Mustafa Abu Rayyan – 58 Tafseer Surah alBaqarah Verses 238240

Mustafa Abu Rayyan
AI: Summary ©
The importance of praying correctly and not giving up on promises is emphasized in the discussion of the legal system of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. The waiting period for divorce is 3 months, and divorce is a process that is not related to divorce. The importance of protecting relationships with Allah is emphasized, including praying and making movement during difficult times. The speaker also discusses the importance of praying correctly and being mindful of one's priority, as it is a complete system and way of life. The discussion touches on the jointed power of the deceased's estate and the family's rights to maintain property.
AI: Transcript ©
00:00:24 --> 00:00:25

I thank Allah

00:00:25 --> 00:00:27

for allowing us to come back here

00:00:28 --> 00:00:30

and to be able to continue,

00:00:30 --> 00:00:32

these lessons and reflections over the book of

00:00:32 --> 00:00:33

Allah

00:00:34 --> 00:00:36

We are of course, doing the tafsirasul al

00:00:36 --> 00:00:36

Baqarah.

00:00:37 --> 00:00:39

And we are now in ayah number

00:00:40 --> 00:00:40

200.

00:00:41 --> 00:00:42

And tonight ayah number 238.

00:00:44 --> 00:00:44

Number

00:00:45 --> 00:00:46

238 of.

00:00:49 --> 00:00:50

Before,

00:00:50 --> 00:00:51

I continue,

00:00:52 --> 00:00:53

there's a phone that was left off, someone

00:00:53 --> 00:00:55

was praying. It's here,

00:00:56 --> 00:00:59

on the table, inshallah, if anyone left it.

00:01:01 --> 00:01:03

So Surah Al Baqarah is a surah that

00:01:03 --> 00:01:04

is filled with,

00:01:04 --> 00:01:06

stories, parables, lessons,

00:01:07 --> 00:01:08

morals, and a lot of rulings.

00:01:09 --> 00:01:11

And the beginning parastuz Al Baqarah was filled

00:01:11 --> 00:01:12

with the stories of Balu Israel

00:01:13 --> 00:01:15

and for us to take heed and lessons

00:01:15 --> 00:01:18

of the nations that came before us as

00:01:18 --> 00:01:20

well as mentions of the great prophets of

00:01:20 --> 00:01:21

Allah

00:01:21 --> 00:01:23

and how we are meant to emulate and

00:01:23 --> 00:01:26

follow them, namely prophet Ibrahim alaihi salam while

00:01:26 --> 00:01:27

others as well.

00:01:27 --> 00:01:30

Then we went into many of the rulings.

00:01:30 --> 00:01:32

And after we've covered

00:01:33 --> 00:01:36

the approach you take when it comes to

00:01:36 --> 00:01:36

rulings,

00:01:37 --> 00:01:39

and when it comes to the laws of

00:01:39 --> 00:01:41

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and that it is

00:01:41 --> 00:01:42

based around submission.

00:01:43 --> 00:01:46

Yeah, Allah, you know you created us.

00:01:46 --> 00:01:48

You know what's best for us. So what

00:01:48 --> 00:01:50

you tell us to do is how we

00:01:50 --> 00:01:52

will do things. And that is related to

00:01:52 --> 00:01:54

everything, not just worship, because we went through

00:01:54 --> 00:01:56

the ayat of hajj, the ayat of prayer,

00:01:56 --> 00:01:59

the ayat of fasting, the ayat of charity.

00:01:59 --> 00:02:01

We went through all of that and we

00:02:01 --> 00:02:02

do that.

00:02:03 --> 00:02:04

Ma'am, Adarman,

00:02:05 --> 00:02:07

demand holding on to this phone. Someone left

00:02:07 --> 00:02:09

it here and I think, if you can,

00:02:10 --> 00:02:11

pay it.

00:02:13 --> 00:02:15

So all of these ayats that we're dealing

00:02:15 --> 00:02:16

with acts of worship,

00:02:17 --> 00:02:19

you submit to Allah and you worship him

00:02:19 --> 00:02:20

the way he wants you to. But similarly

00:02:20 --> 00:02:21

when it comes to transactions,

00:02:22 --> 00:02:24

which is why we've mentioned and went through,

00:02:24 --> 00:02:26

ayaats that were related to

00:02:27 --> 00:02:30

marriage and divorce because marriage and divorce is

00:02:30 --> 00:02:32

a form of transaction between 2 people.

00:02:33 --> 00:02:34

And how do you divorce? When do you

00:02:34 --> 00:02:37

divorce? What are the rulings related to divorce?

00:02:37 --> 00:02:38

All of that we covered.

00:02:39 --> 00:02:41

And, as Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala was talking

00:02:41 --> 00:02:44

about the rulings of divorce, such as when

00:02:44 --> 00:02:45

a woman is divorced,

00:02:46 --> 00:02:47

how long does she wait

00:02:48 --> 00:02:51

before she can be proposed to again, before

00:02:51 --> 00:02:52

she can move on? What is the waiting

00:02:52 --> 00:02:55

period? And we mentioned that that depends on

00:02:55 --> 00:02:55

the nature

00:02:56 --> 00:02:57

of the situation.

00:02:57 --> 00:02:58

For instance,

00:02:58 --> 00:03:00

if the woman was,

00:03:00 --> 00:03:01

pregnant

00:03:01 --> 00:03:02

when she got divorced,

00:03:03 --> 00:03:05

then her edda period is until she gives

00:03:06 --> 00:03:06

birth.

00:03:07 --> 00:03:08

So if she's pregnant

00:03:09 --> 00:03:11

for for 1 month, how many months will

00:03:11 --> 00:03:12

she be in the 8th period? Another?

00:03:14 --> 00:03:15

5?

00:03:15 --> 00:03:17

8? Most most,

00:03:18 --> 00:03:20

most pregnancies last 9 months.

00:03:21 --> 00:03:22

Oh, sorry. I said 1.

00:03:23 --> 00:03:24

Yeah. No. It is possible that 6 months.

00:03:24 --> 00:03:26

Yeah. Most pregnant. So so yeah. And what

00:03:26 --> 00:03:28

if she was pregnant for 8 months? Then

00:03:28 --> 00:03:30

most likely her 8 day period would be

00:03:30 --> 00:03:32

just a a month. It could even be

00:03:32 --> 00:03:34

shorter than that. Right? If a pregnant woman

00:03:34 --> 00:03:36

is divorced or it what is it it

00:03:36 --> 00:03:38

it period? It it means that period, that

00:03:38 --> 00:03:41

waiting period, she cannot be proposed to, she

00:03:41 --> 00:03:42

cannot get married,

00:03:43 --> 00:03:44

She still has certain rights

00:03:45 --> 00:03:46

etcetera etcetera.

00:03:47 --> 00:03:49

So if she's pregnant, until she gives birth.

00:03:50 --> 00:03:51

If she,

00:03:51 --> 00:03:52

isn't pregnant,

00:03:53 --> 00:03:54

then it would be

00:03:55 --> 00:03:56

3 menstrual

00:03:56 --> 00:03:56

cycles.

00:03:57 --> 00:03:59

3 menstrual cycles.

00:03:59 --> 00:04:01

If she's old,

00:04:01 --> 00:04:03

older and she doesn't have her regular cycle

00:04:03 --> 00:04:04

anymore,

00:04:04 --> 00:04:06

then it is 3 months. Or for any

00:04:06 --> 00:04:07

other reason, if she doesn't have a cycle,

00:04:07 --> 00:04:09

then it would be what? 3 months.

00:04:10 --> 00:04:12

So how many different, scenarios do you have?

00:04:12 --> 00:04:14

If she's pregnant until she gives

00:04:15 --> 00:04:15

birth.

00:04:15 --> 00:04:18

If she has her cycle and it's happening,

00:04:18 --> 00:04:19

then how many cycles?

00:04:19 --> 00:04:22

3 menstrual cycles. Some ulama said you don't

00:04:22 --> 00:04:24

count dementia cycles, but you kind the period

00:04:24 --> 00:04:27

of purification in between. In any case,

00:04:27 --> 00:04:29

until those cycles end.

00:04:29 --> 00:04:30

If she

00:04:30 --> 00:04:33

is not having a regular cycle for old

00:04:33 --> 00:04:34

age or for whatever reason, then how long

00:04:34 --> 00:04:35

does she wait?

