Muhammad Vanker – 2020-12-04 – Jummah at Masjidul Quds

Muhammad Vanker
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The importance of moral support and gratitude in life is emphasized, along with the need for everyone to show their love and not allow anyone to steal their words or ideas. The speaker emphasizes the importance of treating and cure sick individuals and respecting others. The speaker also provides a recap of actions from Bu'hab's actions and talks about the importance of showing support to a husband and being a positive person.
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Respected honored scholars, ulama, elders, beloved brothers, mothers,

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and sisters,

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we are often faced with a situation

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where a near or dear one friend or

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relative is struck with some tragedy.

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Sometimes

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physical, sometimes

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financial,

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sometimes

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he loses a beloved one.

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As a Muslim,

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what is our moral obligation

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to our fellow Muslims?

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When we find them in such a situation,

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how do we morally support them? How do

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we aid them? How do we console them?

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What are the guidelines that Islam has provided

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for us in such a situation?

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My brothers, we are universal

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ummah and we share the challenges

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of each and every person on this earth.

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The rabbi of Allah sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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advises us in this regard the first thing.

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What did he say?

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What an amazing piece of advice

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that never dare to rejoice on the tragedy

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of your brother.

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What is the advice of the Nabi of

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Allah?

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Never dare to rejoice on the tragedy of

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your brother.

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Very soon

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Allah will create an opening for him

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and grant him refuge from that crisis,

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wayabat

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talik

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and Allah will inflict a similar if not

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a greater crisis on you. What an amazing

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piece of advice.

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My brothers,

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you and I we live in such a

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time

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that there are many a people

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who morally they may support you, they may

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give you that moral support,

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but Allah forbid

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in their hearts they rejoice over your tragedy.

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I think we can go one step forward

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that many of them desire your tragedy,

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and here again this ties up with the

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prophecy of the Nabi of Allah sallallahu alaihi

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wasallam

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when he mentioned 1400 years ago

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that yaqunu

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fee akhiris samani aqwamun,

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that prior to qiyama,

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certain people will make their presence on this

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earth.

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Who will express

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brotherhood

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externally

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but there would be enemies from within. You

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know like they say in English?

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That I love the one

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who openly hates me, but I hate the

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one who pretends to love me.

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I love the man who openly hates me.

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You don't like the man? Tell the man

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on his face,

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But don't pretend you smile in front of

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him. Behind his back you stab him. What

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good days they knew? So what did the

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Nabiya Fala say? That close to qayama,

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certain nations will make their presence on this

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earth, will express brotherhood externally,

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but internally there would be enemies.

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Once you and I discuss

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the deviation of the pagan Arabs

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prior to the advent of Islam,

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and each one of us would concur and

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agree

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that the Arab man was sinking in his

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deviation,

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but even at that time

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the Arab man possessed

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certain qualities

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that I swear by the almighty Allah, even

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the modern day world

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cannot match certain qualities that were found in

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the pagan Arabs prior to Islam.

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And who knows, perhaps it was an acknowledgement

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to those qualities

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that Allah Ta'ala says,

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By these qualities Allah favored the entire Arab

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world.

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Arabic has become beloved, it has become the

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language of Quran.

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There was one Sahabi

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by the name of Al Kama bin Harith.

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He comes to the Nabi of Allah sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam and he describes to the Nabi

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of Allah

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those qualities

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that were found in the pagan arabs

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prior to Islam. When Nabi alaihis salam heard

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this, he was totally impressed.

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What did he say? Very quickly I will

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run you through this. He said the first

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quality that was found in the pagan arab

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prior to the advent of Islam was,

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ashukroindarraha,

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gratefulness

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on moments of prosperity.

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Not pride, not arrogance,

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but gratefulness

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on moments of prosperity.

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We look at the practice of aqiqah, when

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a child is born, you slaughter their animal.

