Mustafa Abu Rayyan – 18 Tafseer Surah alBaqarah Verses 106109

Mustafa Abu Rayyan
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The use of "naive" in Islam is discussed, with emphasis on the negative impact it has on people's behavior. The speaker emphasizes the importance of avoiding discouragement from prayer and receiving positive feedback on one's actions. The speaker also warns of the danger of negative language and the consequences of comparing oneself to others. The importance of protecting oneself from envy and desire for removal from the faith is emphasized, along with the need to be mindful of one's own mentality and not be surprised by anything.
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We're continuing our regular

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weekly tafsir class where we are,

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reading through Surah Al Baqarah.

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And, last week we stopped at verse 106.

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We are coming towards the end of where

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Allah

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speaks about,

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the ummah of the yahood,

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and what transpired between them and the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam in Madinah,

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and what transpired

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between them and Musa alaihi wa sallam,

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before, of course, the prophet's time.

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And we came to a verse that deals

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with abrogation. Right? Last week we spoke about

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the concept of nazakh,

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to abrogate something.

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And why is the conversation of abrogation being

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held? And why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is

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discussing the issue of abrogation and nazq during

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this time? 1st, like you mentioned last week,

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what is abrogation? The word nazk from in

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Arabic language, it has two meanings.

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It means to

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do of something. To,

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copy something.

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This is why,

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Allah talks about that he would write down

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that which we have been doing. So it

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comes from that which is to And another

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one is

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to to lift something.

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In this context, it is to lift a

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ruling that was present and change it with

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another ruling. To lift a ruling that was

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present and change it with another ruling. Or

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in the context of the yahoot, to remove

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a book and replace with another. Which book

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is removed in their context? The Torah. And

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is is replaced with what? With the Quran

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and they are being asked to follow.

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And then they try to use that as

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a problem and a contradiction and say

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if the Torah was the truth from Allah,

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why would we need another truth?

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If the Torah is the truth, that should

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be enough. Muhammad, what you are bringing us

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does not make sense.

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This was the same reason why

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they refused prophet, e Islam. Right? We know

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that they do not accept prophet, e Islam,

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absolutely they do not. Right?

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And,

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as Muslims,

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we are in the middle path with regards

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to 'Isa, alaihi, salam, al Masih,

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And we believe that, the Messiah, 'Isa alayhi

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salam, is a prophet of Allah and that

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he is a

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Abdu of Allah, a servant of Allah and

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a prophet. For who he

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is a servant, so he won't be worshiped.

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He's a messenger so he won't be denied

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or rejected. This is our belief.

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Then you have 2 extremes, those that denied

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his prophethood

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and denied him altogether like the

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the yahood.

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And those that deified him like who?

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Like the nazarah.

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So, what was the argument of the for

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rejecting Jesus or Isa? They said, you brought

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something new, we're gonna stick with our Torah.

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Because one of the statements that the Isa

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said was

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Right? I am gonna make halal for good

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that which is haram for you. And they're

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like, no. No. We don't accept that. How

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can you do that? The Torah must stand.

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Now what's very hypocritical about this is that

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they never used to follow the Torah to

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begin with and we've got many examples of

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that previously.

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So, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is now dealing

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with this issue of,

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is there anything wrong

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or is there any problem

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with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala legislating something? Saying,

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okay, do this now.

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And then later saying, okay, do something else.

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And the argument is that they're making, if

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Allah knew something else was better,

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why tell us this to begin with?

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And that shows that something is wrong and

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with regards to God he shouldn't be doing

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abrogation because abrogation proves that God changed his

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mind. Or that

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he changed what he wanted. He tells us

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do this first and then do something

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else. 1st, you are praying towards Jerusalem and

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now you're praying towards Makkah.

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Why is that? Right? So this is the

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the the argument they're trying to build.

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And

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we answer this argument with the and

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with the

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We can answer this similar simple argument of

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why did Allah legislate 2 different things, or

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why did Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala legislate one

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thing and then change it and bring something

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else?

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We say, if you use common sense,

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isn't it feasible?

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Isn't it logical

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that for example, let's use the example of

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a doctor.

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A doctor, Arun comes to the doctor and

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he's sick. The doctor says, well, for the

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next 5 days take this medicine and then

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come back to me.