00:04:35 --> 00:04:36

3?

00:04:36 --> 00:04:38

3 months. This is mentioned in Surat Dalaq.

00:04:39 --> 00:04:41

Payib, what if this is during divorce.

00:04:43 --> 00:04:44

What if

00:04:45 --> 00:04:45

she,

00:04:46 --> 00:04:48

wasn't divorced but she became widow and her

00:04:48 --> 00:04:50

husband passed away.

00:04:50 --> 00:04:52

Then the waiting period is how long?

00:04:53 --> 00:04:53

4 months

00:04:54 --> 00:04:56

and 10 days. 4 months and 10 days

00:04:56 --> 00:04:59

as we mentioned. Now Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:04:59 --> 00:05:01

we went mentioned that the waiting period of

00:05:01 --> 00:05:02

the widow

00:05:02 --> 00:05:05

is is, 4 months 10 days. And we

00:05:05 --> 00:05:07

mentioned some rulings related at the previous lesson,

00:05:07 --> 00:05:09

although it's been a while ago. Then what

00:05:09 --> 00:05:11

do you what how does a man approach

00:05:11 --> 00:05:12

a woman

00:05:12 --> 00:05:14

that is is a man allowed to approach

00:05:14 --> 00:05:16

a woman for marriage that is in her

00:05:16 --> 00:05:18

in that period or in the case of

00:05:18 --> 00:05:21

a widow, her mourning period? And the answer

00:05:21 --> 00:05:21

is no.

00:05:22 --> 00:05:23

No because,

00:05:24 --> 00:05:25

of course

00:05:26 --> 00:05:28

Allah mentioned that you can't do this but

00:05:28 --> 00:05:30

then there were certain exceptions such as you

00:05:30 --> 00:05:31

can't be very,

00:05:32 --> 00:05:33

you can't be very

00:05:34 --> 00:05:34

explicit

00:05:35 --> 00:05:37

in requesting her hand in marriage, but you

00:05:37 --> 00:05:39

can do something called kinaya. And we mentioned

00:05:39 --> 00:05:41

this in the previous lesson. There's a point

00:05:41 --> 00:05:42

here I'm trying to get to which is

00:05:42 --> 00:05:45

that we were going through the ayats related

00:05:45 --> 00:05:46

to divorce, its rulings,

00:05:47 --> 00:05:48

and its laws.

00:05:48 --> 00:05:51

We are not done yet with the rulings

00:05:51 --> 00:05:52

related to divorce.

00:05:53 --> 00:05:54

But right there in between

00:05:55 --> 00:05:57

right there in between between the ayaats

00:05:57 --> 00:05:59

of divorce because he'd assumed that Allah would

00:05:59 --> 00:06:02

continue talking about that until it's finished, Allah

00:06:02 --> 00:06:04

mentioned something that is not related to divorce,

00:06:04 --> 00:06:05

which is the salah.

00:06:05 --> 00:06:06

So as Allah

00:06:06 --> 00:06:07

was talking about,

00:06:08 --> 00:06:09

and,

00:06:09 --> 00:06:10

the dalaq, and

00:06:11 --> 00:06:11

once,

00:06:12 --> 00:06:15

you've divorced more than twice that you can't

00:06:15 --> 00:06:17

take her back until another person denies her.

00:06:17 --> 00:06:19

And all of these rulings, then Allah

00:06:19 --> 00:06:20

2138

00:06:29 --> 00:06:31

And safeguard the salawat, the prayers.

00:06:34 --> 00:06:35

And especially

00:06:35 --> 00:06:38

the middle and most virtuous prayer.

00:06:40 --> 00:06:41

And stand for Allah

00:06:42 --> 00:06:43

and before Allah

00:06:45 --> 00:06:46

silently

00:06:46 --> 00:06:47

and with obedience.

00:06:48 --> 00:06:50

So when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said this,

00:06:50 --> 00:06:51

there's a question that the ulama asked which

00:06:51 --> 00:06:54

is, as Allah was speaking to us about

00:06:54 --> 00:06:56

the ayaats of divorce,

00:06:56 --> 00:06:58

why was salah mentioned?

00:06:59 --> 00:07:02

And the ulama, they say that every single

00:07:02 --> 00:07:04

ayah in the Quran and the order they

00:07:04 --> 00:07:07

are in are also inspired by Allah. So

00:07:07 --> 00:07:09

the order of the ayats

00:07:09 --> 00:07:11

are also inspired. So Allah

00:07:13 --> 00:07:16

so the the sequence of ayats

00:07:16 --> 00:07:18

and the sequence of chapters in the Quran

00:07:19 --> 00:07:21

is also inspiration from Allah. It's not something

00:07:21 --> 00:07:23

that the sahaba did. So

00:07:24 --> 00:07:25

who decided that the fatiha was gonna be

00:07:25 --> 00:07:27

the first surah and sultanate's gonna be the

00:07:27 --> 00:07:29

last surah? Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. It was

00:07:29 --> 00:07:29

revelation.

00:07:30 --> 00:07:31

Who decided that this ayah was gonna be

00:07:31 --> 00:07:34

in between it is so because it's revelation

00:07:34 --> 00:07:35

from Allah,

00:07:35 --> 00:07:38

there must be a great wisdom behind mentioning

00:07:38 --> 00:07:40

salah while talking about divorce.

00:07:41 --> 00:07:44

Under ulema, they try and mention some of

00:07:44 --> 00:07:45

the wisdoms.

00:07:45 --> 00:07:47

And they say some of the wisdoms is,

00:07:48 --> 00:07:51

first of all, the salah for the believer

00:07:51 --> 00:07:55

is something that aids them during difficult times.

00:07:56 --> 00:07:57

Let me say that again. The salah for

00:07:57 --> 00:08:00

the believer is something that is meant to

00:08:00 --> 00:08:04

aid you, support you, heal you in difficult

00:08:04 --> 00:08:07

times. And among those difficult times is going

00:08:07 --> 00:08:10

through a divorce. It can have emotional turmoil.

00:08:10 --> 00:08:12

It can be psychologically difficult for a person

00:08:12 --> 00:08:14

if they were together for a very long

00:08:14 --> 00:08:16

time, and then all of a sudden it's

00:08:16 --> 00:08:19

over. Now Allah is telling us, remember you

00:08:19 --> 00:08:20

have the salah.

00:08:20 --> 00:08:24

Remember you have Allah. If this connection between

00:08:24 --> 00:08:26

this person is done, there is a better

00:08:26 --> 00:08:28

and more important connection that you still have

00:08:28 --> 00:08:30

and would safeguard which is the salah. And

00:08:31 --> 00:08:32

And as long as you have a connection

00:08:32 --> 00:08:34

with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, you'll be okay.

00:08:34 --> 00:08:36

You'll be fine. But it is up to

00:08:36 --> 00:08:39

us to strengthen the bond between us and

00:08:39 --> 00:08:41

Allah to the point where once the bond

00:08:41 --> 00:08:44

between you and Allah is so strong that

00:08:44 --> 00:08:46

the severing of any other ties and bond

00:08:46 --> 00:08:47

in this world will not harm you as

00:08:47 --> 00:08:49

much. That is why Allah is telling us

00:08:49 --> 00:08:52

while talking about the rules of divorce pertaining

00:08:52 --> 00:08:53

to it, remember to safeguard

00:08:54 --> 00:08:56

the salah. That is one opinion of the

00:08:56 --> 00:08:58

ulama. Why was this mentioned?

00:08:58 --> 00:09:01

To to to help heal those that have

00:09:01 --> 00:09:03

been hurt by divorce and the prophet

00:09:04 --> 00:09:06

when something would bother him,

00:09:07 --> 00:09:10

he would rush and hurry towards the prayer.

00:09:11 --> 00:09:12

And Allah says in the Quran in Surat

00:09:12 --> 00:09:14

Al Baqarah in the beginning, we mentioned this.

00:09:17 --> 00:09:20

Seek aid from patience and prayer.

00:09:20 --> 00:09:22

So the prayer is meant to be something

00:09:22 --> 00:09:25

that gives you solace and comfort during difficult

00:09:25 --> 00:09:27

times. My brothers and sisters, when you are

00:09:27 --> 00:09:29

going through difficult times, pray more.

00:09:30 --> 00:09:32

When you are going through a calamity, come

00:09:32 --> 00:09:34

to the masjid more. When you are suffering,

00:09:35 --> 00:09:36

pray. Pray.

