Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #151 Aug 26th 2015

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The speakers discuss the importance of honoring the Prophet Muhammad's teachings and finding a partner for financial responsibility. They also address the use of wreaths during warmer weather and explain that it is allowed to be used for emergencies, not during regular prayer or traveling. The speakers emphasize the need for acceptance and finding a partner for financial responsibility.

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			love and God is the greatest alone and only glory to Him. Do you miss to be the best and give his
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			is to be the best and give his best religion to a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah he overcut Smilla
Rahmanir Rahim Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Nabi he almost affair so he didn't um Hamedan while
he was a happy woman who Allah, wa back, brothers and sisters Welcome to another new episode of your
program Guardians of the pious May Allah make us all from amongst Allah Jana, the people and the
rulers of paradise me. Today's episode is number 180 and will continue explained in chapter number
44 which deals with honoring the scholars, the elders, and giving them the proper respect and
raising their status.
		
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			Today insha Allah will begin with Hadith number 352. The hadith is narrated by Jabba Ignace Abdullah
may Allah be pleased with him and his father and Nabil sallallahu alayhi wa sallam can ajumma obey
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			hola hola Buhari.
		
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			So in this hadith
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam after the Battle of Muhammad was over,
		
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			started burying
		
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			the martyred,
		
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			arranging the burial of two of the martyrs in one gave.
		
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			In each case, he would ask, Are you whom, after the little Quran, which one of whom had learned more
Quran by heart, which one of whom have memorized more Quran
		
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			and whichever was thus pointed out to him, was placed by Him first in the law in the grave.
		
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			This is
		
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			an observation
		
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			of the companions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and how he
dealt with people according to the knowledge and their understanding. Remember, the area which was
used as reference in the beginning of this chapter is Paul Hellyer Stollery Anna? Jana Munna when
leadin Allah Allah moon in America, that bull will el Bab and we'll say this is a negative question
and its answer is definitely not. They shouldn't be treated the same, the knowledgeable one and
those who have no knowledge.
		
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			After math, and after the Battle of Ohio, there was a big plus. After the Muslims achieved victory
first and their enemies, the Americans under the leadership of Abu Sufyan fled from the battlefield,
leaving behind all the wars points and their valuables. So Muslims started collecting those points
and celebrating the victory. But when the 50 Archers, who led by Abdullah who by disputed and fully
formed decided to descend from the mount of the archers to join the Muslims in collecting those
spoils, hardly, they've never read sod this opportunity. And he managed to turn around and he
occupied this mound of the archers, and he started attacking after killing the remaining thing
		
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			companions on the mound of the archers
		
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			started attacking the Muslims and shooting them in their backs. And there was a bit chaos. Most
Muslims, most of the Muslim army ran off and left the battlefield and the Prophet sallallahu sallam
was left alone with a few of his companions.
		
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			As a result of that, there was a big casuality amongst Muslims. And Hamza the prophets uncle was
martyred. Most of them know my the first
		
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			Ambassador in Islam was martyred. Anicet de nada and many others 70 of the companions of the Prophet
Salla salaam were martyred.
		
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			And Muslims were worn out.
		
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			When the Americans left from the battlefield after the left, and they cover the few miles, they
disputed amongst themselves that you didn't really do nothing, because Mohammed is still alive.
		
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			Abu Bakr is still alive or Omar is still alive, you haven't achieved anything. He didn't claim any
land. He didn't claim any prisoners of war. You just killed some of them. So that was a suggestion
of going back and trying to eliminate the meaning of Muslims, perhaps kill the Prophet. And
particularly those companions who were like his ministers Abu Bakr are a marvelous man and ally, may
Allah be pleased with all of them. So as a result of that, and abuse Allah Allah Allah Salam,
Salman, those who are very near to him of his companions, and chased the Americans, and he camped at
a place which is known as Hamra Al Asad, a few miles away from and Medina. And they camped there for
		
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			some time in order to challenge the Mexicans who are ready to fight even though they were worn out.
The prophets, a lot of circumstances were broken, his face was injured, as blood came out of his
face. And, you know, it was a big chaos. When this all was over the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam
returned to bury the dead, and they were so tired and worn out.
		
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			So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam ordered, dig in the graves, not 70 but rather he would bury each
two in one grave.
		