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When we study the history of aqiqah,

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this goes back to the ancestry of the

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Nabi of Allah. It comes down from the

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very beginning,

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on the birth of the Nabi of Allah

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, his grandfather Abdul Muttalib

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brought this little child to the Kaaba,

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announced his birth, namely Muhammad,

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as a token of appreciation,

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he slaughtered those animals.

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Of course the rabi of Allah then came,

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you know he taught us the the dua,

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showed us the benefits,

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Of course the Nabiya Fallah showed us the

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benefits. What I'm trying to show you my

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brothers,

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the Arab man even in those dark days,

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gratefulness

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on moments of prosperity.

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Number 2,

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patience on moments of of difficulties.

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Whatever difficulty

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comes your way to persevere, to endure.

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Number 3,

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When you give a man your word,

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honor your word.

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Allah forbid, today no man honors his word.

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What did the Nabiya of Allah say?

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You're promised a man, it's a verbal contract.

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Honor your word.

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Number 3, wasidukofimawatinillekah.

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You give a man your word, honor your

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word.

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And number 4,

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happiness

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on the bitter choices of faith.

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Happiness

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on the bitter decisions of fate.

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What stern words?

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Allah's doubi quoting the words of Allah, that

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that person

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will not enjoy the difficulties

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that will come in his life. That person

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will be not will not be content

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and satisfied

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on the divine distribution of Allah.

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Tell him to look for another Allah other

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than I.

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Tell him to search and look for another

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Allah other than I, because he considers me

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incapable of being Allah.

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My brothers in this world you will be

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tested with the COVID 19. Each and every

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one of us, we know of some person

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or the other who had contracted the virus.

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Many had passed on. May Allah shower his

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mercy

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upon the graves, those who are suffering. My

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brothers, you and I are sitting in a

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masjid. This is a boon and a favor

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from the side of Allah. Make shukar to

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the almighty Allah.

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I swear by the almighty Allah, you can

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put your head on the ground from too

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late till the day you leave this world.

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You cannot thank Allah enough. I've spoken to

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many of those who had contracted the virus.

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What did they say?

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Death

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stood at me in, you know, I had

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seen death standing in front of me.

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The time was not up.

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My brothers, this is the reality.

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Allah has given us, be patient. You will

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be tested in this world.

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You know, many a times you would find

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a person gets up in the morning, the

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man goes to the gym, he can do

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a 100 push ups, 100 sit ups. Perhaps

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you tell me, one push up, I'm pulsating,

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breathing heavy, and the man gets up, he

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has a heart attack, he's dead and gone.

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That's the reality.

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My brothers, these are challenges.

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I think there's something that has dawned upon

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each and every one of us,

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that the angel of death is constantly

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knocking on my door and your door. Nonetheless,

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the rabbi of Allah, when he heard these

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qualities from Al Qamab bin Harith,

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what did he say?

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Fuqaha

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udaba

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qadu ayyakunuambiya.

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These are the qualities

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of the ambiya.

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These are the jurist of my ummah. Whatever

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difficulty

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comes your way, persevere.

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Acknowledge

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the good. Many a times you speak to

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people how things are, things are bad.

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My brothers, we constantly

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complain.

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Where last have you turned to the almighty

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Allah, Allahumma'alaqalhamdulualakashook.

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Perhaps the most ideal of,

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incident and narrative recorded in Quran.

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The time of Jumuah is limited. Very quickly

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I will run you through this. Allah Talas

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speaks about Ayub alaihis salam. My brothers, I

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beg for your undivided attention. Allah Talas speaks

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about Ayub alaihis salam in 4 different surahs

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in Quran.

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Sura Nisa, Sura Anbiya, Sura Anam

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and Sura Saad.

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Ayyub alaihis salaam

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enjoyed every privilege that you can think about,

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whether it was wealth, affluence, children,

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farms, orchards, whatever it was. According to the

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rewrite of Qurtubi, on the strength of Abdullah

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ibn Mas'ud,

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Allah blessed him with 14 children.