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And then after 5 he takes the medicine

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in 5 days. He comes back and he

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says okay, now I'm gonna put you on

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another one.

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This means that the doctor knew that for

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these 5 days, what was beneficial for Harun?

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The particular first medicine and then the second.

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Has nothing to do with ignorance or not

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knowing. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala knows what's best

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for us. Then Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will

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command us something and then he will change

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that command based on what's better for us.

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And the scholars, they say sometimes Allah will

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change something because it is more virtuous or

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Allah will will will change something to make

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things easier on us. And we gave examples

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last week such as the prayers being 50

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and becoming 5. Right? Taib.

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So let's read the ayah. Now you know

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the context. Let's read the ayah.

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Whatever whenever

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we abrogate a verse,

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or we don't abrogate a verse,

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nor do we cause it to be forgotten,

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except

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we bring a better one in its place.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has mentioned 2 things

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here.

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Abrogation

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and causing it to be forgotten.

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How can Allah

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cause a verse, an ayah, to be forgotten?

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Means to cause something to forget.

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Sometimes we mentioned last week that Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala would remove a ruling,

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but the reading would remain. There are certain

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verses in the Quran that we read, but

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we don't act upon them.

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And sometimes Allah would remove the ruling and

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the recitation.

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So the ruling is not present

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and the recitation is not present. In other

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words, that would be something that will be

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forgotten. Right? This is why Allah subhanahu wa'am

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mentioned in another verse that

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We will recite to you so don't forget

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except that which Allah wills. Meaning Allah would

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sometimes will for something to be forgotten.

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And that's not our concern. For Allah removes

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it from our hearts, from the pages, from

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the prophet, so that it won't be acted

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upon.

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Allah is telling us when whenever we abrogate

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or cause something deeply forgotten,

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it doesn't happen except,

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we bring something better than it.

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Or equal to it. The scholars say, brother

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Nishkal, they said,

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are some ayaats better than others?

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When Allah is saying,

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For example, is this verse that has been

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abrogated then, is the other one better? Do

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we say there's

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some portion are better than the other? No.

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That's why they say

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better than it here means Allah saying that

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I will replace it with something better. It's

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relative, better for you.

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More beneficial for you. That's what it means.

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Right? It's

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Right? So, when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala removes

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the ruling of 50 prayers

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and changes it to 5 prayers it is

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better for us because it's easier for us.

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Right? When Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala changed the

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ruling from only fasting the day of Ashura

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in the whole year to fasting the month

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of Ramadan. It is better for us. There

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is more reward than it for us. So

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better for you means sometimes easier, sometimes more

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in reward.

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And then, and then Allah asks a question.

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Those that are questioning,

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and by the way,

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this also involves the Torah.

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Allah did not remove Torah except he brought

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something better to the Quran.

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Right?

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This this is also another benefit. Right?

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Or something that's similar to it.

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Do you not know?

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Do you not know?

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That Allah is able to do all things.

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Allah can do whatever he wants. Allah is

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capable of doing everything that he wants. So

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if Allah wants to change a ruling, or

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remove a ruling, or replace it, or replace

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a book, or if

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Allah replace the Torah with the Quran, or

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Musa'u prophet Muhammad, or a ruling with another

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ruling, how do you question it? Don't you

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know Allah is capable of doing whatever He

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wants?

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And then Allah asked another question.

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Know you not.

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That Allah belongs the dominion of the heavens

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and the earth.

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And besides Allah you neither have a wali.

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A wali is a protector. A wali is

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a protector. May Allah be our wali.

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Which is why the word willy comes from

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with regards to marriage. We call the guardian

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of the woman that's being married her willy,

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her protector. The one that has their best

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interest at heart. The one that is help

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protecting them from harm. So Allah is our

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willy. And we do not have a willy

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besides Allah, nor a naseer, a helper

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a helper.

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Why would Allah subhanahu ta'ala mention that he

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has dominion over heavens and the earth after

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speaking about

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the yahoo denying the concept of nasa.

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Because

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is telling us here

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that

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for Allah,

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he can do whatever he wants.

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He has And one of the main evidences

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of that is, he owns everything.

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He is

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He, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, can do whatever

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he wants. He can change a ruling. He

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can add to it. He can take away

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from it, make it easier. It's all up

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to Allah Almighty.

