Musleh Khan – Life #18 Finding peace in Allahs Qadr

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The speaker discusses the importance of finding peace in a situation where one is diagnosed with cancer. They suggest finding peace through worship, devotion, and spending time alone worshiping. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of learning the deen and finding comfort in Allah's will. They encourage listeners to pray for peace and find peace in their will.

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			Finding Peace in Allah's Will.
		
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			The Qadr of Allah,
		
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			we say it all the time.
		
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			Whenever something happens or doesn't happen
		
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			it's part of being a Muslim that we
		
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			say this is from the Khadar of Allah.
		
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			This is from the will of Allah.
		
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			There's just one problem.
		
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			For a lot of Muslims
		
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			they have a struggle finding peace and contentment
		
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			knowing that this is what Allah will. So
		
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			let me give you an example,
		
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			somebody could be diagnosed with cancer,
		
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			they lived a good life, healthy life, exercised,
		
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			ate well, did all of the things you
		
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			could possibly do to guarantee you'll have a
		
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			perfectly
		
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			healthy life. Till one day they wake up,
		
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			go to the doctor, and this is the
		
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			diagnosis.
		
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			They have cancer. Doctor literally says you have
		
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			x amount of months or years to live.
		
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			It's devastating for everyone.
		
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			But one of the things that Muslims would
		
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			say in a situation like this is this
		
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			is the will of Allah.
		
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			And if you don't understand how that works
		
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			you'll struggle understanding why would Allah do this?
		
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			Why would this be the will of Allah
		
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			that somebody suffer so much? Somebody go through
		
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			that much pain? And it's not just on
		
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			an individual level, just globally look around at
		
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			all of the problems and the tragedies in
		
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			the world today
		
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			and we still say
		
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			this is the iqadr of Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala. So how do we find peace in
		
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			all of that? Here's a couple of things
		
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			insha'Allah that will help. Number 1,
		
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			Allah tells us throughout the Quran
		
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			one of his names is Al Qadr
		
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			Allah emphasizes
		
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			over and over that He is the master
		
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			and the authority that is in control of
		
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			all of our affairs.
		
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			What that should do for the believer
		
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			is that you immediately
		
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			develop this trust with Allah.
		
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			That when you and I, we plan,
		
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			that know that Allah knows what we don't
		
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			know so He's the best of planners.
		
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			You have to trust Allah's plan,
		
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			And the way to do that is to
		
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			constantly
		
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			remain close to Him through worship,
		
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			through devotion,
		
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			all the things that we're doing especially in
		
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			the month of Ramadan,
		
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			these are the things that help you develop
		
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			clarity
		
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			and confidence certainty
		
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			in Allah's will. It's very easy just like
		
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			the Prophet alaihis salatu wasalam told us that
		
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			when something happens the response of the believer
		
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			is we say, this
		
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			was the will of Allah and he does
		
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			whatever
		
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			he wills.
		
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			For you and I as the believer, you
		
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			immediately find a sense of comfort knowing that
		
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			you tried but Allah knows
		
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			what is best.
		
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			Finding peace in that that journey
		
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			is your connection with Allah.
		
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			99% of the time when people struggle with
		
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			this it is a sign of weak imen.
		
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			You've got to work more, you've got to
		
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			learn, you've got to understand, you've got to
		
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			develop yourself as a believer
		
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			and that requires you to learn the deen.
		
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			That requires you to truly connect with Allah,
		
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			talk to Him, spend time alone worshiping and
		
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			praying and just make dua especially in this
		
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			month and ask Allah to give you clarity
		
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			in whatever confusion you have about Him or
		
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			this religion.
		
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			The second thing that would help insha'Allah
		
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			is look back in history brothers and sisters.
		
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			Go back to Islam,
		
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			look back at all the prophets and messengers,
		
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			look what they went through, look at all
		
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			the pain and struggle they went through, yet
		
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			their legacy survived till this day. We still
		
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			talk about them, we still refer to them
		
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			for lessons. You know they say that when
		
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			you understand your history you're better
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala's khadr from history, all nations
		
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			and all people and all the things that
		
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			have happened in this world.
		
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			And you see the outcome of that, that
		
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			perhaps maybe during that conflict, during those problems
		
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			you couldn't see, okay, where is this going?
		
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			Why aren't we in war? Why is there
		
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			a plague? Why is there this problem, that
		
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			problem? You may not realize
		
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			at that moment when you're in the midst
		
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			of it where this is going,
		
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			but now since that is in history that
		
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			has passed,
		
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			Now we can go back and understand, oh
		
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			now I know
		
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			why Allah
		
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			put Yusuf alaihis salaam in that well and
		
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			then brought him out. It was to preserve
		
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			his legacy and to honor him and to
		
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			teach him to trust him. Now we know
		
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			why the prophet alaihis salam went through all
		
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			that pain and struggle
		
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			constantly being persecuted in Mecca and Medina. It
		
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			was so that Allah
		
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			would build empathy in his heart. Anytime somebody
		
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			came to him and said, You Rasoolallah,
		
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			I lost my child. The prophet alaihis salatu
		
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			wasalam knows exactly how they feel because he
		
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			buried all of his children except 1 Fatima
		
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			radiAllahu anha.
		
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			Think about it this way, if you think
		
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			about it and you take some time and
		
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			reflect on history and the outcome of some
		
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			of the most devastating and important events in
		
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			our time then
		
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			perhaps that will give you the reassurance that
		
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			you need.
		
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			That O Allah your Qadr I trust it
		
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			and I find peace knowing that you are
		
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			in charge of all of our affairs. The
		
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			true believer can do this. It is your
		
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			iman that allows you to find the sense
		
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			of comfort and peace in Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala's will. So I pray Insha'Allah,
		
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			especially in this month of Ramadan,
		
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			especially during the last 10 nights, especially on
		
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			late atul Qadr, the night of Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala's Qadr that you are able to
		
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			find that clarity and that Yaqeen and certainty
		
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			Insha'Allah.
		
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			May Allah accept
		
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			from us.