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			Because as I say, they were so exhausted. So when they did so, and the number the casuality was big
70 The Prophet salallahu Salam would have to at a time to be buried, he would ask
		
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			are you Houma? exaro after the lien Quran, Allah, even at the time of death, even during the funeral
and the barrier, the person who has more or an MRI is more Quran is given superiority.
		
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			So they are all companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam have all performed Hedra have all been
martyred on the battlefield and the war along with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam What an honor. So
they've had to determine who's superior to the others. If this companion had memorized more Quran,
they dig the land on the side of the grave to bury each one. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would
ask who knows more Quran by heart, say this person, okay, bring him first, for your demo, you will
bury him first. So the preference was given even between each two,
		
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			to the one who have learned more Quran that shows us the importance of seeking knowledge, the
importance of learning Quran, and the superiority of those who know more Quran
		
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			not like us nowadays, if you travel across the Muslim world,
		
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			it's very shocking. It's very sad.
		
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			We'll see people put their kids in international schools so that they learn
		
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			English, French, and perhaps a third language,
		
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			to excel in math in science, which is all great.
		
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			But the child doesn't know how to read in the most half.
		
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			And only poor people send their kids to the madrasa
		
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			so that it's a common understanding that if somebody is poor, if somebody is handicap, if somebody
has a child who is disabled, or blind, put him in madrasa. We have to remove and eliminate this
false understanding No. Memorizing the Quran and learning the Quran is the greatest quality,
especially if the person comprehended what he learned, and if the person practiced what he learned,
		
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			but the first step is to learn and memorize. So the Prophet salaallah Salah and paid especial
respect to the companion who learned more Quran as they say they're also had their own companions of
the Prophet sallallahu Sallam but in the sound Hadith, you'd say, a you whom exaro After the little
Quran, who have memorized more Quran say the Sahaba bring him first they
		
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			didn't come down first. So we have to understand that when you spare some time for your child to
learn Quran, especially at the Golden Age, from five till 12 Because after that, especially when the
kids grow older, become teenagers and they go to high school, that a lot of obstacles, it doesn't
mean that it's over No, but this is the best time for them to memorize for them to learn. Some
people they consider insignificant memorizing Quran they say, yeah, what is more important is
practice and behavior. We say of course we agree. But also memorization is important. Do not
belittle that because you don't want it. No, no, I believe that because you cannot afford it. When
		
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			we're studying in the medical school, the best students are those in medicine, in pharmacology,
those who have memorized the Quran, there is no conflict of interest. You can achieve both. Why do
you think that if you want to be a successful doctor, then you don't have time for the DEA. You
don't have time to memorize Quran says who?
		
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			By experience, we prove this is not true. Al Quran gives you Baraka, Baraka means blessings,
blessings, in your time, blessings in your understanding. So, what others need, like a few hours to
study this class or the subject, you can achieve it and have this time or acquire of this time when
you begin your study by reciting your Starbuck or reading your Subak Allah will give you Baraka
		
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			in your time, the house in which Quran is recited expands. You been expensed physically, when
physically is not everything because I have met this lady. And she said, she'll pray for us ever
since we moved to this villa. Nice Palace is like * Wallahi she says it's like *. We're living
in *. And said, what if I asked you that there is a flood of one bedroom? Only one bedroom, but
you will experience happiness in it. And whatever is worrying you will depart you she said please.
So why don't you move and leave this house? Because I knew that this house or husband had bought
from haram. That's why there is no Baraka in it. When the baraka the blessings is withdrawn. It
		
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			doesn't matter how much you have, you will never happy. You're always complaining. You feel you
don't have enough. When you have baraka and the baraka and the blessings, the sense and it comes
along with the Quran. When you have a child at home who have memorized the Quran and he recites it
on regular basis there is no room for Shayateen
		
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			there is no no room for nightmares. There is no room for envy and sorcery and magical spells and all
of that because the Quran is there.
		
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			And of you so Allah Allah is LMSs
		
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			Alaikum bizarre Rawang
		
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			adhere and stick to their citation of the two beautiful bright Surah Al Baqarah.
		
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			What are the Amaranth in the Houma Baraka? What are the Houma Hazara for those who decide the
susurrus memorize them, understand them and recite them on regular basis? Baraka it brings Baraka at
home, a house in which Surah Al Baqarah is recited no Satan will enter it for three days for three
days. I know that people pay a lot of money some people even hire people and they fly them first
class so that they can recite Quran in their house and give them Rokia because the girl is not
happy, the boy is not studying or they feel that there is an evil eye and we all know all of that.
We deal with those people. You don't have to do any of that. Just recite the Quran on your own.
		
