Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #689 Prohibition Of Obscenity

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The conversation covers various topics related to religion, including Marital decisions, employment opportunities, and the future of children. The speakers emphasize the importance of avoiding false accusations and apologizing for mistakes in public settings. They also mention various examples of women wishing to marry unprofitable individuals.

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			Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the
pliers where we learn together the beautiful series of variable Salah Hain which is compiled by Imam
Yahya Musharraf and know where we may Allah Michonne now so without any further ado, we'll begin by
praising the Almighty Allah and send the greatest peace and salutations upon His most Beloved
Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, today's episode, my dear viewers is number 689. Then
it will be the first in chapter number 327 which deals with the prohibition of obscenity but will
now hear on a fascia ie whether it Lisa knee,
		
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			as you know that the Messenger of Allah is upon him said in the song Hadith in ama or is to live
with a meme and I carry Malala which means I have been sin
		
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			I have been sent exclusively to perfect good manners.
		
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			And the prophets Allah Allah Allah cinema said, also in another Hadith, that there are some people
who would achieve the status of those who first on every single day pray on every single night
without doing so simply by who's known Hoolock by being will manner
		
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			when you will mighty Allah defended and admire his most beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi
salam in the Glorious Quran he said we're in NACA, Allah, Allah Who looking after him, and indeed
you are on very manners. And he said, peace be upon him at Devon, he'll be with us and dB. The
Almighty Allah did not entrust anyone to upbring Prophet Muhammad Allah or to teach him and to
separate him rather, he did that by himself. So the lab the manners of Prophet Muhammad, sallallahu
alayhi salam are the best, they are the owners of the prophet hood, because a lot of mighty inspire
them to be so. So in the chapter that we're about to study, the Messenger of Allah keys be upon him,
		
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			warns us against obscenity and against being abusive, verbally and insulting. The first hadith is
collected by a mentor midday and it's a Hassan Hadith, as far as the classification of authenticity.
hadith is number 17 134 is actually narrated by the way companion, Abdullah ignoramus, rude, may
Allah be pleased with him, Allah, Allah rasool Allah is Allah Allah Sallam let the cell movement
build. And while I bill and while unfair, he she while busy
		
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			and busy also means l busy.
		
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			Once again, he said peace be upon him listen
		
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			to it, one hola Annie, while Fashi while busy.
		
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			So the messenger of Allah is the acronym said that Hadees a true believer is not taunt, nor cursive,
nor abusive, he does not use obscene language, he does not talk in the play.
		
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			And the fact of the matter with the wide spread of the social media nowadays, it has made the world
a small village. So even those who do not know other languages, and they only speak their mother
tongue, they become kind of familiar with many words, with many gestures being used by other
nations, by the US and other nations, by the singers by the actors, by the actresses by the sports
people. And sometimes without realizing the iLab saying in decent words, and they talk in decently.
		
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			I'm sorry to be kind of explicit, and say there are some Muslims will be using the F word. They
don't know how bad is it, but they think it's cool, because they've been watching that on
television. And they see the American actors and actresses. They say it all the time. So they just
blindly repeat it. And they may say to family members, they don't understand that so of course,
		
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			a lot is saved.
		
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			It Allah hates. Allah dislikes and abhors and fair he shall be the the person who's insulted the
person who is cursing, the person who doesn't have bashfulness shyness. If he wants to say anything,
he just says it. That is not from Islam, lay sell more amenable for irony. The believer does not
accuses people
		
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			falsely
		
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			and he does not curse. He does not abuse them. It does not talk in decently. Rather, the reliever
says what is good in the beginning sort of mean on the Almighty Allah describe the traits of the
successful believers in cardio flahive, meno know,
		
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			I flahive minimoon successful indeed are the believers. And he spoke about the focus in their
prayers. And he spoke about while Adina whom Annie love when you go, allow means the vain talk, not
just the abusive language, not just the indecent pokes, and absurdity, but also the vain talk, they
do not acknowledge in vain Park either talking or hearing or conversing, they distance themselves
from that and install a tool for common among the traits of the servants of the most beneficial the
Almighty Allah says, or either hot or cold, he will not call
		
