Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #581 The Book Of Duas

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The speakers discuss the importance of praying for others and not just yourself in Islam, as well as the use of negative language and the misperceptions of people. They also touch on the loss of family members due to the pandemic and the challenges of returning to work. The importance of good deeds and gratitude is emphasized, and the use of negative language and the misperceptions of people are discussed. The segment ends with a brief advertisement for a program on returning to work.

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			As salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Anna, you must have
her. So you didn't know Mohammed in wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Manuela, we're back, my dear viewers,
welcome to another live edition of Guardians of the pious and today's episode is number 281. And it
will be the second in chapter 581. I'm sorry, episode number 581. And it will be the second in
chapter number 251.
		
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			Bob will probably do it below here live. the excellence of making dua in one's absence to pray for
somebody in their absence. We tackled one beautiful Hadith last time and this hadith is in the same
line. It recommends supplicating
		
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			for others in their absence, so that they will benefit and YouTube will benefit. So in the chapter
of Hadith number 14 159 is a sound Hadith and it is collected by Imam Tirmidhi may Allah have mercy
on him. And ebitdar There are the Allahu Anhu and Rasul Allah He is Allah Allahu Allah He was a
lemak Kern aircall There were two more in Muslim India he AB monster jab and RC endorsee he Malecon
McAllen cola Medallia he'll be hiring Paul and manage worker Obi Amin wala can be method of law.
This is so beautiful. This is such a glad tiding and great news. And it presents Islam in its utmost
beauty. So a Buddha in this hadith may Allah be pleased with him, the rated that rasool Allah the
		
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			Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said,
		
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			the supplication of a Muslim for his Muslim brothers or sisters in his or her or their absence will
certainly be answered. This is the first Beshara that is the first glad tithing. And then every time
he makes a supplication for a good hour for good for his brother, or for his sister, or for his
brothers and sisters, the angel was appointed
		
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			to be next to him. For this particular task, we'll say Amin, and we'll add to it while I can be
messy, and may be for you too. So in the previous Hadith, we learned that
		
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			if the person made dua for somebody else in their absence, the angels who's appointed with this
task, what can be called immune in the ROTC and next to his head, when he is you supplicating for
anyone, even for your parents, for your children, for your siblings for those who meet.
		
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			But in your schedule or after the prayer or at night, you raise your hands and you say oh Allah
bless my brother so and so or you heard this person is sick and you started making dua for them in
private in their absence. This is something amazing. Only a true believer will do it you care about
others whether they know you or
		
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			not whether they know your.
		
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			Bureau did why because they did something good who taught them who and inspire them when he
commended them to do what is good he'll see you'll get a similar word and messenger of Allah peace
be upon him said
		
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			costuming, edge real ammunition,
		
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			yet, now because you will get a share of the reward that the role will be divided, know, the doer
gets that much reward and you've guided him to the act, you get the same exact reward without
diminishing share, or the word of either one of you. Allah is the most generous.
		
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			Today's Hadith, there is another segment which is the angel will say, Annie, oh Allah accept these
dua for his brother for his sister for their brothers and sisters. Then he adds, while I can be
missed, and Oh Allah, give him likewise, may be for you, too. You ask for this person's health. It
will benefit your health as well. You ask Allah to grant him a good income, a lawful irk, earning
good offspring, a good spouse, all of that similar to that will be given to you. The difference is
that instead of you are making dua for yourself and your DUA, you're a human being and we're all
sinners, the DUA will be made by a malloc, who doesn't disobey and their dua is definitely answered.
		
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			So in other words, to make the long story short, here is a very good deal. You want to benefit
yourself, by any mean, men do I have the same to somebody else in their absence? So Allah subhanaw
taala will accept your DUA, and since the angel said, Amin and he will say, may it be for you too,
you too will earn the blessing of this desire for yourself as well. Then you will shatter under the
same book of udva book number 16 kitab Odawa the new chapter is chapter number 250 to 252 Mercer
Illumina do
		
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			miscellaneous issues
		
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			pertaining to do such as the first hadith is the sound Hadith collected by Imam tell me the
		
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			and also I'm at Agnes ADA Radi Allahu Anhu Nakane
		
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			paella Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, mon Sana mon Sonia e li ma rufen for Paul and if any
reserach Allahu Hieron Felco the Ebla Rafi Sena
		
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			Hadith number 14 196
		
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			The great companion the son of the great companion Osama even as a May Allah be pleased with him and
his father headboard Sula, Webb no Hibiya Rasulullah sallallahu sallam said, the Messenger of Allah
peace be upon him said
		
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			he, who is favored by another. Then he says to his benefactor Jezza Kala, who, hi Iran, may Allah
reward you well,
		
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			he indeed praise the Benefactor satisfactorily.
		
