Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #660 prohibition Of Meeting A Non Maharam Woman In Seclusion
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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Al hamdu. Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa ala Qin. Well, I would warn in Allah volumen wa Salatu was Salam ALA. So you will actually in our herein, Nabina Muhammad in WA early he was so happy as mine, my dear viewers, welcome to another live edition of Guardians of the pious and today's episode is number 660. In the blesses series of the Abu Salah hain, which is compiled by Imam Yahya, even a short half an hour we may Allah have mercy on him.
And it will be the second episode in chapter number 291 the prohibition of being alone with a woman who is not your mom. And obviously, we've explained over the past two episodes, the technical meaning of the term Muharram and I refer to it number 23, chapter number four of Surah Nisa, which listed on Muharram whether due to the lineage or the marriage or the cycling,
so under sub robar and El karada.
Today's hadith is a very serious Hadith.
And some people have agreed and applauded what we discussed, particularly in the previous episode. And I received many messages saying that, yes, people actually do that. And they do not pay attention to as we're talking about the relationship of the woman with her in laws and how that in many cultures, even though they're Muslims, they take it very lightly. They take it very easy. They mingle sometimes they stay together alone.
When the brother is coming to visit his brother home and no one is home so his sister in law will let them in and you know, claiming that she's like my sister, what do you think? So we said Halal is halal and haram is haram and the halal and haram had been determined by the Almighty Allah, who said about himself, la Allah, Muhammad halacha. Were who are looking for heavier and Haram is not been achieved, if the person only falls in the act of an illicit relationship or fornication or the introduction to that, but also, if nothing out of that habit. So if a man and a woman happened to be alone behind closed doors, and they are not related to each other, they are not maharam of each
other. This by itself is a major sin. Because whatever leads to the sin is a sin. Because of that, normally, Allah Almighty forbids
the acts or the practices, which are inevitably leading to the sin and this rule is known as blocking the means will also explain that before. So today's hadith is a sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity. And it is narrated by Aqua enamel Radi Allahu, and another school of law he sold Allah Alia selama con, here come what the whole island is set for Colorado mineral answer for ITIL handwear, Allah al humble and mouth, whatever Kannada now, I as you the viewers to pay close attention to the meaning of this hadith and to the explanation as well. The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said in this sound Hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity, avoid entering a place
in which there are women who are either uncovered or mingling with them unnecessarily or being alone with a woman who's not your Muharram
and behind closed doors, or being in private, so a man asked the Prophet salallahu Salam, and this man is one of unsought he said, Yeah rasool Allah What about Alhamdulillah the word Al haram, in Arabic, the Arab understood al Haram as the relatives of the husband, so the woman's husband's relatives, including her brother in law's and her husband's cousins
or brothers due to suckling and so on. So that is a ham what
the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam answered, Alhamdulillah al mouth, I'll hum is equal and equivalent to death. His danger is as dangerous as death.
Some people
might not be able to comprehend the term Alhambra melt. And what it means. And the view history upon him, does not say that every brother in law is very dangerous, and he is worse than death. No, not at all. Rather, the Prophet salaallah Salah means when people take it lightly, and they consider the brother in law, or my husband's
cousins are my brothers as well, or her own cousins, that are my brothers as well. So the deal with each other freely without any restrictions, and they meet in private, and they hang around by themselves. So this is worse than being with a stranger whom you do not know. Because in the case of meeting a person, whom you meet, for the first time, a lawyer, a teacher, a doctor, you know, there will be some restrictions
and obstacles, you know, you're not going to jump into conclusion. But between the brother in law and the sister in law, or your husband's cousins or your own cousin's, there is some sort of comfort you use to each other. So a man is not allowed to enter in a place where there are women.
And unnecessarily and without making sure that these women are dressed up in a proper hedger if he has to enter upon them. Or if he asked to ask from them anything. Like, you're working for somebody, and he said, he sent you home to collect some people's money or you go home, you stay outside. During the mill, he say, well,
your husband, or your employer have sent me to collect this and this and that. There is nothing called Well, why don't you come in? Wait until I bring it to you? Whose home? No one? Of course he shouldn't come in, even if he is your brother in law, even if he is your husband's cousin. But you know what a shame. You gotta read me standing outside. Yes, I'm going to leave you standing outside. Because I'm home alone.