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			Spend some time with your kids bring a private tutor
		
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			when the father is paying 100 bucks for a piano class. Then when a Quranic teacher and a private
Quranic teacher is there to teach the negotiate with them, they want to pay 100 bucks for the whole
month.
		
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			On the other hand, I asked the Quranic teachers not to exaggerate in a charging because what Allah
is giving you, no one can match. No one can match. It's okay to make your living and to live a
reasonable life. But Quran is not about business. Whatever you're charging is not for teaching the
Quran. This is what the scholars said in our Hanifa said, This is not a compensation for teaching
the Quran because no one can compensate you for that but Allah but this is known as agile perhaps
		
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			because in order to spare
		
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			four hours a day for four or five families to teach their kids the Quran, I'm not gonna go to work.
So this is simply instead of going to work when again pay you ever you will get in, paid if you go
to work, but not for teaching the Quran. And the parents and the family should be very generous with
the teachers of the Quran.
		
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			Why we see them always in a very humble condition, enriching them if you have a chance if you have
access to do that, and Quran, the word of Allah subhanaw taala you know, when you're trying to
memorize the Quran, on the Day of Judgment, Allah will call upon you, you and your missus, and we'll
place the crown of the honor on your heads. Why? Because your child had memorized the Quran. What
about if you were involved in this process to Masha Allah? I know a few American brothers and
sisters, Native Americans, their parents are still non Muslims. They converted when they grew up,
and they started from the scratch. They started by learning the alphabet and they memorize Quran and
		
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			they memorize the whole book. And not only that the master the art of the recitation of the Quran. I
know a few brothers and a few Sister Sister three Meza, Mineski, masha Allah and Emma is the whole
Quran and she has an Asia as I would attend different dialects.
		
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			If she can make it then we can make it
		
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			whether you are an engineer, or an accountant, or a teacher, or whatever, we have the spare time for
the Quran that would give us superiority. What makes us better before Allah subhanaw taala and if
you're better before Allah, this is what matters most.
		
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			That what matters most. So even
		
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			at death, at the burial, the Quran give preference to those who knew more Quran among the companions
of the prophets, Allah Allah listen. The following Hadees Hadees number 353
		
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			is narrated by Abdullah Hypno Omar, the hubbub of the Allahu Anhu man and then the VO sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam I call Ronnie filmen me at a cell worku BC wack Fajr Annie radula and I had Huma
Barro Minal.
		
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			For an hour to see work with us, Laura, for Kayla Lee Canberra for the thought, whoo hoo Ill act
Berryman, Homi
		
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			Bhabha, who are Muslim
		
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			and this hadith, Abdullah Hebner, Amara for the Allahu anhu, many rated that the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam assayed
		
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			it was shown to me in my dream in my night vision, that I was cleaning my teeth with a miswak and
two men came to me, one being older than the other, and gave the menswear to the younger one. I gave
them a swag to the younger one. But I was asked to give it to the older, which I did.
		
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			Even in our mind vision, will obviously interview sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to honor the
elders and us to respect them. And we spoke before about how the prophets Allah Salam used to honor
his guests and use to honor the elders and he taught us that
		
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			and we mentioned a few incidents in this regard and there is plenty that we have not discussed yet.
		
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			Such as in the case of jerry rigged Abdullah Al Badgley and how when he came to one house and the
Prophet sallallahu sallam was sitting, but there was no room, the house was full. So the Prophet
sallallahu sallam, not that Jerry was standing by the door outside. He took off his own reader and
he grabbed it then he threw it to him and said, Sit on it.
		
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			So they're here, Chris did and he send it back to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and said a karmic
Allahu Allah rasool Allah can accompany. May Allah Allah you as you honored me, that was an honor.
That was an honor. salata Sena, there are many, many lessons we learn from the Prophet Salah Salem
with regards to honoring and respecting those who should be honored and respected. And this whole
chapter is about that. Once Abdullah in our best, and he was a young boy, a teenager sitting in a
halka, in which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was sitting
		
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			and he received a gift, a bowl of milk and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
		
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			purpose to share. He never began by himself. A bowl of milk is coming to the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam enough for him to drink.
		
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			By any state, he would pass it on on everyone then he would be the last to drink. And the Sunnah is
to begin from right to left.
		
