Muiz Bukhary – Udhiyyah – Sacrifice

Muiz Bukhary

Friday sermon delivered by Sheikh Muiz Bukhary on the 26th of  September 2014, at Masjid Zainab, Mount Lavinia, Sri Lanka.

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The importance of the first 10 days of Islam is discussed, including fulfilling missed daily prayer and praying in a row. The use of "the" in deeds and acquiring rewards is emphasized. The difficulties of fulfilling a man's financial budget and the importance of remembering and reminding others are also discussed. The speaker emphasizes the need for individuals to adhere to their spirituality and not give out personal information, as well as cutting their nails and not cutting their hair or nails. The potential threat of the almighty may come to the ledger.

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			All praise and thanks to Almighty Allah behind him for Donna, who is our Creator sustainer nareesha
protector and Chiara We ask Allah the Almighty to Chava his choices of blessings and salutations
upon our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his family members, his companions
and all those who tread upon his path with utmost sincerity until the day of the
		
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			Oh Children of Adam. First and foremost, I advise myself and then all of your present here to adopt
a life of taqwa. And that is to fear a loss behind and what Diana and to be conscious of Allah
subhana wa dyana during every single second of our lives, if we wish to attain success in this
world, as well as the hereafter. May Allah azza wa jal make us all from the people of taqwa and may
He make us all from the successful ones, I mean,
		
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			slaves of Allah, prepare yourselves, prepare yourselves to immerse yourselves in various types of
arriba because the amazing 10 days of they'll hedger about to begin malice behind a $4 bless us all,
and help us to make the best use of this coming 10 days of ill hedger,
		
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			Allah azza wa jal, he created time, and he gave virtue he attached superiority to some periods of
time over others, as allies of Agile states in the noble Koran, Baraka flow cola.
		
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			That your Lord yes Lupu Maya, he creates what He wills but he wishes if Lupo Maya, why after and
then he attaches words you he attaches superiority. As he wishes Allah azzawajal therefore must
behind him who Allah created all of time and then attach superiority to some periods over other
periods. If you talk about the best of months, the month of Ramadan is the best of months Allahu
Akbar, these 10 days the first 10 days of their hedger are the best of days are the best of days,
even in comparison to the days of Ramadan, the first 10 days of the hedger according to some of the
scholars Rahim Allah Rahim Allah, the first 10 days of the hijab are even better than the days of
		
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			Ramadan.
		
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			But then when you talk about the nights of Ramadan, when you talk about the nights of Ramadan, the
last 10 nights of Ramadan are the best nights ever. Why? Because those nights contain Laila to
cuddle. The Night of Power The Night of Decree the night which is better later Qadri Hiraman al
Fisher, the night which is better than 1000 months. So when you talk about nights, the last 10
nights of Ramadan are the best of nights.
		
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			When you talk about days, the first 10 days of the hedger are the best of days, and scholars go on
to explain the reason or one of the reasons behind why the first 10 days of the hijab
		
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			is given so much of virtue and superiority. The reason being mature, respected elders and brothers
in Islam is because
		
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			major fundamentals of ibadah encompassed in the first 10 days of the hedger such as Salah, prayer,
Seon, fasting Zika Zika is also you can give out years ago in the first 10 days of the hedger and
then you have a major ibadah height, which is also fulfilled the first 10 days of the hijab. When
you talk about Ramadan, when you talk about the last 10 days of Ramadan perhaps why the superiority
when you compare the first 10 days and the last 10 days why most superior superiority is given to
the first 10 days.
		
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			Because in Ramadan, you can give out your Sokka you can pray, you can fast, but can you fulfill Hajj
you can fulfill Hajj in Ramadan, you can fulfill Hajj in Ramadan. And that is why the first 10 days
of the hijab are given so much of virtue and so much of superiority by the respected elders and
brothers in Islam. Hadith is in
		
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			pursuit of one he said among while it was seldom is reported to have said along the lines of these
words, that there are no deeds more beloved to Allah subhanho wa Taala than the deeds that have been
fulfilled in the first 10 days of the law. So how about this one like the highlight image nine they
asked for supervisor Obama, he said him, he had a sudama even jihad, even Jihad What about Jihad?
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam went on to say not even jihad, Allah, the first 10 days of
the hijab, the first 10 days. Tomorrow begins with today's with the sunset of today, the first 10
days of the hater begin Allahu Akbar. It is used in a seize this opportunity, amazing opportunity a
		
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			lot because of his infinite mercy upon all of us. He gives us seasons, to do more good deeds and
acquire great rewards. millas behind mo data help us all to do. So. Those are the lies that a long
line you send them in don't to say not even jihad, not even jihad, except for an individual who goes
out on Jihad himself with all of his wealth. With all of his wealth, he takes all of his work, and
then he does not come back with anything. He expense all of his wealth and he is also martyred in
the path of a boss behind.
		