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			even if they are being addressed with foolishness by the foolish ones, they do not react to the same
they react peacefully. It was narrated that there is in the Malian Jesus is the son of Mary is the
upon him once
		
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			passed by a pig and pigs. And it's one flesh in Islam in Christianity and Judaism is forbidden, but
people have changed and distorted their legislations. So Jesus peace be upon him says Omar Besana
pass peacefully. So somebody says you say that to hate. It's just the pain. They say. I feel that I
may say something bad and I get used to it. So in you know, in our culture, if you want to insult
somebody with a terrible insult you call him a pig as an insult did not call them pig pig because he
did not want his tongue to get used to abusive language. Laser movement of a tiny while hola Annie,
while Alpha fishy while busy and the hormone hadith is also a fair Hadees and it is Hadees number
		
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			17 135 unasyn around the Allahu Anhu pod. Por la rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi salam, Mirka
Sophie che in in LaShana woman canel higher woofie che in it Allah Zanna
		
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			the Messenger of Allah is upon him.
		
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			In this hadith, which is narrated by NSE Malik Ravi Allah and collected by Mr. Tirmidhi, he said,
and Forsch which is absurdity, in decency, whenever absurdity or indecency happen to be in anything,
it will mess them up.
		
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			It will make it terrible and will make the person worthless Illa Shana from
		
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			losing the respect losing nobility losing the honor. So a person who lowers himself or herself to
speak obscene language and do in these and things without issues or words verbally or actually such
person has lost respect have lost honor and nobility. Well now can I hire of a che in Eliza Xena
refers to the adornment, the decoration the beautification, the Almighty Allah says what is a
		
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			Santa
		
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			Ah dunya Swaby How
		
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			do militia three the yen indeed we have decorated the only heaven with the stars,
		
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			the stars, Xena. And Allah Almighty commanded women to cover up their Xena while I already in ASEAN.
		
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			So as Xena means the Beauty means the adornment, the decoration, whenever a person is having the
quality of hire, which is bashfulness and shyness. He is like a drone person. This is Xena. The
adornment of the human being is to have the quality of hire. The adornment of the messiness of the
city is to avoid obscenity indecency. And I mean also Allah on insulin in one Hadees.
		
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			Whenever a bad person sought permission to visit him, he loves him even though he disliked them. So
I always ask him, Why did you let him if you don't like he said in Marina Nursey, Mejia Turkey in
Su, Li for share among the walls kind of people
		
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			is a person whom people would avoid him and avoid having any interaction with him.
		
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			Because he's indecent because he is obscene. He's insulted. He is person. May the Almighty Allah
avoid us the mic such person. So we have the two opposites. We have unfresh and we have a higher and
higher the bashfulness. The shyness is one of the qualities of Eman the Prophet salallahu Alaihe
Salam, merci, Emmanuel and Emmanuel built on was ever on a show by 70 plus branches, and how
bashfulness is one of the branches one of the qualities, one of the signs and the symptoms of EMA.
		
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			Once again, whenever you saw the law, the seller was sitting with his companions and the Jews. You
know, in Medina, there have been several Jewish tribes that are novia baroka in the car, Benny out
		
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			Benny Paraiba Hi, Bob, miniature stripes, after they recognized and acknowledged recognized not not
acknowledged, the prophethood of Muhammad, Salah selendy oppose them.
		
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			So they will pass by him, the only thing to pray for them, but they won't be nice for him they pray
against them. So they used to greet him as Sarah Maharlika or Mohammed. And in Arabic the word as
Sam literally means does. In the summon Hadith the Messenger of Allah is upon him said
		
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			Allah the market hit any disease but he has created also the remedy and the treatment for it except
for one disease which is death Assam so when they say as Samuel
		
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			was like, you know, they are mispronouncing a Salah and Assam and Salem are on the other opposites.
They're opposites of each other as Salah means peace, as Sam means this and the liveness Allah may
Allah be pleased with him when he
		