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My brothers, we need to understand,

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Allah is in total control.

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Allah can turn the situation

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of any man at any time.

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Ayub alaihis salam, Allah blessed him. Then comes

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the test of Allah upon Ayub alaihis salam.

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To what extent?

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You know many a times

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people will say, Mawlana Shaykh, I'm going through

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this challenge, I don't think any person

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is experiencing what I am going through. My

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brothers,

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I open up before you this incident. Ayub

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alaihis salam, Allah ta'ala decided to test him.

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Allah is in total control.

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Allah can turn the situation of any man

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at any time.

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All his farms started burning out.

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He lost his farms, he lost his orchards,

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he lost everything.

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The roof of his house caved in, opened

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The roof of his house caved in, causing

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all the occupants of his house

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that included his 14 children to die instantly.

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My brothers,

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I can hear it, you can listen to

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me.

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1 man loses 1 child. He would never

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forget about the child for the rest of

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his life.

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At one go he loses 14 children.

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That's not all. He then develops ulcers on

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his entire body.

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Only his tongue and his heart

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was protected

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from that particular sickness that he had developed,

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and the person who was a pillar of

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support to him was his honorable wife and

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her name was Rahma, and she was literally

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a mercy

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unto her husband.

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With with reference to the patience of Ayub

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alaihis salaam. It is written, scholars have written

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it was so great

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that when Allah had taken away all these

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privileges,

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he was kicked out of society,

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living in the outskirts of the town. He

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turns to the almighty Allah, and he said,

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oh my Allah,

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I am totally

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grateful

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to you

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for this condition that you have brought into

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my life that you have removed those things

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that potentially

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could alter my relationship with you. SubhanAllah.

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My children, my farms, my orchids,

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These things potentially

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could alter my relation with you. Oh Allah,

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you have taken it away from me. Now

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you and I enjoy this closeness.

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SubhanAllah.

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So with, with reference to the Muslade Ahmed,

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in Kitab al Zohad it is written,

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you know my brothers I always say

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that we often sympathize

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with the person who is sick, but we

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forget to sympathize

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with those living with the sick person.

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Many a times

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those living with a sick person

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go through more difficulty

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than the sick person themself.

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What did the nabi of allahu alaihi wasallam

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teach us? The hadith say, you know amazing

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narration.

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You know my brothers, we are living in

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such a time.

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If you and I can only take out

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time

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and pick up the phone, you heard somebody

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met up in an accident,

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somebody contracted some virus, some sickness,

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pick up the phone. My brother, I heard

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you're not well. I heard your family is

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not well. I cannot come to the clinic,

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to the hospital, but I'm making dua for

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you. I'm making dua for you. What is

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the reward of that? Nabi alaihis salam said,

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manaza

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Hazinan,

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whoever will console

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a person

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who is distressed.

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Allah will make him wear the garment of

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piety.

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And Allah will shower

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his choiciest

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blessings on that soul.

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Whoever will console

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a person

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in any problem, in any difficulty,

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Allah will make him wear 2 garments of

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Jannah, which in in value will be more

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valuable than the entire heavens and the earth.

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What did the Nabi of Allah say? What

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an amazing deen we enjoy,

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where every aspect of our deen has been

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discussed.

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What did the Nabiya Fala teach us? When

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you go and visit a sick person,

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how do you morally support the person? What

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did he say?

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When you go and visit a sick person,

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morally encourage him. You know, you go to

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a a person, what's the problem? Now the

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wife has got stage 4 cancer.

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My brother stage 4 cancer. My father had

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the same sickness. It's a matter of time.

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You're gonna kill the man's wife before her

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time.

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What did the rabbi of Allah say? Give

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people hope in life. When you go and

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visit a sick person, the words of my

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Nabi, nafisoulahufi

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ajali. Give the person some hope that my

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brother you will recover.

