Muiz Bukhary – Day 11 – Ramadan 2014 – Ghadab – Anger

Muiz Bukhary

Day 11 – Heart Softeners – with Sheikh Muiz Bukhary – ‘Ghadab – Anger’ at Masjidul Hasan, Lower Bagatalle road, Colombo, Sri Lanka- Ramadan 2014/1435H

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The negative impact of anger on personal and professional relationships is discussed, including negative reactions to social media posts and family relationships. The speakers emphasize the importance of control and monitoring anger to avoid negative consequences. Two types of anger, either positive or negative, are identified, and the importance of keeping under control to avoid becoming "angry." The conflict between Al Yankara and the Kufa army escalates, leading to war of choices where the winner wins and the others lose. The conflict escalates and is instructed to unite people into a peaceful future.

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			Bismillah Ar Rahman AR Rahim
		
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			al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen. Also Li Boselli Marla ashrafi Gambia evil mousseline Nabina Wahhabi
vena cava karate ru Nina Mohammed bin Abdullah Allahu ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salatu wa automata
slim down by the respected elders brothers and sisters and the weavers of the daily reminder network
Sarah mwah aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
		
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			All praise and thanks to Almighty Allah subhana wa tada who is our Creator sustainer nourish,
protect and cure, we ask Allah subhana wa Taala to Chava his choices of blessings and salutations
upon our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his family members, his companions
and all those who tread upon his path with utmost sincerity until the day of the AMA, may Allah
Subhana Allah bless this gathering, and may He the almighty bless each and every one of us, and may
He open the doors of goodness for all of us mean,
		
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			inshallah for tonight's hot softner we will be touching on Alibaba. We will be touching on anger.
		
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			Anger is pretty much a natural feeling that I'm sure most of us have felt at some point or the other
in our lives. It is a natural feeling and healthy feeling, as long as it is kept under control, as
long as it is as it is kept under control. For if it for if an individual were to lose control of
anger, then that would result in devastating destruction in his own personal life, perhaps in his
marriage, in his marital life, perhaps at home, in his family life, in business amongst his friends,
his friendships. So much of disaster can result in an individual's life, if he will not to keep
anger under control. And that is why we see once a man goes to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam, the narration is in Bukhari, and he asks Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Yasser
Allah, advise me rasulillah
		
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			the only piece of advice that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam instructed him was the law of
God, do not become angry or do not get angry Allahu Akbar, to which he replies to which he repeats.
Again, Yasser Allah advised me for de Moura, he repeats it so many times. yaroslava advised me and
each time he said, advise me Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, For Karla law, do not
become angry, do not let anger overpower you, Allahu Akbar, so many times and this was the same
thing that came from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Another instance, another generation
where a man goes to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and asks him yaroslava point out to me a
		
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			deed that will lead me into gender the narration goes along the lines of these words, point out a
deed that will lead me towards gender Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam very beautiful estates,
a lot of work along the lines of these words, a lot of work Wallach heljan, Allah Akbar, do not
become angry control your anger and gender is for you.
		
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			Because a lot of harm comes about if an individual's heart becomes enveloped with anger, and there
is the root cause for jealousy for envy, for hatred, for evil eye, and all these things Allahu
Akbar, because the minute a person's heart is enveloped in anger, he becomes blind, he becomes blind
and that heart begins to harden. May Allah subhanahu wa taala save us all from that quality. In
other words, may Allah the Almighty help us to keep that quality in control. Now anger is of two
types. Anger is of two types. One is known as Alibaba will match mood, and Alibaba will melt boom,
we have two types of anger. The first type is Alibaba mood, and that type of an anger is a
		
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			praiseworthy type of anger, a praiseworthy type of anger and anger that is encouraged and that anger
is when an individual becomes angry when the limits of Allah subhanho wa Taala are transgressed the
minute the limits of Allah behind them what Allah transgress we need to become angry. Perhaps the
the order of Islam is violated, we need to become angry. The honor of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam is violated we need to become angry. This anger is a praiseworthy type of anger. This
anger is an anger that has been encouraged. The other type of anger is known as the boom it is a
blame worthy type of anger. And that anger is for personal gains perhaps or because an individual
		
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			wants his opinion to reign over others opinion.
		
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			Anger is an anger which is a very selfish type of an anger and that anger is blameworthy, and that
anger is not encouraged at all. And that is the anger that we need to keep in check. And we need to
keep under control. Let me share with y'all
		
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			a story, a very famous story that adorns the books of history to illustrate or to explain these two
types of anger. This is one of the most famous of jewels of duels that took place in the annals of
history. And this was a duel between alley you know, the long line and the giant of Arabia. He was
known as the giant of Arabia. His name was
		
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			his name was an even though it was in the Battle of hundreds. It wasn't the Battle of the trenches.
It wasn't the Battle of the trenches, the Muslim army had dug trenches around the front area of
Medina guarding it, and then the Muslim Muslim army had proceeded forward and the kuffaar had also
approached and now before the battle began, very fiercely there were a few skirmishes that took
place a few duels that took place before the the battle itself, and from these duels, one of them
was between Aliza de la one and ambrym nabbed with American activists was known as the giant of
Arabia. He was a colossal figure, if he were to sit on top of a horse, it would be as if he was a
		
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			giant, towering giant. And even when he was off his horse, he was a giant that no one could reach
out to everyone had to look up to him. He was such a colossal figure, I'm ripping up the wood.
		