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			Yanni, he indeed, praised them, and appreciated him enough.
		
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			Our most beloved Yanni he indeed, praised them, and appreciated him enough.
		
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			Our most beloved, encourages us to do well to each other, and to do favors to each other. And he has
told us that the best deed before Allah is helping others doing favors to others. Why am I
anticipating any gratitude from them, you're doing this for the sake of Allah, so you should expect
the reward from Allah.
		
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			And as I mentioned earlier, in one of the previous episodes, we have a habit, which is whenever we
give in a charity, we asked the beneficiary the recipient, so just make dua for me. Don't,
		
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			don't ask him to make dua for you. Automatically. He's going to make dua for you. He's going to
supplicate to Allah and ask you to bless you and give you more. Why because you're generous. So when
you give me all pray for you, but when you ask him to pray for you, it sounds like this is a
compensation for your payment. No, no. Learn read domain comm Jessa Wella Schuco Ra.
		
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			We're not anticipating any compensation, not even a word of gratitude from you. So rattle in said,
		
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			in the NaNoWriMo community, Allah, we're doing this for Allah sake, seeking His pleasure. So that
you say
		
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			To me in my face, which is the law higher than your division person ever, you're the most generous
person all of that doesn't count. What counts is that My Word is what Allah hamdulillah my charities
from lawful earning, and have given it with sincerity. And I'm not anticipating any gratitude from
anyone. I'm just anticipating the road from Allah. Congratulations, Your Word is confirmed. On the
other hand, Islam teaches us whether benefactor or beneficiary, etiquette, somebody has done you a
favor. Somebody, you are a petty stallion, your consent the seat, and it's not across an area and
the driver slowed down to let you draw a toll on your cross. It was your fault. So you should do it.
		
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			Thank you, sir, with a smile, wave with your hand. Some people are very rude. They won't even show
any sign of appreciation like this is they take it for granted. This is not a crossing area. Another
person could have helped you. So this person's low down he came to a complete stop to let you cross.
Thank you.
		
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			Sometimes the benefactor or the doer of a favor, or the giver of the gift or the charity is very
generous. So he gives you something that you cannot afford to compensate him for.
		
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			Yeah, I know some people give gifts, cars, vehicles. One day Somebody contacted me and said I really
appreciate what you're doing. I want to make a deal with you. I want to buy you a car. I said what
four? He said because I appreciate what you're doing for the OMA blah blah blah. Jessica Lohan I
said I already have a car a brand new car. Okay, what about buying a flat I said Alhamdulillah I
live in a good flat. You know there are a lot of people a lot of dua, who cannot afford it. So you
can actually look for them do not look for the celebrities do not look for the famous ones. Look for
those who are given the football and they cannot afford to buy breakfast for their families. You
		
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			know, let's say that Masha Allah, the guy took the advice, and he chose five or 10 duat. And he
said, I will sponsor you. He's given and the dua or beneficiaries, or the Orphans or the Moroccan or
the widows. So in supporting the financially, how can I compensate you for that? I cannot compensate
you by giving you the same. The prophets, Allah Salam said it is okay. You can instead make a
beautiful dog for him, which will be satisfactory,
		
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			which will be an enough appreciation you will be doing him a favor by saying JazakAllah what Hiren
and now, I want to take your brothers and sisters, the Indo Pak brothers and sisters, and also the
brothers from Bangladesh. It is very common in this part of the world. That when you want to pray
for somebody who said Jazak Allah JazakAllah Isn't this what you say? You say Khuda Hafiz? Allah
Hafiz. And he said Jazakallah brother Joseph Allah sister.
		
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			That is not really what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Because Jazza aka Al Jazeera could be a
word or punishment. It's a means of Recompense.
		
