Mustafa Khattab – Aiming High &Thinking Big

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The best guidance for Muslims is the prophet's message and the way of life of the people they are with. The importance of the prophet's message and the way of life of the people they are with is emphasized. Success in life is emphasized, including aiming high and working for the future, following non-Mahahah holidays, and following small deeds. The speaker gives advice on these topics and gives examples of small and aiming low, including following non-Mahahah holidays.

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			The best guidance for us Muslims is the
		
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			example
		
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			and the way of life of the prophet,
		
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			and the most truthful work is the Quran
		
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			or the word of Allah
		
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			who are as good as the sahaba of
		
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			the prophet, salaam alayhi wa sallam? Are there
		
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			people among us who will be with the
		
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			sahaba in Jannah in the highest place on
		
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			the day of judgement?
		
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			The scholars say that the companions of the
		
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			prophet, salaam alayhi wa sallam, they are classified
		
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			into 2 groups.
		
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			The first one
		
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			include
		
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			the family of the prophet
		
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			and the maids.
		
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			The ten Sahaba were given the news of
		
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			and
		
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			the people who attended Badr,
		
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			and the people who paid the pledge to
		
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			the prophet
		
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			under the tree, Bayatul al 1. So the
		
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			scholars say, these sahaba, they have no equivalents
		
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			in the ummah of the prophet
		
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			they are the pioneers.
		
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			The second
		
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			type of the sahaba, they are the average
		
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			sahaba. The people that are not included in
		
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			the first group, and they said, yes,
		
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			among us today, some people who are like
		
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			these average sahaba. They will be with them
		
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			in Jannah and in the scholar sign of
		
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			Saba Hadid, in which the prophet says
		
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			that there's goodness in my sahaba,
		
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			and there's goodness in all the Muslim generations
		
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			that will come after.
		
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			So we will be with them inshallah and
		
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			Jannah if we do their actions.
		
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			So what makes the Sahaba different from us
		
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			is what they call.
		
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			And the best translation for this
		
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			is thinking big and aiming high. The Sahaba
		
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			were always thinking big.
		
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			They didn't think small like us. They didn't
		
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			aim low like us.
		
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			And this is what made them
		
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			great at their time, and they made them
		
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			great of all times.
		
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			The Sahaba graduated from the school of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			And the prophet
		
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			when he started his dawah, he was one
		
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			man by himself,
		
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			and the whole world was against
		
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			him. In a few years, as they say
		
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			in the good of the books of the
		
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			prophet the whole Arabia accepted this man at
		
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			the time of the prophet
		
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			Those who were able to attend the Hajj,
		
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			the pilgrimage with the prophet
		
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			a few months before his death,
		
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			they were numbered
		
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			144,000
		
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			people. Those who were able to make the
		
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			Hajj with him.
		
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			This shows you the great hilna of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			He traveled 1,000 of miles tirelessly
		
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			to give dawah and to show the people
		
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			to convey the message to them.
		
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			In the east
		
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			and south West Africa in the west,
		
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			Turkey and Spain and the Lucia in the
		
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			north,
		
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			Ethiopia
		
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			and Somalia in the south within a few
		
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			years
		
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			During the time of the Sahaba and those
		
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			who came out.
		
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			And as I said, they were very few
		
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			in number, but they had a great
		
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			So Omar Abdul Aziz also he had great
		
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			kingdom. He said, I have a very
		
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			ambitious soul. I'm very ambitious.
		
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			I always wanted to be a governor.
		
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			When I became a governor, I wanted to
		
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			tens, and hundreds of miles just to record
		
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			1 hadith,
		
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			like 3 or 4 lines that the prophet
		
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			said many years ago. Just 1 hadith.
		
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			They had they had that image.
		
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			So you have to have this Himba, you
		
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			have to think big, and you have to
		
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			aim high to be as successful as the
		
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			sahabah, the companions of the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam in this life and in the
		
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			next life.
		
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			So the first one example I'm giving, you
		
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			have to be successful in this life, whatever
		
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			you might be. If you're a student,
		
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			you have to try to be the top
		
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			of your class.
		
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			And this is a good down for other
		
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			people. They always see Muslims successful.
		
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			They say, I wish I can be like
		
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			them. Like, in some cases, people accepted Islam.
		
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			And one brother in South Carolina,
		
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			he was in the he was doing his
		
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			PhD in,
		
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			mechanical engineering, and he said,
		
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			I accepted Islam just to be as successful
		
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			as the Muslim brothers who were with me
		
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			in this department.
		
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			I wanted to be successful like them and
		
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			happy like them, and this is why I
		
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			accepted this plan, because we were number 1
		
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			in the class and in the department.
		
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			If you are in business, you have to
		
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			be number 1.
		
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			If you are a doctor or engineer, try
		
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			to be number
		
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			1 in your field. And this is, as
		
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			I said, is a great one.
		
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			And Hussain alayhi, alayhi, alayhi, alayhi, alayhi, alayhi,
		
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			please, with him and his father and his
		
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			whole family said that Allah likes
		
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			major and important matters, and he doesn't like
		
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			minor
		
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			and unimportant matters. Always think big and aim
		
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			higher.
		
