Mustafa Khattab – 2 Ramadan Reflections Dirty Windows

Mustafa Khattab
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The importance of learning from the month of Easter is discussed, particularly in controlling behavior and learning to behave with others. A woman who felt herself as the standard by which she measure people felt moved to Mississauga and eventually found dirty clothing. The speaker emphasizes the importance of humility and humility in explaining things to people, as fasting causes people to become humble and dependent on Allah's instructions. The conversation ends with a discussion of a award and a coupon for a meal.
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Days. Right?

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It's it's just a few days. This is

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how Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala describes it.

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Once the first day of Ramadan is gone,

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the rest of the month will be gone.

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And I will remind you, inshallah, in just

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a few days, Ramadan will be over. But

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I know the 1st day is the is

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the toughest.

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So when people go to jail, they say

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that the 1st day is the most difficult,

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but after this you get used to it.

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Right?

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So I remember last night after the first

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two rakats of Taraweeh, I heard someone in

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the back say, Allahumma billitna shawwal.

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They were tired already. Right?

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But alhamdulillah, I hope today they, they feel

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better inshallah.

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So the whole purpose of the month of

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Ramadan is to learn some lessons. If you

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remember, if you were here last night, you

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were not falling asleep or playing with your

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phone.

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I mentioned 2 stories, one of them had

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something to do with Imam Malik and the

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elephant,

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and we said each one of us has

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elephants in the month of Ramadan. It could

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be Facebook, Twitter, social media, Instagram.

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Lock up your elephant in the month of

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Ramadan.

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And the second story of,

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the guy we mentioned, Sebastian, last night, He

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had a strategy to make the best out

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of the store in just 150

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seconds.

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And you have 30 days to make the

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best of this month, Ramadan, and you could

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come out with millions of hasanat.

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So there are a few lessons to learn

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from this month and one of them is

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self control and Sar, right?

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Sar

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Sometimes

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the evil takes over. If you're living a

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good easy comfortable life, you think you are

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the center of universe

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you are okay, you are right, everyone else

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is wrong.

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But there are always some chances even 1%

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that you are wrong and everybody else is

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right.

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There's this story of a brother and his

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wife, they moved to Mississauga.

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So basically when they moved in the 1st

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day,

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his wife looked out of the window and

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saw her neighbor, and her neighbor put some

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clothes on the robe to dry up.

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In the parking lot. So she looked at

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the clothes and she said, oh, look, our

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neighbors, they don't know how to clean their

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clothes. Their clothes are dirty.

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After a week, same thing happened. She looked

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through the glass window and she said the

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same thing, look

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dirty clothes again.

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And so on and so forth. And this

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continued for 2, 3 months until one day

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she looked out of the glass window and

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she said, oh, finally,

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Alhamdulillah,

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they're able to clean their clothes, and the

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husband said

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nothing changed about their clothing,

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you know, cleaning ability. I just cleaned our

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window from the outside.

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So it turned out that their glass window

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was dirty from the outside, but she didn't

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realize this.

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She put everyone in the wrong, and she

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felt okay.

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Sometimes I behave the same way. I remember

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last year, I was in Egypt, and I

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came, I bought some nice shoes from Egypt

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till the Shabbat Shavani Er Gedidah, something nice,

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Masha'Allah.

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And the 1st week I was invited to

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give a fukba at one of the major

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masajid here. So I went

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there, and I loved my shoe shoes so

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much, so I put them under there, you

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know.

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So I gave my Khubba and Masha Allah,

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everything was okay. The Khubba was amazing, no

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one died.

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So for me that wasn't okay, but it

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was okay. I came out, I look for

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my shoes, nowhere to be found.

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I said,

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these are bunch of chor or took. Right?

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Thieves are here. Right? They stole my favorite

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shoes.