00:09:36 --> 00:09:39

And for indeed in the prayer lies comfort

00:09:39 --> 00:09:41

and, and with the bond that you have

00:09:41 --> 00:09:43

with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. And if that

00:09:43 --> 00:09:46

strength and nothing else can harm us or

00:09:46 --> 00:09:48

hurt us. So Allah says

00:09:49 --> 00:09:49

safeguard

00:09:50 --> 00:09:50

safeguard

00:09:50 --> 00:09:53

protect. What do we protect? The 5 daily

00:09:53 --> 00:09:55

prayers. What does it mean to do hivd

00:09:55 --> 00:09:56

of the salawat?

00:09:56 --> 00:09:58

It means, my brothers and sisters, that we

00:09:58 --> 00:10:00

safeguard the time that we pray,

00:10:01 --> 00:10:03

the way that we pray, how focused we

00:10:03 --> 00:10:05

are doing our prayers.

00:10:05 --> 00:10:06

Half we do, ala salawat.

00:10:07 --> 00:10:09

And the salawat, as we mentioned here, is

00:10:09 --> 00:10:13

the 5 daily prayers. Fajr and Duhur, Asar

00:10:13 --> 00:10:15

and Maghrib, and Isha. Fajr, Duhur, Asar and

00:10:15 --> 00:10:18

Maghrib and Isha. Those 5. Then Allah

00:10:19 --> 00:10:19

said,

00:10:22 --> 00:10:24

and the most virtuous prayer especially.

00:10:25 --> 00:10:28

So after Allah mentioned safeguard and protect and

00:10:28 --> 00:10:29

be on top of

00:10:30 --> 00:10:30

the salawat,

00:10:31 --> 00:10:33

Allah said, and especially

00:10:33 --> 00:10:36

the most virtuous salah, salawatullusta. The word wasat

00:10:36 --> 00:10:39

can have many meanings. Among the meanings of

00:10:39 --> 00:10:40

wasat is middle.

00:10:41 --> 00:10:43

And another meaning of wasat is virtuous,

00:10:44 --> 00:10:44

best.

00:10:45 --> 00:10:45

Right?

00:10:47 --> 00:10:49

So that's one of the meanings of wasat.

00:10:52 --> 00:10:54

Just like that we made you a middle

00:10:54 --> 00:10:57

nation but also a virtuous nation. So

00:10:58 --> 00:11:00

Allah said safeguard the salawat.

00:11:00 --> 00:11:04

All of them. But especially what? Salatul Usta.

00:11:04 --> 00:11:05

Now

00:11:06 --> 00:11:09

why especially salatul Usta and also which salah

00:11:09 --> 00:11:12

is salatul Usta? The ulema have differed over

00:11:12 --> 00:11:13

this since the time of the sahabah.

00:11:14 --> 00:11:17

Pinpointing or figuring out exactly what Allah meant

00:11:17 --> 00:11:18

by salatulusta,

00:11:19 --> 00:11:20

The middle salah.

00:11:21 --> 00:11:24

Does anyone have any idea what he's referring

00:11:24 --> 00:11:24

to?

00:11:26 --> 00:11:28

Adam and what did you say?

00:11:29 --> 00:11:31

Sarafil Asar. Why did you say Sarafil Asar?

00:11:33 --> 00:11:34

It is the middle one

00:11:35 --> 00:11:37

if you start from Fajr. But why we're

00:11:37 --> 00:11:38

starting from Fajr?

00:11:40 --> 00:11:42

If you start from Fajr, and Taisha is

00:11:42 --> 00:11:44

the middle one. Right? It's the middle okay.

00:11:44 --> 00:11:44

Fair point.

00:11:46 --> 00:11:47

Yeah?

00:11:48 --> 00:11:50

Okay. Let me ask you this question. If

00:11:50 --> 00:11:51

you look at the day,

00:11:51 --> 00:11:52

when is midday?

00:11:55 --> 00:11:57

When is the middle of the

00:11:57 --> 00:11:59

day? Midday, which salah do you pray?

00:11:59 --> 00:12:01

Dhuhr. So all of a sudden what becomes

00:12:01 --> 00:12:02

the middle of salah?

00:12:03 --> 00:12:04

If you look at the day,

00:12:04 --> 00:12:07

the middle of salah is? Is dhor. If

00:12:07 --> 00:12:08

you look at the salah themselves,

00:12:09 --> 00:12:10

the middle of salah is?

00:12:11 --> 00:12:12

Is a if you look at if you

00:12:12 --> 00:12:13

come to salah themselves, it could be Asr.

00:12:14 --> 00:12:15

But if you look at the day itself,

00:12:15 --> 00:12:18

it's what? It's a door. But then we

00:12:18 --> 00:12:20

are focusing on the word, the was at

00:12:20 --> 00:12:22

the middle. What other meaning does was at

00:12:22 --> 00:12:22

have as I said?

00:12:23 --> 00:12:25

Virtuous. And if we go with that meaning,

00:12:25 --> 00:12:27

the most virtuous, it can be any salah.

00:12:28 --> 00:12:29

But which one are the most virtuous during

00:12:29 --> 00:12:31

the day? There are many hadith that say

00:12:31 --> 00:12:34

it's the asr and fajr. In any case,

00:12:35 --> 00:12:37

when we don't know, when we want to

00:12:37 --> 00:12:39

know what something means in the Quran,

00:12:40 --> 00:12:41

the first place we go to is the

00:12:41 --> 00:12:44

Quran itself. If you cannot find it in

00:12:44 --> 00:12:46

the Quran, then where do we go?

00:12:46 --> 00:12:48

The the Ihadid of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

00:12:48 --> 00:12:49

wa sallam.

00:12:49 --> 00:12:50

And

00:12:51 --> 00:12:52

it is

00:12:52 --> 00:12:53

it

00:12:53 --> 00:12:55

is with the uhhadith of the prophet sallallahu

00:12:55 --> 00:12:57

alaihi wa sallam that we found the answer

00:12:57 --> 00:12:58

by what salatilawusta

00:12:59 --> 00:13:01

meant. And the generation from the prophet sallallahu

00:13:01 --> 00:13:04

alaihi wa sallam were doing the battle of

00:13:04 --> 00:13:05

Ahzab or khandaq

00:13:06 --> 00:13:08

where Madinah was invaded by many many forces,

00:13:08 --> 00:13:10

a coalition of forces.

00:13:11 --> 00:13:13

And they were surrounded and the prophet sallam

00:13:14 --> 00:13:16

with the tactic of Salman and the Farisi,

00:13:16 --> 00:13:17

they were dug in the trenches.

00:13:18 --> 00:13:20

They were so busy preparing

00:13:20 --> 00:13:22

and digging the digging the trenches and preparing

00:13:22 --> 00:13:24

and that the prophet

00:13:25 --> 00:13:26

he, saw

00:13:27 --> 00:13:29

and the sun already set.

00:13:33 --> 00:13:34

Oh, master of Allah,

00:13:35 --> 00:13:38

woe be to those people. I almost missed

00:13:38 --> 00:13:38

Asar

00:13:39 --> 00:13:40

because of them.

00:13:40 --> 00:13:43

I almost missed Asar because of them. And

00:13:43 --> 00:13:45

Rasool alaihi wasalam said, I haven't prayed Asar

00:13:45 --> 00:13:48

yet. I haven't prayed Asar yet. And then

00:13:48 --> 00:13:49

the prophet said,

00:13:56 --> 00:13:59

The prophet said, they have made us they've

00:13:59 --> 00:14:03

busied us and distracted us from salatul wustaa.

00:14:03 --> 00:14:04

And which salah did the prophet at that

00:14:04 --> 00:14:05

time miss? Salat

00:14:06 --> 00:14:07

al Asar. So salatulmusta

00:14:07 --> 00:14:10

means salatul Asar. May Allah fill their hearts

00:14:10 --> 00:14:12

and their graves with fire.

00:14:13 --> 00:14:13

So,

00:14:14 --> 00:14:15

that is clear evidence

00:14:16 --> 00:14:18

that salat al Musta means salat al assar.

00:14:18 --> 00:14:20

And the majority of the ulama, they go

00:14:20 --> 00:14:21

with this view.