When somebody says but you guys, you Muslims are really overdoing it. And you're very sensitive to this matter. Yes. And that's why we maintain the purity in our community. While in the case of non Muslim to take it very lightly, even though if any person wanted simply to sleep every day with a different woman, they can go to the nightclub they pick up a girl or go pick up a guy and he can do it in Haram.
I remember once I had some lectures in Houston, Texas, and
you know, I couldn't find any hotel SubhanAllah. So
it was a weekend. And then while driving, I don't want to say the name of the highway. I read some signs, vacancies. And so the sign says $25 only. So I say to the driver drove by man $25. So he laughed. I said why are you laughing? They said this is $25 per hour. I said but they say the there is vacancy said yes. Because the higher the room per hour, when a guy picks up a girl and they just go to commit adultery for an hour for two hours and they pay for that. So they just give them the bed and shower to have an illicit relationship. So it's easy and accessible. Yet the amount of rabies unbelievable. The the volume of the cases of sexual molestation, sexual harassment, child
sexual abuse is very huge. France is a secular country. It fights religions day and night. And, you know, when it comes to sexuality, you're free to do anything you can dream of. So why would the church have sexual harassment cases over 216,000 cases? And yesterday, the big shots the priests were bound down in an apology on behalf of the priests who are involved in the sexual harassment and the sexual abuse cases.
What is going on? I'll tell you what is going on.
You think because you live in a secular and in a free country, do whatever you want, then you're not going to look into your sister in law. Think of her or Allah subhanaw taala is Who created us.
When He created us and a shelter refused to bow down to Allah when he commanded him to bow down to SMC he refused to obey Allah Almighty, if you take them out of heaven, and then I say upon vowed on
obol unknown while many unknown or unknown, so many threats, so many promises that He is going to mislead the human beings and he said why Exotica? Lo we are now home mirdamad Or why home fear this idea? I swear to Your Majesty a shaytaan is where and he knows that Allah Almighty is the only one who's worthy of worship and he is a creator. So he disobeyed Him out of jealousy and arrogance. And that's why he abides in hellfire eternally not a chance for Satan and his followers.
Then Allah Almighty said What is that 11 fear on Allahu Madame we stopped fear when any. So when Satan said I swear to Your Majesty, I'm going to continue misleading them and whispering to them until they still breathe until they're still breathing. So Allah Almighty said and I swear to my majesty, I'll continue to forgive them so long as you seek my forgiveness. Good Alhamdulillah but Allah Almighty ordered us not obey a shaper to distance ourselves from the places where we fall into the traps for sure you thought
had the economy of any
taboo share your * or in a wallet model womb movie? What Ernie Abu he had
Stephie and couple times a lot of mud says yeah, you're already Amendola teboho, to share your thoughts. Oh, you believe do not follow the footsteps of a shared I cannot see a shaytan let alone see in his footsteps. The meaning of do not follow the footsteps of a shaper that I shaytaan would not come to share Muhammad and say it's time to commit adultery. It's time to enjoy to
to enjoy drinking, or why don't you gamble? There is a free ticket to go to Las Vegas over the weekend. And free accommodation on logic. No, he is not going to tell me that. But he would use the gradual withdrawal technique. The gradual withdrawal technique. Jani a woman will pick up the phone and as she acts on Cush, masha Allah.
He likes her voice. And she will keep calling and she says you're the best chef. I feel very comfy around you. Maybe call you later for some more questions. Yes, I really need to meet you. This is very private, this is very personal. Okay. And then can we meet in private meeting in private, even if you're a chef and she's a chef is haram is not permissible.
But there is a room in the masjid where after everybody leaves, who can sit and who can talk Hara. That is not permissible.
But if I'm sitting in public,
and the office door is open, like the doctor, like the nurse, like the dentist, like the lawyer, like the professor at the University and the student is coming to ask him questions or to review with him the exam, do not like yourself and her alone behind closed doors that is not permissible. That is called halwa. And this is haram. But check nothing has happened. The hallway itself is a major sin. Because in many cases, it is inevitable to lead to the act of adultery, or anything similar to the touching the hugging and kissing. So when you stay away from that, this is how you increase your immunity. And this is how you waste all the plants and the parts of a shelter and you
don't give him a chance. Even if you're teaching a goal, or an you're teaching hostage with you and her alone, that is not permissible. But she she's my sister in law. She's my cousin. I understand. It is not permissible as well. That's why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam answered the Sahaba from Al Ansari when he said what about Alhambra? He said that Hamilton wrote the Arab called the father in law hammer.