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			received the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in Medina the first day he wanted to verify whether he
is a a genuine Prophet and authentic one or a faker. So he said, When I made my eyes on him, I
figured out that this is mouth the face of a liar. And when they heard him the first words I heard
from his mouth, Are you a nurse of Chu Salah otter mo TA, to be lady oneness with him? So the first
advice would all people spread the greeting of peace and spirit peace and security in the community?
Because of that abdomen Agnes Allah, may Allah be pleased, then simply took shahada and accepted
Islam. They became one of the great companions of Prophet Muhammad, peace
		
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			be upon him, and may Allah be pleased with his companions. So
		
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			they've been saying, I said, Adam
		
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			Nabil Salam, Salam ignore it that no reply with the same until one day I shoveled the Allahu anha
Prophet Muhammad's wife was sitting there she heard him say in Assam olika she couldn't keep quiet.
She got hold of them and she started cursing them. And she said May this be upon you such and such a
cheap person.
		
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			So now we'll summarize sir MC.
		
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			Aisha in Allah Hi yo burrito refashion Betty.
		
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			Indeed, Allah does not like Allah hates the person who's indecent. The person who's abusive, the
person who uses obscene language. So you said all prophet of Allah, did you hear what they say to
you? They're invoking death upon you. He said, and did you hear my reply? or reply to them saying,
why they come upon you to and you know that Allah will answer my supplication and will not answer
there's the following hadith is actually the opening chapter is chapter number 328. It deals with
the provision of a tunnel to ah a tomato or a temporary to fill color me what shall I do p field
what I shall do goofy will take a little fissara Was there Mel washy know what the era especially
		
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			when speaking to the layman, what does this mean? The shatter these are the this lightness of
exaggeration during talking using sophisticated words which ordinary people may not comprehend, in
order to show yourself educated and you know superior. The first hadith is a psalm Hadith and it is
collected by Imam Muslim in his circulation Hadees number 17 136. And I've delayed Nima through the
Radi Allahu Anhu. And via sulla y la he was a Lana thought Hannah can moto Anna to your own Hala Cal
Moto, not three rune and He repeated it twice. What does it mean? The Messenger of Allah is upon him
say, Robin, and Muthana. To own. What is tonnato means tonnato to exaggerate during talking,
		
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			exaggerate, in a sense of using complicated vocabulary in order to show superiority to the audience
and impress them. You know,
		
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			write articles in the newspaper in the States, I was told that the article should be suitable for
fourth graders. Yeah, I mean, a child who is 10 years old, a child was 10 years old. And of course,
they should be able to read and comprehend the article. It is not about being sophisticated and
showing too much eloquence. So that vast majority of the readers will not comprehend what you're
talking about. The purpose is to deliver the benefit. But if you try to be too much, in a sense that
most of the audience most of the readers, most of the viewers will not comprehend what you're
talking about. And we'll get lost. The prophets Allah said and said, perished such people so avoid
		
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			that.
		
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			That's should be accessible and understood by the fourth graders. As we write out those for the
fourth graders. articles will be read even by the president by the Deputy pass by the university
professors,
		
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			by politicians, but they're not the vast majority, the vast majority of people, the readers or the
audience or the viewers or the layman, so you should address them with what they understand.
		
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			I think take one more Hadees before we take a break. Howdy Hadees number 17 137.
		
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			And Abdullah have Nam Read the last Radi Allahu
		
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			Allah rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Nakane in Allah, you will redo el Valley Amina
regionally. Allah the whole level very recently he came at a halal Baqarah route and
		
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			Maybe you will know. The Messenger of Allah says in this hadith, that the Almighty Allah dislikes, a
person who pretends to be eloquent, who rolls his tongue as the cow rolls its tongue while eating.
So the cloud
		
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			and he exaggerates in pronouncing the letters from their articulation points in a way that it will
be like the audience. So why is this guy don't like this. So instead of comprehending his message,
they will focus more on the way that he is talking. It is not about impressing the audience. Rather,
it's about delivering the message. Once the Messenger of Allah is here upon him, as a baboon, tell
me, how do you invoke Allah and how do you pray? He said, I'm not as eloquent as you and wise. I
only say Oh Allah, take me to Jamna and protect me against jahannam. So the messenger of Allah peace
be upon him to say, how will I handle them then? Well, basically, this is what me and more than all
		