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			So many respected elders and brothers in Islam. It is used the coming 10 days to turn to Allah
behind them with an island that has used these 10 days to involve ourselves in various
		
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			various acts of worship rendered unto our powerful Mega melas behind them would Allah help us to do
so it does keep ourselves busy in sauna, it does keep ourselves busy inshallah. It does start off by
turning to a mosque behind him whether Allah in tober in Toba Toba is not restricted to a specific
season, or perhaps for Ramadan alone, or the first 10 days of the hijab name. Toba is something that
we have to fulfill on a daily basis because we are perpetual sinners, you and I, we need to keep on
turning to Allah Subhana Allah Toba is not something reserved for the sinners alone. No, the command
came to the believers were to either ye Jamie I you help me known. Oh believers turn to Allah
		
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			Subhana Allah Allah in Toba are the believers sinners. No. But if we consider ourselves believers
that we have brought in a man that we have to make Toba part and parcel of our day to day lives, but
then there is no harm in using a particular season, such as the nature to remember Allah subhanho wa
Taala. And to turn to Him in Toba returned to him in Toba, sincerely asking about the behind the
hood Allah to forgive our sins. And then we establish the link between ourselves now created a soda
returned to us behind him who died in a solid Garnet, mini Nikita the Buddha. At times we have
youngsters at times, we have individuals, activists, very much socially involved, they do a lot for
		
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			society. Perhaps they are very strongly involved in that. But when it comes to their own
reformation, when it comes to their own personal deeds, at times there is a deficiency there is a
weakness. When it comes to solar, they don't offer their solar on time, they can make it to the
message with the jamara with the congregation they must it is an obligation upon us males, we have
to praise Allah with the GMR so let us start off by making us ahlawat are five times pressed on time
on time in a salada Canada mini Nikita mo Buddha Salah has been prescribed a bonus at appointed
times. So let us fulfill this surah because after all, the difference between a believer and a
		
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			disbeliever is Sora is a worship which has been which is rendered unto a massive behind on the
island. Therefore it has perfect this connection with Allah behind them with the island. This divine
link with Ally's virgin maleness behind him with the island help us all to do so. And then it does
involve ourselves in more recitation of the noble Koran. Perhaps the month of Ramadan we spent with
the Koran. Maybe they have a from us individuals who finished a few recitations of the complete
Koran. But then right after the month of Ramadan, we go keep the Quran in the shelf perhaps at home,
and then we forget about the forearm. We forget about the for another sincerely intent. Let me at
		
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			least recite three inches or three inches.
		
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			per day, resulting in me completing the whole Quran within the 10 days of October, the reward is
multiplied many fold because these are special days. virtuous days malice behind them with Allah
help us all.
		
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			Let us involve ourselves in this build a beautiful relationship with the Quran with the words of our
beloved maker with the words of our beloved maker. Let us not read the Koran just as how a parent
does. It has just not pay lip service to the Koran. It has read the Koran trying to understand the
Koran. Let us try to it has ponder on the words of our beloved maker. Let us go sit by the scholars
that a study about the Quran that does attend perhaps Tafseer discloses let us try to learn more
about what Allah subhana wa Taala is saying to us His creation, may Allah Subhana Allah help us all
to do so. And then it does make Vicar just remember a monster behind them or Dinah our beloved make
		
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			up off will make a lot so we're just stating the normal for an
		
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			O you who believe with guru law, remember Allah Subhana Allah, the Quran can be abundantly remember
Allah subhanho wa Taala abundantly, we must remember Allah azza wa jal during every single Walk of
our lives, it is remember Allah subhana wa ala, that is make the vicar of Hamas behind no data.
There are numerous reports from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam, in regard to the virtue of
Vicar Omar, numerous reports, one narration, voice and alarm it was seldom is reported to have said
along the lines of these words, that he asked the Sahaba Omar Sahaba shall not inform you all of a
deed that is the best of all deeds, the best of all deeds, it is even better than your being in the
		
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			battlefield and smiting the next of the two far and your next being struck in the battlefield.
		