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			Giselle, whom Bhima Subaru
		
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			Jonathan harira. So this is a word for patients. And then is it just that for the Marcia or the sin
		
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			Jessa and without
		
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			an equivalent punishment to the sense
		
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			so the Jezza works as recompense compensation good for good and bad for bad and that's why it will
not be satisfactory to say Jazakallah brother mazurka lewat
		
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			you know, continue to complete the phrase that Wah is incomplete. It could be good or bad. Right? So
what do you say? Jazak? Allah Who Hi Ron De Zack Hello. Hi Ron. If you want to earn their word, if
you want to show a true appreciation as a Prophet sallallahu ala send in the same desert Hello, Hi,
Ron Falcone Abdullah his center he is indeed praise them. You only praise the Benefactor
sufficiently here.
		
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			There is another Hadith in which interview SallAllahu sallam said it's collected by Buddhahood sound
Hadith Manzana li Kumar will fanfic fu if somebody did you a favor you should compensate him for you
should pay him back for inlanta as you do Matt Okay if you owe who the What If you cannot afford to
compensate him or something?
		
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			equivalent
		
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			people came to visit you when you were sick, mashallah big pack of fruits, wow, the cost about
500 500 Is my whole month salary. So, when I knew that one of them is sick or I went to visit them,
I cannot take the same gift or the same value just by visiting them and making dua is sufficient.
Third do ruler who had thorough and careful to move.
		
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			So if somebody did you a favor, and you cannot afford to compensate him or pay him or word him for
that favor, then make dua for him until you feel that you pay them enough. So glad actually is
better than any favor, any financial gift or a financial giving. So this is a prophetic guidance.
The Almighty Allah says in number 60 of Surah Al Aqsa of Surah Rahman Al Jazeera
		
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			Cerny in
		
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			the Word of God should be good, the compensation of what is good, should be something good. You do
good deeds, Allah will not waste your Word will not waste your deeds in Allah Allah Allah you will
we will add your ramen Santa Ana Allah you will see that in your record and will be compensated by
Allah a great deal for word. Likewise when somebody does you a favor, you should be appreciative.
You should be grateful. You should be thankful because the prophets Allah Allah Allah selama Sade,
la escuela Mala ash Corona is
		
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			if you're not grateful to people, then you're not grateful to Allah subhanho wa Taala the same
attitude.
		
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			And then we also know Allah, Allah Salam, once in the long Hadith in his conversation with Al
Ansari, as you know, after the Battle of COVID-19 was in unforgive. And he wanted to appreciate the
patience and the givings of an answer. So he said, we're going to Marsh oral answer as for you,
people have an answer the supporters
		
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			AlLadhina teboho Dharawal. Iman and accompany him up bounnam and her daughter Elaine, and Scarlett
and hash
		
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			for Giselle como la Hira. He prays for them. He said, may Allah word you very well. And compensate
you with what is really good for him knock on effect on Samar. You're very pious. You're very
patient. You've been supporting us. May Allah bless you. Omar mohatta Radi Allahu Allah.
		
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			Say Allah Allah, Allah mojado commander who he actually he just ask Allah Hassan.
		
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			If any of you are to know how much reward he would receive in saying to his brother, Zack Allah Hi,
Ron. Lag Sara minha Babu, Camilla, you guys would have been saying it all the time to each other.
		
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			Unfortunately, among Muslims, there are some Muslims with weak Islam or superficial commitment to
the dean.
		
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			You find them following the mainstream media which is targeting Muslims and practicing Muslims. So
they take Muslims as mockery, their beards, the hijab of women
		
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			appearing like a practice Muslim, they make fun of them. Yes, those are the words from the Arabic
media. I'm not gonna say the ministry Minister media, the Arabic media in the Muslim countries, most
of their comedy shows about the practice of Muslims, whether a woman wearing niqab or a man is
bewildered, and he's very NFL is going to the machine or somebody is trying to speak classic arabic
speak the proper Arabic, the Arabic of the Quran.
		
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			So they made fun of form, they make fun of them as how they talk, one of our brothers who came to
study in Egypt
		
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			to study Arabic, and he had started off already many Americans, you know, Native Americans are not
immigrants. I mean, their grandparents, not necessarily the Indian Americans, their parents and
grandparents American so they accepted Islam and started learning online and learning in the local
machine. Then they decided to make a run to acquire a degree in the Sharia. So they go to some
Muslim countries, those Muslims who speak Arabic they make fun of them. It's very unfortunate.
		