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			of us keep saying, Oh Allah, we ask You for Jana, or Allah protect us against or not, we can ask it
in too many different ways. What matters is the mission is accomplished as long as you say, what
delivers the meaning. Lahoma in Ms. Arrow Collegian. Aloma in and out will be canon Allah and the
Messenger of Allah peace be upon him in his final supplication prior to make it a steam, he is to
seek refuge with Allah against hellfire and again is a terminal they gave say Allama in an hour, we
can, not in my helmet of indebtedness.
		
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			Alone in an hour we can have it for now, while driving from Kabul, you find all the supplications
easy for an average Muslim, even for a child to memorize. As I say brothers and sisters, we'll take
a break and in sha Allah. We'll be back in a few minutes we have one more Hadith in the shutter and
perhaps we'll be able to take your questions and concerts stay tuned we'll be back in Sharla in a
few minutes
		
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			set out on a call Mark Napoli over a castle and we'll come back they may remind you with all our
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			with us remains only one Hadees in this chapter, Hadith number 17 138 is rated by Jabba M Abdullah
all the Allahu Anhu
		
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			another sort of light from Allah Almighty Allah makan in a have become a liar for the COVID mini
Maggi Listen, yo melt Jana. Aha see no come
		
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			or in a global cool in a year. What Avada could mean ne yo Malkia
		
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			Sal Sarona was watershed the corner.
		
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			Well, water say here for now.
		
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			The hadith is collected mighty mountain movie and it's a handsome Hadith. The Messenger of Allah is
your potential. Indeed, among the deities, and the closest of you, to me on the day of judgment will
be those who are the best in behavior, and the best in manners and the most hateful and the far this
for me on the day of resurrection will be the talkative and the motorcy here corner well watershed
your corner the most rhetorical
		
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			so those who pretend to make the speech complicated, and the purpose is in order to show people
severity, and then the can speak very complex sentences to impress others. Such people on the Day of
Judgment will be the farthest away from the messenger of ALLAH HAFIZ
		
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			Yep on hand. No wonder he says Hallett can move sign up for your own perished or those who
exaggerate in their speeches.
		
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			Whenever you have a call, please feel free to via any of the numbers should appear on the bottom of
the screen.
		
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			Since our first caller today Abdul Rahman Manya salam ala man, welcome to the TV, how can I help
you?
		
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			Oh
		
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			yeah, go ahead.
		
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			So, my question is is
		
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			in some months
		
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			during the codebase, so, when the model even
		
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			a person will kind of walk along the roads
		
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			basically for money if if the person keeps donates would be constitute as
		
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			deacon or give him expression if he's not attend to the listing to the court?
		
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			About your question, yes.
		
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			Certainly the Messenger of Allah, PCF on him forbade making any unnecessary movement during the
prayer or any disturbance during the exec or the hotbar then it is not permissible for any person to
walk around with the box in order to collect the donations during the Friday sermon, which would
definitely defeat the purpose of the hotbar and as
		
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			the Almighty Allah orders whenever as this is really fighting to be quiet and listen attentively, to
the extent that the Messenger of Allah etc upon him say if somebody happens to speak and you
volunteer to tell him or smoke beep wife suffered levels on a lover, fellas, your water, and
whatever sticks during Friday Sermon, his uma has become nullified.
		
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			Allah Almighty says first sow in a decree lay was ruled by insalata Joma. So you hold the prayer
zikalala including the hope
		
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			after the Juma you can do that but not during the fight isn't nonmuscle half of
		
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			the prophets Allah from said if somebody plays with the stones or the peoples or gets his phone
nowadays, chicks is messaging that will notify or deprive him from the world of Juma prayer. A Salam
aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
		
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			Ali from the UK Welcome to it as if you go ahead, Ali.
		
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			Why they from Salem?
		
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			Go ahead. Hi, how can I help you?
		
