Mufti Menk – When You Move Through In Distress

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The speaker discusses a situation where they were pressured into acting as a member of their community, and they were given a test to manage their behavior. They emphasize the importance of letting them manage and not letting anyone else test them. They also mention a struggle with job loss and the need for people to have a positive attitude towards work.

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			My brothers, my sisters, when you move through
		
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			a time of challenge,
		
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			distress,
		
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			pain, you're you're in pain.
		
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			Something's happened to you. Someone's wronged you. Oppressed
		
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			you. Use the moment to make a blessed
		
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			dua and supplication to Allah. It is a
		
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			moment of acceptance of dua.
		
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			Ask Allah, O Allah bless me my offspring.
		
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			Bless everyone. Grant me Jannah. Make things easy
		
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			for me. Why? Something massive just happened. You
		
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			tested tested me. It was a big challenge.
		
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			I'm going through this, oh Allah. But I'm
		
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			here calling out to you regarding other issues
		
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			that I have. Sometimes we are tested by
		
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			Allah. Listen to this. It's probably one of
		
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			the more powerful points that you will take
		
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			home this evening.
		
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			Sometimes Allah designs a test for you. You
		
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			have a major problem in the home with
		
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			the in laws, with your outlaws, whoever it
		
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			may be. You have a major issue with
		
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			your health. You have a major issue with
		
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			something. Sometimes
		
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			because of your sabr and your patience regarding
		
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			that particular thing and your dua for Allah
		
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			to alleviate your suffering in that regard as
		
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			a direct result of that patience and dua,
		
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			Allah has blessed you in other ways
		
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			that you would never have imagined
		
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			unlike others. So you have a gift that
		
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			those who are troubling you, harassing you, the
		
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			naysayers do not have.
		
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			As a result of what they have said
		
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			and done. Look at Yusuf alaihis salam. What
		
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			happened?
		
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			They tried
		
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			to block him, to stop him, to kill
		
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			him, to get rid of him, however they
		
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			could. As a direct result of that Allah
		
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			elevated his status. 1 after the other, he
		
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			went up. So thank Allah, oh Allah. If
		
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			this is the test you've put in my
		
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			life right now, I thank you because
		
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			I can manage this. I can cope. It's
		
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			okay.
		
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			So what if 20 people of the broader
		
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			extended family no longer talk to me? Big
		
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			deal. If Allah is happy with me, I'm
		
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			happy. Allah blessed me with so much more
		
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			than all of them put together. Is that
		
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			not the case? So thank Allah. Thank Allah.
		
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			I will try to resolve the matter because
		
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			it is part of my duty as a
		
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			Muslim to try to make the
		
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			broader circle of my relatives within that which
		
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			is without conflict, should I say. To try
		
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			and bring them to peace with everyone
		
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			in that circle.
		
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			But I may not succeed. I'm going to
		
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			try, and if I don't succeed, I'm not
		
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			going to lose sleep over that. I'm going
		
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			to call out to Allah, keep trying to
		
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			the best of my capacity. That's God given.
		
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			But I am definitely going to thank Allah,
		
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			oh Allah. You tested me with this. You
		
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			know what? I'm managing. Don't test me with
		
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			something else. That's a winner. Did you hear
		
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			what I just said?
		
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			Oh Allah, you tested me with this. I
		
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			have a problem.
		
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			This is the issue. Oh Allah, do not
		
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			test me with something else. I thank you
		
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			that you've given me a test I can
		
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			manage. It's tough. It's a struggle. But with
		
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			your help, I can manage.
		
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			You can't find a job, for example.
		
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			But Allah has given you the opportunity to
		
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			open an online business that's bringing some money.
		
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			Thank Allah, oh Allah, I'm jobless. If I
		
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			was not jobless, I would have never thought
		
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			of opening this online company. And I wouldn't
		
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			have started buying and selling. Wallahi.
		
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			When you are pleased with the decree of
		
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			Allah,
		
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			the doors of sustenance
		
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			shall fling open in a way that you
		
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			did not imagine. It's just a matter of
		
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			time, and it's a matter
		
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			of patience.
		
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			SubhanAllah. How many of us here today
		
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			lost jobs? And today we're making more than
		
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			the boss that we were working for. SubhanAllah.
		
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			Because
		
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			Allah closed the door in order to open
		
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			other doors. That's the message of the Quran.
		
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			Look at the sahaba radiallahu anhu. They struggled
		
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			initially, didn't they? Some of them lost their
		
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			lives like we said. May Allah grant them
		
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			jannah, wallahi. They lost their lives in order
		
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			for the deen to get to us today.