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			So when he wanted to begin from the right side of his, he realized that there was this teenager,
about 1312 13 years old Abdullah had now best may Allah be pleased with him and his father. So he
said, Yeah, hola.
		
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			Very amazing.
		
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			He said, Oh, young man. Would you permit me to begin with the elders? I'm going to skip you because,
you know, we have elders. But there is here a conflict of interest, which is beginning with the
elders is a sin. And also beginning from right to left is a sunnah. But from right to left is given
superiority. But the person who sits into right is a young boy, Abdullah have now best He treated
him as if he was an adult, and he sought permission from him. He's teaching us he's teaching his
companion Salah Salem, he's teaching his companions the great edit
		
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			and ethics.
		
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			So you said
		
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			Maccon to the OCR be So Erica had an ally? No way. I was never gonna give any person a superiority
over me with regards to drinking after you because in this case, the prophet Salah Salem talk, I
said, Then he wanted to pass it on to his companions.
		
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			So he said, No, no, no way. I should be the first to drink after you and to place my lips where you
have been drinking. So the prophets Allah Allah Selim gave it to him. And he taught us also in this
hadith, a very beautiful etiquette and adapt. So Abdullah Hypno Omar Mahatama Radi Allahu Anhu might
say the Prophet sallallahu sallam said when I was asleep, so a dream, a night vision.
		
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			And I saw myself brushing my teeth with a miss wack. And miss work is a great tradition and Sunnah.
That the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said in the sound ahaadeeth Lola and Ashok Karla Mati
l'amour to whom this wacky Nakoula Salah Avila Coolio salah. If I'm not afraid that it will be too
much, or I would burden my OMA I would have commanded them to brush their teeth, with every Salah
before every Salah with every will do. The prophets Allah Allah Allah Salam, even when he was lying
down on his deathbed, he saw somebody is holding the miswak so our Isha understood what he meant she
grabbed hold of them as well. And she soften it and she gave it to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
		
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			SWAT Matera to lil Femi Marva Tula, Robbie, Bukhara to listen, is for your personal hygiene to clean
up your teeth and your mouth. Not that will never be we all brush our teeth, almost we brush our
teeth. But most of us most people, they brush their teeth because they don't want to have problems
with their teeth. They don't have any erosion. The Wonder tea is too good to look white. But in our
case, both we purify ourselves outside and internally brush our teeth. And we do that to please
Allah subhanaw taala in Allah Hi jameelah you hibel German, Allah is beautiful, and he loves beauty.
And he loves cleanness and he loves purity. And Allah or Buddha Robina or your head Bucha Mutata
		
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			herein, Verily Allah loves those who frequently repent and those who frequently purify themselves.
So even in a dream the Prophet Salah Salem saw himself brushing his this with the miswak
		
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			then the prophets Allah Allah Salam, so two men approaching him,
		
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			one is older than the other. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam handed over them as well to the
younger 130 Lelli. And it was said to me,
		
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			kept bearer give it to the older one, which I did.
		
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			Who told him that an angel or whoever told him that in the dream, most likely an angel further far
too ill advised him in Houma.
		
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			So the prophets Allah Salam industry, which has turned into a form of legislation,
		
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			a route your sadaqa in
		
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			was on men said that in urbane juice and in a novel way, sit that in what are behind us and the true
night vision represents 46 parts of the prophethood why is that? Because the Prophet salallahu
alayhi salam, six months before he received the first revelation in the cave, he started
experiencing a very unique thing which is, he would see the night vision and he would come through
exactly as he saw it, cafe Allah to soapy, like the daybreak, very clear, whatever you would see in
a dream it would come true.
		
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			So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam nearer say that the true night vision represents one part out of 46
parts of the Prophet why because the Prophet would lasted for 23 years, 23 years times two, that is
46 y times two, because the Prophet sallallahu wasallam experienced that through night vision for
six months, half of the year. So 23 years times 246. That is the meaning of the true nightvision
represents one part of 46 parts of the prophet hood. So this is a form of legislation kept there.
		
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			This is a prophetic a ticket, which the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did. And he mentioned that to his
companions, and they have transmitted that to us. So we learn that whenever we have a gathering, and
we have elders, we should always begin by serving the elders, respecting them and honoring them
brothers and sisters. Let's take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a few minutes. Stay
tuned.
		
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			heavy
		
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			heavy.
		