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			The second time of Himmat is to always
		
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			work in this life
		
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			with an
		
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			eye on the hereafter. You always work for
		
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			the hereafter.
		
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			And as I said, be successful in this
		
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			life, but also try to have a a
		
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			place in the hereafter agenda.
		
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			When it comes to charity, try to be
		
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			the best. When it comes to salah, prayers,
		
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			fasting, and all these things, try to be
		
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			the best. Do your best.
		
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			And we know that the 10 days of
		
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			the month of the hija started today.
		
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			And the prophet
		
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			said that the good deeds are not better
		
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			in any time in the year more than
		
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			this or these 10 days. So try to
		
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			do your best.
		
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			In the authentic hadith, it is a matter.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			says that those who only work for this
		
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			dunya, this life,
		
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			Allah
		
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			will shatter them in this life, and it
		
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			will put poverty between their eyes. Wherever they
		
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			go, they will be poor in the heart.
		
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			And they will never be from this dunya
		
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			except that which Allah has written for them.
		
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			But those who always work for the next
		
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			life, and those who compete with one another
		
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			in goodness, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will give
		
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			them integrity,
		
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			He will give them richness
		
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			Number 3,
		
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			even when you make dua to Allah
		
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			to give you something, always ask big.
		
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			Don't ask small things. And the prophet
		
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			says in Arabic hadith in Bukhary, when you
		
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			ask Allah to give you Jannah paradise,
		
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			ask for the highest place in Jannah, at
		
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			Firdaus.
		
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			And the prophet says that this is the
		
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			highest place in Jannah. The throne of Allah
		
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			is over it, and all the rivers of
		
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			Jannah come from this place.
		
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			We will talk about the opposite of what
		
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			we said in the first kutba,
		
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			to think small
		
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			and to aim low.
		
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			And this is what many people do. If
		
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			you ask many people, what is your purpose
		
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			in this life? Okay. They will tell you
		
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			we have no purpose.
		
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			Our only goal is to eat, drink, make
		
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			babies, and die.
		
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			If this is your only intention in this
		
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			life, then what makes you different from your
		
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			cat?
		
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			She does precisely the same thing. It eats,
		
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			drinks, makes babies and die.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala created you for a
		
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			better purpose in this life,
		
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			different
		
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			from your cats.
		
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			Okay? And you have to be in that
		
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			position to deserve the honor of being the
		
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			khalifa in this world, to be to deserve
		
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			the honor of being a Muslim in this
		
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			life.
		
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			The second example, and I will conclude with
		
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			this, of thinking small and aiming low, having
		
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			no purpose in life, is to just follow
		
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			non Muslims in their holidays at festivals. And
		
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			many Muslims do this.
		
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			Okay? They are not proud of their identity.
		
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			They are not proud of their faith.
		
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			All those young brothers and sisters who
		
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			participate in Halloween
		
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			with all that crazy costume,
		
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			and those who participate in the Christmas, and
		
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			those who participate in Valentine's Day.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			All these practices, they are not acceptable in
		
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			Islam.
		
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			Allah
		
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			says in the Quran in chapter 25 verse
		
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			72,
		
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			and those who, when they pass by
		
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			vanity and idle talk, they pass by with
		
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			dignity.
		
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			And the scholars of tafsir, they say that
		
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			these ayat talks about Muslims
		
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			not attending the festivals and the holidays of
		
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			non Muslims.
		
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			It talks about this precisely.
		
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			When Namirullah said,
		
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			The reason why these festivals are not
		
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			acceptable in Islam is number 1, because they
		
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			are not even Christian festivals.
		
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			25th is never
		
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			none of the scholars of Christianity ever said
		
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			that Jesus was born anywhere in December. He
		
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			was not born in the winter. He was
		
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			born in the summer. This is what they
		
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			say. But that was the holiday of one
		
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			of the gods, the god of the sun
		
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			in the times of the Romans, 100 and
		
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			1000 of years before Jesus.
		
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			Valentine's Day, same thing. It goes back to
		
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			the pagan Romans.
		
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			And and so on and so on, all
		
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			of them.
		
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			The second reason is it's all about business.
		
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			If you look at all these Muslim holidays,
		
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			they're all about business.
		
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			You buy red roses and red bears
		
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			in Valentine's day,
		
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			Christmas tree and Santa Claus in Christmas,
		
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			and you buy
		
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			one of the crazy costume,
		
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			shrimp for head over
		
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			or skeletons
		
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			for the hallway.
		
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			It's all about business.
		
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			Is why in Muslim countries,
		
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			non Muslims, they don't celebrate Eid al Adha
		
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			or Eid al Fit, and they don't fast
		
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			Ramadan.
		
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			They have their own feasts,
		
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			so they don't celebrate Muslims' holidays.
		
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			Why isn't the opposite here? Why do we
		
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			celebrate non Muslim feasts and they don't celebrate
		
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			ours?
		
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			The reason is
		
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			for every nation and for every culture, there
		
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			are festivals.
		
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			So keep them theirs for them and keep
		
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			us for us. That's Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.