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			Whenever they make a statement that Joe Zog Aloha urine, and the mimic what they say in a funny
sound
		
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			they are stupid
		
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			They don't make any sense they're ignorant. Who Allah we pity them? Because I wouldn't have said if
you people are to know how much reward and what kind of goodness you get when you pray for somebody
and say Jazak Allahu Allah may Allah bless you. You want to have been saying it all the time to each
other for a reason or no reason?
		
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			You mean this guy the cameraman in front of me is laughing. You seem to say JazakAllah Heron does
that Allah Hiram, bro i Can I get a sip of water Jessica lo Hi, I'm Jessica Lohan and because when
you pray for him, you pray for yourself.
		
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			And it's very simple and easy. So those people leave them alone. They're losers and stick to the
beautiful teachings of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. Yeah, husband and wife, parents,
children, children, parents, siblings, everything just like a love heron. Can you hand this one to
me? Yes. Well, I can say thank you. Is it okay? It's okay. But thank you mean thank you, but your
Zocalo Heron is a prayer is a DUA and a similar word of this dua. The word Hiren is anonymous, it is
not the definite it is in the indefinite higher and not a higher higher than any goodness. So since
it is indefinite, and since it is natural, Hi, Ron. Good spouse. Godly offspring. Good job. Godly
		
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			income, godly life hope livelihood. Godly house. Good health. Good return. Jana forgiveness. All of
that lies in the word Jo's cola who hire and what is stopping you from St. Joe's like Alafaya.
		
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			You're watching a program right now I want everyone to say to the team, who is working hard to
produce this program. All of those who are behind the cameras. Tell them just like Kamala Harris.
Well lay brothers and sisters pray for them.
		
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			You will be shocked when you know how much do they get paid? And they have nothing to do but who
they're
		
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			producing those programs dedicating their lives to. And believe me
		
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			that next door there are other channels here and other stuff, which is not permissible. They offer
double, triple and quad the salary but they say no, we want to share their word. So on your behalf,
I tell them
		
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			I tell them Jazza como la hire
		
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			those who are supporting financially this episode to be aired it costs money, satellite lighting,
air condition, set, people going back and forth. So those who are paying towards that, without their
payment will be in trouble. So I tell them also JazakAllah Heron worklife Allahu Allah, may Allah
give you better than what you spent for the sake of Allah and Fiocco me Mary lady, attack him, he
gave it to me.
		
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			And he said, give away a part of it. And when you give away a part of it, I will give you more. So
we give and the beneficiaries the recipients, widows, orphans,
		
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			Misaki and poor people deciduous, aka la Halen, and they make dua for you. One who is not seeing
that is foolish one who's not realizing that he's doing himself a favor by making dua for others.
		
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			He's losing it he doesn't understand what he's missing. Oh, may Allah subhanaw taala guide us toward
his best.
		
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			Here
		
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			there was a beautiful dua
		
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			that will say to her, Aisha, Radi Allahu anha
		
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			because every time she traveled with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and she had an incident
Allah delivered is to the OMA because of this incident such as the issue of Taya moon and also when
she went to answer the call of nature and she was late, or when she was when she lost her Nicholas,
after one of the battles and so on. So
		
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			So I will say,
		
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			ignore Diana, may Allah be pleased with him. used to say to our Aisha Radi Allahu Ana jozankei level
Hieron Oh, what did he say jazz key. The pronoun for a feminine is the same of a masculine in the
second person jazz aka the calf, but the vowel is different. Just Zakka for a masculine just a key
for a feminine just a coma for dual masculine or feminine. Giselle come for masculine but it can be
for feminine as well. Jazzy Hakuna Giselle Hakuna that is exclusively for plural, feminine.
		
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			So say you didn't buy you may Allah be pleased with him use the settler hhsa kilo Highland or Mother
of the Believers. Bye
		
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			Hola miRNAs Allah Vicky Imran caught in Jaya Allah Allah who like him in Omaha Raja Audrianna in
Muslimeen Fe here Baraka, nothing has afflicted you, but Allah has delivered you out of this
hardship. And meanwhile, he gave a relief to the OMA, a concession to the OMA a favor. He favored
the OMA by the hokhmah which resulted and from the situation that you will put in, such as the issue
of terrorism, and the permission of resorting to the MO instead of Moodle, brothers and sisters, to
all of you, Jay Sekulow higher and for watching. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in a
couple of minutes please stay tuned just akoma Hira.
		