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			alive.
		
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			The answers what is the media,
		
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			the decoder philosophy?
		
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			It is the remembrance of
		
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			Allah because the more we remember lies in our hearts become soft, our hearts become supple, our
hearts turn to Allah. Our hearts are filled with taqwa, that consciousness comes into our hearts, we
feel Allah Subhana Medina during every single second of our lives, whether we be in private or
whether we be in public, whether we be amongst friends, or whether vvb among strangers, the movie
Remember last, but the minute we forget Allah subhanho wa Taala that is when we don't even feel
ashamed to commit any type of sin, any obscenity, any one good crime sin, we don't feel ashamed,
because we have lost that sense that my powerful maker is watching me May Allah Subhana Allah help
		
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			us all returned to him before it's too late.
		
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			And in regard to the 10 days of the ledger, there is a special type of record and this is known as
tech B. Tech B,
		
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			where we should try and recite as much as possible in terms of tech bit throughout the 10 days of
the hedger and the days of the Shrek Shrek. In general without specifying any time without
specifying any time or any any occasion. As much as possible. We must try to recite the tech be
whether we be walking down the streets, whether we be in the market, whether we be in the masjid,
whether we be at home, we recite as much as possible, that that could be glorifying the lost behind
them with either a law or
		
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			law.
		
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			La la la, la, la, la la.
		
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			We glorify a loss of behind Mr. Dinah we pray is a loss behind fo Dinah. And in terms of the tech
beat, we have two types of tech beer.
		
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			think we'll look at the mirror Mottola and attack mirror mocha. Attack mirror mocha is a general tip
from the mercury from the setting of the sun today we start off general we don't specify a time or a
place as much as possible. We make beer We glorify of us behind Amazon. Even if we are at home. Even
if we are in the office. We are in the vehicle perhaps driving We glorify a lost behind Edward
Island. Mottola means a general takbeer there is no specific time or place that we remove them, they
must recite as much as possible. The Sahaba did one like the island major minor over the last one,
even Romero de la weinheimer. Many reports where they used to make excessive tech be where they
		
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			mentioned
		
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			used to make excessive tech be the Sahaba, the one litre eyelid he mentioned Marine, so we must make
the beer as much as possible in terms of a tequila mocha yet. This is a specific type of tequila.
And when does this start? This starts with the fetcher of the day of alpha, right after budget on
the day of alpha until the last day of the exam with the Shrek and this is after every soldier. This
is after every soldier, the soldier of the day of alpha until the last day of the year with the
Shrek that is the 13th the 13th of the ledger, we make tech be after every soldier. This is a
beautiful movie yet this is a specific type of beer.
		
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			Therefore, it doesn't glorify Allah subhanho wa Taala that does praise him azzawajal thereby
glorifying and remembering him and attaining great rewards the sight of Allah Subhana Allah one
particular report was one he said a man while he was alone is reported to have said along the lines
of these words, oh come on caller ID so that was said on that if an individual that if an individual
makes fulfills his financial budget, in the message with the jamara with the congregation, and then
after Calatrava, if he sits in his musalla in the place where he offered solid confession, and he
waits he go defies the laws behind the hood Allah. He remembers the laws behind them with either he
		
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			recites the Quran perhaps he involves himself in various acts of remembrance of Apostle behind and
what the Aila until to do until the sun rises, you know, what is his reward.
		
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			He gets the reward of a hydrogen an aroma dum dum dum,
		
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			a complete hygiene aroma.
		
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			Today, you know how difficult it is perhaps to fulfill hij but you're getting the reward equal and
an equal and reward.
		
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			Now, let us not be smart Alex and say, Oh, if that's the case, and I do need to go and hedge, I
don't need to go and hide. I can just sit down and fulfill my heart doesn't work that way you get
the reward, which is equivalent, but the obligation doesn't fall off your shoulders, which is a
different thing. But then you get the reward. And compare it My dear, respected elders and brothers
in Islam, how difficult it is you must spend money, you must go out on Hajj and then you get the
reward but here our Deen is so beautiful. Our maker is so merciful.
		
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			He has made things so easy for us right after you sit in your the place where you offered Serato
make record remember mouse behind the IRA until the sun rises and you get the reward of a highchair
and ombre Allahu Akbar. And then just imagine if you were to do that in these special 10 days, the
rewards are multiplied many fold of
		
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			men loss of 100 more data help us all to do more good deeds in these special 10 days of the data.
		
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			It has to motek Be it us remember Allah subhana wa gyla The more we remember Allah azzawajal the
more our hearts will turn to him the more our hearts will become soft and supple, and the more our
hearts will be inclined towards goodness. Today, the oma at large the oma Muhammad sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam including myself in LA Mala Mala, except upon those whom Allah subhana wa especial Mercy
is upon our hearts have hardened our hearts have hardened. What are the symptoms of a heart heart.
If you feel that you do not enjoy the worship of a master behind them who died when you open the
Koran if you feel sleepy if you start yawning if you feel lazy, when you take a Kabir if you feel
		
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			like quickly finishing off your Salah
		
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			when you listen to the Koran, when you listen to the words of our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, and please remember, whenever I mentioned his beautiful name, if tears don't come
to your eyes, that means your heart is dying. Your heart is riddled with diseases. And I'm not
talking about your physical heart. And I'm not talking about cardiovascular diseases. I'm talking
about your spiritual heart. And I'm talking about spiritual diseases, spiritual maladies, such as
jealousy, hatred, envy, anger, malaise, where we start backbiting about others, we waste time
instead of remembering Allah, instead of reading the Koran. Instead of offering voluntary prayers,
		
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			we waste our time thinking bad about others, talking bad about others, gossiping about others
backbiting about others, looking at people in a condescending manner, having that self righteous
attitude, all of which is against the Sunnah of our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam.
		
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			He is the perfect role model that we need to be following. today. We have got various other role
models, and we falsely claim that I love my messenger. I love my message. We do various things
		
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			out of the lab of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam
		
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			But the main manifestation of the love that we can prove is by following him by following him sonova
Follow us and look at his teachings. Look at his example, such a Pew example. Such a pure example.
He never harbored any ill feeling towards anybody.
		
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			Look at the incident of the fate of mankind. The conquest of Makkah, I hope I'm not drifting, but
there's something important I wish to touch. After all of the problems and the calamities and the
trials, the Qureshi of Makkah, put our beloved monster sallallahu alayhi wa sallam through after the
conquest of Mecca, de Souza, he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam comes into Mecca, he could have done
whatever he wished with them. They were in fear, but then they knew that Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam was a noble person. He was a noble man. And you know what he said? sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam on that day, on that important day.
		
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			It Habu for
		
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			a long while he was and he said go, you are free. You are free. Look at the magnanimity. Look at the
great heartedness of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then he went on to say I tell you
all, what use of Allah is salat wa salam told his brothers law three Bala Komodo, there shall be no
reproach on y'all. On this day, no retribution upon y'all on this day.
		
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			What made the brothers of Yusuf Ali salatu salam go and dump him in the well? What made them go and
dump him in the well? Jealousy? Jealousy is such an evil quality. At times, it's lurking in our
hearts and we don't know. You can diagnose yourself You don't need a special heart physician to tell
you that Oh, brother, you are riddled with the disease of jealousy. If you feel when you look at
somebody at someone's property at someone's family at someone's house, and if you feel if you are
envious of him, if you feel jealousy towards him, jealousy is such a self destructive quality, that
it will make you feel happy only when misfortune falls on that individual. If say that individuals
		
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			motor vehicle were to crash somewhere, then you're happy. If that individual is business would go on
a loss and you are happy. This is a jealous individual. Such an evil individual, such an evil
quality that Allah azza wa jal sent down versus for our for us to protect ourselves from that evil
quality.
		
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			me
		
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			find out
		
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			you seek refuge in Allah subhanho wa Taala from the NVR when he envies law, Milan's behind him would
Allah save us all from the evil quality of jealousy and mania, purify our hearts from the evil
quality so that we do not harbor jealousy towards anyone. I mean.
		
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			Moving on, my dear respected elders and brothers in Islam, a great leader that should be fulfilled
within the 10 days of the ledger within that is or during the days of the ledger is old here.
		
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			It is offering a sacrifice for Allah Subhana Medina for the sake of Allah azza wa jal, it is a great
		
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			it is a Nevada that was done by a beloved master Mohammed said a lot while he was alone, and also by
the great prophet, Ibrahim alayhi salatu salam, and we do it for lost behind him, Medina. And you
also remember what Ibrahim alayhi salatu salam did, and we do it in accordance to the words of our
beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a great deed indeed, so many rewards a great
deal.
		