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We don't question or ask about Allah and

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we will be questioned.

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And remember, those that are questioning that Allah

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has dominion over the heavens and the earth.

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And you have no protector And

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in other words, Allah is your willy and

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your helper if you obey him and if

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you follow him, including the rulings that are

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being removed

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and those are being replaced with. If you

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start questioning and doubting,

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then you will have no and no nasir.

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Then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala talks about another

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issue.

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And this is the issue of

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questioning.

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And to read,

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able to read,

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rather you want.

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And this comes

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to question your messenger.

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Allah is saying this is not about the

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rules being removed and replaced. This is not

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about nazk. This is about

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you questioning

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the messenger.

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Or do you want to question or ask

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your Rasul, your messenger?

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Allah is saying Rasulakum your messenger.

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Although the hitab, the message is going to

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the yahood who are denying him, Allah is

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still saying

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Whether you deny or reject, he is your

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messenger. Whether you say we don't like him

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because he's from the Arabs, he's your messenger.

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Whether you say we still want the Torah,

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it doesn't matter, he is your messenger. Because

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of the Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, he was

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Musalun Lijami ikhalk. He was called he was

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illu Alaihi Thakkalein. He was the messenger

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of all of mankind.

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To read Duna or do you want antis

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al Rasoolakum

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to question and ask your messenger.

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Just like Musa was questioned and asked before.

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Alhamdulillah.

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So here Allah is saying, do you want

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to question your Messenger

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like Musa was?

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If any one of you that were here

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with us in the story of Musa,

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we saw that the Ehud and the the

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Alukitab,

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the Israeli,

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they would ask him a lot of questions.

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There's no greater evidence than that than in

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the story of the cow.

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Where they kept on saying, what is this

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color? How does it look like? What does

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it do? They kept on pestering him with

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questions over and over again.

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Similarly,

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you have

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they sometimes would ask prophet Musa

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questions that are actually,

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blasphemous in nature.

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And they would say like,

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Show us Allah. You want us to believe

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you? Show us And

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they would be asking these type of questions

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to Musa alayhi salaam.

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And when Allah SWAN refers to this,

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when Musa asked them, he says,

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Oh my people, why are you harming me?

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These questions were very harmful. They were harming

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the prophet because they they were they was

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very disrespectful in nature.

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And in Islam

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we are not allowed to ask those type

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of questions. In fact, did you know that

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during the time of the prophet salallahu alaihi

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wasallam, certain type of questions were not allowed?

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And the Sahaba were discouraged

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from many questions.

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The companions,

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they were discouraged from asking too much.

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And there was a reason for that, because

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sometimes

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their questions

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would lead to a legislation coming that the

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people perhaps are not ready for. So the

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prophet didn't like it. He would say don't

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ask something

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because

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it might

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questions like You Rasool, is this haram? Is

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that haram? Is this obligatory? The prophet didn't

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like that

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Because he would say, well what if it

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does become? And you don't have the ability

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to do so, so stop

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asking

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things that you're not ready for. An example

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of that is when the prophet

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said, Oh people, Hajj has been made obligatory

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upon you so make Hajj. And one of

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these sahaba said,

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Is it every year, oh prophet of Allah?

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Is it every year? And the prophet ignored

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him and he said again,

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Is it every year? And the prophet

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said If I say yes, then yes. It

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would be. And you would never be able

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to do so.

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Stop asking

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questions like that. Right? And there were many

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examples of this. There's one time when the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, he was asked

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about a question.

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And Allah mentions in the Quran. Allah says,

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Don't ask about things that when they are

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clear made clear for you, this will this

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will, cause you difficulty.

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Right? So they were discouraged from that type

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of questioning. At the same time they were

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encouraged of another type of questioning like

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Allah says in the Quran. Ask the people

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of knowledge when you do not know. So

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how do you reconcile those 2? When you

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are being encouraged to ask to learn and

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you are being discouraged to ask in certain

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manners.

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We say, that

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2 type of questionings are discouraged.

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One is

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asking for especially during the time of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam when

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the was coming down. When the revelation

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was coming down. The you you you have

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to understand, Ikhwanfilah, the prophet always wanted things

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to be made easy for us.