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			Yes, I have one question. So if you can help me and give me your advice, and my daughter has been
married twice, and get a divorce, and she has two kids, but the social service take her children
away to Allah.
		
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			It took over her children, but she said my question now is my daughter, now she wants to get married
again. And she want me my blessing and my approval. But her children is still in the hands of her.
Auntie. Can I give approval? Or should I say to not know
		
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			until you get un children's there is no way I can help you see a particle Ludvig dissolve
		
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			Thank you, Brother Ali from the UK but I think they're both relevant. So if she needs to get
married, we don't know when and how will he be able to collect the kids back from the social service
and marriage as you know that undergoes one of the five
		
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			you know, religious rulings. So it becomes obligatory whenever the person is capable of marriageable
age and have the means their knee first thing I fear that if I don't get married on my do something
haram. So based on the condition of your daughter, and she thinks marriage for her is definitely
needed and you are the Guardian and you check out the background of the shooter and he's a good
person, then this may Allah give them the approval and give them your consent.
		
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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah want to get
		
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			my sin from the USA Welcome to another TV, Marcin, how can I help you?
		
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			I have one question.
		
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			For you. Proceed. You
		
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			go ahead. Can you hear me?
		
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			Yeah, I hear you.
		
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			Alright, so my question is, during sujood when we do the wah you know, if we know Arabic You know,
then we do Arabic, but if we don't know Arabic, then we do it in English. But my question is, when
doing DWAI in the sujood, do we move our tongues and our tongue and lips when we do it in English
and Arabic or do we do it in our heart?
		
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			Thank you, my son from the USA. And the sound Hadith the Messenger of Allah Tec upon him said, the
near the servant of Allah can get close to him is
		
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			whenever he is prostrating himself or herself on the floor, to Allah the Almighty.
		
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			So the messenger of Allah guided us and advice to date. So take advantage and increased pain as much
as you can, while you are frustrated yourself. Suddenly, Kate, as much as you can be produced
application in this posture is more likely to be accepted and granted, and answered.
		
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			Why about a person who doesn't work? And in the prayer, can he enroll the Almighty Allah and his
supplication in any language other than Arabic? If he or she doesn't know Arabic, then it is
permissible to invoke Allah in their mother tongue. And if it is permissible then in this case, it
is permissible to move the tongue and to speak out there's complications. By the way, the person may
complicate by the tandem behalf may supplicate by the heart alone. And in this case, also Allah
Almighty knows who are who are even with the saloon. What is in the press what is in the chest is
fully aware of what you need. Thank you Muslim from the USA as salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa
		
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			barakato.
		
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			More men from the USA will come to weather TV,
		
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			as well our Alaikum salam rahmatullah wa barakato Jessa colada. We love you all who the TV sick of
our Allah
		
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			may Allah bless you, and thank you so much.
		
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			Love you our family as well. Just like a locker. And Sunday, you say in the time changing? I think
nine o'clock is good because my family member in Somalia and Kenya watch. And this time is five
o'clock for them and is good. And that is the UN i My question is,
		
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			I have three sons, one of them, has her wanna marry a woman who is American white America, and she
want to learn the I try my best to teach her the Islam. But she come home and I say no, she cannot
come home. If she's coming home, you have to marry her. And he say, Okay.
		
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			And she is willing to marry him. But our Masjid is most is close. But my husband say no.
		
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			And I want to advise if you can advise me now or later, I really appreciate it. So wait a minute,
you're asking about the permissibility of your son's getting married to a non Muslim local God,
correct? Yeah, she's alone in the religion. I'm teaching her because he's not even that. He or
		
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			she haven't accepted Islam yet. Correct. No, she's still not accepted Islam yet. No. And what is
your face to begin with?
		
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			She's Christian, but right now I don't think she'd practice.
		
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			Okay, you want to hear my advice? Yes.
		
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			My advice I wouldn't like for my son to marry a non Muslim girl.
		
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			Even we know that in Surah tuna in Ashoka. Number five, the Almighty Allah says, while more fun to
Mina Mina. Well not SWANA Domina Lavina Otto kita Kabini either tie
		
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			Full Moon, blue Ravon. So the Quran permits marrying a chess Muslim woman, chess, Christian or
Jewish woman. So the chastity is a condition besides Islam, or if she belongs to the community of al
Qaeda.
		
