Mufti Menk – When your spouse is your support

			For those who don't know, you can comment they can say what they want. And this is a piece of advice
to all of us. We learn it to say all of us, the advent of social media has allowed us to interact
with people we don't know. They will look at you and judge you, they will see something and comment,
they will pass the most negative comments. You know why? They themselves are drowning in negativity,
so nothing to do with you.
		

			They are drowning in negative negativity, don't allow the statements of those who don't know you to
make you think that your value is what they are saying, No, it's not. But those who know you, those
who live with you, that's why the Prophet peace be upon him tells us the best from amongst you are
those who are best to their families, their spouses, that circle is amazing.
		

			If you are good to them, and they can bear witness, this man is a really, really good man. They know
your ins and your outs and your secrets and whatever else and when you speak they either believe you
or belie you
		

			so as a result,
		

			the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him his wife was the first ever to accept the message.
		

			What did she say?
		

			He came down from the hilltop from the little mound that he had climbed up and he was meditating and
Gibreel Alayhis Salam came in with words of Revelation, it gara you know the first words right? Read
anyway, he comes down after that episode and he tells his wife, the Milou Nizam Maloney or the three
Rooney cover me Envelop me. In our terms, give me a big hug. Subhanallah going to your wife and
asking for a big hug.
		

			Today's wives will say why explain what happened?
		

			Suddenly you want to hug Mashallah.
		

			There was nothing to be shy about.
		

			When he narrated what happened, she said Kola Wallah, he, this is one of my favorite statements of
Khadija. In fact, the favorite words uttered by Sheikh Khadija of the Allahu anha that I always a
motivated by.
		

			She looked at her husband
		

			and she says no, by Allah I take an oath he will never let you down because you are a good man.
Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar. Support of the spouse. I swear by Allah he won't let you down. Don't
worry. This thing here we will find out what happened. I will take you to my cousin. I will take you
to worker he knows a lot.
		

			Let's go and see him. She took the husband imagine she took the husband to say Come let's go see
what worker says. worker bee novel says you know what? That was the angel that came to you. The day
he tells you to proclaim if I'm alive, I will accept your message. sallallahu alayhi wasallam who is
the one my hair is standing while I'm speaking to you. Khadija Binti while it says you are a person,
you fulfill the rights of everyone, you go out of your way to be good and kind to people. Allah
cannot let you down my brothers and sisters, when you go out of your way to be kind and respectful
to anyone and everyone that you come across Allah will never let you down. Evidence of it is what
		

			Khadija said. Allah Allah