00:14:22 --> 00:14:24

There are some ulama that still hold on

00:14:24 --> 00:14:25

to the view that

00:14:26 --> 00:14:29

is actually fader. It's actually fader. And among

00:14:29 --> 00:14:30

those ulama is

00:14:32 --> 00:14:34

And the reason Imam al Shafiri held this

00:14:34 --> 00:14:37

view, he had his evidences as well. And

00:14:37 --> 00:14:38

among the evidence that he used is the

00:14:38 --> 00:14:39

eye itself.

00:14:39 --> 00:14:40

Because

00:14:41 --> 00:14:43

there are there is a hadith where the

00:14:43 --> 00:14:46

prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam used to make

00:14:46 --> 00:14:48

qunut at fajr. Used to make qunut when?

00:14:48 --> 00:14:49

Which salah?

00:14:49 --> 00:14:51

At fajr. Now

00:14:52 --> 00:14:55

the the ulama differed over whether that honut

00:14:55 --> 00:14:56

was,

00:14:57 --> 00:14:59

the honut was a continuous thing

00:15:00 --> 00:15:03

or only a prescribed period of time.

00:15:04 --> 00:15:06

Majority of the ulama I won't say majority

00:15:06 --> 00:15:08

but a good majority of the ulama, I

00:15:08 --> 00:15:10

should say, went with the view that this

00:15:10 --> 00:15:12

was only a specific that the prophet made,

00:15:13 --> 00:15:14

and then he left it.

00:15:14 --> 00:15:15

But the and

00:15:16 --> 00:15:18

the felt that no. The hadith on the

00:15:18 --> 00:15:19

prophet said

00:15:21 --> 00:15:22

This was continuous.

00:15:22 --> 00:15:24

He is always which is why if you

00:15:24 --> 00:15:27

go to Syria or Indonesia or Somalia or

00:15:27 --> 00:15:29

Yemen and you're praying at the masjid, you

00:15:29 --> 00:15:30

will find that fajr they will be doing

00:15:30 --> 00:15:33

what? You will be doing a qanut based

00:15:33 --> 00:15:33

on the hadith.

00:15:34 --> 00:15:36

Now here, Allah says,

00:15:36 --> 00:15:38

if you continue and finish the ayah. So

00:15:38 --> 00:15:39

I want you to understand with with the

00:15:39 --> 00:15:41

background information imam shafiq held this view by

00:15:41 --> 00:15:43

the way that you should make alut at

00:15:43 --> 00:15:45

every fajr based on the hadith. Based on

00:15:45 --> 00:15:47

the hadith that you make alut at every

00:15:47 --> 00:15:47

fajr.

00:15:48 --> 00:15:50

And in fact, there's a time where Saydina,

00:15:50 --> 00:15:51

uh-uh, Ahmed Mohammed

00:15:52 --> 00:15:54

prayed behind him who didn't held his view

00:15:54 --> 00:15:56

and he said Amin and made a call

00:15:56 --> 00:15:57

with him. And when he was asked, he

00:15:57 --> 00:15:59

said, although I don't hold his view, a

00:15:59 --> 00:16:00

great imam does.

00:16:01 --> 00:16:02

In any case,

00:16:02 --> 00:16:04

that's a different mess. Should we make khanud

00:16:04 --> 00:16:06

at fajr or not, is a different mess.

00:16:06 --> 00:16:07

But

00:16:08 --> 00:16:09

based on that view, if you read the

00:16:09 --> 00:16:10

ayah,

00:16:10 --> 00:16:13

it's gonna look like Allah's taqirbad fajr. Allah

00:16:13 --> 00:16:13

safeguard

00:16:14 --> 00:16:15

the salawat.

00:16:17 --> 00:16:19

And the most virtuous salah.

00:16:23 --> 00:16:24

Make qunut.

00:16:25 --> 00:16:27

Which salah do you make unut again according

00:16:27 --> 00:16:28

to the matter of Imam Shafi'i?

00:16:28 --> 00:16:31

Fajar. So for him, 1 +1 equals 2.

00:16:31 --> 00:16:33

Salah alusta means salat al fajar. And then

00:16:33 --> 00:16:35

he had another evidence as well which was

00:16:35 --> 00:16:37

a narration from where

00:16:38 --> 00:16:40

she was reading this ayah.

00:16:41 --> 00:16:43

And there was there was a,

00:16:45 --> 00:16:45

she read

00:16:55 --> 00:16:56

That's what she read.

00:16:57 --> 00:16:59

And that's been narrated in in

00:17:00 --> 00:17:00

in in this many,

00:17:02 --> 00:17:02

hadith,

00:17:03 --> 00:17:04

musnets.

00:17:04 --> 00:17:06

So that would say safeguard

00:17:07 --> 00:17:08

the

00:17:09 --> 00:17:12

sabbath. And the salatul musta. Was salatul asri

00:17:12 --> 00:17:13

and salatul asri.

00:17:15 --> 00:17:16

And stand up before Allah

00:17:17 --> 00:17:19

with humility, with khushur and silently.

00:17:20 --> 00:17:21

Now,

00:17:22 --> 00:17:24

Imam al Shafi'i and Imam Malik, I believe

00:17:24 --> 00:17:25

as well, they looked at this and they

00:17:25 --> 00:17:28

said, well here, salatul asr was mentioned separately.

00:17:28 --> 00:17:30

And if salatul asr is mentioned

00:17:31 --> 00:17:33

alongside salatul asr, they come in the same

00:17:33 --> 00:17:33

thing.

00:17:34 --> 00:17:36

Therefore, wusta has to be fajr. And of

00:17:36 --> 00:17:38

course fajr and Asr, the prophet mentioned them,

00:17:38 --> 00:17:41

are suppressed together often. He would say,

00:17:43 --> 00:17:46

whoever plays the which Subha and Asr will

00:17:46 --> 00:17:48

enter paradise. And other khalif prophet mentioned

00:17:48 --> 00:17:49

that,

00:17:49 --> 00:17:52

whoever can ensure that they never leave off

00:17:52 --> 00:17:55

praying in JAMA and Asar and and

00:17:56 --> 00:17:58

Asar let them do so. There are many

00:17:58 --> 00:17:59

narrations of that as well. In any case,

00:17:59 --> 00:18:02

the stronger view, the majority view, the view

00:18:02 --> 00:18:05

that support is supported by the clear hadith

00:18:05 --> 00:18:05

is

00:18:07 --> 00:18:09

Asar salah. So what do we learn from

00:18:09 --> 00:18:10

that my brothers and sisters? We learn from

00:18:10 --> 00:18:12

that that we should save god all of

00:18:12 --> 00:18:14

the salawat. But more specifically which one?

00:18:14 --> 00:18:16

Asar. More specifically Asar.

00:18:16 --> 00:18:18

And it it Asar happens to fall in

00:18:18 --> 00:18:19

the day where a lot of people are

00:18:19 --> 00:18:21

busy. It's like it's a busy period for

00:18:21 --> 00:18:22

the person. Right?

00:18:23 --> 00:18:25

People are not home usually at Asar Asaf

00:18:25 --> 00:18:27

time. So again, it's a reminder.

00:18:27 --> 00:18:28

This particular sala'asr,

00:18:29 --> 00:18:31

pay attention to it because Allah asked us

00:18:31 --> 00:18:32

to pay attention to it.

00:18:33 --> 00:18:36

And stand before Allah. How do we stand

00:18:36 --> 00:18:37

before Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala?

00:18:38 --> 00:18:39

The word

00:18:39 --> 00:18:40

has several meanings.

00:18:41 --> 00:18:44

Qaaniteen, depending on the context, could mean silently.

00:18:45 --> 00:18:48

Qaaniteen can mean making dua and qunut.

00:18:48 --> 00:18:52

Qanateen can mean having humility and khushur. Hashirin.

00:18:52 --> 00:18:55

Right? Mujahid, the student of N Abbasid, it

00:18:55 --> 00:18:57

means having khushur and your salah. So stand

00:18:57 --> 00:18:58

before Allah with khushur.

00:18:58 --> 00:19:00

Stand before Allah obediently.

00:19:00 --> 00:19:02

Stand before Allah silently.

00:19:03 --> 00:19:04

This hadith

00:19:05 --> 00:19:07

was narrated There was a hadith that was

00:19:07 --> 00:19:10

narrated that the sahaba, when they used to

00:19:10 --> 00:19:13

pray before this eye was revealed, they used

00:19:13 --> 00:19:14

to speak in their salah.