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It's not the end of the road. You

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will survive. It's a matter of time. I'll

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see you in the masjid. I'll see you

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at home. What did the Nabi of Allah

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say? You morally support a person like that.

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That man is is in that hospital and

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that clinic with that illness and that sickness

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because you had morally supported him.

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Allah will give you the same reward

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that that person is getting in his illness

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and his sickness.

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Allah will give you the same reward. What

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a all encompassing deen we enjoy,

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where every aspect of our deen has been

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discussed. Coming back to this narrative,

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so Ayubar es salaam,

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his wife,

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you know, she comes to him and I

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often say, like I mentioned earlier on, we

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sympathize with those that are sick, but we

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forget to sympathize with those that are living

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with sick people.

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So the sickness started taking a toll on

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her. So she comes to Ayub alaihis salam

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and she says, Ayub, don't you think it

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is high time to ask Allah to substitute

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the sickness with good health?

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Ayub alaihis salam gets up, a Nabi of

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Allah

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is conscious of Allah in the midst of

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prosperity and in the heart of sickness. He

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gets up in that condition.

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How many years of prosperity? 80 years. How

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many years of difficulty?

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8, 7 years. Ask a man who can't

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sleep for 1 night.

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7 years consecutively.

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Ayyub alaihis salam looks at his wife and

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he said, ama astaghih

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anatluba minallahi raaf abala'i

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wamaqadaytufhee

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mudatarafai.

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When I enjoy the divine privileges of my

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Allah for 80 years and my Allah has

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only tested me for 7 years,

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patiently I will bear, I will endure

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the day Allah decides my cure well and

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good.

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That was the level of suffering, Ayub alaihis

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salam. You know one day,

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shaitan comes to the wife of Ayub alaihis

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salam in a disguised form and says, you

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know what? Your husband is suffering. He's sick.

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I can treat your husband. I can cure

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him, but there's only one thing I want

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from you. After I've treated and cured your

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husband, I want you to praise me

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and acknowledge

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that I have treated and cured your husband.

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The desperation

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of the wife of Ayub alaihis salam knew

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no bounds.

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She said I'll meet with my husband, I'll

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revert to you. She comes to Ayub alaihis

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salam. I met with the doctor, he claims

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to say he can treat you, but there's

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only one thing he wants from me. After

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he has treated and cured you, he wants

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me to praise him and acknowledge

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the fact that he has treated you. Ayyub

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alaihis salam gets up in that condition. He

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looks at his wife, he said, oh my

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wife,

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don't you know that is the statement of

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shirk?

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How can you attribute the quality of cure

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to someone other than the Almighty Allah? He

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said, if Allah cures me, I'm gonna lash

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you a 100 times.

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I'm gonna lash you a 100 times.

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Subhanallah, let me just fast forward this incident.

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There were two friends of Ayub alaihis salam.

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They come to visit him. And one person

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passed a comment, and he said, Ayub, you

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have done something wrong in your life. That

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is why you are suffering like this. You

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know, often it happens. You know, what do

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we say? That man Allah is showing him.

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He must open his eyes. My brothers, it's

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not for me to judge, not for you

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to judge.

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If somebody is going through some challenge in

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life, make dua. Make dua for that person.

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That's the bare minimum we can do. Ayyub

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alaihis salaam turns to Allah. I've been patient

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for years on end and people are leveling

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these allegations against me. Allah ta'ala.

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Allah ta'ala tells Ayub,

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We confirm your patience.

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Ayub, stand up.

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Strike your feet on the ground,

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gushes out the water.

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Gushes out the

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water. Ayub take a bath in that water,

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drink from the water.

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When he he took a bath in the

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water, he had drunk from the spring,

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Allah ta'ala cured him instantly.

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The riyat of ibnahiban,

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Allah send down the garment of Jannah,

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a young handsome man

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adorned with the garment of Jannah. His wife

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used to earn and provide for him. When

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she comes in the evening, she looked at

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this young handsome man sitting

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and she looked at him.