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Where is the president of this masjid? I'm

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gonna fight with him and his family. You

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know? I was looking for 10 minutes, and,

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SubhanAllah, the shoes were right there in front

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of me. I was blaming everyone,

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and I was the one who was at

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fault. Right? And someone came, and I said,

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I've been looking at my shoes 10:15 minutes,

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and and he said, are these your shoes?

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I said, yeah. But I couldn't see them.

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SubhanAllah, sometimes the truth is there, but we

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cannot see it. When you disagree with someone,

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don't make yourself the standard by which you

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measure everyone else. Because this is how we

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feel sometimes. One example. When you are driving

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on the road,

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you don't judge if someone is going too

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fast or too slow based on the road

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sign,

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you base them on your own speed.

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If someone if you're going too slow and

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someone is honking behind you, you love them

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and

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And if you are late for an appointment,

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we're always late. We know our people, you

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know? And this guy is going by the

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speed limit in front of you,

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so you always hunk at them and say,

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Warriya? Jendi jeli. Well, you know, daktik,

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Israel. Fast, you know? Why? Because you are

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the standard. You made yourself the standard

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by which you measure people. If you work

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for a company and they give everyone an

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assignment,

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those who turn in their assignment before you,

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what do you say? They are sucking up

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to the boss.

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Those who submit their, you know, assignment after

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you, they are lazy.

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Why? Because you become the standard by which

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you measure other people.

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Now, by fasting Allah

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puts us in our place.

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He humbles us by the cup of coffee

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you're not able to drink,

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by the shawarma you're not able to eat,

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and by the water you're not able to

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drink, by the flu that you get in

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the wintertime.

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When you fall sick, when you have a

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headache, you are humbled. You don't feel like

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the king of the universe, you are humbled

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by

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Allah and this is what fasting does to

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every one of us. You feel humble, you

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feel dependent on Allah

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you feel absolutely nothing. When you are fasting

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and you are miskin, you are humble to

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Allah

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When you cry in salah, when you are

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fasting the whole day, standing up at night

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in salah, this is when you humble yourself

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on Allah

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before him. So this is one of the

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lessons we learned from this month. You are

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not the standard. Allah

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sets the standard of what is right and

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what is wrong. You are not the center

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of the universe. Whether you existed or you

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didn't exist,

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the universe will be just fine. Right? So

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we ask Allah

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to give us a clause and self and

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humility.

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The question for last night, Muhammad salallahu alayhi

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wa sallam is mentioned only 4 times in

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the Quran, and other prophets like Musa alayhi

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salam a 136

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times, and we said Adam and Isa alayhi

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salam 25 times.

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And the reason is, when Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala talks,

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about these Prophets, and he mentions this their

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names, he's talking about them.

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Musa did, Musa said, and so on and

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so forth. But when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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talks about Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, it

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says either You You Yahu Han Nabi, O

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Prophet, or O Messenger, or you, Fazbear,

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O you Prophet, make suffer. So he doesn't

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mention the name of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam because he's talking to him directly

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in the second person. Other prophets, most of

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the time Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is not

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talking to them, he's talking about them. This

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is why the prophet salAllahu alaihi wa sallam

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is only mentioned for a time, and the

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miss, the winner is sister Sara Slik.

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You? Yeah. Okay. JazakAllahfeir.

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So lots of goodies here, Inshallah. We'll enjoy

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it. JazakAllahfeiran,

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and the award is provided by Burger Factory.

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JazakAllahfeiran. Haifa. You'll get a free meal from

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there as well. You have a coupon.

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The question for tonight,

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in Surah Al Imran, ayah 106, Allah

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says that those whose faces are white are

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going to Jannah, those whose whose faces are

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black, they're going to Jahanam.

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This sounds very racist, does it? So how

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do you explain it? There's an explanation for

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this. How do you explain it? If you

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know the answer, imay and me before tomorrow,

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asrathimamustafatnatoliacentral.ca

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ca. You have to look hard because it's

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a difficult question.

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