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			Started Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Brothers and sisters, our phone
number hasn't been changed Area code 0020238 Trouble 5249 alternatively Area code 0020 Double 125
Double 08679 and the email address is [email protected]. The following hadith is Hadith number 354
in the seas of gardens of the pious, the narrator of this hadith is a great companion of Mosul.
Ashari called the Allahu Allah, whom the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam used to enjoy listening to
his recitation. And once the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, You have been given such a
melodious voice similar to that which was given to Prophet David peace be upon him. The HUD ODM
		
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			Ismar Amin Meza marry, that would
		
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			have you most out of the Allahu Anhu con Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in them in
each learn in LA heeta Isla ik Rama the CHE batil Muslim we're Hamilcar Ernie, are you real Holly
fee? Well Jeff, he can wear a Kurama this will turn in Moog CELT bow about the wood will Hadith who
has been
		
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			in this hadith
		
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			our most beloved Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said out of the revered ants of Allah is to
respect the eight Muslims and the one who has memorized the Quran and does not exaggerate in it, and
does not neglect it. No, forget it.
		
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			And to respect the just rulers.
		
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			sadhaka Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam the hadith is a fair Hadith and collected by Abu Dhabi. Again,
some beautiful dab and etiquette in this hadith that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is teaching us
when you honor
		
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			an elder person.
		
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			That's a sign of loving and respecting Allah. That's a sign of revering. Allah, the Almighty,
because this command is from Allah, as he normally reminds us, if you truly believe in Allah and in
the last day, then honor your guest. Honor your neighbor say what is good or be quite so when you
honor this che but in Muslim, somebody who grew up and aged in Islam started growing gray hair when
you honor him, that's a sign of risk.
		
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			back then and revering Allah Himself.
		
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			When we were students, we used to take the bus and the train to go to school. And we will travel for
several hours every day. And of course, the population is so huge. So we crumbled in the train for
several hours, then we'll crumbled in the bus for another hour and a half or so. Back and forth.
That was like a daily routine. It was
		
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			some people look at it as a torture. But for the sake of Allah and seek and knowledge, it was okay
Alhamdulillah The thing is, every time we'll get in the train, sometimes you go early so that you
can catch a place catch a seat, because you can be sitting there for three hours. And if you don't
have a seat, you will be standing and you will not be standing a proper standing may be standing
only on one foot because it will be extremely crowded. Okay, so you go early and you make the best
effort. You go at fetch, you sit in the train, and then when the train is ready to take off, an old
man would show up. An old woman would show up, without any hesitation, you will find several people
		
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			popping up and say,
		
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			for me, I be my respected father, my respected Mother, please. What happened? Subhanallah we don't
think about the suffering. The three hours are going to be standing and whatever you think about one
thing, respecting this person is a sign of revealing loving and respecting Allah.
		
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			And you think of this person as you think of your own dad or your own man. Salam aleikum wa
rahmatullah wa
		
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			Serhan. from Ghana, salaam alaikum.
		
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			I said I want equal
		
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			Can you hear me?
		
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			Okay, please. So against this the ham.
		
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			Then, when I moved to the States, I used to teach youngsters, my age and older people.
		
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			And amongst those, I used to teach a priest who accepted Islam. And you started learning Quran. And
he was at the age of 70.
		
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			He was approaching 70 years old. Yeah.
		
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			And I saw that people who know him would would call him by his name, Ron. That was his name. And he
was a PhD holder. So call him Ron. So one day said, Uncle Ron, he liked it. He said, Why do you say
Uncle Ron said you gotta choose if you'd like me to call you Uncle Ron, Dr. Ron, Mr. Ron, whatever.
I cannot just call you by your name, Ron. So I saw tears in his eyes and said, you know, we didn't
learn that in that country. People either do not care the least. They just call people by their
names. I say we can do that. We cannot do that. This is a lack of Islam. If the person doesn't
respect elders, doesn't them doesn't give them the proper respect. This is a sign of weak Deen, weak
		
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			Islam. And I'm saying this so that every Muslim understands whether you live in in Mecca, where is
the Kaaba living in Moscow, or live in Beijing or living in Washington DC? You have to practice your
deen and adhere to the teachings of the Prophet sallallahu. Listen, Solomonic.
		
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			Sister ham from Ghana is back on the line Solomonic Yeah, well.
		
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			Yeah, go ahead, sir. Sir.
		
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			Well, even Salam Felicia, how are you? Just fine. 100 Thank you for asking me. I love you. She and
your family.
		