00:19:15 --> 00:19:16

Before this eye was revealed, they used to

00:19:16 --> 00:19:18

speak in their salah. And they used to

00:19:18 --> 00:19:19

say,

00:19:19 --> 00:19:21

so someone would walk in, he would give

00:19:21 --> 00:19:22

him salaam, say, alaikum. How are you? How

00:19:22 --> 00:19:24

are the kids? Why are you in salah?

00:19:24 --> 00:19:27

Right? This is something very peculiar and strange

00:19:27 --> 00:19:28

to us.

00:19:28 --> 00:19:29

Right?

00:19:29 --> 00:19:31

But then when Allah revealed,

00:19:33 --> 00:19:35

this is when the rule that you're not

00:19:35 --> 00:19:37

allowed to speak in salah was

00:19:37 --> 00:19:38

was made.

00:19:39 --> 00:19:41

And there were some sahaba that came and

00:19:41 --> 00:19:42

they gave salaam to the prophet salaam alayhi

00:19:42 --> 00:19:44

wa sallam. Not knowing that his eye was

00:19:44 --> 00:19:46

revealed. And the prophet did not return the

00:19:46 --> 00:19:48

salaam until he finished his salaam and then

00:19:48 --> 00:19:50

he returned the salaam and then he said

00:19:51 --> 00:19:54

Indeed the salah keeps us busy and distracted

00:19:54 --> 00:19:55

with worship

00:19:55 --> 00:19:57

and we are not allowed to speak in

00:19:57 --> 00:19:58

the salah.

00:20:00 --> 00:20:02

So Now, here you learn something. In your

00:20:02 --> 00:20:05

salah, you meant to have humility, you meant

00:20:05 --> 00:20:05

to be silent,

00:20:06 --> 00:20:07

you meant to have kushur.

00:20:08 --> 00:20:10

What if that is not possible?

00:20:11 --> 00:20:12

What if what?

00:20:12 --> 00:20:14

That is not possible. What could be a

00:20:14 --> 00:20:16

scenario where that's not possible?

00:20:17 --> 00:20:18

You could be in

00:20:18 --> 00:20:20

danger. You could be running.

00:20:20 --> 00:20:22

You could be in fear. How do we

00:20:22 --> 00:20:22

pray then?

00:20:23 --> 00:20:23

Fa'inkhiftum

00:20:24 --> 00:20:26

And if you fear, Allah said, If you

00:20:26 --> 00:20:27

fear an enemy

00:20:28 --> 00:20:29

or if you fear a flood

00:20:30 --> 00:20:32

or if you fear something, which means that

00:20:32 --> 00:20:33

you need to be in movement. All of

00:20:33 --> 00:20:35

a sudden you can't be standing still anymore.

00:20:35 --> 00:20:37

You can't be silent anymore. You can't be

00:20:37 --> 00:20:39

fully focused and I'm not sure anymore.

00:20:40 --> 00:20:42

And that could be a potential situation you're

00:20:42 --> 00:20:44

you find yourself in. Do we not pray?

00:20:44 --> 00:20:46

No, you still pray. You still pray.

00:20:47 --> 00:20:48

If you fear

00:20:49 --> 00:20:50

or if you have fear

00:20:53 --> 00:20:54

then perform your salah

00:20:55 --> 00:20:56

on foot, walking

00:20:57 --> 00:20:59

or riding. In other words, whether you're in

00:20:59 --> 00:21:01

a plane or a car or whatever the

00:21:01 --> 00:21:04

case is, or a camel or a horse

00:21:04 --> 00:21:06

or running or walking,

00:21:06 --> 00:21:08

If you find yourself in a situation where

00:21:08 --> 00:21:11

the salah time is there and you don't

00:21:11 --> 00:21:12

have enough time to pray,

00:21:13 --> 00:21:15

if you delayed more the salah time will

00:21:15 --> 00:21:17

will will pass. Then you pray in whatever

00:21:18 --> 00:21:19

situation you are in.

00:21:19 --> 00:21:22

You pray in whatever situation you are in.

00:21:22 --> 00:21:25

And there's nothing you delay the salah for.

00:21:25 --> 00:21:27

What I mean by this is very important

00:21:27 --> 00:21:28

on this to be understood.

00:21:29 --> 00:21:30

If let's say,

00:21:31 --> 00:21:33

there is a flood approaching

00:21:34 --> 00:21:35

and you have to run

00:21:36 --> 00:21:38

and what or or you have to climb

00:21:38 --> 00:21:39

something to find safety.

00:21:40 --> 00:21:42

Like, this is something real that happened, in

00:21:42 --> 00:21:44

in the floods in in Pakistan. Right? There's

00:21:44 --> 00:21:46

also a flood in in what what what

00:21:46 --> 00:21:47

was the other country?

00:21:47 --> 00:21:48

In Libya.

00:21:49 --> 00:21:51

So someone it's and the sun is about

00:21:51 --> 00:21:52

to set

00:21:52 --> 00:21:54

and they haven't prayed asr. Let's make a

00:21:54 --> 00:21:56

real life scenario. They haven't prayed asr and

00:21:56 --> 00:21:58

the sun is about to set. All of

00:21:58 --> 00:21:59

a sudden they hear everyone get out, we

00:21:59 --> 00:22:00

have to run, we have to rush.

00:22:01 --> 00:22:02

Does Islam tell

00:22:03 --> 00:22:03

you,

00:22:04 --> 00:22:06

pray, stand still and pray? No. You grab

00:22:06 --> 00:22:08

your bags, you grab your stuff and you

00:22:08 --> 00:22:10

run. You hop into the car and you

00:22:10 --> 00:22:12

drive. You hop on that camel or whatever

00:22:12 --> 00:22:13

the case is, you go.

00:22:13 --> 00:22:15

But then you know the sun is setting

00:22:15 --> 00:22:16

and Maghrib is coming and you haven't prayed.

00:22:17 --> 00:22:18

Do you then say halas, I'm not gonna

00:22:18 --> 00:22:21

pray. I'm gonna pray after maghrib. No. You

00:22:21 --> 00:22:23

pray. How do you pray? You pray walking.

00:22:23 --> 00:22:25

You pray running. You pray in whatever situation

00:22:25 --> 00:22:27

you find yourself in. But then how do

00:22:27 --> 00:22:29

you make the movement? Prophet said in a

00:22:29 --> 00:22:32

hadith, you make as many movements as you

00:22:32 --> 00:22:35

can with your with your face. Right? You

00:22:35 --> 00:22:37

you you, do ishaara, meaning you make the

00:22:37 --> 00:22:38

movements

00:22:38 --> 00:22:40

and you make you read what you can

00:22:40 --> 00:22:41

read. You read the fatiha. You say Allahu

00:22:41 --> 00:22:42

akbar, you read the fatiha, and you continue

00:22:42 --> 00:22:45

on like that. You do not compromise on

00:22:45 --> 00:22:46

your salah. And you know what the ulama

00:22:46 --> 00:22:47

said? They said if

00:22:48 --> 00:22:49

you're not allowed to compromise on your salah,

00:22:50 --> 00:22:50

lahuwalaqotillabillah.

00:22:54 --> 00:22:55

If you're not allowed to compromise in your

00:22:55 --> 00:22:58

salah during such a difficult time,

00:23:00 --> 00:23:02

is there ever an excuse for you to

00:23:02 --> 00:23:02

not pray?

00:23:03 --> 00:23:04

There isn't.

00:23:04 --> 00:23:07

If you're being told, while you're trekking

00:23:07 --> 00:23:08

the mountain,

00:23:08 --> 00:23:11

looking behind you, enemy chasing you, animal chasing

00:23:11 --> 00:23:13

you, whatever the case is, you're in a

00:23:13 --> 00:23:14

state of fear.

00:23:15 --> 00:23:17

But the salah time is about to end.

00:23:18 --> 00:23:21

You pray. In whatever capacity you can.

00:23:21 --> 00:23:23

You can't find water, make taymum. You can't

00:23:23 --> 00:23:24

find taymum, pray anyway.

00:23:25 --> 00:23:27

You can't fix the kibla, doesn't matter. Whatever

00:23:27 --> 00:23:29

situation you find self in. You can't make

00:23:29 --> 00:23:30

a quirk, don't make a quirk.

