Muiz Bukhary – Day 15 – Ramadan 2014 – Birrul Waalideyn – Being Good To Parents

Muiz Bukhary

Day 15 – Heart Softeners – with Sheikh Muiz Bukhary – ‘Birrul Waalideyn – Being good to parents’ at Masjidul Hasan, Lower Bagatalle road, Colombo, Sri Lanka- Ramadan 2014/1435H

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The history and context of Islam are discussed, including the use of " amen" in the message and the importance of " amen" in the message. The transcript describes a scene where Allahu carrier Houma Jana had to lower the wings of submission and hesitated to say she was too old. The conversation also touches on the importance of the day of the AMA and the importance of treating parents with excellence. The segment ends with a statement of gratitude for all Muslims and a statement of gratitude for all of them.

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			Bismillah Ar Rahman AR Rahim
		
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			many respected elders brothers and sisters and the viewers of the daily reminder network sir Mr
Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen boeser li rosselli mohalla
ashrafi lamea evil mursaleen Nabina. Habib in our karate Aruna Mohammed Abdullah Allahu Allah, He
will be he have done with this theme.
		
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			We always begin by praising Allah subhana wa Medina with our Creator, sustain and nourish, protect
and cure. We ask Allah subhana wa Medina to share his choices of blessings and salutations upon our
beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his family members, his companions and all
those who tread upon his path with utmost sincerity until the day of Diana inshallah tada for
tonight's hearts offner. We will be touching on bedroll one a day. In other words, be good to the
parents being good to the parents.
		
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			Because my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam, our parents are from the greatest bounties
and favors that alas behind them who Adela has conferred upon us Allahu Akbar. They are massive dose
to Jenna Allahu Akbar. They are massive entry pathways for us to gain entry into Jenna. But sadly,
many of us many of us including myself, allama Rahim, Allah have lost the value of our parents,
Allahu Akbar, I tell you all one law, he will law he By Allah, the ones who have lost their parents,
the ones who have lost their parents, if they could go to the graves of their parents, and if they
could bring their parents back to life, they would, they would, and they would beg for the
		
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			forgiveness of their parents Allahu Akbar, then we the ones who have our parents with us, we should
consider ourselves lucky and let us not waste time say we are in a different country perhaps we are
abroad and our parents are in another country. That does not waste time. Let us not think Okay, the
next time I go on vacation, let me go patch up things Don't. Don't. Don't waste time. Try and patch
up things if things have gone sour with your parents try and patch up things ASAP. make a phone call
and patch up things because none of us can guarantee for how long? We are our parents may remain
above October. My dear respected elders brothers and sisters in Islam. There is a hadith known as
		
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			the hubby for three Amin's the Hadith is recorded in such a footer *. It has been classified by
mominul Bonnie rahima hula.
		
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			The narration goes along the lines of these words at once. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
he climbed the pulpit the member and for each step he climbed. He said amin, amin, amin, Allahu
Akbar. So when he got down the Sahaba is one way to Allah and mine were very observant and what
observed this they went up to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Yasser Allah. Why did you say
amin thrice Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then explains jabril alayhi salatu wa sallam, he
came down and for each step I climbed, he made a da. And I said amen to that. And before I mentioned
that there is my dear brothers and sisters in Islam. You need to understand that this is gibril
		
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			archangel gabriel who is making the dua and it is our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam stealing all off the diabetes, amin Allahu Akbar, can there be any doubt that these doors may
not be answered by Allah subhanho wa Taala.
		
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			The first Jabra salatu salam made is that let destruction be upon the person who attained the month
of Ramadan and let it slip by without attaining the forgiveness of Allah Subhana Allah Allahu Akbar,
may Allah the Almighty Allah blessed us with diabetes forgiveness in this blessed month of Ramadan,
I mean, to which Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, I mean, the second
		
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			let destruction be upon the one in whose life his parents, either both of his parents or one of his
parents attains old age and due to his failure in service towards his parents, he is blocked from
entering gender Allahu Akbar, let destruction be upon that one upon that individual to which
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says, I mean,
		
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			the final is that let destruction be upon the one who hears your name Yasser Allah and fails to make
Sarawak upon you. Please remember Salawat whenever I mentioned the beautiful name of our beloved
prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, which Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said amen
to that.
		
