you keep whining. Why am I trying to
be a Nazca? Why is this happening to
me? Why
he's not being, you know, tested like I'm
tested? Why
anyone else? Brother Usdin is not being tested
like me?
Or I'm, for example, I'm other people are
not good as me and they're getting more
salary than me. You
The last thing I want to mention
is you keep complaining, a lost panel will
give you something more to complain about.
But if you're grateful and you thank the
lost panel,
we will give you more to thank for.