But he's not included in that warning in why? Because the father in law is a permanent Muharram not the brother in law when a girl marries a guy, so a lot of mitosis we're Hala 11 equal model lady and I mean Owsla because
when you son marries a God,
Hollis, she's absolutely forbidden for you. Whether your son divorces her, whether the sun is dead, and she's free and she's looking for a husband, but not you because you've become a father to her. So that's why you are a permanent maharam for her. So she doesn't have
have to wear hijab before you she doesn't have to have another person to sit with you and she can travel for Hajj or Umrah with you, you can take her to the doctor because you unlike her husband as far as the Allah, her father, as far as the Mahara May, there are some cases where even non Muslim woman may ask, you know, my father in law is kind of wicked. And I will in this case, if you have not something like that, then we're here before have you the judge? If you don't feel comfortable around him, and he has a history of this, you know, sick minded, then I've only been alone with him. It's as simple as that. But the father in law is a permanent Muharram
Why do I have to keep accepting this over and over and over because I know that some people will be sitting out there, and they're hearing this for the first time? Or they may have heard that before? And they think yeah, because these guys are Arab, so they are different. This is called Islam has nothing to do with Arab or indo Pak or you know,
any other nationality or ethnicity. This is what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam presented to everyone and the question was coming from a man from Allah answer. The following question is Hadith number 16 129. Another Hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity and even our best Radi Allahu and Homer, another soul Allah is Allah La Jolla, Salama Claude, Leia Fluvanna, a huddle come be Marathi in illa ma de Muharram. Whatever finale, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, No one of you should meet a woman in privacy. Allah She's accompanied by Amma haram.
Yanni, the word Muharram is a person who is perfectly forbidden for her to marry a brother, a father, an uncle, a son, a son in law, not the cousin. Okay, got it.
The nephews is a permanent Muharram as well, the father in law is a permanent Muharram as well. So many a hadith emphasizing that you should not be alone in a private place with a woman who is not your mother. And we already learned what is the meaning of the word Muharram.
Some Muslims may be watching this episode right now and said, Look, this is what this you have talked about all the time no, like, we don't talk about it much. It was the first time since we've started rather solid, but it is in in the same order in the index. So we have to cover it properly. Otherwise, you know, those who keep accusing the shoe. And the scholars, they have multiple wives, and they have many affairs, and n n? That is not true. And Hamdulillah shockula. Were very happy with one wife were very pleased and settled with one wife and bunch of kids. And life is very stable by the Grace of Allah. But I think it is they will because what we didn't notice, and we'll try and
to apply it. Many times. Girls apply for a job to work in the office, but we don't have a place for girls alone. So we give them if I give her a job, you can do it from home. You don't have to come to the office. I'm trying to avoid having unnecessarily mingling between men and women. There are some people who don't have a choice. She has to work in order to provide for herself and her family. She had a Sunni loan and she's now a teacher in the UK or a nurse and she didn't know before what is haram and halal. So she is working. And she's working in a halal job, but the job requires her to mingle with her boss with her colleagues or her seniors. Okay. Then the conditions apply here. Never
ever be alone with
a partner or a teacher or a student or a doctor or a lawyer or consultant or contractor behind closed doors because of the possibility of falling in the Haram. This is the last Hadith we just discussed. l halwa. Is if I walk into the studio and there are a bunch of people outside and I keep the door open. I'm Masha Allah the cameras are all on. And there is a lady here is this hello, I know that's not a halwa what is a hardware
when the place is secure, and once we walk in, we close the door so no one from outside can enter upon us. So I feel secure and I can do whatever I want.
Want to do even if it is haram behind closed doors, that is called halwa. You should never be in this hallway with a woman who is not your maharam.
So I didn't just bring the nurse with you in the clinic. Okay. A gynecologist and obstetrician, doctor and male and a female doctor is a male and the efficient is a female, have the nurse with you. And this is even in line with the Constitution with the law, okay, do not be in a private place, or close the door behind you, when you enter a woman whom you can marry. If she is free, alone in that place, that is not permissible. I hope the message is clear. And I would appreciate all the viewers to write any comment on this particular matter on my page right now on the Facebook page, which should appear on the bottom of the screen. I really, you know, and this for the first
time I you know, I inquire that or I request you that because this is a very sensitive matter. And some people take it as a cultural, you know, practice. So now we have known what is NEMSIS in this regard, and it is a major sin it's not a simple thing. I want to hear your feedback about this and whether that was known to you before or it is actually practiced in your community and what do you think of it in any comment in sha Allah on my page, which is m Salah official. That is my Facebook page.