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			So my dear brothers and sisters in Islam, it is upon us to value our parents Allahu Akbar, Allah
subhana wa tada he states in the noble Koran
		
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			Kayla Houma Bella.
		
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			Welcome
		
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			Jenna has done me meaner. Oh, man walco
		
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			he saw the
		
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			photo buka Allah taboo. Illa Allah behind them for Dinah your Lord has decreed that you worship none
other than him. wabi
		
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			Sana and that you should treat your parents with excellence of of bobbin Valley Danny aksana Mia
Bella Wanda in the Cal Kibera, Houma Oklahoma, and if they reach or attain old age if they both are
one of them, fella
		
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			do not say unto them, Allahu Akbar, scholars of the past he mentioned that if there was a word
		
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			lesser in this respect than of Allah subhanho wa Taala would have mentioned that word falletta hula
hula off. Do not say off perhaps your parents, your mom or your dad wants you to do something. Don't
say or don't just neglect what they have to say Allahu Akbar Raja hula hula Colin karema addressed
them with honorable terms. Allah Akbar addressed them with honorable terms. What fibula Houma Jana
had to limina Rama and lower the wings of submission and humility unto them. Walker Rob bear have
Huma Kamara by an ISA hero and pray for them that he Allah bless both of them just as how they
brought me up when I was small, Allahu Akbar. scholars of the first scene such as the mount Mujahid
		
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			Rahim Allah they mentioned that when your parents attain old age, and when they lose control of
their bladders, perhaps and when they start urinating on themselves when they start defecating on
themselves, do not say oath and do not look at them with disgust. Allahu Akbar scheffel Islam Ibn
taymiyyah Rahim Allah He states that if an individual makes his mother or father cry, if tears flow
because of him, it is upon him to make them laugh. make them smile, just as how he made them cry,
Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, may Allah Subhana Allah forgive our sins.
		
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			Books of history mentioned that once a man goes to overload your loved one, a man goes to the alarm
line. And he asks even or the alarm line up now.
		
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			I have a mother. I have a mother who is very old. She's so frail and so old, that every single day,
I have to carry her because she's so old. I have to carry her and take her out to the plains
somewhere a deserted area where she can relieve herself. I carry her every single day. I wait until
she relieves herself. And then I turn my face away out of respect for her. I clean her after she has
relieved herself. And then I carry her once again and bring her back home. And then he asks even
though the last one, you have an aroma. Have I fulfilled my heart towards my mother? Have I
fulfilled my right towards my mother, even Amaro the long line who states no you have not even
		
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			fulfilled you're right towards your mother. For even one contraction of pain. She went through in
her pregnancy with you. Not even for one single contraction. And then he goes on to say but what
you're doing is extremely good. persist in what you're doing. Why I said this was because now what
you are doing for your mother. You are doing it hoping that she should expire soon. You are hoping
that she should expire soon because she
		
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			is a burden for you. On the other hand, your mother did the very same thing for you when you were
small, praying and hoping that you should live a long, fruitful life.
		
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			This is the difference. You are doing it hoping that she should expire. But she did the same things
are perhaps low for you hoping and praying that you should live a long and fruitful life. Allahu
Akbar, may Allah subhana wa tada bless our parents, and may the almighty forgive them And grant them
the highest stations in general. I mean,
		
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			in regard to a particular individual, he is known as a Tabby. He is not as a hobby, but he lived
during the time of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam his name was always and Cora and he who is
alpha Ronnie, I'm not going to go into the depth of the story, but I'll just highlight that it was
he could not meet Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because he was busy in the service of his
mother, his mother, who was a blind old lady during the time when Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam was alive. He couldn't go and meet Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was from Yemen.
But Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam spoke highly about him and also informed the Sahaba
		