00:23:30 --> 00:23:32

Just make the movement as much as you

00:23:32 --> 00:23:34

can and continue walking and looking around. It's

00:23:34 --> 00:23:38

fine. But pray however you find yourself able

00:23:38 --> 00:23:38

to pray.

00:23:39 --> 00:23:42

If that is the requirement of salah and

00:23:42 --> 00:23:43

it's never

00:23:44 --> 00:23:44

negotiable,

00:23:45 --> 00:23:46

what if you're

00:23:47 --> 00:23:47

just a little bit

00:23:49 --> 00:23:50

sick?

00:23:50 --> 00:23:51

Was you a little bit tired?

00:23:53 --> 00:23:55

What if you find yourself, oh, I'm in

00:23:55 --> 00:23:56

town and,

00:23:57 --> 00:23:59

it's a bit wet or I can't find

00:23:59 --> 00:24:00

it's inconvenient.

00:24:01 --> 00:24:03

I'm driving and I can't find a place,

00:24:04 --> 00:24:06

I look uncomfortable to park or find a

00:24:06 --> 00:24:08

a station to park and come out. Yeah,

00:24:08 --> 00:24:10

Hwan, don't don't mess around with your salah.

00:24:10 --> 00:24:12

So my advice to you is be always

00:24:12 --> 00:24:14

prepared to pray no matter where.

00:24:15 --> 00:24:16

So what does that mean my brothers and

00:24:16 --> 00:24:18

sisters? It means in your cars, in your

00:24:18 --> 00:24:20

cars at the booth in the in the

00:24:20 --> 00:24:22

back, have prayer mats in there.

00:24:22 --> 00:24:24

It means if you can get the prayer

00:24:24 --> 00:24:25

mat that's that you can fold up and

00:24:25 --> 00:24:27

keep in your pocket, keep it there.

00:24:27 --> 00:24:29

It means that you plan your day around

00:24:29 --> 00:24:29

salah.

00:24:30 --> 00:24:32

It means when you're applying for a job,

00:24:32 --> 00:24:35

before you talk about bonuses and holidays, ask

00:24:35 --> 00:24:37

them about a prayer room.

00:24:37 --> 00:24:39

I had certain occasions where someone comes to

00:24:39 --> 00:24:42

Sheikh, my workplace does not allow me to

00:24:42 --> 00:24:42

pray.

00:24:43 --> 00:24:44

Can I combine my prayers when I come

00:24:44 --> 00:24:45

home?

00:24:45 --> 00:24:47

The question that we have to ask is,

00:24:47 --> 00:24:49

my brother, my sister, why did you apply

00:24:49 --> 00:24:51

for that job? Why did you not discuss

00:24:51 --> 00:24:53

at the beginning? Why did you compromise on

00:24:53 --> 00:24:54

it first?

00:24:55 --> 00:24:57

And there is no answer of you Allah,

00:24:57 --> 00:24:58

because you need your rizq and you need

00:24:58 --> 00:25:00

your income, stay in a job that's an

00:25:00 --> 00:25:01

aray to pray.

00:25:01 --> 00:25:02

No. No.

00:25:02 --> 00:25:03

Your salah is your priority.

00:25:04 --> 00:25:06

It's more important than anything else. So my

00:25:06 --> 00:25:08

brothers and sisters, let's prioritize our salah and

00:25:08 --> 00:25:10

make our daily relevant salah and ask about

00:25:10 --> 00:25:13

our salah when we are and let that

00:25:13 --> 00:25:15

be at the forefront. What does Allah say?

00:25:20 --> 00:25:22

And if you are fearful or you wanna

00:25:22 --> 00:25:23

say the fear,

00:25:24 --> 00:25:25

then while walking

00:25:25 --> 00:25:26

or riding

00:25:27 --> 00:25:28

on a vehicle.

00:25:31 --> 00:25:32

And when you are safe,

00:25:35 --> 00:25:37

then remember Allah. Dhikr is mentioned there but

00:25:37 --> 00:25:39

the dhikr that's being mentioned there is the

00:25:39 --> 00:25:40

salah. The salah is a form of dhikr.

00:25:41 --> 00:25:41

Kamaallamakum

00:25:43 --> 00:25:46

In the manner he has taught you

00:25:46 --> 00:25:48

Who taught you how to pray? Allah taught

00:25:48 --> 00:25:50

you how to pray. Allah taught you how

00:25:50 --> 00:25:50

to pray.

00:25:51 --> 00:25:52

Allah is the one that facilitate for you

00:25:52 --> 00:25:54

to know how to pray to him and

00:25:54 --> 00:25:55

this is a big nirmah.

00:25:56 --> 00:25:57

So kamaalamakum

00:25:57 --> 00:25:58

has two meanings.

00:25:59 --> 00:26:02

And pray like Allah has taught you, meaning

00:26:02 --> 00:26:04

like the prophet has taught us, like the

00:26:04 --> 00:26:05

prophet prayed. Had the famous hadith

00:26:07 --> 00:26:08

It could also mean

00:26:10 --> 00:26:12

because he has taught you.

00:26:12 --> 00:26:16

Be mindful of Allah. Remember Allah. Pray to

00:26:16 --> 00:26:17

Allah because he is the one who taught

00:26:17 --> 00:26:20

you how to pray. Malam takoonu taalamoon,

00:26:21 --> 00:26:23

that which you did not know before.

00:26:23 --> 00:26:25

And this means we were ignorant before and

00:26:25 --> 00:26:25

Allah

00:26:26 --> 00:26:29

has graced us and blessed us with the

00:26:29 --> 00:26:31

knowledge of not only knowing to pray to

00:26:31 --> 00:26:33

him alone, but how to pray to him.

00:26:33 --> 00:26:35

Wallahi, my brothers. This is something we don't

00:26:35 --> 00:26:37

reflect upon enough. Right now, if we step

00:26:37 --> 00:26:38

outside,

00:26:38 --> 00:26:40

you will come across people that don't know

00:26:40 --> 00:26:42

they have to pray to Allah to begin

00:26:42 --> 00:26:43

with. They're not Muslim.

00:26:44 --> 00:26:46

Allah has blessed you with the knowledge that

00:26:46 --> 00:26:47

you know that you need to pray to

00:26:47 --> 00:26:49

him alone. Allah has blessed you with tawhid.

00:26:50 --> 00:26:52

On top of that, Allah has blessed you

00:26:52 --> 00:26:55

with knowing how to pray and how to

00:26:55 --> 00:26:55

pray correctly.

00:26:56 --> 00:26:57

At least I hope so, my brothers and

00:26:57 --> 00:26:59

sisters, that we all know how to pray

00:26:59 --> 00:27:01

correctly. Because when we said

00:27:02 --> 00:27:04

When Allah said safeguard them, it also means

00:27:04 --> 00:27:05

that you safeguard the way you pray and

00:27:05 --> 00:27:07

you pray in the best manner and the

00:27:07 --> 00:27:09

best way possible. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:27:09 --> 00:27:10

accept our salawat.

00:27:11 --> 00:27:14

After talking about salah, we went back straight

00:27:14 --> 00:27:16

into the rulings of talaq. Now my brothers

00:27:16 --> 00:27:18

and sisters, as we said, Allah was speaking

00:27:18 --> 00:27:19

about the rulings of tawlaq.

00:27:20 --> 00:27:22

Then salah was brought up, then Allah continued

00:27:22 --> 00:27:24

speaking about the rulings of tawlaq. What was

00:27:24 --> 00:27:25

the wisdom of bringing salah up, he said?

00:27:26 --> 00:27:27

What was the wisdom of bringing salah up

00:27:27 --> 00:27:30

in between the rulings of divorce?

00:27:32 --> 00:27:34

To remind us

00:27:35 --> 00:27:35

that salah

00:27:37 --> 00:27:39

is a connection to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:27:39 --> 00:27:42

and even if now we're discussing the laws

00:27:42 --> 00:27:45

and rulings related to severing a connection between

00:27:45 --> 00:27:47

man and wife or husband and wife, that

00:27:47 --> 00:27:49

the connection with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is

00:27:49 --> 00:27:50

more important.