Let's take one more Hadith, which is the last Hadith in the chapter. Chapter number 291 the prohibition of being alone with a woman who is not your permanent Muslim. The last Hadith here talks about
a greater section, Hadith number 16 130 and bowrider Torabi, Allahu Anhu called Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam Hermeto Nisa in Mujahideen Alka Idina Gohar Matthew OMA Hatti him Merner module in mineral core Idina? Hello for Rajala mineral Mujahideen early saya Hoon Wolfie him Illa work off level yo Malkia Anna hoomin has an earthy Masha had the door so multifactor Eli now rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam call mother no comb Raha Muslim,
worried about the Allah underrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said,
The sanctity and the sacredness and the holiness
of the wives of those who set out with the army to fight for the sake of Allah.
For those who remain at home,
ya did not join the battle. So maybe they are looking after the women of the officers or the fighters who were enrolled in the army, or at least they happen to be their neighbors are in the same area. The sanctity of their wives is like the sanctity of their own mother ARVs.
Hmm.
Then what?
Then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam warned anyone who remains behind to look after the family of amoda Hate and betrays his trust, you will be made to stand on the Day of Resurrection before the Messiah who will take away from his virtuous deeds, whatever he likes, till he is satisfied. The messenger of allah sallallahu Sallam turned towards us and said, Now, what do you think?
Would any person there to do that?
Here and Emile Salah Salem, in a separate Hadith
said man holla fella ASEAN V early he fucka unnamable of other
whenever the army is setting out to fight for the sake of Allah, who cannot just send everyone. Some people have to remain behind. A young man came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam after accepted Islam. He said I want to join the Muslim army for jihad. He said, Do you have parents? He said, Yes, Elder, yes. Anyone else to look after them? He said no. He said then go home and observe jihad in taking care of your parents. Looking after your parents is you had it's as observant you had on the battlefield. We have people who can do the job, but we don't have people who can look after your parents.
So when people go out to join the battlefield or they are
hold in the army in the military for training and exercising. So they stay there for a few months, or in the Navy and they come back after a few months, or deploy to another country, when they leave, they leave their family, their wives, their children, they may ask a brother, a cousin, a friend, a neighbor, can you please take an eye? Keep an eye on my family?
At these there is a man that we can call at the time of need. Of course, don't worry about it, bro.
Have a safe trip. And Emile salatu salam say the word of the man who stays behind to look after the family of the Mojang is the same like the Mujahid because without having somebody to look after his family he could not go. What if this person whom the Messiah had entrusted him to look after his family betrayed him irrespective of relationship with his wife?
The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Xena is haram. But if a person were to commit an illicit relationship with the wife of a person who enrolled in the army, it's likely he has committed this illicit relationship with his own mother. Family insist stuff law. May Allah forgive us all our sins. The sanctity of the wife of the Mujahid is like the sanctity of your own mother. Keep that in mind.
What if a person betrayed the mother had concerning his family on the Day of Judgment, the trader, their betrayal, where they stand, and then Mujahid would come and collect from his good deeds as much as he wants until he's satisfied. What if he takes all his good deeds, let him take all his good deeds, and then this person will be thrown in hellfire. You all Muslims are really overdoing it? No. As a matter of fact, you particularly non Muslims, and Westerners know exactly what we're talking about. And the number of cases of wives cheating their husbands who are on the front line.
It happens a lot. And there are many live stories being shared on television, and disregard. So the prophets Allah Allah said, I'm older the Muslim community that if you cannot observe, you have to look after the family for Mujahid the wife, the parents and the children, you get the same reward but if you betray him, You're dead. You're lost. Because no matter how much good deeds you have, this guy's going to collect them from you. And the prophets, Allah Allah Santos was about a monk, a great worshiper, who's living in the heart doesn't even have stairs. He used to climb with the rope and come down with the rope. And whenever he wanted food, he would lower the bucket to the rope. So
people will put him His provision in the in the bucket and he will pull it up, up in the trees. No one has seen him. He is completely living in isolation. And then in this town, it's from Bani Israel as a Prophet sallallahu sallam said, from this town, the king decided the army should go out to fight the enemies and so on. So there were one family of three brothers and one sister. There are four siblings, one of whom is a girl. So the three brothers were deployed in the army. Before they set out, they've been thinking about the lonely Sister, what are they going to do with her? So they thought, you know, the ripe the monk, he's a righteous man, and he will be the best person to look
after our system. And
they want the approach the mayor refused, said I have nothing to do. He said, we're going for jihad, and you know, this is a good deed. So, after a long discussion, he finally agreed that he would put the food on the doorstep and he knocked on the door and he leaves. Then she gotta wait after the first knot. And then after a while, she can collect the food, no meetings, no seeing her Mashallah. very righteous mercies.