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			marine if you ever meet this individual, he gave a description about ways Allah corny if you meet
him, ask him to seek forgiveness for you because his two eyes will be answered a lot more. But the
only reason many brothers and sisters in Islam because of his unwavering service to his beloved
mother, his beloved blind mother, he did not leave her side even to meet Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wasallam and because of that beautiful service, lost behind them what Allah gave him such a
high rank and status. Many brothers and sisters in Islam. The opposite of bureau validation that is
being good to the parents is ruku valida in Allah Akbar, and that is disrespecting your parents. Let
		
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			us not become an evil sign of the day of the AMA, because it is mentioned in a very famous Hadith
known as hadith of gibreel, a very famous Hadith. This Hadith has been recorded in Bukhari Muslim,
the Muslim, the famous man, the book of Imam to marry and even imagine, and many other books such a
famous ideal, a long, beautiful Hadith where the narration goes along the lines of these words that
a man once went to the supervisor
		
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			sat by Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he thought I
		
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			was ready
		
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			to suffer. Well, I mean, I had utter jealousy in an abusive alcoholic reseller. A man wearing
sparkling white clothes, having jet black hair, no signs of journey, no signs of fatigue. He goes
and sits by Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and says, Yeah, Mohamed sort of off while he was
selling Bernie on Islam Tell me about Islam as a supervisor a long while he teaches in Islam. Yeah,
Mohammed, bin Leon Eman O Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Tell me about EMA and those who don't
you said a long while he was in them taught him the six articles of faith. Yeah, Muhammad.
		
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			Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told me about his son and also the voice of the Lord while he
was send them taught him about a son. And then he asks yasunaga Mohamed
		
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			Tell me about the final Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had identified the individual as
jabril alayhi salat wa salam. It was gibreel alayhi salatu was Salam who had come in the guise of a
human being to teach the Sahaba and to teach the owner of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam the
deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala so sort of why is that? Beautiful? The answers to that question
malama Sulu unhappy and the minister is the one who is being questioned, knows no better than the
questioner. In other words, you and I, we are on the same rank in regard to knowledge of the day of
the AMA, because Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam does not have knowledge of the unseen except
		
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			for that which are lost behind them who died at towards those who lies and along while he will sell
them. No one knows when the day of the AMA will take place. So he clarifies that to jabril.
		
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			And then to bring it in, so that was Ramsay's for affability. I
		
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			shouldn't tell me about the signs of the day of the AMA. So one of those times when the brothers and
sisters in Islam, the Fulani said a long while a Muslim states in the same ad, Anthony del Amato,
Rob betta wafi rewired in
		
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			the direct translation for that statement is that a slave girl will give birth to him to her master
or in another narration to her mistress, the direct translation, a slave girl will give birth to him
to her master or to her mistress. Now scholars have different opinions in regard to it, but the best
explanation
		
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			According to my opinion is the explanation of Imam even harder. Alas Kalani Rahim Allah, Who states
that that statement of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam indicates that two words the latter
stages, two words the times where the day of Tiana will be close, tables will turn a lot of tables
will turn, everything will start occurring topsy turvy, and children will start treating their
parents like slaves.
		
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			They will start ordering and commanding their parents like slaves Allahu Akbar, they will not listen
to their parents. They for example, a man will listen to his wife and obey his mother. He will put
down his mother and listen to his wife. A man will listen to his friends and dishonor his father
Allahu Akbar, all signs of the day of the AMA My dear brothers and sisters in Islam, let us not
become from the evil science of the day of the AMA. May Allah Subhana Allah save us all, because
love our parents and let us treat our parents with excellence upon excellence. May Allah behind them
worthy Allah, forgive all of our sins, and may hear the almighty forgive the sins of our parents.
		
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			And may He bless our parents, and may He bless our parents with high stations in Jenna, and May He
grant us the opportunity to treat our parents with excellence upon excellence and many of your
mighty except our good deeds may alleviate the sufferings the Muslim Ummah is going through,
especially the Muslims in Gaza. And may he be Almighty unite all of us just as how he united us here
tonight with our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I mean what after that Allah
and hamdulillahi Rabbil alameen de como la Hey,