Muhammad Al Durrah – Be Ready for the Coming Future! Isha Khatira

Muhammad Al Durrah
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Buqah Al Khayf recounts his son's death, which was a sad incident, and mentions that the Shariah Council will cover the expenses of the grave. He later talks about his son's death, which was a sad incident, and how he had a family visit with a woman who was not Muslim. He also talks about his son's death, which was a sad incident, and how he was instructed to write a piece of paper in the presence of the church. He reminds people of the expiration of the church's rule on their property and the importance of forgiveness, and offers advice on forgiveness.
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Sabah Al Khayf. Good morning.

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Someone entered to his friend,

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and he said to him Sabah Al Khayf

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after he said, Salaam Alaikum.

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He said, Are you joking?

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Then he responded,

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as soon as I saw your face,

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I thought it's morning.

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Muqatil ibn Sulaiman,

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one of the Mufasirreen

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and one of the scholars

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of Tabi'in,

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he went to Abu Ja'far al Mansur, the

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2nd Khalifa in the Abbasid time.

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And

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Abu Ja'far asked him

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to give him maww'eha,

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to remind him.

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By the way, Muqatal

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is from Afghanistan,

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from a city called Balkh,

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Al Balqi,

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Rahimahullah.

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Sadia Amir al Mu'mineen,

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you want me to advise you.

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From what I heard

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or from what I saw,

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which one is stronger, Ashabab?

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Something you you saw.

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He said, from what you saw,

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Under him

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was the biggest empire

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at that time,

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Radiallahu

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Anhu Ardha

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said, and he left 11 kids

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with

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only 18 dinars.

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Imagine the khalifa of that huge empire.

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He left only 18 dinars for his kids.

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And they asked him before he passed away,

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why don't you leave money for your kids?

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He said, I left for them at Taqwa.

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So he said,

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they spent

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5 dinars for the kiffin

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and 4 dinars for the qadr, for the

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grave.

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And how much left the Ashabab?

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9.

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9 for 11 kids.

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On the other hand,

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Hisham

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ibn Abdul Malik also was a Khalifa,

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and he left 11 kids.

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And for each one of his kids,

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1,000,000.

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Then they listen.

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By Allah.

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That I saw in one day,

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one of after years,

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one of the kids of Umar ibn Abdul

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Aziz

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giving 100

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horses for the sake of Allah.

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And one of the children, one of the

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kids of Hisham ibn Abdul Marek asking people

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to give him sadaqah in the street.

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May Allah

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bless and protect all of our kids.

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Now, you Shabab,

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you want me to tell you something from

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what I heard or from what I saw?

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From what I saw.

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One day,

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someone, long time ago, came to US. I

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don't want to mention the exact name, but

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let's say Mohammed.

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And he got to know a lady who

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is not Muslim,

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and he decided to choose her as a

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wife. She is Christian,

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but he was too busy with the dunya,

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trying to make sure that his kids will

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be

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rich, will have money.

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And the lady was so busy with the

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kids.

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Allah blessed him with Abdullah

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Fatima,

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Amira, you know, 4 kids.

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After years, he got sick,

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and his brother decided to go and to

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visit him.

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The wife

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did not give a chance for the brother

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to visit his own brother.

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And, subhanallah,

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this

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this brother passed away.

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When we heard that he passed away,

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we went there, and we tried our best

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to convince the lady, because his brother told

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us, if you don't go to take my

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brother to the Masjid, they will take him

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to somewhere else.

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We tried our best to convince the lady

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to give us the chance

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to give him his right as Muslim.

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She said, you know what? Since you came,

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I will honor your visit,

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and I have I will have a meeting

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with my family,

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with my kids. Tomorrow, we will give you

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the answer.

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That was on Wednesday.

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Thursday,

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I did not receive any news.

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I called

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the number of

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the

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daughter

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who was, you know, knowledgeable person.

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Assalamu alaikum,

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sister Mariam. I don't wanna say the mentions

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in the name, so you wanna mix it.

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Mariam,

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I know you love your dad

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and you want to honor him.

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Please give us the chance

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to, you know, do the process in the

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Islamic way.

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And if you think about the money,

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the Islamic Shariah Council will cover all of

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the expenses for the grave.

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I left the message for this sister,

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and she responded to the phone of the

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masjid.

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She left the message,

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you we decided

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to take our father to the church,

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and we will put him in the grave

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of the Christian, you know, cemetery.

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You are not allowed

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to come close to our property

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or our family,

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period.

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Allah yashabab. The day of Jum'ah, I was

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giving the Khutba,

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and the brother, Muhammad,

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was in the church.

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Masa. What we learn from this?

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1st,

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don't let your desire

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to guide you to an end like this.

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If you already have a wife

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who is not Muslim,

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Muslima,

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write a piece of paper for us, for

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the masjid,

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and, you know,

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tell them that you have the,

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you know, give the right for the Muslim

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community to take you to the masjid to

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pray for your salat al janaazah.

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Because we called CAIR at that time, they

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said we cannot do anything if he did

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not leave the wasi'yah.

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So for those who already

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have this relationship,

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make sure to write in the wasi'yah

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that you want

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yourself to be with the Muslims, insha Allahu

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Ta'ala. 2nd thing,

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for our young brothers,

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also the sisters, subhanAllah,

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who are

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ready for marriage,

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but they can't because we made

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Zawad

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hard on them.

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If I ask the brothers here, because some

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of the brothers they leave because they don't

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wanna be embarrassed,

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If I ask how many of our young

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brothers

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who are

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ready for zawad, for marriage, but they cannot

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because of the chains

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of our culture?

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A lot.

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If I ask them

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to raise their hands, we will be surprised.

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Why don't we make the zawaj easy?

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The doors of Haram are open,

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and we will be asked in front of

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Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, about this.

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And this is not giving the shabaab

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the right to go

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in the haram doors.

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So we have to try our best

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to fear Allah and to make it easy.

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And I would like to end with this

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hadith,

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Would you like me to tell you about

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the evil people or the worst people? They

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said, yes, You Rasool Allah, if you want

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to. He said, This

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brother

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decided to establish his business

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in a village far away from the Muslim

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community.

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So there's no Masjid, no Quran, no halaqa,

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no brothers, no sisters, Sarawans, and this is

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one of the results.

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The one who goes by himself

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alone,

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away from the Muslim community, from the jama'ah.

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Means he is so harsh.

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Could be harsh to toward his family, his

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people, his workers,

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and Yama Urufdha, the stingy person,

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Al Baqil.

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Then he said,

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would you like me to tell you about

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worse than that? He said, yes, You Rasool

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Allah, if you want

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to.

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The one who hates people,

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and people hate him. May Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala put, you know, his love in our

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hearts.

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We should love each other for the sake

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of Allah,

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to avoid this, you know, kind of people.

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Then he says,

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He said, would you like me to tell

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you worse than that? He said, he said,

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means

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if you see someone is, you know, drowning

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and you don't care,

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And this person could be a family member,

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could be a brother who is in need

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for your help, could be in the business

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wide, in the education wide, in the akhlaq,

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in the deen, in any matter. If you

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have a chance to save someone,

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May Allah

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give us the help all. And he says,

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If someone goes to him and say, Yaqi,

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I'm sorry. It could be, as I said,

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between the family.

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A wife may ask her husband to forgive

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her, and he does not care. He closed

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all of the doors. A father

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who may receive the apology from his son

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or daughter says, no way. Because of what

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you did, I will not forgive you ever.

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SubhanAllah.

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We have to forgive each other.

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For that, we will gain the forgiveness of

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Allah.

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