Muiz Bukhary – Love

Muiz Bukhary

This jumuah khutbah is about love from Islamic perspective and the significant condition for love, different shades of love. In addition, this talk also describes the tolerance of Prophet SAW towards love with two of the heart touching incidents from the life of Prophet SAW, Islamic viewpoint on valentine’s day.

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The speakers discuss the definition of love and the historical context of love in shaping one's life. They also emphasize the importance of avoiding "slime" and offer advice on making it happen. They stress the importance of embracing Islam and celebrating love, avoiding celebrating and just celebrating. They also mention a former leader who wanted to be a strategic thinker and eventually led an expedition to the Middle East.

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			Salam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
		
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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa sallahu wa sallam Allah ashrafi
Lamia, Eva mousseline. Nabina. Habib in our karate Are you Nina Mohammed Abdullah alayhi wa sallam
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			for the fall along with America one tada Z's
		
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			Vanya rajim
		
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			Bismillahi Rahmani awami
		
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			woman
		
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			in
		
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			all praise and thanks be to Almighty Allah subhana wa tada with our Creator sustainer nourish,
protect and cure. We ask Allah azza wa jal to Chava his choices of blessings and salutations upon
our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his family members, his companions and all
those who tread upon his path with utmost sincerity until the day of
		
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			my dear respected elders and brothers in Islam, first and foremost, I advise myself and then all of
you all who are present here, to adopt a life of taqwa. And that is to fear a loss of the hand and
more data and to be conscious of allies during every single second of our lives if we wish to attain
success in this world, as well as the hereafter. maleness behind them would either make us all from
the people of taqwa amin,
		
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			inshallah, Dinah, today's kotoba is going to revolve around love.
		
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			Love is an emotion that we have been created with. We are born with love. This is an emotion This is
a feeling that Allah Subhana Medina has created all of us, human beings with and when we try to
define love, now is actually trying to come up with a definition of holistic definition that could
define love. But then when you read, you see intellectuals trying their level best to define love.
But it's actually
		
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			an impossible task. Because love is a history. Love is something that dominates a person's heart.
		
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			It can even drive a person crazy.
		
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			It can take away the sanity of an individual. Love makes an individual thing, that right is wrong
and wrong is possible is impossible and impossible is possible.
		
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			Love does all of these things to an individual. So now is a mystery yet to be solved. But what does
Islam say about love? So let's look at love in the light of Islam.
		
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			Like I said, Love has Love is something to do with the heart of an individual. So Islam says that as
long as this love is within number one, the guidelines of Sharia. And as long as love is within
certain conditions, it is permissible, but the main condition is that it should be within the
guidelines of Sharia. And the scholars Rahim Allah, they differ over here because love is a feeling
and it's not an action. It's something hidden deep within your hearts. But the minute it manifests
into an action, say something haram outside the framework of marriage outside the framework of Nika,
then of course that's obvious that it is around May Allah subhanho wa Taala protect us all.
		
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			But
		
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			do you think that he said a long while ago SLM had this feeling of love
		
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			and bear in mind that there are many shades of love, there are many shades, you have love a loss of
		
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			love for the profits of the Long Island you
		
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			love for your spouse's love for your children, love for your parents love towards animals, there are
many shades of love, but inshallah we are going to focus a lot on love between two spouses. Do you
see this in the life of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, at times, marry brothers in Islam.
We don't
		
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			Look at the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam from that perspective, or we don't read the life of
the prophets or the Long Island us and learn from that perspective for if we do, I'm sure you and I
and we would all come to a conclusion that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the most
romantic person to ever walk on the face of this. He was the most romantic person.
		
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			When you talk about love stories, and you know, when I was coming to the message, a friend of mine
was telling me even the same time last year, February, close to the 14th of February, I spoke about
the greatest of all love stories, not Romeo and Juliet, the love story between Mohammed Salah Mom,
I'll send them an eyeshadow line.
		
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			Because when we talk about love stories, the first story that comes to our mind is Romeo and Juliet.
But Romeo and Juliet never got married. They never put their love to the test of marriage, because
if they had you never know they might have filed for a divorce.
		
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			They never put it to the test of marriage, but Rasulullah salallahu alayhi wasallam put it and he
showed us that he lived a beautiful life with eyeshot of Yolanda, I shall do online, huh. She used
to address
		
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			the most noble of terms. And she used to only talk good about her husband, sal Allahu Allahu alayhi
wa sallam.
		
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			So this is the greatest of all love stories. And we need to be following the teachings of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, in implementing that lump in our lives.
		