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			Please, I have one question. Yeah. Yeah, please. Please. I'm there with somebody that have gone to
married in the future
		
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			but I was in in my own country before I came here with him. But we have gone to see my family in my
in my country.
		
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			Everything we decide I'm here what kid when I get back to my country before we can get sadly he got
an accident. So he used all the money that we we going to
		
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			marry it with his
		
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			with, with everything, he's medicated everything so also, I'm also here
		
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			and I'm working and I have some money that I want to give it to him.
		
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			We can we can make the arrangements of the marriage action is it right for for Muslims to do that?
Because I've been with him I think five years now, but he doesn't have a job. So we are planning to
get married. Before I came here in Saudi Arabia to wake m&s here, before I came here to where
		
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			he is family, go and see my family. So we decided to get married. But now he doesn't have any money
in his bank account. So he helps we have it's not enough. But he has some. He's now working
		
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			from the hospital, who is now working, I want to ask you a couple of questions in order to answer
you. Your family is okay with that your guardian is okay with him with this. Of course you okay?
Yeah. Yeah. Okay with him.
		
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			After marriage, how's he going to support you? Is he going to find a job? Or is going to? What is he
going to do?
		
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			Right now, I'm here working, I have money. My salary is fine. I'm working in the hospital. I have
money, but he doesn't have enough money. I understand that. I understand that I already do. But
after marriage, are you the person who's going to support the family? Or is he going to support the
family and look for a job? What did he play now? He's working now he has recovered from the
hospital. He's now working is now working your sister Hi, um, you can support him financially in
order to get married legally. And there is no problem whatsoever in this regard? Yes, when Allah
Almighty says you have Emma and Farrakhan Emmalee him indicating that the financial responsibility
		
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			is due upon the man. It doesn't mean that at the time of marriage, if Alhamdulillah There is
chemistry, your guardian is happy with him and he gives you the consent. And he happened to have an
accident or is he if he's broke, right now? No problem, you can actually support him and your garden
can support him and people can support him. When are leaving your toilet body allaahu And
		
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			a proposed to marry Fatima. He had nothing. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Do you have anything
to give her as a dowry? They said none. He said what is Camilla the armor that I gave you? I gave
you he said it sitting at home he said Bring it. So it was a dowry that basically the prophets Allah
said and gave it to him before as a gift. No problem. When the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam
married to Hadith Radi Allahu Ana, she was considered you can say a multimillionaire and she
supported the Prophet sallallahu Sallam financially and she gave him time to contemplate in the cave
and and she spent our money on him but the Prophet sallallahu sallam was working and was capable to
		
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			work and earn he won't he earned and worked. Since he was even a very young since he joined his
uncle,
		
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			I will tell him, but what we need to find out that whether the person is capable to work and is
willing to, you know things accidents happened like in your case, if I understood you properly or
correctly, that is not working currently because of the accident. But eventually in sha Allah after
recovering he's gonna resume working no problem. You can give him this money if you want to give it
to him as a loan fine if you want to give it to him as a grant or as a gift to facilitate your
marriage fine. Remember also says to him that the dowry doesn't have minimum nor maximum. So if you
buy a simple ring, if he buys you in a gift that may be considered as adultery we pray for your
		
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			welfare both of you and happy Blissett marriage in sha Allah, Solomonic.
		
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			Brother Abdulhadi from the case a Salam Alaikum Jaesik glad to hear from you once again.
		
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			Mata libre cattle likewise, I have a question again regarding niqab on marriage, mainly family
convert Muslim, since that I'm looking good in Saudi Arabia. So my question now is my son who is
about to marry?
		
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			Can you give me a glimpse? How is the sooner we have married? Because I heard from Juan
		
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			Juan Puerto Rico often Islamic center that a father of a groom can can very can do the Nika and the
seranthony. For the marriage of the children or his sons. Another it's true or we need to go to the
qualified demand.
		
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			The simplest way of wedding ceremony for a Muslim tiny sha Allah says, I've been having
congratulation and may Allah make it easy for you
		
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			For your son and his future wife to get married in sha, Allah azza wa jal.
		