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And you can see

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that is something perhaps,

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you can see how the prophet salallahu alayhi

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wasallam when he met Musa alayhi wasallam

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it was Musa that said your people will

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not be able to play 50 times a

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day, make it less. Right? It was Musa

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that advised him. And that shows you the

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the also the benefit of experience.

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Musa experienced humanity

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and experienced Baru Israel and he knows how

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people are like. He's saying, listen, 50 is

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too much. Make it less. Right?

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The prophet, salallahu alayhi wa sallam, often you

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will find in certain hadith, he is saying

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The prophet would say, if I wasn't worried,

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if I wasn't worried that things would be

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too difficult for you, I would have done

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this and this and this. Example 1. The

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prophet said, if I wasn't worried that it

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would be too difficult for you, I would

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have commanded you to do the miswak, to

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brush your teeth at every prayer.

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And I said, if I wasn't worried that

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was was gonna be difficult for you, I

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would have commanded for the brushing of teeth,

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after in

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in the

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near every

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By the way, imagine we did that.

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Imagine how many times would that be? How

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many wudu's do we do a day?

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Roughly. How many wudu would someone do?

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So,

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imagine you do wouldu 5 times a day.

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And then you do the siwak 5 times

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there. And then at every salah, there's another

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5 times in it. How much is that?

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10.

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Add to that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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siwak

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said, when he enters into his home,

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When When he comes inside, he would start

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with the siwak.

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And another hadith, when the prophet would wake

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up,

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When he wake up he would also brush

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his teeth. If we apply the

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we wouldn't have cavities and all these problems.

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Right?

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Dentists would be out of jobs.

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Right? Any dentists here?

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How did I get there? The prophet said

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though, if I wasn't

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worried that things would be made difficult for

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you. Another one

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is,

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The prophet preferred to pray Isha late.

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To to to pray it later into the

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night.

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And he did that one day, one night.

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The prophet, the Sahaba were waiting to the

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point where they started getting sleepy. The prophet

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didn't come out didn't come out didn't come

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out until very late. And when he came

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out he said, if I wasn't worried that

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it would be made it would be difficult

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for you, I would have made Isha this

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time. So what do you learn here from

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the prophet? He's trying to make things work

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for us?

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Easy. Easy.

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So what are some of the the things

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that can make things difficult? A lot of

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questioning.

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What is the problem on that? What if

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we do it this way? What if So

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the prophet didn't like that because that could

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cause legislation to come and there are examples

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of that.

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One example would be when a Sahabi asked

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the prophet

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if

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a a man,

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catches his spouse

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cheating then what would the hukun be? And

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the prophet

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didn't like that he was asking this much

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detail. And what would the ruling of the

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child be? What would the ruling of what

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should we do? Should we hide it? Should

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we tell it? And then the verses of

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Lian came down. The verses of Lian came

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down as a result of that questioning.

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We will if we ever get a sword

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to no we'll talk about that inshallah

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ta'ala. But the point is,

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I might as well explain it. Lian is

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when,

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when a a spouse accuses,

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their their,

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their husband or vice versa of and there's

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no evidence for it. And there's no evidence

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for it, then they do something called the

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an, which means they publicly curse each other.

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They would publicly curse each other.

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And

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once,

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and after that And it's like it's in

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the Quran, it's all to noor. They have

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to say that, may Allah's curse

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So, and after that what happens they walk

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away.

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And they can never be together again and

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there's no need for divorce proceedings. They just

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walk away, each one. And before that they

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are reprimanded.

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Don't do this. Clearly one of you is

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wrong. Whoever it is, fear Allah, don't do

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this. For indeed,

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the the punishment of this world is better

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than the punishment of the hereafter. The point

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is all of these rulings they came down

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because of what?

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Because of someone

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questioning and asking. And the prophet did not

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like that because he wanted to make things

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easy for us. So that type of questioning

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is also discouraged.

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What about nowadays? We're not worried about legislation.

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Should we ask scholars and Muftis

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all the time? Also, no. Only ask what

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is relevant.

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Only ask what is beneficial

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and relevant.

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Hamid Alhambra, someone came to him and asked

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him a question.

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It was something to do with Jannah. In

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Jannah, it's are things like this or like

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that?

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Hamid Alhambra wasn't happy about that and he

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said,

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ask for something that will benefit

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you. Ask for something that will benefit you

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because

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certain

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details of the dine Right?

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What did the jinn eat?

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Right?