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			Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. In this segment we'll open all our phone
lines ready to receive your calls and for that let me quickly remind you with our contact
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			We have some callers on the line already sister Luba from Bangladesh As salam o alaikum.
		
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			Salam aleykum Sheikh Well, ecommerce seller ma rahmatullah wa barakato Luba Welcome to the program.
Go ahead.
		
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			Thank you shake my question is if I recite Surah Fatiha and AYATUL kursi seven times for the PA then
how many times I have to blow in my palms are blowing my partner.
		
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			Okay, Jay Sekulow Hi Ron Luber. Thank you so much.
		
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			Amina from India Salam Alikum Amina
		
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			I
		
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			almost sell em water Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh Shiva I mean How old are you
		
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			four years old Masha Allah you really old Masha Allah. Beautiful you call him from India Amina
right.
		
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			Yep. I love you so much, Masha, Allah Amina, I'm very happy you called then you wanted to ask about
something today.
		
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			Thank you so much. Jessa Kyla who Hira May Allah bless you have a question? Sure. Go ahead.
		
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			Can you do
		
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			this in the normal day? And?
		
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			And
		
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			sparkles in the nombre de
		
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			nom de I to be honest with you and Mina I didn't hear the question properly. Can you do what on the
day? Can you pause cracker? Can you for cracker on one day?
		
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			any day, any day?
		
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			Unfortunately, I don't understand the question. I wish I could answer you.
		
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			Shake.
		
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			can reverse crackers and fosters on a normal day not on the valley.
		
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			Not on what day? You mean? You mean the father walks the crackers?
		
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			Yeah, fireworks. Okay.
		
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			Got you.
		
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			Okay, okay. Yes, as long as you do it while you have your parents supervision or an adult because it
hurts and it can cause fire. So if it is not a celebration of any of the festivals which are not
Islamic festivals, then it is okay. And you want to do it on the eighth day or when you graduate
when you have a wedding on or for having fun. All of that is permissible as I say provided under
supervision of an adult okay so that you don't hurt yourself. Amina from India. Thank you so much.
		
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			Sister OMO.
		
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			In brothers want to make a house for young children and they will hire teachers and teach them Quran
so they asking for help. So can I give my some of my zakat money to them because normally I pay
myself half in Ramadan time, so I already paid so can I keep them some of money for next year? Okay,
there are a couple of things in your question sister Okay, so number one the recipients of this
account number two the due date of the payment so it is permissible to pay years in advance. And
then whenever Ramadan comes, which is your regular due date, you deduct the payment from the due
amount. So this is permissible as far as the recipient and number 60 Chapter number nine, Surah
		
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			Toba, the Almighty Allah explained in detail is the eight categories who are eligible to receive the
Zika now among them building schools or massage, this is a duty of the own math to check interval
schools and massage it whether the state or the public, but an orphanage it is permissible. So if I
know that for certain this building that I would chip and or I will participate in its construction
is only for the Orphans or the poor people
		
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			as a kitchen for the poor people
		
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			as
		
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			as time for them in order to stay in a refuge or an orphanage. All of that is permissible as long as
user care will end up benefiting Alfa Hara or LMS akin but a Quranic school my kids and your kids
and the rich people's kids and the poor people's kids will go to it so everybody benefits out of it.
The care mainly should be directed towards benefiting Alpha Cara almost again the poor and the needy
		
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			tuba from India. Salaam Alaikum. Tuba
		
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			Yes, a Salam Alikum I hope I'm saying your name correctly, Kuba.
		
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			Yes go ahead. Oh
		
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			god I'm listening to
		
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			this the second
		
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			Are you still there
		
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			Tada from suffer from Tajikistan Salam aleykum Safa.
		
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			Alikum Salam wa rahmatullahi wa Alhamdulillah wa sallam, welcome to the program. You're calling from
Tajikistan? Correct?
		
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			Yes, yes. Okay, go ahead.
		
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			Yeah, actually, my question is,
		
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			for example, we are Muslims.
		