And he has been doing this for a while.
And then che THON came to him. He's super righteous. He did not meet a single sin in his life. He said, You're a nice man. And the goal is living for months by herself. At least ask her if she needs anything. Hear in her voice is not haram. So we knocked on the door. He said he chatted with her. Do you need anything? You're okay? I'm okay. Thank you so much. Appreciate it. Next time you said Wait. Why do you run? You like a father's age? Wait, see if she needs anything. He waited. Once you open the door and they have an eye contact for the first time. Okay, do you need anything, sister? No, thank you so much. Next time she invited in and he came and he
At HUD, and Shelton again made it seem fair to him that, you know, she's been very lonely. At least he can teach her something you can chat. So they have been visiting. And what happened happened. They fell in the act of fornication. And she conceived immediately. And when she gave birth children came to him and said, You're in deep trouble. Now the brothers will come back, and they will report you to the king and you will be executed, executed and you will be exposed and bed slammed.
What do you say? Scandal?
So he couldn't sleep thinking about what is the solution shaytaan was pretend the solution is you've committed a sin. You want to make Toba. You got a rabbit up, kill the baby and bury the baby then you repent and ask God not to tell on you. Okay? He liked the idea. Now he's only conversing worshiping Allah is not in his mind anymore. So he went and he took the baby and he killed the baby and buried
after a while, a shaytaan came to him and said, and what makes you certain that the God is not going to tell on you, you kill her baby.
So what do you think? Well, unfortunately, you just have to do one more thing, then you repent afterward, kill the God. And he killed the girl. And he buried her next to the baby.
Then once they are on the army return, the brothers came and visited with the monkey said Your sister was the most chaste and she was very pure. But she died and I voted her and may Allah bless you and have mercy on her.
They did not even push in his statement. He's a very righteous man. They all want to sleep and a shaytaan came to them in their dreams. The dreams are former shaytaan as a prophet salaallah celibacy. And he narrated the whole narrative, the whole story to the three of them when they woke up, each one of them thought he has a nightmare. But when one of them dare to speak up all of them, they said we have seen the same thing. And we even know where the body is been buried. So they dug out the two bodies and they saw that they will be enslaved. So they took that monk, they took the right yes man to the king. And he ordered his execution when the town gathered to witness his
execution as shaitan appeared to him and said, By the way, I planned this whole thing for you and no one can save you now what me? He said I beg you to save me. He said one thing you do and I will save you and I will save your life. I'm the only one who can save you said what? He said you prostrate for me. You make so short for me. So he made salute for a Sherpa and while he was in sujood
the execution are executed have any bite. Allah Almighty says about that in Surah to hash can actually shape on your coil inside of Fela America for a color in Newberry on men in a half Allah. So she's done made it seem fair to him by the end to this believing Allah to make such a time and then after work on the day of judgment, He will disown him and say I'm very are men. I'm free from your sin it is you who committed adultery It is you who are associated partners to Allah in worship. I fear Allah. So that's why brothers and sisters interviews Allah Salam I've said all those Hadith in order to protect us against the How're the desire the lustful desires, and obviously, a Sherpa
May Allah protect us all and give us all safe. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a few minutes. Please stay tuned.
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A salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Chef, thank you so much for taking my call.