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			The order is that you go to the bride's family and it seems like you've been communicating okay? And
then there are two things, the verbal agreement, which makes the couple legally married from an
Islamic perspective, where they can move in and everything. But nowadays that is not sufficient
because in order to verify whether these two who are walking together in the moon or living
together, are officially married or not, so some countries require the marriage license. Some
countries require to process a marriage contract written marriage contract, and that there are
official
		
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			clerks who process the marriage contract, even for foreigners do that in order to be in the safe
side as far as they will Lima. Lima is an emphatic sunnah and it's a marriage banquet to be offered
either on the night of the wedding consummating the marriage or before or next morning, this is all
valid Anna Sydney Malakal of the hola Juan narrated that one morning when the Prophet sallallahu
sallam was married apparently to Zeinab, he ordered him to invite people for a feast or the marriage
banquet. It was the morning of his marriage Salah on insulin.
		
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			Also, it is perfectly okay for you as a father in law as the father of your child who just who just
get married in sha Allah, He will get married
		
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			to offer the walima in his state no problem we can do that. Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah market.
		
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			Sister Fatima from the case A and I'm learning from Sheikh Alaikum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakato
Oh, I'm fine. I'm hamdulillah thank you for asking sister faltan I have some questions on sending
charge.
		
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			By this question, can someone in the state of Omaha use this MP
		
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			and this says
		
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			but with good, man, I don't know whether can someone use it? Um, so this is the 14th I didn't get
your first question what rightly you said
		
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			that this type of product that we use for the NPT when we
		
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			when the weather is very hot somebody's mailing so I don't know if you can use this type of product
and these two days that as mailing good and bad mail inputs also coming up during patch okay.
		
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			Let me repeat what I what I understood for me was talking about number two number two question
number two question. Okay. Number two,
		
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			during the journey to pay for Hajj or Umrah can somebody shouting Salah if you asked to play at home
and also carry
		
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			the Wi Fi or not?
		
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			Okay, I think I know your question. Your questions, but before I want to advise brother Abdulhadi as
well Shala after the processing of the marriage contract, you need to do what is known as HR. Alisha
is the publicity and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said in the Hadith and ino had a Nikka
		
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			lino had Anika announced this marriage and another narration in the masjid announce it so that
people in the masjid know in the local community know that these people these couple are officially
married. There is also an additional says what Rebo Allah He a dwarf which is beating the drum which
doesn't have the metal parts of the duff as a sign of joy and happiness celebrating the wedding I
mean, but that goes along with getting the certificate or the paperwork so that you will be okay
with the local law. As with
		
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			the sister who inquired about a couple of things in * insha Allah this year she's plan on
performing Hajj, whenever you are in a state of a haram if the deodorant or antiperspirant that you
use in is order less it is okay to use it. Okay what is not permitted while in a state of haram to
use anything, which is a fragrance or perfume or
		
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			produces a fragrance or scents. Okay, whether that's your outfit, any outfit, which is considered as
a perfect hijab, lose and obey and perfectly cover the entire body except for the hands in the face
while you are in a haram. That is perfectly fine
		
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			because the Haram of a woman is an irregular everyday clothes with regards to shortening the prayer
yes if you're staying in Makkah, less than four days shorten the prayer but whenever you pray in
GEMA in congregation whether in Mecca or anywhere else when you're traveling, you pray with the Imam
if he's praying fool, obviously you pray fool like the Imam Exactly. Whenever you're traveling
you're exempt from offering them a wifey the sooner but
		
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			the two sooner before Fajr which are emphatic Sunnah the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam used to
observe whether he was traveling or resident because of their significance. And similarly they were
to prayer. And there is a difference of opinion between the scholars with regards to the rest of the
novel, especially if you are in a sacred place like in Makkah, where each prayer is 100,000 times
greater reward than praying anywhere else. So if you pray according to some of the aroma, then I
feel the sun and before and after. That is permitted and may Allah reward you. Brothers and sisters,
it is very unfortunate we run out of time I can imagine the The hour has elapsed Subhan Allah may
		
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			Allah give us Baraka in time but hopefully in sha Allah will resume would explain and Hadith number
354. Beginning the next episode inshallah next week, until then, as salaam alaikum, warahmatullahi,
wabarakatuh.
		
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			heavy
		
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			heavy
		
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			love and God is the greatest
		
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			glory to Him
		
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			has to be
		
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			his best religion to allah God has the greatest
		
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			glory to Him. He only has to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know
that forgiving all about an empire that was shipping comes fire and stones sending their best to the
cheapest
		
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			day ignore that forgetting all about
		
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			guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling their best were the cheapest