Mufti Menk – Which Legacy Will You Leave

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The speaker discusses the importance of asking oneself if they do good things to others, even if they may not be theirs. They emphasize that Islam is not a complete love for anyone and that one should be kind to others. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of asking oneself if they do good things to others, even if they may not be theirs.

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			I remember,
		
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			sometime back, there was a man. He was
		
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			he was troublesome in the sense that he
		
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			has done a lot of hurtful things to
		
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			a lot of people, but he passed away.
		
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			And when he passed away, the news spread.
		
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			So I'm on one WhatsApp group,
		
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			and the news spread, so and so passed
		
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			away.
		
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			4 or 5 people they said, alhamdulillah.
		
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			And I said, imagine,
		
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			if I die,
		
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			do I want people to say, Alhamdulillah?
		
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			I corrected them. I said, No brothers, don't
		
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			say, no matter what. This is the point
		
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			where you say, Inna lillah. Wa inna ilayhi
		
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			rajun. Allah says to us, through the blessed
		
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			lips of Muhammad
		
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			when someone has passed away, say good things
		
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			about them. It's over. The game is over.
		
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			You know, if they lost 7 0, if
		
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			they lost, Allah say it once and leave
		
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			it. So, you know, those of you who
		
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			are those of you who are in football,
		
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			I know what you are thinking.
		
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			I didn't realize even Indonesia is interested.
		
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			Actually, the whole world is interested in football.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So, you mentioned it once and it's over.
		
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			You don't have to keep after the game
		
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			is over. Your whole life you are mentioning
		
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			70,
		
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			70, you know. You don't have to say
		
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			that. Malala, grant us ease.
		
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			My brothers and sisters, the amazing thing is
		
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			Allah loves those who serve and who help
		
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			and who love one another for His sake
		
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			and His pleasure.
		
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			You know, I tell you something very powerful,
		
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			very powerful.
		
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			When you do good to other people, why
		
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			are you doing the good? Ask yourself.
		
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			That's a very powerful question.
		
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			If I'm kind to you, I see you,
		
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			and I'm very kind to you, and very,
		
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			very, you know, helpful and so on, why
		
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			am I doing it?
		
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			Ask yourself.
		
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			I swear by Allah, if you are doing
		
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			it for the sake of Allah, you will
		
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			not mind whether they are good to you
		
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			in return or not because you are not
		
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			doing good to them because you think they
		
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			deserve the goodness. But rather, you are doing
		
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			good to them because you know that Allah
		
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			loves those who do good,
		
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			no matter who they're doing it to.
		
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			I'm kind to you not because I even
		
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			know you. I don't even know you in
		
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			that sense. I'm kind to you because I
		
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			know Allah loves those who are kind. I
		
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			am good to you because I know Allah
		
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			loves those who are good. I am not
		
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			good to you because I think you deserve
		
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			good.
		
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			If I am good to you because
		
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			of your deserving, we would never be good
		
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			to one another because shaitan would always come
		
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			to us and make us think, Why are
		
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			you good to this person? They don't deserve
		
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			to be good. That's why the prophet Muhammad,
		
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			peace be upon him, did good to those
		
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			who did bad to him. He was still
		
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			good to them. That's on another level altogether.
		
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			But he taught that to us. Sometimes we
		
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			are so weak we cannot. Imagine someone does
		
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			bad to you. How are you going to
		
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			do good to them?
		
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			It's not easy,
		
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			but if you're a believer, you can.