Mufti Menk – Will I be with my girlfriend in jannah

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The speaker discusses the importance of acknowledging the loss of a situation and the need for people to act with love for their loved ones. They also mention the difficulty of avoiding punishment and the need for hard work to overcome difficult situations. The speaker emphasizes the importance of letting people know that they will be with their loved ones in Jannah.

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			Have you shed tears
		
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			asking Allah for something
		
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			that you either needed, wanted, or that you
		
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			lost and wanted to retrieve,
		
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			or you needed to have a situation
		
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			that you desperately
		
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			sought from Allah. If you have shed tears
		
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			for that, you need to realize it's Allah's
		
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			love for you that He brought you closer
		
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			to Him through a problem because
		
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			the point is the closeness to Allah. If
		
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			goodness brought you closer to Allah, it was
		
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			a gift. And if something negative brought you
		
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			closer to Allah, it was not a punishment.
		
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			It's a gift of Allah.
		
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			Nothing that has happened to you in your
		
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			life that brought you closer to Allah can
		
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			be called a punishment. It's not it was
		
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			the mercy of Allah.
		
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			I know of people who Allah tested by
		
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			taking their children away. Allah make it easy
		
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			for such people because it's one of the
		
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			most difficult, most painful
		
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			situations.
		
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			You need sabr
		
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			upon a level that
		
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			I personally have not yet gone through. May
		
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			Allah protect us all and make it easy
		
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			for us.
		
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			But when Allah has done that for you,
		
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			I know of people who then found Allah
		
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			as a result of the loss. Don't you
		
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			think that was a point of mercy?
		
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			Your little one is gonna be in Jannah
		
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			waiting for you, he was just a child.
		
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			But Allah has just made sure that you
		
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			go to Jannah too.
		
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			People come to us and say, will I
		
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			see my loved ones in Jannah?
		
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			We normally say inshallah. Right? You know what's
		
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			the true answer? Work hard, you'll see them
		
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			there.
		
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			Without that hard work, what do you expect?
		
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			You're walking towards
		
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			the other jay, and he's in another jay,
		
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			subhanAllah.
		
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			You see?
		
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			You see, well I see my this in
		
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			jannah, and that person in jannah, I've heard
		
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			the weirdest one ever.
		
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			Weirdest one ever.
		
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			Guess what?
		
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			Will I be with my girlfriend in Jannah?
		
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			I promise you.
		
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			I promise you.
		
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			Are you serious? He said, yeah. Because you
		
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			know how people people make it difficult, and
		
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			sometimes parents and communities and societies
		
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			make it very difficult for people to marry.
		
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			You see