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Stuff like that. This this is not it's

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not gonna it's not beneficial for you. Right?

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So ask

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beneficial questions.

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But this is clearly not what's happened here.

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This

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some of the scholars they narrate with Abbas

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like Muhammad Tabari and others, that it had

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a reason for revelation.

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And the reason for revelation was

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that a man called

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a man called,

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Wahab Ibuzayed

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and another one, they directly asked the prophet

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something.

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And they said,

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Why, oh Mohammed, if you really are a

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prophet,

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can't you not bring down from the heavens

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a book?

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Right? Actually bring down a an actual book

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that we can read. Right? And they asked

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other questions like that as well. Show us

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the angels. Right? Why don't you bring the

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angels so that we can believe you? They

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asked him, if you're really a prophet, then

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we wanna see rivers flowing in the city.

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Like, they asked him things like that. Right?

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So these are questions of someone

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of of someone challenging. Right? Someone that is,

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these are not a question of someone that

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is seeking the truth. So Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala said,

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Rather you want to question

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and ask your messenger

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like Musa was asked by the Bel Israeel.

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One of the worst thing they asked was,

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show us Allah.

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Right?

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Verily he has gone astray from the right

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and correct and middle path.

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So here you learn that Allah is calling

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this type of questioning of the prophet Kufr

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Because it was a questioning of challenging,

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almost of disbelief. If you are a prophet,

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then do this, do that, and do this,

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and do that. And Allah is saying,

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What the

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mean

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Many of the people

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of the book,

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they like or they wish

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that they can turn you

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after your faith

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into disbelievers.

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Many of the people of the book,

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they would wish, they would

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love to turn you,

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into disbelievers

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after your faith.

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Why?

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Why would they like for you to be

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disbelievers?

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In other words, Allah is saying that

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wished that the sahaba that believed the prophet

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wouldn't believe.

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They wished that it stayed

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disbelievers.

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Out of envy

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from their own selves. Out of

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from themselves.

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After the truth has been made clear for

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them. And then Allah is saying, these people

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that are wishing that you became disbelievers

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out of envy,

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this clearly shows that they are envious of

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the companions. Right?

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We know they're envious because they wish that

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the prophet was from them.

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He ended up becoming an Arab from Quraish.

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Now the envious of the companions, they wish

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they didn't believe, but they do believe.

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And why is saying, all of this after

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the truth has been made clear for them.

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They saw the descriptions of Prophet Muhammad in

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their books. They knew he was a prophet.

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All of that, man as Atum, it didn't

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help them.

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And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells them, okay

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so how do you deal

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with someone that has hatred for you that

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much? That has envy and jealousy and doesn't

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want good for you? We mentioned last week,

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Allah says,

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that they don't wish that any good comes

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from Allah, from you. So clearly, we have

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a problem. We have a problem brewing in

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the community in Madinah. There's a lot of

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hatred, a lot of envy, a lot of

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jealousy coming from the Al Kitab towards the

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Muslims.

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Right?

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So how do you then cure that? How

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do you do i'laj of that? Allah

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says,

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Yes, there's a lot of hatred from them.

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Yes, they are doing whatever they can to

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to cause you problems.

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Yes, they are insulting a prophet. They're doing

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all of this. What should the Muslims do?

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What should the sahaba do?

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Right? Allah said,

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forgive.

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An overlook.

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That was the command they were given.

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Although

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you had

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a community

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brewing

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that has hatred, anger, envy, enmity, animosity towards

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the prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, that will

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turn into

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actual violence later

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on? Well, when they start plotting with Quraysh.

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Because try to understand is one of the

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things that will happen is

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the prophet was in Mecca. Who was he

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dealing with mainly?

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The Quraysh. Right? And they had many problems.

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And the prophet and the Sahaba, they migrated

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to Madinah. And who are they dealing with

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now?

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With the

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and the hypocrites

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and the.

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Then at one point,

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the Quraysh and the will join forces.

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And this hasid, this hatred will turn into

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an actual violence towards them and plotting against

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them. Right?

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But

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is telling the believers

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forgive and overlook.

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Forever

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Until

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala brings his command. And

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what that command is? That command is later

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on

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when they transgress, transgress

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back.

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When they harm you, fight back. Right? And

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all of these rulings that came about, Allah,

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but in the beginning what did Allah say?