00:27:51 --> 00:27:54

Some mentioned also that it is Allah reminding

00:27:54 --> 00:27:56

us that the one who is teaching you

00:27:56 --> 00:27:58

the rulings of divorce and the laws of

00:27:58 --> 00:28:01

divorce is the one that has obligated

00:28:01 --> 00:28:03

you to pray. And just like you will

00:28:03 --> 00:28:05

listen to Allah and obey him in your

00:28:05 --> 00:28:07

salah, listen to Allah and obey him when

00:28:07 --> 00:28:09

it comes to matters of divorce. And the

00:28:09 --> 00:28:10

same Allah

00:28:11 --> 00:28:14

has legislated acts of worship, has also legislated

00:28:14 --> 00:28:15

the way we handle our transactions,

00:28:16 --> 00:28:19

businesses, and our marriages and divorces. And it

00:28:19 --> 00:28:22

is not only Ibadah and worship that comes

00:28:22 --> 00:28:24

from our religion, but also it's a complete

00:28:25 --> 00:28:26

system and way of life

00:28:26 --> 00:28:28

and that we don't think

00:28:28 --> 00:28:31

Islam is only the act of worship, rather

00:28:31 --> 00:28:34

Islam is the way we run our countries

00:28:35 --> 00:28:37

and the way we run our homes and

00:28:37 --> 00:28:38

the way we run everything

00:28:38 --> 00:28:40

regarding our life, every transaction,

00:28:41 --> 00:28:43

everything, we've also learned what Allah has

00:28:44 --> 00:28:46

revealed. Then Allah mentions in ayat 240.

00:29:04 --> 00:29:07

And those of you who die, the men,

00:29:08 --> 00:29:09

and leave behind wives.

00:29:10 --> 00:29:12

So we're talking about widows again.

00:29:14 --> 00:29:15

Allah is saying

00:29:16 --> 00:29:18

for those of you who pass away among

00:29:18 --> 00:29:19

from the men

00:29:20 --> 00:29:21

and you leave off wives,

00:29:26 --> 00:29:27

They should bequeath

00:29:28 --> 00:29:29

for their wives

00:29:29 --> 00:29:30

1 years of maintenance.

00:29:31 --> 00:29:32

They should ensure

00:29:32 --> 00:29:34

and write a will

00:29:34 --> 00:29:35

or a testament

00:29:35 --> 00:29:38

that their wives that they've passed away now,

00:29:38 --> 00:29:39

that their wives

00:29:39 --> 00:29:42

will be maintained for and stay in their

00:29:42 --> 00:29:42

residence

00:29:42 --> 00:29:45

for at least 1 full year.

00:29:46 --> 00:29:47

Now,

00:29:50 --> 00:29:53

without them being kicked out or turning them

00:29:53 --> 00:29:53

out from the house.

00:29:56 --> 00:29:58

However, if they choose, the woman folk, the

00:29:58 --> 00:30:00

wives, if they choose to leave,

00:30:03 --> 00:30:05

there is no sin on you for that

00:30:05 --> 00:30:07

which they do on their own behalf for

00:30:07 --> 00:30:07

themselves.

00:30:08 --> 00:30:10

As long as it is honorable and correct.

00:30:12 --> 00:30:15

And Allah is almighty and all wise. This

00:30:15 --> 00:30:16

ayah, my brothers and sisters, is discussing, and

00:30:16 --> 00:30:18

this is very important to understand.

00:30:19 --> 00:30:21

So, first of all, a lot of the

00:30:21 --> 00:30:23

ulama say that this ayah has been abrogated,

00:30:24 --> 00:30:26

Meaning this rule is not meant to be

00:30:26 --> 00:30:28

upheld anymore. But before we talk about abrogation,

00:30:29 --> 00:30:31

allow me to explain what is being said

00:30:31 --> 00:30:32

here.

00:30:32 --> 00:30:34

A husband passed away.

00:30:35 --> 00:30:37

When he passed away, his wife

00:30:38 --> 00:30:39

lived in his house.

00:30:40 --> 00:30:40

Right?

00:30:41 --> 00:30:43

And he was caring for her. He was

00:30:43 --> 00:30:46

providing for her and providing her with shelter.

00:30:47 --> 00:30:49

Now if the house belongs to the man,

00:30:50 --> 00:30:51

when he passes away,

00:30:51 --> 00:30:54

the house is counted among the wealth that

00:30:54 --> 00:30:55

will be what?

00:30:55 --> 00:30:56

Inherited.

00:30:56 --> 00:30:58

And is the wife the only one that

00:30:58 --> 00:31:00

inherits? Or other people will inherit as well?

00:31:00 --> 00:31:02

Other people will inherit as well. So the

00:31:02 --> 00:31:03

question becomes,

00:31:04 --> 00:31:06

how long can she stay in the house

00:31:06 --> 00:31:09

before other relatives say, well we need to

00:31:10 --> 00:31:11

figure out how much the house

00:31:13 --> 00:31:16

costs, and then perhaps sell it and then,

00:31:16 --> 00:31:19

split the inheritance because you're not meant to

00:31:19 --> 00:31:20

have all of it.

00:31:21 --> 00:31:23

Is that fair? That is fair. But how

00:31:23 --> 00:31:25

long should she be given to stay in

00:31:25 --> 00:31:27

the house? How long should the the widow

00:31:27 --> 00:31:30

be in the house for and left alone

00:31:30 --> 00:31:30

before

00:31:31 --> 00:31:34

dad and brother and other people come and

00:31:34 --> 00:31:36

say, well, we need to combine all of

00:31:36 --> 00:31:38

his wealth and then do the distribution

00:31:39 --> 00:31:41

fairly as ordained by Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:31:41 --> 00:31:42

the inheritance.

00:31:42 --> 00:31:44

And how much does the wife get, by

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

the way? Does anyone know? How much does

00:31:46 --> 00:31:48

the wife get the when her husband passes

00:31:48 --> 00:31:49

away? Yes.

00:31:51 --> 00:31:53

So what if they had no children?

00:31:54 --> 00:31:56

She gets 1 quarter 1000000000. And what if

00:31:56 --> 00:31:59

they do have children? She gets 1000000000. Now

00:31:59 --> 00:32:00

let's say your,

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03

his your it was your son, may Allah

00:32:03 --> 00:32:06

protect your children or it was, your brother,

00:32:06 --> 00:32:09

whatever the case is, and passed away and

00:32:10 --> 00:32:12

the house was one of the major assets

00:32:12 --> 00:32:12

that they had.

00:32:13 --> 00:32:16

The inheritance should some should go to the

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18

children, some right? The wife can't just keep

00:32:18 --> 00:32:19

it.

00:32:19 --> 00:32:21

How long should we allow her

00:32:22 --> 00:32:23

to stay

00:32:23 --> 00:32:25

and and and and in that house and

00:32:25 --> 00:32:26

how what are her rights

00:32:26 --> 00:32:29

to still be maintained for and stay in

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

the house or is it we just buried

00:32:31 --> 00:32:32

him, leave now?

00:32:33 --> 00:32:34

This is the question. Are you guys with

00:32:34 --> 00:32:36

me? So

00:32:36 --> 00:32:38

we already know as we covered in previous

00:32:38 --> 00:32:39

lessons that

00:32:40 --> 00:32:41

said,

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

and those of you who die and leave

00:32:45 --> 00:32:47

wives behind, the wife shall wait as regard

00:32:47 --> 00:32:49

for their marriage and stay in the house

00:32:50 --> 00:32:52

for 4 months 10 days.

00:32:52 --> 00:32:53

That one we know already.

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

4 months 10 days. So for 4 months

00:32:56 --> 00:32:58

10 days, she should definitely be what? Left?

00:32:59 --> 00:32:59

Left alone.

00:33:00 --> 00:33:02

Now, in this ayah, it says

00:33:03 --> 00:33:05

a full year.

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

How do we then combine these 2 because

00:33:07 --> 00:33:09

they are seemingly what? Conjectory.

