Musleh Khan – Ask Musleh – We can’t have children, what does this mean?

			Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu brothers and sisters and welcome to Muslim. So today
we're talking about couples who cannot have children. How do they deal with that? The first thing
brothers and sisters is to understand that everything is in the hands of allies. So watch out for
the fact that we have children and we're able to grow a family is a gift from Allah so Allah Allah
azza wa jal himself, actually mentioned in the Quran in surah telara. From that when a woman feels
that tingling sensation in her stomach, for that matter, for sure her hammered attendant huffy fan
from Ottawa to be she starts to notice that her stomach grows and it starts to expand because her
		

			child is growing in her Phelan scollard, when the child becomes bigger dhariwal la hora Bahama so
when the child starts to grow, they both her and her husband, they start to make dua to Allah
subhanho wa Taala for good and healthy child. So this concept here is even mentioned in the Quran
several times and in addition to that, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also encouraged us to
best shooter whether to interfere or slow to multiply, have many children, and try not to exclude
yourself from that try not to refrain yourself from having a big family. Having said that, you're in
a predicament where for some reason, it could be both spouses or it could be one party that just
		

			simply doesn't have what Allah azza wa jal gives, in order for both of them to have children. So
what do they do here in this situation? The first thing is to understand that this is something in a
lust control. This is something that Allah has decreed for you, you should be able to find comfort
in that alone. If this is the only thing that I say, well, it could. It's enough for all of us to
accept that this is what Allah azza wa jal has decreed for you and your marriage. However, in
addition to that, also understand that in our Shetty, or even in our Islamic history, during the
time of the Prophet, I sell him one of his wives. So without the old wine her she was not able to
		

			have any children either. So this is not something new in our shed here. People before us have also
had these issues as well. The third thing is to also understand that this is not necessarily a bad
thing. Sure, you might be missing out on having children in this world. But Allah azza wa jal could
be using you for something else, where you can bring joy and comfort to another family, to an to
other children. You might be involved in data, well, you might be involved in a project, you might
be changing the lives of people around you, and you don't even realize it yet. So just understand
and stay positive for yourself and for your for your marriage, that inshallah if you don't have any
		

			children, Allah azza wa jal could be using you for something greater than that in this world. And
the last and final advice that I want to give is, maybe you don't have children in this world, but
perhaps a loss of a job will give you the happiness of a wonderful family in the hereafter. So just
keep that in mind. Stay proactive, stay confident, stay optimistic, and just the sight point. If
there are any medical issues or complications related to why the couple can have children, then by
all means, our Shetty are also encourages us to go see the doctor get medical attention if you need
to, in order to help this process is Neela hytera. So having said that, may Allah azza wa jal Bless
		

			you all was Salam or Aleikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh