Muiz Bukhary – Reflections From the Grave

Muiz Bukhary

27 Nov 2019

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The host of a funeral for a senior relative from Islam's guidance service emphasizes the importance of remaining spiritual gifts and prioritizing deeds. They stress the need to remember the deceased's legacy and offer charity on behalf of their mother. The importance of forgiveness and creating a funeral for the deceased is also discussed, along with the importance of remembering legacies and prioritizing deeds. The speaker encourages individuals to make money on behalf of their loved ones and establish a charity, emphasizing the inevitable reality of death and the importance of forgiveness. Finally, the importance of remembering terminator pleasures and focusing on the aftermath of the death of the deceased parents is emphasized.

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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
		
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			Rahman Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa
sahbihi wa sallam.
		
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			Praise Allah, the Lord of all words, in whose hands is life and death. And we asked him to send his
blessings and salutations upon Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his family members, his
companions and all those who tread upon his path they've gathered here, it's a sad moment. They've
gathered here to witness and to participate in the funeral rites of someone senior from our
community, a loved one, a family member, a friend relative, in the form of Uncle Nova, and we seize
this opportunity to make a dua for him. And this should serve as a reminder for all of us, he has
passed on to the next realm. And I want all of you to reflect and look around you. You see that all
		
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			around you. And this is the absolute certainty. This is the inevitable reality this is where we are
all headed. As Allah clearly says in the Quran, Quran I've seen the equatorial mount, every soul
shall inevitably taste death. We're supposed to gather we're supposed to participate in funeral
rites, yes to make dua for the person who has passed away to seek forgiveness on behalf of the one
who has passed away. In the court of Allah. Yes. And also it is supposed to serve as a reminder,
because we are caught up in this rat race of this worldly life of dunya. We're running behind dunya.
But each time we come and participate in a funeral when we participate you in the funeral rites as
		
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			we see the body being lowered into the grave. As we take handfuls of Earth and throw it into the
grave. It is supposed to remind us it is supposed to help us recalibrate and put our priorities
straight, that this worldly life is nothing but a test, a temporary and transitory stage that we are
crossing. Allah says in the Quran, Allah the holla call mouth or will hire Leah Bill welcome Are you
Komazawa am Allah, that he is the one who has created death. And he starts off by mentioning that he
has created death and life why death first remind us that death is the inevitable reality for what
purpose to test which one of us is best in deeds. In another place. Allah says in national notarial
		
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			Mota, that we will definitely give life to the dead. So all the dead that you see around you, and
eventually we too are going to be a part of them, we will all be given life by Allah. And Allah says
when a tube uma called demo, our Asara home, that we have recorded all of what you have sent ahead.
So the good deeds that you have sent ahead have been recorded by Allah, what I thought our home and
your footsteps. Now this has been interpreted as your legacy what you leave behind. And this is
something that we have to contemplate at this point, my dear brothers in Islam, what is the legacy
that you are leaving behind? How do you want the people to remember you? Do you want them to
		
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			remember you in a bad way, or in a good way in terms of your benefit towards community in terms of
your benefit towards society, in terms of the goodness that you have left behind in the form of good
deeds, good statements in the form of moving well, with other people helping others. This is truly
what life is all about. So it's important that we remember our legacies, we recalibrate we
prioritize, we put our priorities straight. And I would like to conclude with this final point in
terms of what we're supposed to do on behalf of our loved ones who have passed away. We have a
Sahabi who goes to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Sadly, Vinoba Daraa the Allahu Anhu he
		
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			asked the messenger Yeah, rasool Allah my mother has passed away. What can I do on behalf of my
mother? Can I give charity on behalf of my mother, the prophets, Allah alayhi salam says yes, you
can give charity on behalf of your mother. And then he goes on to ask Allah for Allah what is the
best form of charity? Now you have to understand that the best form of charity is a continuous
ongoing charity. And in that hadith, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam says establish a water
solution on behalf of your mother. So scholars explain based on other Hadith as well, that you can
read the Quran on behalf of those who have passed away starting off with the dua you should first
		
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			make dua for those who have passed away. So it is important that we make dua for everyone who has
passed away in this graveyard, and then you're supposed to seek forgiveness in their state on behalf
of them. You can make hajj on behalf of them, you can make aamra on behalf of them. You can read the
Quran on behalf of them. You can establish sadaqa jariya in the form of an orphanage in the form of
an institution educational institution in the form of a hospital in the form of sponsoring students
of the Quran. Because think of it for each letter that you read. You're getting 10 rewards if you
establish a sadaqa jariya on behalf of your mother, your father, your grandfather
		
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			Your grandmother for as long as that initiative runs for as long as that investment runs, their
accounts will remain active insha Allah Allah for as long as water runs through that water solution
for as long as birds drink for as long as human beings drink, that individual will benefit from that
solution in sha Allah Allah. So therefore this is a very beautiful way of doing something on behalf
of a loved one who has passed away. So inshallah let us make dua on behalf of the one who has passed
away on behalf of all of the people who have passed away here. It has seek forgiveness in their
stead, it has begged Allah Subhana Allah to forgive our sins and to forgive their sins as well. With
		
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			that, I conclude I ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to forgive us of our sins, that Allah forgive us of
our sins as we stand here. We have participated in the funeral rites of the one who has passed away
Allah, we're standing under the blazing sun and we make dua unto you Yeah, Allah, Allah forgive us
of our sins. Yeah, Allah, Allah we know that this is the inevitable reality that we are headed to
but Sherpa and misleads us Ya Allah help us to get our priorities straight. Yeah, Allah help us to
constantly remind ourselves of the terminator of pleasures, which is death to Allah. You remind us
so many times that Allah Kulu, Neff sinda ecotours mouth that every social inevitability tastes that
		
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			but due to our forgetfulness, we keep forgetting your Allah. Allah help us to recalibrate our
thoughts that Allah Allah help us to get our priorities straight. Yeah, Allah. Allah help us to look
at this worldly life as it is supposed to be looked at a temporary and transitory stager Allah,
Allah help us to focus on the hereafter Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, Allah Allah forgive the one who
has passed away or Allah we have just lowered him into his gravia Allah, Allah make his grave a
garden from the gardens of Paradise. Yeah, Allah illuminate his gravia Allah He went through
sicknesses, trials and challenges here Allah make them a means of purifying him Yeah, Allah, Allah
		
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			admit him into your beautiful and luminous garden of paradise. Yeah Allah Ya Allah elevate his rank
here Allah Ya Allah help his children and grandchildren make dua for him. Yeah, Allah fill their
hearts with patience to go through this loss and Pena Allah. Allah bless all of us with beautiful
endings here Allah with beautiful endings here Allah, Allah accept our good deeds, Allah accept his
good deeds, yeah, Allah accept him and elevate him to higher ranks of the shahada of the soil
Mahonia Allah and likewise it Allah bless us to be united in the gardens of Jannah with our beloved
prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam May Allah bless the one who has passed away
		
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			and that's all of us to be united in the gardens agenda with our beloved messenger sallallahu alayhi
wa and he was telling me Allah and your Allah bless us all to drink from the cool how from the cool
and purifying fountain through the glass at the hands of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I
mean, I mean what are you Anil hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen wa sallahu. Island Abidjan Omiya while he
was off, but he will sell them. So behind Arabic Arabella is that Yama Yossi phone was Mona Island
mousseline Al Hamdulillah.