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			There's a question. If our father's is drinking alcohol or the things is intoxicated or something
like weed smoking, that thing is haram. We as a children, can we give him money for his daily life
because we are living separately, it's our duty to look after him to give him money. We give the
money we understand that he used this in a bad way smoking weed or drinking alcohol will be sinful
or not. How can we fix this problem that your question suffer? Before answering the question, as you
know, brothers and sisters,
		
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			we discussed before the importance of not exposing the identity of the Kushner or the person whom
you're asking about or on his or her behalf if the question is kind of sensitive. So I would say
rather a third person somebody that cushion is on behalf of somebody. Okay, we'll put it this way.
No, do not give him money. If you know that he buys intoxicants on drugs with this money, rather buy
him food and medication and that's it. Buy him the best food organic food, fruits, meat and
medications, but do not give him cash whatsoever. Baraka Luffy suffer from Tajikistan. tuba.
		
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			Stuff Booba. Yes, salam ala.
		
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			Yes, yes. Go ahead.
		
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			Chef, my question is that if I tell a person that so and so check said that such and such thing is
haram. And in reply, that person frowns and says how can you say that? Has the bag bitten that
shape? No, that's
		
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			smell better question that is not backbiting.
		
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			Second question is that
		
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			as a female, if I watch videos that contain non Muslim males or females or even Muslims who are
putting music and they're not wearing hijab, etc, but I turn off the music. And I, for example, if
they're wearing tight clothes or things of that sort that will give the hour I'm not looking at
that. But the content is halal. It may be a blog, it may be a cooking show, and things of that sort.
Is it permissible for me to watch it if or
		
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			to give them advice? Like, please don't put music or please don't do things things then only it will
be halal for me to watch that. Okay. Okay. Yes, it is permissible to watch such show as long as you
put out the sound. And if there is something that you know that you're not supposed to watch you
lower your gaze, because many people think only men should lower their gaze and they should not look
at the beautiful room. Allah commanded women the same in the following Aozora, a new recording
Minetti of Mammon Abba, sorry when we're first gonna follow John but for the show, it's a beneficial
show with a science of cooking or educational and whether a male or a female it is okay for you to
		
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			watch it, or no problem. Exactly Lucha Libre from Bangladesh actually was the first Okay.
		
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			Sister Malian from Algeria
		
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			Malian
		
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			Salam Alikum.
		
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			Okay, try while I'm answering Luba Scotian. She said the recitation of Surah Fatiha seven times and
adequacy seven times and blown and so on. If you want to do that it's permissible. Okay, seven times
nine times 15 times. But if you're asking whether this is the Sunnah or not, no, it hasn't been
narrated in any Hadith. What has been rated as interview Salah Salem used to tell his companions
Erivo Allah here Ohakune tell me how the result rokeya Then he approved this or disapprove that and
anything from the Quran is approved, any segment of the Quran is approved. And 30 Ha and last and
what are we that autocracy is the greatest of the Quran. The prophets Allah Selim approved it as
		
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			Zootopia and Surah Al Fatiha in the sound hadith of Abu Salah Padre, he approved it as Okay, so if
you recite it three times, if recited seven times or more, fine as long as you don't believe that
this is a suit. This is the right setup and I have to do it every time seven times. Recite it as
many times as you want. But there is no prescription that says it should be recited seven times,
along with an autocracy seven times once is sufficient. You want to do more. It is definitely
permissible.
		
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			Since sister Sabina from the UK As Salam Alikum
		
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			walaikum salam Salam aleikum, Sheikh Welcome to the problem. Yes, go ahead.
		
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			I would just like to know the ruling on women when they become a widow. As soon as their husband
passes away, what is the process? And if there has to be if they have to stay indoors for a certain
amount of days? And if so, if they can come out just what the rulings of the basis of everything
Sure, please. Sure. So Sabina, in the beginning, we extend our condolences to the sister who lost
her husband and she's a widow. Secondly, the idea of the Quran or Surah Al Baqarah says, While
Latina with our phone, Amin Kumar, Donna as well as he does not foresee him out of that as putting
wash law.
		