I'm calling about my mother. She is elderly. And she's suffering from piles with sometimes bleed. So my question is,
in case the pirates bleed,
that that invalidates her photo, and for the next caller, does she need to make also and then did you go to
how do we go from there? First of all, may Allah give her she said, Oh, la la vie, De La Silla, the ASVs
For a low I do Sahana and because of the bleeding comes because of the piles, so anything that comes out of the these two orifices
invalidates the will do. So they will be invalidated. But Alhamdulillah Allah have given her an ease, she doesn't have to perform mostly, it only invalidated the order. You're going to say but the bleeding may be constant or a few drops every every now and then and we cannot control it. If it is continuous in this case,
whenever it is the prayer time, all you need to do is make hoodoo and then pray the current prayer. It's related now of it before and after without having to make a new boo even if the bleeding is continuous, as I say, so there is no need for us. But who would be required for each further prayer upon entering the prayer time. Thank you sister. Isha and may Allah give her Shiva, Salah Moloko
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So I'm Ali Kamara low, but I get to share why they come Salam rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh Go ahead. Oh, Mohammed, this just like allow careful what you're doing for the OMA Zanna. Yeah, come thank you so much.
This is my question. I applied a job.
And they build in a new place, I suppose to be starting next week.
But they said it's because the building is not ready. We're going to start January 9. My question is they're saying they can obey us from November 28 until January 9, even though I'm not working. I'm not going there.
Was this Hello?
Respected sister. Oh, Mohamed, you said that who is building you the building? And why would they pay you?
That company is building a new building. Where are we going to go to work? Okay, so you're talking about work is not ready. You're talking about your employer. So basically, they are paying your salaries even though you're not working? Correct. Exactly. And your question is about whether it's harder to take this money, it's 100% halal.
Oh, just go out there.
Thank you so much. And I'm really thankful that you're inquiring about that. May Allah bless you.
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Thank you, Chef.
question regarding
imitating the disbelievers I have
I have a confusion on this. Because I don't know where to draw the line. Because I heard that wearing suits. Ties is permissible, right? Then why is it not permissible to
emit I mean, get a haircut like your favorite football football player? Because it is anyway it's not related to his religion. I'm just trying to go be into Hey, good, good. It's good. And I heard that. Yeah, I heard that only you should not compete as believers in regards to their religion, which is so Hakan is not rest of the religion. So can I go be in a good Oh, my favorite football player? Thank you.
Very valid question. The concept of the prohibition of imitating the non believers in their behavior, in their traditions and in their outfit, if it is something exclusive for them.
So certain people, they were a particular attire, and they are known the followers of this religion, only then the word this, then do not imitate them. It's not common in your culture to dress like them. So it's not permissible to imitate them.
But when you say suit and tie, when you say you wear name brands, or you wear pants and trousers and shirts, and whatever suits you that you have to keep wearing the soap. No. As long as this is something that everyone wears, it is not distinguished and only non Muslims. It's common among Muslims, as well as non Muslims. But do we as Muslims, like Muslim men do wear a pair of shorts and walk in the street shown our thighs? No. It's haram. What if I traveled to the states and I do like them in the summer we'll go out go
Have lunch or will go to dine here and there and watch movies and wearing a pair of shorts, man, I'm covering my mirror hour that is called the shampoo resembling them that is not permissible. You understand
a haircut.
Normally, any person who does a particular hairstyle, it applies to Kazaa and then Emile Salah Salem forbid that anyway, even if it is done by a Muslim, which is to shave or to cut some of the hair and to leave the rest, that is not permissible. And because of that, you choose a purse, whether he's a singer, a dancer or a player, you love him so much you imitate him in the haircut. So, you are imitating him because of being very distinct. It is known that this person only this person or his barber or his Hair Styler, who invented this so this is very obvious, versus wearing suits or ties or
name brands were everybody was that Muslims or non Muslims? Baraka Lo Fi? Yes, I would. May Allah guide us to what is best a Santa Monica
nacio from Norway. Welcome to Hooda TV nasiha
Salam aleikum che Alaikum salam or not Allah who work at?
My question is I eat non halal meat in Ramadan between 2016 and 2090? Do I need to fast it again?
You're saying that during Ramadan, at the time of Iftar, not during the day? Yes, you eat not halogen. Okay, that does not meet that doesn't affect your fasting. It has something to do with eating and consume something which Allah has forbidden, which requires you to make it so far and repent Unto Allah with sincere intention that you will not do it again. Whether you've done it deliberately or by accident, but it doesn't affect the validity of the fasting that you're fasting during the daytime, or the prayer that you offer during that time. Okay.
Salaam Alaikum.
Since the Russia from the UK,
like Musa when I was 11, I got to share.
I've got to
my question is, I've got a three year old son
who I do learning activities with at home, and I take him to do activities outside, like play groups.