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Where is my husband? He was sitting here

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in the morning. Ayub

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looks at his wife and he said, I

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am your husband, and this is how Allah

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has cured me. And this is how Allah

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has cured me. When Allah cured Ayub alaihis

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salam, he realized

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he has to now lash his wife 100

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times.

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Allah ta'ala said, Ayub,

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your wife was a subservient,

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obedient wife. You are not going to lash

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her.

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I am going to make divine intervention in

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the matter.

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Ayub alaihis salam told his wife, you need

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to lash your wife 100 times.

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Allah ta'ala told Ayub, I quote to you

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the words of

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Quran.

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Ayub,

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all you do is

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pick up handle 100

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blades of thin grass.

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100 blades of thin grass.

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Make it into 1 bundle,

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touch your wife once and that is lashing

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a 100 times.

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SubhanAllah,

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this divine intervention

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Allah made

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why she was a pillar of support to

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her husband.

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You know, in Madariq ut Tanzil it is

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written, you know, the object of marriage What

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is the object of marriage? My brother, the

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Quran says,

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You must look at your wife. It must

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put an end to depression

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and not start depression. You know, like they

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say the brother came home an hour early

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from work. So the wife says, what's happened?

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1 hour early today, no, the boss and

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I had a tiff. So the boss told

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me to go to *, so I said

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I'd rather come home.

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For me home is living *.

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So what is the object of marriage? You

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must look at the wife. The wife must

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look at the husband. It must put an

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end to depression and not start depression.

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And Allah says marriage

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should provide 1 of 2 things,

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love and mercy.

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So generally in a western circle,

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you'll find in the initial stage of the

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marriage,

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the husband will express love, the wife will

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express love. But in the latter part of

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the marriage, when the husband goes into insolvency,

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more than often marriages break up. More than

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often marriages break up. So my brothers, what

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I'm trying to show you, the Nabiya Fala

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has taught us, give people support in life.

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One day the Nabiya fullahi entered Masjidun Nabi,

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there was a elderly Sahabi who used to

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come. Nabiya alaihis salam said, where is this

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elderly Sahabi? Anasur radiAllahu ta'ala anhu said, his

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son has passed away. Nabiya alaihis salam said,

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why didn't you inform me?

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Why didn't you inform me? Nabi alaihis salam

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immediately he got up. He went to the

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home of this elderly Sahabi. He was looking

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sad and depressed and Nabi alaihis salam morally

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supported him. He gave him that moral support.

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What did the Nabi of Allah say?

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Speak about the good of those that had

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passed away. You know, like I always say,

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I don't know why people take flowers to

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a dead man's grave.

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Give the man a bunch of roses whilst

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he's alive.

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You know, like somebody said it so amazingly,

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it takes the death of a person

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to acknowledge that he was a good man.

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I mean you start praising the person, you

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know, like in Urdu they say, if you

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understand,

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You know, I always say wherever I travel,

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you know, people say, Molana, what an amazing

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speech. I said the local imam can say

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the same thing. You would say, no, it's

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one of those things. You know, if somebody

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eats prawns every day and somebody eats biryani

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every day, you know, it's one of those

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things. You have it once a week, once

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a month. I mean, you look forward to

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it. Appreciate our imams. Really my brothers, whoever

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I have traveled the world, appreciate

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our local scholars and ulama.

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Recently we have seen In fact, whenever I

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stand on this podium,

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I think of our late Sheikh Fuad grant

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him the highest stages in Jannah. He was

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an amazing human being. He was an amazing,

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may Allah Allah

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escalate and elevate his stages. My brothers, in

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conclusion, I would just like to leave you

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with a letter of condolence

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that Nabi alaihis salaam wrote to Muadh ibn

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Jibril. I beg for your undivided attention. Just

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give me 2 or 3 minutes.

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Muadh ibn Jibril is in Yemen.

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His son passes away.