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			There is a famous incident that took place during the time of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam.
And this shows us there are many lessons that can be derived from the incident. But the main lesson
that can be derived is the tolerance of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam, towards love, as long
as it is within the guidelines of Sharia.
		
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			There are two slaves during the time of the Prophet for the long while that is the famous story.
There were two slaves, a male and a female. The names were movie and berry era, movie and barrier to
slaves who lived at the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
		
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			So very era, the female slave for the alarm line. She wanted to work towards her freedom. And that
option was available because her master or her mistress gave her the option, that if she were to
earn a particular sum, or bring about this much amount of money, that will basically earn you your
freedom and you will be free, you can leave. So this lady barilla, she goes to eyeshadow, the alarm
and she tells her about her problem. And eyeshadow, the alarm line helps out by giving her that sum
of money. So Madeira, she goes now to her master of a mistress, and she gives the money thereby
earning her freedom, freedom, independence. So now the minute a slave becomes a free person,
		
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			according to the Sharia. If that slave was married, a woman she has the option of remaining with the
husband because her husband, remember is a slave movie, he was a slave. So she has the option of
remaining with her husband. And Sheree are also accommodates that she can ask for a fella. She can
ask her divorce because now she's free and independent. So she can ask for a divorce.
		
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			she opted for the divorce. So she asks her husband for a divorce, and she separates and now she is a
free woman. She starts to enjoy her independence and her freedom. But then a few days pass by and
then the Sahaba they've done by dilating the domain like given a bus or a basket of the alarm line.
They notice that movie, her husband, the husband of variera is running behind barilla in the streets
with tears flowing down his cheeks and pleading for Barry raw to come back was pleading for burrito
to come back. Please come back. So you know who was observing all of this? Our beloved prophet
muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa ala he was
		
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			so he looked at movie and Berea and then he said look at how amazing that movie loves Berea so much.
Why is buddy era hates movies so much? Movie loves barrier so much. Why is the barrier despise this
movie so much? Eventually movie comes to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and asked him Yeah,
rasulillah Can you please intercede on behalf of me to barilla
		
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			you know what the purpose of alarm while it was intended? He did not say I'm obese. You're doing
something wrong because now
		
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			Amina has given her the divorce, right? So she's a strange woman, this is not something that you
must be doing. No, he what he did was he was trying to make it halaal for movie. And this is what's
important. You need to encourage love if you can make it halal. But if there is no way for you to
make it Hello, then you must stay away from it. Because another question comes about, do we?
		
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			Do we bring in love through choice or by false?
		
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			This term falling in love? Do you fall in love? Do you accidentally fall in love? So these two
scholars have disputed as to whether you have a choice in terms of falling in love? Or are you
forced to fall in love? And the more favorable opinion is that it's a mixture of the two. It's a
mixture of the two, the Asia Yes, you have the choice. It's not like the Hollywood movies. In the
Bollywood movies, the minute you see a girl, everything goes in slow motion, and then stars start
falling down. And then immediately, you know, hearts fly about everywhere. That's not how it works.
It's a choice that you are making. It's a choice that you are making. And then onwards after you
		
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			have fallen in love. Yes, love can even drive you to insanity. Love can make you go crazy, all of
those things. So it's a mixture of the two. But it's very important that you see whether it is
within the guidelines of sherry and number one. In other words, can you make it halaal by perhaps
marrying that individual, if you can't, if you can't make it Hello, then that love has to be
terminated because it is going against the commandments of Allah Subhana Medina, and you cannot
involve in any form of Zina in the process of making in Thailand, you can involve in any form of
Zina. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam agrees, and he said a long while approach is very raw.
		
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			And then He intercedes on behalf of movie. Yeah, but why don't you think about getting back with
movie? Very rarely a long one had an answer as to why for a long while it was lm Yasuda, Ma, are you
commanding me? In other words? Is it a command from you that I get back with him?
		