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			And the scholars Rahim Allah they state that it is a there's a difference of there is a difference
of opinion. But then, what they say the more favorable opinion is that it is a sooner
		
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			it is an emphasize sooner our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, it is an
emphasize sooner. So the individual who wishes to offer a sacrifice and
		
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			as I said above, while he was telling me is reported to have said along the lines of these words,
aka Mahabharata, serrato salaam, let the one who wishes to offer it offer a sacrifice
		
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			Let him not take anything from his hair or from his nails, ie let him not cut his hair or trim his
nails that did not cut his hair or trim his nails hair in general hair in general let him not cut
his hair or trim his nails. Therefore, the individual who wishes to offer a sacrifice from the first
day of the hijab, from the first day of the hijab, beginning from the setting of the son of the last
day of the garden, he must not take anything from his hair or his names, until he offers the
sacrifice
		
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			for the sake of a loss of behind the for the island. This is a command by our beloved Master
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that we must strictly adhere to. And the reason scholars Rahim
Allah they explain the Bajaj the pilgrims, this is also applicable upon them. Why because they are
in Iran. And we are not for judge we are under grams. We are supposed to get into that mood by not
cutting our hair and trimming our nails so that we share with them in terms of the reward inshallah
Allah May Allah subhana wa, tada reward us for.
		
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			So what if an individual accidentally cuts his hair or trims his name? Or for that matter? What if
an individual intentionally cuts his hair or trims his nails? Does that mean his own hair is bouton
does that mean that it is nullified? No, it is not nullified, it is valid. But you have to remember
you are going against the command of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but yet you're here is
valid, your code here is valid, but you have gone against the command of Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wasallam, which is something scary, and that we must stay away from malice behind it, would
Allah help us all to do so. So, we said that it is a tsunami of data, we said that it is a tsunami.
		
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			So, is it befitting an individual or is it appropriate for him to perhaps obtain a loan to give out
an Oh the failure is it appropriate for an individual to obtain a loan to get out of here, the
scholars rahima formula they explain that as it is a tsunami aka, there is no need for an individual
to obtain a loan and give out all the heylia there is no need, because this is upon an individual
who has surplus wealth, he has surplus wealth, that he should give out or the higher because it is a
tsunami occurred and emphasize sooner it is not forced upon you. But then again, if you feel that I
can obtain a loan and settle off the loan, if you are very confident of that, then there is no harm
		
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			in you obtaining a loan and giving out your own here, but is it a must. It is not a must. It is not
a must if you feel that you have too much of expenses, and you don't have the sufficient funds to
cover your expenses. And then again, if you take it upon yourself to obtain a loan, but then again,
you find it difficult, then you are not required to obtain a loan and give out here may Allah
Subhana Allah grant us a clear understanding.
		
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			Now in regard to what if an individual has more than one family, ie if he has two wives, three wives
or four wives for that matter. Now does he have to give out? If he has two wives? Does he have to
give out two or higher for both of the families? If he has three families? Does he have he bought
three or if he has four families does he have to give out for the failure. If you look at the
teachings of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said a lot more Oliver Selim had nine
families, he had nine families. And he said a long line. He said them the nine families lived
separately, ie they didn't live in one big mansion. They didn't live in one big mansion, small
		
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			houses, the size of a room perhaps but they were all separate. The cooking was separate, everything
was separate. When he sort of manually taught us and he was the best role model, he gave out only
one booth fee for all of them. For all of them. He did not give out for each family for each wife.
No, he just gave out one or the year for all of his families. Likewise, if we have more than one
family, even if they are in separate countries, it does not matter. They are under you. They are
dependent on you in terms of
		
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			food and clothing, in terms of food and clothing. If you give out one over here, it will suffice for
all of the families under you get the sense if you have more than one wife, more than one wife. Now
what about
		
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			when we have more than one family living in one house where we have more than one family living in
one house. Say for example, you give your daughter in marriage, and she's also living with you. So
your son in law is in the same house with you. Now, all you give out two daughters in marriage and
both of the son in laws both of your daughters they are they're running their families in the same
house. Now, if the
		
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			breadwinner or the father in law perhaps if he gives out an idea, will it suffice for the whole
house for all of the families? Here the scholars Rahim Allah, they explain. They explain. Say for
example, if you have three stories, three stories, a three flow building. Yeah. And then each family
is in one flow they are cooking is separate, everything is separate. Or even if you are living in
one big house, one big house and the cooking and everything is just one. It doesn't matter. If your
son in law has a separate income where he is running his family times, we see very rich people that
are around their cars, expensive motor vehicles, but they all live in one house, their income is
		
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			separate. The father in law's income is separate. Each son in law is earning separately. He's got a
job Perhaps he's got his own business, his family is separate his family unit is separate, even
though he may be living in the same house, then each breadwinner has to give his own or the hey,
yeah, just because the father in law gives that will not suffice or the son in law with his family
or the two son in laws with their families will not come under that same
		
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			as they are separate breadwinners. They must give out their own here on their own, on their own.
This is in the case of multiple families living together, multiple families living together.
		