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He sends a letter to Medina

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that my son has passed on. Nabi alaihis

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salaam in his busy schedule,

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he sends a letter of condolence

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to Mu'ad ibn Jubal, which has been recorded

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in many books of Hadith.

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I quote to you the words of this

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letter. My brothers, listen to this. Mi Muhammad

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Rasoolillah.

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From Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam,

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the messenger of Allah, ila Mu'adhib najibil to

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Mu'adhib najibil.

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Salaamun alaykum.

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I greet you with the salaams of Allah.

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Fa ini Ahmaduallaha

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al Malikallavi

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la ilaha illahu.

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I praise Allah

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who is that supreme being.

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Listen, O Mu'az.

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Amma bad furthermore.

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Our health, our wealth, our belongings,

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our spouses,

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our children.

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This is the gift of the of the

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Almighty Allah.

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Allah allowed you to benefit from your son

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for a period of time. On the appointed

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time,

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aw Mu'az,

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Allah has taken your son away from you.

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Allah has ordained

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patience on us when he tests us, and

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Allah has ordained

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gratitude on us when He favors us.

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Your son was from the gift of Allah.

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On the appointed time,

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Allah has taken away

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the son. Allah has taken away your boy.

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O Mu'adh,

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if you are patient,

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Allah will reward you handsomely.

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Analjazah

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waalam,

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let me conclude my letter of condolence to

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you, O Mu'az.

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Moaning and groaning

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will not revive the disease,

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nor will it put an end to depression.

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The letter of condolence to Mu'adh ibn Jabal.

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I leave you with the words of my

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Nabi. When his daughter Zaynab,

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she lost her child,

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she sends a message to her father. Nabi

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alayhis salaam, he

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subhanallah. He comes to his daughter Zaynab

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and he consoled her with these words

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To Allah belongs

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what he took. To Allah equally belongs what

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he gave you.

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Everything

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has a stipulated

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time.

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Be patient, oh my daughter Zaynab,

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and hope for reward by the almighty Allah.

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I am not consoling you

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because I will not die.

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I am not consoling you Zaynab

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because I will not die. What can I

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tell you other than what the great giant

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Imam Shafi'i had said?

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That this is the reality of life.

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Either you'll lose your wealth or Allah will

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take away that which is most beloved to

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you. Allah will take away your beloved ones.

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My brothers, we make dua. There's so much

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more I could have made mention. I've extended

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my time. I would like to take this

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opportunity. Wallahi, it's an absolute honor. Know, wherever

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I stand, I enter this masjid. Reward,

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you know, the trust board. Reward

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our imam. Allah preserve him. Allah protect him.

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And Allah keep his shadow over us for

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many, many years. And Allah, you know, protect

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each and every one of you. You know,

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each and every one of us knows of

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some person or the other that has passed

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on. Let us remember them in our duas.

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My brother's death is a reality. Like the

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Arabic poet says,

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Every person will be snatched from his beloved,

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not taken away politely.

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No security,

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no doorkeeper

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will prevent the angel of death from entering.

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Wherever he enters, he is no trespasser.

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O foolish man, when Allah's camera is watching

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you, when Allah's angels are recording your every

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move, how then do you still develop arrogance

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and openly violate the orders of Allah? We

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may du'a to the almighty Allah. Allah grant

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us the tawfiq and the ability on this

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momentous day of Jumuah that let us be

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those who give hope to others. We know

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of some person or the other. My brothers,

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like I mentioned earlier on, some person is

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sick. Pick up the phone. Send the man

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a message. Listen, I cannot do much but

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I'm making dua for you. You know many

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a times, you know you make dua for

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the person, the man recovers. He says, monana,

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you know what I was in a hospital,

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the man came to visit me. I can

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never forget him. Every dua I pick up

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my hands, I take the man's name in

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dua. And

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the ability that we imbibe, we infuse, we

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internalize

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these amazing advisors of

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Quran.

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