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			But there are other factors that you got to keep in mind.
		
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			There was a caller before you from the UK, and was talking about the solutions of this taking the
children away, you know, what happens when a person marries a non Muslim woman, and then the
separate separation happens right and left for a reason or for no reason, you know, and none of us
is an exception. So in case of separation, what will be the fate and the future of the children, the
woman takes the out of the custody, and she's a decent woman, she would allow the husband or the ex
husband to partake in upbringing, the children decided that education and their faith and but if
they're having discord, so in order to upset him, in order to bully him,
		
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			she would mean the kids. Beyond the news, this believes in Allah, perhaps the girl coming home with
a boyfriend, the boy with a girlfriend, what are you gonna do about it? Because a mother is not
Muslim, you decided to marry her from the beginning, knowing all these facts. So when you say that,
yeah, we're teaching her so that one day when when this day happens. And also you got to understand
that it is not only Islam by the pump, because now you live the girl and you marry her. You're
talking about jobs in the future of you children. And it can be a very big risk. You all know what
I'm talking about. You live in the USA, you live in the UK. And you're fully aware of what I'm
		
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			talking about. May the Almighty Allah God as far as this, there are some women who are very decent,
even if she's not Muslim, and she understands that the ex husband has the right to partake in
bringing the children educated. And there are others who would not even be a chance to get to see
them
		
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			a ceremony or ask not
		
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			only yourself from Canada Salam aleikum, Sister Anisha. Go ahead. I'm so upset. I have a question.
		
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			Yes, go ahead.
		
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			So my mother is very elderly.
		
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			And it's been hard to try to get along with her as a family. She expects us to do things that are
not permissible in Islam. She wants us to send money that we can't afford that take away from our
own family. We catch her in lies a lot of lies that we know. And I'm just wondering if I should
confront her, or how to deal with this issue.
		
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			Oh, you should never look at her and you should always be next to her support her even if she does
whatever she does, because she's your mother. So an endless support and endless support but you do
not participate in any for lies. Is it safe to say that she lives Allah or she does illegal things
you don't be a part of any of that. But you never broke up her. You never sell your relationship
with your mother is what Allah says in Salah McMahon as well as in Surah Blanca, who were in Asia
and Africa and two, she came in early Salah kabhi Elman Salah Roma
		
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			dunya now, so you must be useful to the parents, even if they're non Muslims. There is only one
condition, which you're not allowed to listen to them, which is if they persuade you to disobey
Allah to disbelieve in Allah. I think we can take one last call. Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi
Wabarakatuh
		
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			is still from Canada. Salam o alaikum. The library card Malik Salam RAM Clover culture.
		
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			Go ahead.
		
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			Yes, yes. I want to
		
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			just advise or
		
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			I want to watch who the TV always and I have satellite.
		
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			But which side can I get?
		
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			I didn't want to frequency. Are you in Canada currently? Yeah, yeah.
		
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			Okay, your best bet is to watch it on the social media, the YouTube
		
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			And the Facebook page. How are you watching all the TV now? Are you watching the program currently
on the YouTube or the Facebook?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			How are you viewing this program right now?
		
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			Facebook, Facebook, okay. As you know that there are also you know,
		
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			you know it's lamet box, which have many channels. So Hodor TV is one of them. You can connect to it
if you want to. But your best bet is either our website or the YouTube or the Facebook page, the
satellite we have intersect that covers the entire Indian subcontinent, and US parts of Europe. And
we have the Arab satellite that covers the Middle East and the union satellite which covers 16
African countries, brothers and sisters, by that we've come to the end of today's additional gardens
of the past. And we asked the Almighty Allah by the end of today's program to guide us to it is best
to pardon us and forgive our sin. A whole Akali had our staff roll on us next time as Santa Monica
		
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			used to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all
about an empire that we're shipping comes fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest
		
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			day ignore that forgetting all about * bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling
their best were the cheapest