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			Moving on.
		
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			We also have a like we said, If you cut your nails, there is no harm. There is no harm if you cut
your nails, but some people have this job. Some people have the doubt that if we cut our nails then
we cannot give out the old here. That is a wrong belief. If you cut your nails, it doesn't matter.
You might you can give out the old key old here will be valid. But then you have gone against the
commandment of your supervisor Bob Marley who was Ella, then what about an individual who has
married perhaps but he's still not living with his wife. He has done his nikka This is a question
that was posed. He has done his nikka he's done his nikka had he still not consumated the marriage
		
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			The girl is still living with the Father. Does he there's the groom was now done the nikka does he
have to give on her behalf? No as he is not the opinion of some of the scholars Rahim Allah is that
as he is not still yet consummated the marriage. He does not have to give
		
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			hold here on behalf of her rather she goes under her own father because he is still dependent on her
father she's living with her father. Now in regard to appointing someone
		
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			or giving an oath here on behalf of someone on behalf of someone say in a family a husband and a
wife. Normally my husband would give out and
		
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			the only he must not cut his nails and his hair. Remember that is another thing. The person who's
giving out who wishes to give out the Oh the failure only he must not cut he cut his hair or nails
the family there is no issue the wife the children who come under him they can cut their hair and
then is the individual who is giving out the old the old he must not cut his hair or his nails. Now
what about saying a family where the husband is giving his gender or the failure but then the wife
wants to give an old Haier on behalf of her father who has passed away on behalf of a diseased
individual. Then as she is giving out an order here on behalf of her father who has passed away then
		
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			she also must not cut her hair or trim her nails. She must not cut her hair or trim her nails. What
about appointing a living individual say a father who is going to set out on a business
		
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			journey perhaps and he feels that the country he is struggling to be in China or some other country.
He feels that he may find it difficult to give out his order here in that country. he appoints his
son who is in the country. He gives him the money. He gives him the money and tells him I'll be
gone. It is difficult for me to give the old fear there when the day it comes about you go purchase
the animal and you give out the old here on behalf of me. Now the son is not a breadwinner. The son
comes under the father but the father appoints him to do the old Hey on behalf of himself. Now, does
the sun have to stay away from cutting his hair and trimming his nails? No, because the sun has been
		
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			appointed by the Father. The father is the owner of the wealth. He is the one who is offering the
sacrifice. Even if he be in another country. He is the one who should refrain from cutting his hair
and trimming his nails. There is also another doubt that has crossed the minds of the people. Some
people state that okay, I for example, I'm in Colombo, perhaps I have appointed someone in the
outskirts of Colombo to do the corbon on behalf of me don't hire on behalf of me. So I feel that
individual he posed the question is that I feel that the butcher, the one who is doing the poor
vandehei on behalf of me, he is the one who should not cut his hair or trim his nails. I am not
		
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			giving the old Hey, I'm in Columbus. I can
		
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			No, it's the same as like I mentioned, this is how the sun can cut and the father should refrain.
This is the same situation where you appoint someone in the outskirts of Colombo or perhaps you give
your money to an organization that is also permissible where they collect the money and they give a
collective booth here, there is no harm. But that does not mean that the organization only must
refrain from cutting their hair and trimming their nails. No you who gave the money you are the
owner of the money you are the one who has offered a sacrifice. You are the one wishing to offer a
sacrifice, so you must refrain from cutting your hair and trimming your nails. I hope everything is
		
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			upon clarity. May Allah subhanho wa Taala help us all to make the best use of the coming 10 days of
the hedger and May he accept all of our good deeds, and maybe forgive all of our sins, and maybe the
almighty help us all to turn to him to make sense here Toba before it's too late before Vergara and
before the sun rises from the west.
		
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			And just as how he united us here this beautiful afternoon, may he the almighty unite all of us in
the gardens of genda with our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will come to the
ledger behind me