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

And the ulema'di say that it used to

00:33:12 --> 00:33:13

be 1 year

00:33:14 --> 00:33:15

and that was then abrogated

00:33:15 --> 00:33:19

to 4 months and 10 days. Meaning the

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

ayah that we're reading right now is an

00:33:21 --> 00:33:21

abrogated

00:33:22 --> 00:33:25

ayah and it is not. Its rule does

00:33:25 --> 00:33:28

not apply anymore. So the family,

00:33:30 --> 00:33:30

the

00:33:30 --> 00:33:31

of the deceased,

00:33:32 --> 00:33:34

they will ensure,

00:33:34 --> 00:33:35

allow

00:33:36 --> 00:33:36

residency

00:33:37 --> 00:33:38

and maintenance

00:33:39 --> 00:33:40

for the widow

00:33:40 --> 00:33:43

definitely for how much? 4 months and 10

00:33:43 --> 00:33:45

days. Whereas before it used to be one

00:33:45 --> 00:33:48

full? Yeah. That's how the ulama have explained

00:33:48 --> 00:33:50

it that this eye is abrogated. Among those

00:33:50 --> 00:33:52

that have have said it's been abrogated,

00:33:53 --> 00:33:56

includes the hadith of Abdulaih al Zubayr where

00:33:56 --> 00:33:58

when he was among the people that was

00:33:58 --> 00:33:59

in charge of

00:34:00 --> 00:34:02

compiling and collecting the Quran.

00:34:02 --> 00:34:04

And when they wrote this ayah, he asked,

00:34:04 --> 00:34:06

Sayidina Uthman why

00:34:06 --> 00:34:09

are we writing an ayah that was abrogated?

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

And the said, the Uthman said, because it

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

is part of the book of Allah subhanahu

00:34:13 --> 00:34:14

wa ta'ala. Right? So

00:34:15 --> 00:34:17

sometimes you'll find in the Quran

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

certain ayaats that

00:34:19 --> 00:34:20

are abrogated

00:34:20 --> 00:34:22

ruling wise but they are present

00:34:23 --> 00:34:24

they are present

00:34:25 --> 00:34:26

recitation wise.

00:34:27 --> 00:34:28

And you also have the opposite.

00:34:28 --> 00:34:31

Certain ayaats that we don't recite anymore

00:34:31 --> 00:34:33

and they have they're not part of the

00:34:33 --> 00:34:36

Quran anymore recitation wise, but they are part

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

of revelation

00:34:37 --> 00:34:40

ruling wise. So meaning the ruling still stays

00:34:40 --> 00:34:42

but the the ayaats

00:34:42 --> 00:34:44

are not recited anymore as the Quran. For

00:34:44 --> 00:34:46

example, some of them is,

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

the there's a ruling related to,

00:34:49 --> 00:34:51

how many times does a child suckle the

00:34:51 --> 00:34:52

mother

00:34:54 --> 00:34:57

before it can be considered its mother. I'm

00:34:57 --> 00:34:59

not talking about the the mother that gave

00:34:59 --> 00:35:01

birth. Let's say a woman gave birth to

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

a child and then she took this child

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

and gave it to a wet nurse and

00:35:05 --> 00:35:08

it suckled the child suckled this wet nurse

00:35:09 --> 00:35:11

once, just once. Does that make

00:35:12 --> 00:35:14

her his mother? No. How many must it

00:35:14 --> 00:35:16

be at the very least? How many does

00:35:16 --> 00:35:17

anyone know?

00:35:19 --> 00:35:19

It's,

00:35:20 --> 00:35:21

5.

00:35:21 --> 00:35:22

So

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

there was an ayah that was revealed.

00:35:24 --> 00:35:26

There was an ayah that was revealed. An

00:35:26 --> 00:35:27

ayah from the Quran that was revealed.

00:35:28 --> 00:35:29

That was read by the Sahaba,

00:35:30 --> 00:35:33

but then its recitation was abrogated but the

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

ruling remained. So you have both. Sometimes the

00:35:35 --> 00:35:38

recitation is removed but the ruling remains or

00:35:38 --> 00:35:40

in this case we are reading the aya,

00:35:40 --> 00:35:41

but are we applying the ruling?

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

No. So if someone says if someone were

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

to argue,

00:35:45 --> 00:35:46

listen,

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

Allah said, matahaaniil

00:35:48 --> 00:35:49

Hawl, 1 full year.

00:35:50 --> 00:35:52

So and a sister argues or someone says,

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54

listen, 1 year I'm gonna stay in the

00:35:54 --> 00:35:55

house. Then what's will be the answer to

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

that? It was it's actually 4 months or

00:35:57 --> 00:36:00

10 days this ayah has been abrogated. That

00:36:00 --> 00:36:02

is according to the vast

00:36:02 --> 00:36:05

majority of scholars of tafsir. However,

00:36:05 --> 00:36:08

some 'ilama of tafsir have argued it is

00:36:08 --> 00:36:08

not abrogated.

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

And this ayah is not speaking about what

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

the early ayah is speaking about. And among

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

those scholars is the Imam Tabari. Imam Tabari,

00:36:15 --> 00:36:18

the great of c scholar, who argued that

00:36:18 --> 00:36:19

what this ayah is talking about is different

00:36:19 --> 00:36:21

from what that ayah is talking about. So

00:36:21 --> 00:36:22

where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in the previous

00:36:22 --> 00:36:23

ayah,

00:36:27 --> 00:36:27

this

00:36:28 --> 00:36:28

statement

00:36:29 --> 00:36:30

is, is is the is the is the

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

is the is the isya close? Am I

00:36:32 --> 00:36:33

going over?

00:36:35 --> 00:36:36

This

00:36:36 --> 00:36:37

statement

00:36:37 --> 00:36:40

is direct to the woman folk. Allah is

00:36:40 --> 00:36:41

saying to the woman folk

00:36:44 --> 00:36:45

Allah is saying to the woman folk,

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

stay in the homes

00:36:48 --> 00:36:50

for 4 months 10 days. This is your

00:36:50 --> 00:36:53

mourning period as your husband has passed away,

00:36:53 --> 00:36:55

and certain rulings apply.

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

Does anyone remember the rulings of the morning

00:36:57 --> 00:36:58

period for the woman,

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

during the 4 months 10 days? What is

00:37:01 --> 00:37:02

she not allowed to do? She's not allowed

00:37:02 --> 00:37:03

to leave the

00:37:04 --> 00:37:06

home unless it's necessary. She's not allowed to

00:37:06 --> 00:37:07

adorn herself.

00:37:08 --> 00:37:09

Right? And they were and she's not allowed

00:37:09 --> 00:37:11

to be proposed to for 4 months 10

00:37:11 --> 00:37:13

days. That's what the ayah is talking about.

00:37:13 --> 00:37:16

And she stays in the house. This ayah

00:37:16 --> 00:37:17

is talking about

00:37:17 --> 00:37:18

a recommended

00:37:19 --> 00:37:19

act.

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

It is recommended

00:37:21 --> 00:37:22

for the men

00:37:22 --> 00:37:24

who are in their deathbeds

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

to bequeath,

00:37:26 --> 00:37:27

to write a will,

00:37:27 --> 00:37:28

to ensure

00:37:29 --> 00:37:32

that their wives after their death are taken

00:37:32 --> 00:37:34

care of not just for 1 month for

00:37:34 --> 00:37:35

4 months 10 days but what up to

00:37:35 --> 00:37:36

a

00:37:36 --> 00:37:39

full year. So it is a recommended act

00:37:39 --> 00:37:42

that men should do for their wives. Again,

00:37:43 --> 00:37:45

this is one view and the other view

00:37:45 --> 00:37:47

of course I've mentioned. Let's read the ayah

00:37:47 --> 00:37:48

and we'll conclude there and

00:37:49 --> 00:37:51

continue on from next week.

00:37:52 --> 00:37:52

And

00:37:54 --> 00:37:55

for those of you who die,

00:37:57 --> 00:37:58

and leave behind wives.

00:38:01 --> 00:38:02

A.

00:38:04 --> 00:38:05

They are meant to bequeath,

00:38:05 --> 00:38:08

and or write a will or a testament

00:38:08 --> 00:38:09

for their wives

00:38:09 --> 00:38:10

a year's maintenance.

00:38:11 --> 00:38:14

So the residency and being taken care of.

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

But however, again, that's optional.

00:38:17 --> 00:38:19

If the wives, the widows,

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

they choose to leave, they have somewhere else

00:38:21 --> 00:38:23

to stay, They can,

00:38:23 --> 00:38:25

let go. They don't need to stay in

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

there and that's their prerogative.

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

That which they do for themselves

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

provided is honorable and correct.

00:38:38 --> 00:38:39

Allah is almighty.

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

I'll stop here for now

00:38:42 --> 00:38:43

for attending.

00:38:43 --> 00:38:46

And we'll continue next Monday.

Share Page