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			So he was of the Kufa army, and both armies now met, and then I'm ripping up the wood cries out. I
am the giant of Arabia. I am invincible. You know about my power, you know about my strength. I call
forward, the man who has courage to meet me. Now there were many fables and many tales about America
of the woods, that he had the strength of 500 horsemen, that he used to carry a cow and use the cow
as a shield. You know, Arab imagination brought about so many tales that literally made him
invincible amongst in front of the eyes of people. So the minute he comes out and cries for a
challenge, everyone, there was a pin drop silence. Everyone was looking towards Rasulullah
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, because he wants someone to come from the Muslim army. And now he
starts when he is when he when he recognized the fear that they had, he started taunting them. He
started taunting them and saying, Oh, so you're all of you are women. There is no one to come
forward and meet me. Now I do the long line who could not bear this. He goes to the suit of ice and
Allahu Allahu wa sallam. Yasuda law permit me to go meet him in a duel Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam very quietly says, I Li go and sit down. This is this is not a normal person this is
undergoing Sit down. And the last one was a youngster a young boy at that time. So earlier the
		
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			Allahu anhu goes and sits down. He goes on tante and now he starts to mock Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, he started taunting Islam. He started taunting the Muslims, Elisa de la who could
not take it for a second time. He goes Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Yasser Allah permit me
to go meet him in a duel. Again Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam instructed earlier the above
one, come down, go and sit down. Now the third time he cries out and now he's insulting and now
because he thinks there is no one he even says to call Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a
coward. I needed a loved one who gets up for the third time he goes to the pseudo line. He said the
		
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			last line he would send them and this time Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam saw the glint in
the eye of the last one. And he knew there is no stopping it anymore. He removed his turban Allahu
Akbar, he dyed his turban upon
		
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			his head, and he gave him his own sward of October, and my dear respected elders, brothers and
sisters in Islam. That's what became a famous war that was recorded in the annals of history. And
that's what has a name do that's what is known as Zulfiqar, this was this word of Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wasallam that he gave it to the loved one
		
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			who now takes this award and goes and meets ambit even as they meet face to face to the long line.
He says, Yeah, I know you are a man. When given two choices, you will accept one of the two choices.
So I give you so he asked, okay, what are your two proposals? One, you embrace Islam, and I leave
you number two, you challenge me I will fight you. To which he says now because the longer it was
his relative to so
		
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			He says, oh, the son of my brother. In other words, nephew fine nephew of his, I don't wish to
fight, you know, the Allahu anhu says you may not wish to fight me, but you have come to fight the
Muslims and I want to fight you.
		
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			And then what happens that enrages the giant, he jumps off his horse, and they both collide in a
duel, a duel, which was very fierce and very strong, but the other one who defends himself, and the
duel progresses in such a way that finally, the last one who keeps the sward on the ground, and
tackles the giant and wrestles him to the ground.
		
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			Now the minute he was wrestled to the ground, the giant he was thinking this is a youngster. an
upstart was put me down, I'll just throw him and get back onto my feet. But I'll do the last one who
had him in a grip of steel. He tried to get up but he could not break the grip of alira the last
one, he was amazed this youngster, how can he be so strong? His muscles weren't steel. That was the
description of it, though. The last one, he immediately flicked out his dagger, and it'll be a long
one. And he places it at the chin of the giant, and he says embrace Islam. Now the giant, he was
known as the giant or the warrior of Arabia, he did not want to die a death, you know, which was a
		
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			cowardly death. So he said, I'm ready to face that. I'm never going to embrace Islam. And then he
collects as much as spittle in his mouth, and he spits it out to your loved one. And now, the minute
he did that, he thought
		
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			he's about to slash my throat because I have angered him even further. So he was ready for that and
he puts his chest forward. But then suddenly, something amazing happens. And you know, the long line
who gets up, wipes his face and moves away and looks at him very solemnly. The giant says, aren't
you going to kill me? Then I'll do the law, one who clarifies all the while I was fighting with you
for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala, because I was angered that you violated the honor of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the owner of Islam, but now that you spat on my face, it
becomes a personal vengeance. It is an anger, a person that anger and I don't wish to fight you over
		
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			a personal anger between us and he moves away. He turns and he walks back. The giant seizes the
opportunity, he runs that alley rhodiola one who trying to hit him from behind, and you know, the
other one who enlightening reflects reflexes, he jumps for his shield, and then shields himself from
that blow and all that the Muslim army and the army did. The only thing they saw was the sunlight
glistening on the sward of Zulfiqar, and suddenly, the Giants head was rolling on the ground, Allahu
Akbar, there was a blood spurting, the body swayed from one corner to the other, and then the body
came crashing to the ground. Allahu Akbar. And the scholars of history mentioned my dear respected
		
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			elders, brothers and sisters in Islam, that the valley should not because of the body crashing not
because of the body of the giant crashing because of the Allahu Akbar of 2000 Muslim throats Allahu
Akbar, Allah.
		
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			This story mighty respected elders, brothers and sisters in Islam highlights the difference between
personal anger and anger for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So let us control our anger. Let
us not let anger control us and become a devastating fire that burns every single thing around us.
Let us keep their quality because after all, anger is from the devil. As Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam is reported to have said shaitan is made of fire the narration goes around the
lines of these words and anger is from the devil. So if you ever feel anger, or if you ever feel
angry, go immediately and make VUDU go and make ablution because water just as how water
		
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			extinguishes fire, water will cool down your anger. So keep your anger at check and control your
anger for this is one of the advisors Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gave us that would take
you an entry into Jenna and would also secure a peaceful life for us in this world as well as the
hereafter. May Allah the Almighty forgive all of our sins, and May he accept our good deeds May the
almighty help us to keep our anger in check may help us to control our anger and main unite us in
the gardens of gender justice. How united us here tonight with our beloved prophet muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			come to the
		
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			desert from Ohio.