So at the age of three, normally there's 10 The kids
that I Sorry, sorry, yeah, you're three years old. Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. Yeah. So
at age of three, normally, you have the option of taking them to nursery, which is daycare, or so I'm thinking Islamically is it best to send him to like a nursery so he can socialize or should I carry on doing what I'm doing at home and take him out? Second question.
Second question is he's got a he does football.
So his teammates having a birthday or they're doing a football game?
I'm sorry, I'm sorry. You said your son is three years old, right? Yes, he's three years. He's doing football and he's in a team and his teammates are having a party. MashAllah so he's three years old and he's playing football
Yeah, just just football is just just socializing. I know I understand. So you want to be you want them to be like masala
No, no no
I'm just confused because he's someone's they want to be seen make birthday and obviously they do something with the code and I don't know if I should take him or not to be honest. Oh, that's my question is okay. Thank you, Sister Aisha from the UK May Allah bless you and your family and we're very proud of you and what you do with your son, Masha, Allah.
You know, you're doing a great job. What you're doing in your own is the best. No other school can provide for him the kind of care and activities that you provide for him at home during this time. So all the way up until the age of five or even six, keep doing what you're doing. You can take him occasionally, like, you know, to the training, football, swimming.
The community that have a lot they have in some activities, Boy Scouts with the Muslim community. You know, this is how he socialize with the people and he doesn't feel like you know, disconnected
I wouldn't feel comfortable putting my kids in a place where it is run by non Muslims or secular people for eight hours a day, you know, the brain will be, you know, washed, you know, it will be stuffed with informations. That contradicts our belief, definitely no doubt. So at least let him grow up after he absorbs whatever the correct belief and the teachings that he will be doing at home as far as for the activities, you're taking him to the training to the football training. But I do not take my kids to birthday parties or whatever, I simply, everybody should respect my choices. If I don't do it, I do not attend it, as well. I'm not saying that if you go it would be like a major
sin or anything. But I'm a person who
I decided to take Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam as my role model. And I believe that after studying the biography and the lifestyle of Prophet Muhammad Salah said that, indeed he was the greatest man ever walked the earth. He never celebrated his birthday. Know that any of his companions so I'm following the style of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam. So my advice is, you know, you take him to lawful activities to the practices the training not to these bodies. Thank you, Sister Aisha from the UK a Salam aleikum.
darvish from India.
Kulish Can you hear me?
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I like Alaikum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh
I have
one grade
verb for example.
And then he went to verb niche. So for example, he was to rock as they
and then when the Imam concluded Salam,
someone else came and touched his back. So to make him form, the last position
as this
will dismiss Allah is known as Hoekman Imam Patil must book
the ruling on a person who came late and when he joined the GEMA he's still making optimist records or paths of the prayer and then somebody followed him so he has become an Imam and there is a difference of opinion. But the answer in shortcut Yes, it is permissible and it counts as Jamar Baraka lo fuge.
Sad from Qatar
and the man from the UK Welcome to Buddha TV Abdul Rahman.
salam alayka like walaikum salam rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh man, how are you?
I'm getting hamdulillah how are you? I'm doing great. Glad to hear from you. How old are you?
1313 Masha Allah. So what is your question today?
I'm going to another school and the PE kit. The clothes for the peak is playing Red. So what should they do? The plane red
plane red plane. Say this like, oh do uniform?
Yeah, you mean the top and the bottom? Or maybe the shirt is red? And depends on navy blue.
Yeah, yes. In this case, it's permissible. Because we're talking about the whole outfit plain red. Okay. If it is from head to toe for men, plain red. It is disliked. Okay, what since there will be another color it's okay for you have the right man. Very proud of you. Just like aloha and keep calling me. I like to hear from you. Again. Abdul Rahman okay. And will definitely give you a priority. Once you call them. Brothers and sisters Jazak Mala Heron for tuning in. Thank you so much. May the Almighty Allah guide us toward his best and May He keep us steadfast on history path. May he pardon us forgive us all our sins, and may he admit us to the gardens of Paradise. A hole of
Holy * that was tough for Lolly well SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad Ali, he
So have your salat wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
Our God is the greatest
glory to Him.
Illness to be the best, and give his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest, the one and only glory to Him. He only used to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, worshiping comes fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest
day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys are shipping cars fire and stores selling their best were the cheapest
Habiba