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Forgive and

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overlook.

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And then Allah subhanahu wa'ala said,

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indeed Allah is capable of doing all things.

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So in other words, Allah is capable of

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protecting you. Allah is capable of exposing their

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plots. Allah is capable of turning their hearts.

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Allah is capable of anything that he wants,

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so don't worry too much. Right? Fa'ahu was

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Fa'hu. I wanna go back to one thing

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that's quite interesting.

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Allah says that their main reason

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for,

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wanting the

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the believers

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to turn away from the faith

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is Hasid, envy. And Allah mentions Hasid in

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the Quran a few times. Allah says

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to envy people from what Allah gave them

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from his bounty and blessings.

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And Allah says in

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protect us from the envious people when they

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envy us. So what is hasad?

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What is hasad?

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Hasad is

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to wish

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for the removal of the blessings from others.

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Right? You see a brother driving a nice

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car, you wish you entered into a car

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crash and that car got pulverized.

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You saw someone that got married, you wish

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that their marriage ends up in divorce.

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You saw someone that got a degree, you

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wish they never get a job. This is

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an illness

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If people have asked them,

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first of all, they're burning up all the

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time.

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They can't stand to see good for others.

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This is what hasad is. It's

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To want

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the others to lose their good that they

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have. Not just that, but then also want

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it for yourself.

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Step 1, you see something,

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you like

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it. It's normal to want it for yourself.

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Right? That's that bit So far it's normal.

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Right? You see a brother with a, I

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don't know, with a nice jacket, and you're

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like, yeah, I wish I had that jacket.

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So far so good. Like okay, you want

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it for yourself. Go and buy it. Right?

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But

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what if you start wishing that he never

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had it?

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Now you're entering into a territory.

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Now what if you stop planning somehow that

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he he's for him to lose it? You

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wait outside of the Wudu area, when he

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takes off his jacket, you you nick it.

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Alright? This is hasid, not that this is

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there's levels to it. There's levels to it.

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Ibn al Sheikhan Arthamin mentioned this. He said

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that

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at first,

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you just

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like what they have.

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He said even this,

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to an extent it's not too healthy. We're

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just not liking what other people have. Focus

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on yourself.

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Right? Don't look at other people's lives too

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much. Right? Okay. Their shoes, their jacket, their

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relationships and everything.

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Then you get to level 2, which is,

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I

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would be so happy

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if I found out that brother's car got

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or something happened to it or something. Now

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you're sick. What if you stop planning and

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making plans how to do that? And I'll

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give you an example, Ikhwan al Filla.

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People that are jealous of married couples. Right?

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You're jealous of a brother. I'm talking to

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brothers now. It happens to sisters as well.

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You're jealous of a brother, most of all

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his marriage is 15 years intact, 10 years

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intact. You're like wow, how is he doing?

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And man, he comes to you brother. Why

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am I going through the trouble? What shall

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I do? Yeah. Get rid of her. Right?

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It's it's like working towards or or someone

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tells you, for some people they give bad

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investment advice because they wish that person's wealth

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would go away.

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I'm telling you, invest in this man. And

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this you you you almost can't imagine someone

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being that evil. Right?

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But it goes that far. Why do you

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think Allah is telling us protect us from

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it?

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From the envious person or the envy.

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They are sick people and they have to

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give

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for themselves.

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This hasid is very dangerous.

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And how do you stop hasid?

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By having a pure heart. By having being

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content with what Allah has given you. Be

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content with what Allah has given you. And

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you know, you know what really destroyed the?

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Social media.

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Social media has exposed us to a world

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you could easily say 30 years ago people

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lived happier lives. Right? You have you're constantly

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comparing yourself with people you probably would have

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never met. Right?

00:31:20 --> 00:31:21

They got married,

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they went on holiday, got a new car,

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new job, the breakfast they ate, they went

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out for food.

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This is so problematic.

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It's problematic from two sides.

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Us who are absorbing other people's lives. And

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I would argue

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it's not even real.

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A lot of times it's just a snapshot.

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It's not real. Right? Kids stand up straight.