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			According to this area, the widows when they lose their husbands, the eight day period is extended
to four months and 10 days. So they stay at home and they only go out whenever it is necessary. Like
if she's the only bread provider earner in the house, I have to provide for the family go. I go to
work and I come back and I spend the night at home or I stay at home. I don't have anyone to assist
new shopping I live in the UK go ahead and do your shopping. But attending parties and weddings and
celebrations no four months and 10 days because you lost your husband. You know if a woman lost her
daddy three days, the heeded three days the morning of the death a husband for months and 10 days or
		
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			less if she was pregnant then the ADA is given birth. And during the idea of a widow no makeup no
perfume. No Cahalane
		
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			ordinary clothes because she is mourning the death of her husband Sarah Molly kumara moto labor kit
		
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			sister Malian from Algeria, welcome to the program go ahead
		
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			Marchetto go ahead sister my young
		
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			she there is the system I know where work in their work and she usually do 15 days camping or less
than this for the kids, they do it like a decaf trying to reflect reflect upon the Quran and give a
lecture to the girls and to the boys sometimes also And
		
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			Alhamdulillah many of them what is the hijab after does and learn many things, and her family
support her in these things. But and also her husband. But now let her a 16 year son get changed. He
was like Masha Allah Allah
		
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			says the ammonium from Algeria, we lost your cone. Are you stay there?
		
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			Are you? Oh yeah, go ahead. You said her 16 years old son has changed? Yes. Yes, he changed. He was
like how much I'd like a person who think of the OMA and went to be a good person. But no, he's just
to be a stay at the computer on the internet. Most of the time, he most of the time. Not surprising.
And then he also he's sometimes be good but not as good as he was before. I advised her to just stay
with him for some times without doing this outside there were I don't know if I'm wrong, or I'm
correct with this.
		
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			I don't
		
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			care. Got your question, sister. Miriam, thank you so much. May Allah bless you. What this sister is
doing is great. May Allah bless her and I can assure you Allah will not disgrace her no disappoint
or concern her family, masha Allah, the child was 15 or 16 years old is going through the changes
the hormonal changes of adolescent see and being a teenager This is normal, but at least we need to
keep the minimum requirement being fulfilled Salah and Salah on time, okay. So, the aggressive way
of grounding him taken out with the computers and the disconnected the internet will not be very
healthy and will not bring about positive results. Rather we need to talk and if you will do in full
		
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			time job taking the girls for camps and educating them and upbringing then you need to spare plenty
of time for your teenage son your husband to is more needed than you during this time. We not in
sort of Shuara the Almighty Allah says to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam were elder Ashira tackle up
Arabi. Again, I should begin with my family.
		
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			And also inserted Tahitian and number six the Almighty Allah says yeah, you have Naveen man who
fullcycle Li, now Makoto Han nurse while hijra, protect whom? yourselves and who else? Li come. I'm
a guardian. I'm a shipper. Everyone who's living under my roof is my responsibility. Before I travel
to the UK, before I go to the USA before I spend time here and there, this is my priority. Guiding
the whole world is in one part and making sure my family is on the right track is the priority is
another part and that is a priority. Allah will ask you about yourself and your family. Keep
yourself and keep your son busy with you doing activities, perhaps for the boys as well.
		
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			Because we have to admit it, the challenges have become much greater and deeper. And we have to
provide the alternative. So if we have the alternative sports,
		
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			camping and outdoor activities for the boys, giving them tasks, putting them in summer school, to
handiwork explore their hobbies, if they are not busy with what is good. Shaytan will keep them busy
with the Internet. And unfortunately it is full of filth. It has plenty of goodness. You're watching
us through the internet. You're communicating with us and we're in our programs through the
internet. But not everyone is sitting before his tab or phone or computer using the internet is
watching something good or useful. Lots of Da SR and here we take advantage of this program. And we
make dua for the sister who is taking care of the goals of the OMA We ask Allah told
		
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			I have her son, and to keep him steadfast on a straight path. And as you know, we're making dua, in
his absence and in her absence, so the angels will say, Well, I can be messy. And same to you,
brothers and sisters, by that we've come to the end of today's edition of Guardians of the pious,
who didn't take much of a hadith. But thank you being calling and presenting questions until next
time, I leave you all in the care of Allah, according to how they had our stuff for Allah Ali
welcome wa SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Salam wa Salaam Alaikum
Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
		
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			religion to allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best.
Give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise,
we're shipping columns fire and stones, sending letters to the cheapest
		
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			day not
		
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			forgetting about how bad guys are shipping cars fire ran stores selling their best were the cheapest