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			for a long while it was an answer. No, it's not a command. It's just merely me suggesting this
because I feel sorry for movies when I see him like this, because he's so much in love with you. The
narration goes along the lines of these words, but very raw, at the end of the day of the law one
has she says, I don't wish to get back with him. And also Why is that a long while he was let go of
the matter. But there are many lessons that can be derived from this incident that took place during
the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Number one, the primary lesson is that
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was never intolerant of love, as long as it was within the
		
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			guidelines of Sharia. Look at the life of grace, who lives at a long while. He said, I'm gonna ask
for the long line. He embraces Islam after some time. After a few years. He embraces Islam after
everybody is embraced. But after some time, he comes to embrace Islam by the Prophet salallahu
alayhi wasallam. And he was about to pledge allegiance to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
he out stretches his hand to pledge allegiance, but then he takes his hand back then, instead of
long winded will send us I'm gonna be honest with you long line. Yeah. Why are you having second
thoughts? I'm gonna ask for the long line then asks the prophets that along while you send me out of
		
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			sutala I want something assured, I want to know that the minute I embrace Islam, and the minute I
pledge allegiance, that all of my previous sins should be forgiven, because he was even amidst the
army that fought against the Muslim moon. So he wanted an assurance that all of his sins would be
forgiven. But also, why
		
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			are you not aware that Islam is all Islam?
		
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			that Islam, erases and deletes all of the sins that happened before Islam? In other words, the
minute the minute you embrace Islam, that embracing of Islam erases all of your sense of art, well
be it major or minor sins, the minute you embrace Islam, so I'm gonna ask you a shirt, and he
embraces Islam. Now, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was an amazing leader. He was an
amazing leader, and he knew how to identify talents amongst people. And he saw 100 naturally allow
him to be a very strategic thinker. So he immediately put him in charge of a particular expedition
and send him now this was just after he embraced Islam. So I'm gonna ask Allah Allah explained that
		
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			I'm gonna ask how did this notion in his mind that you know I was appointed in charge, there has to
be something between me and the Prophet for a long while and maybe he really likes me. So the minute
he got back, I'm gonna ask for the long line. He goes to the to the lights and a long while he was
telling me he asked for the lights that alarm while he was setting them. Yasuda law, who is the most
beloved of all people until you
		
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			Now that I've given you the context behind the heartbeat, the background of the heartbeat now we
come about to the answer of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam very coolly replied
		
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			to us for the long run. He was not expecting that reply. He wants you to know amongst the many, but
the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam immediately went to Arusha or the Alamo I'm so hungry
when I asked him He said, No, no yasutaka from the men from the men in our region.
		
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			And Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then said, Of hoo, ha, her father replied to the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam relating everything to Ayesha, he could have said that he could have
said my friend Abu Bakr. No, he said her father, once again attributing it to eyeshadow, the last
one, this was not something did something done in in privacy, it was something done in public. He
said a lot while he was under was professing the love that he had for his beloved wife, eyeshadow,
the above line. And likewise, there are many, many instances in the life of the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wasallam, where he said a long while he was telling us to profess his love for his beloved
		
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			wives, and from them, it shall be a long line, we know of the incidents, swiftly running through
them. When I show the last one I used to drink from a cup the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
used to take the cup search for the place where the lips of eyeshadow, the long line our place and
drink from that very same place. When I saw the last one I was eating meat, the prophets of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would take the piece of meat search for the place where I shall
be a long one had placed her mouth and eat from the very same place. Look at the teachings of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam This is pure love My dear respected elders and brothers in
		
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			Islam. This is the love that needs to be encouraged and inculcated into our lives into our marital
lives within the the guidelines of Sharia as the closing note, so what about celebrating love? What
about celebrating love? Tomorrow, the 14th of February worldwide, all over the world. Love is
celebrated under the slogan Valentine's Day. This What does Islam have to say about this My dear
respected elders and brothers in Islam is formed is from the Roman cultures and that to the pagan ik
Roman cultures, and this in no way is encouraging love or the type of love that we were talking
about all this while instead it encourages love, especially love outside the framework of a halal
		
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			marriage outside the framework of a halal marriage. And at times, even spouses who love one another
so much just because perhaps the husband forgot to wish her on Valentine's Day or get her a rose or
a box of chocolates, they start fighting and at times marriages have ended up on the rocks because
of that.
		
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			So it is a Roman pagan culture that Islam does not encourage at all. Rather we Muslims we believers,
we celebrate love on a daily basis and not once a year. We celebrate it with our spouses in a halal
way on a daily basis by proving our love to them, and not just once a year where we buy a rose or a
box of chocolates. So please refrain from celebrating these celebrations that have come from pagan
cultures rather adopt the teachings of our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam if
you wish to be successful in this world as well as the hereafter. mela Isaiah journal opened the
doors of goodness for all of us when we forgive our sins many accept our good deeds. And just as how
		
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			the United States here this Friday afternoon, many Unitas in the gardens of Genoa with our beloved
prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa aalihi wa sallam, I mean come to the land
		

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