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Okay. Okay. Don't stop fighting and then take

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the picture. And you think this is this

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family. They never had any mushkil in their

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life. That's not the case. They're just like

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any other family but then they they portray

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themselves that way. And people watch this and

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watch this and watch this and they start

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comparing themselves. And you got wives looking and

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saying, yeah, he that husband, he takes his

00:32:02 --> 00:32:04

wife out every day. What's wrong with you?

00:32:04 --> 00:32:06

Right? And this is gonna cause problems. Or

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look, they bought a new car. Look what

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we are driving.

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Right? Or they went on holidays. Why didn't

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we?

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And this is gonna cause, So this is

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causing a problem for the viewer. Right? Because

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you're constantly comparing yourself to others. Very unhealthy.

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Very unhealthy.

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Right? And what did our prophet say salallahu

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alayhi wasalam with regards to dunya?

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Look at those who are below you so

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that you can appreciate

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the.

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Only look up with regards to deen, not

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with regards to dunya. Right? Have that mentality,

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kwaneefillahi.

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Beautiful prophetic advice.

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Another ishqal with social media is not the

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person watching,

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but the person taking the images.

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If you're gonna take images of your children

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and put them online,

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and your food and put it online, and

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your home and your marriage and your trips

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and your holidays. And then later say, Sheikh,

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I think has been known on me. What

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do you expect?

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When you have millions of people watching you,

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like this might cause problems. Right? The people

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

might have give you the evil eye, it

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might have ain.

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So don't expose yourself

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or put yourself in a position where others

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will look at you

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in a way where they will give you

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That's why they say

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You're allowed to hide your

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if you are worried of. And this has

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to be sensible. Right? This has to be

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sensible. Right?

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It can't be hiding everything. And a good

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example of that is in the Quran. What

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did prophet Yaqub say to his children?

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What did prophet Yaqub say to his children?

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He said,

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He said to his children, don't enter into

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the city gates from 1

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enter into many. Span out. Why?

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Twelve sons,

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strong, healthy,

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similar age. This is gonna cost fitna. People

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might do Ayn on you. This is what

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the scholars say. So and this is where

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they benefit from that sometimes,

00:34:02 --> 00:34:04

don't tell everyone about every good thing in

00:34:04 --> 00:34:07

your life. And be sensible about this. If

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you have a child, you can tell your

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friends and your family and people,

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

has given me a child. There's nothing wrong

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

with that. Right? You do the aqiqa, you

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call people. I'm not telling you hide everything.

00:34:16 --> 00:34:17

But imagine you know someone has been trying

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

to have children for for for 20 years

00:34:19 --> 00:34:20

and Allah didn't give them. And the first

00:34:20 --> 00:34:22

thing you you call them,

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I got a child. This is very insensitive.

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

Right? So this is what I mean by

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28

being sensible in what you are doing,

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and, also,

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this is where hasid comes from. When people

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start being exposed to others in yam, and

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they want it. I'm gonna conclude with this.

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Hasid. Why are we talking about hasid? Because

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Allah mentioned that the reason why the yahood

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or the

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were envy, were were wanted

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the

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to become

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and disbelievers is what? They were envious from

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them. Hasidin, meaning India and Fusim from themselves.

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There is one type of hasid that is

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allowed.

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The prophet said hadith

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There is no hasid that is allowed.

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Except for 2.

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2 times you're allowed to be hasid, in

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other

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words. What are those two times? The prophet

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has said,

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Someone Allah gave the Quran, memorized the Quran,

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knows the Quran, and he

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he's reading it day and night, praying my

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

prayer. You can do hasad of him. Which

00:35:24 --> 00:35:25

hasad is that? Is that the hasad where

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

you wish Allah? Where she forgot the Quran?

00:35:27 --> 00:35:28

No. No.

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No. It means, oh Allah, I wish

00:35:30 --> 00:35:32

I knew the Quran like he does so

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that I can pray and recite like he

00:35:34 --> 00:35:36

does. That's the first

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one. On someone Allah gave wealth and he's

00:35:43 --> 00:35:45

giving of it, and he's spending on the

00:35:45 --> 00:35:48

people that need it day and night. So

00:35:48 --> 00:35:49

you're allowed to have for that one as

00:35:49 --> 00:35:52

well. What kind of hasid? Don't wish that

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54

Allah removes his wealth, but that Allah gives

00:35:54 --> 00:35:56

you similar wealth so that you can do

00:35:56 --> 00:35:57

the good that he is doing.

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