Mufti Menk – The Way Of Correcting Someone
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The speaker urges everyone to feel the weight of honor and warn against saying abusive or harmful things. They encourage people to promise themselves between themselves and Allah that they will improve the way they speak to their spouses, their children, their brothers and sisters, and their family members. They also warn against saying "cacti."
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This is what it is. You need to
feel the honor. If I'm telling you, my
brother, you are wrong. I don't say, hey,
you know nothing. You're going straight to *.
That's what some people are saying.
They come to Muslims who pray 5 times
a day, who read the shahada. We might
have a few differences of opinion, and they
come and say, You're a kafir.
What did you
say?
That is strange. SubhanAllah.
How could you utter those words
when the Prophet
says quite clearly
that,
when the Prophet
says quite clearly
that you're not supposed to say a single
word that is abusive, that is harmful
to 1 another.
So I want everyone to look into their
hearts right now, right here,
and to promise yourself
between you and Allah that you and I,
we will improve the way we speak
to our spouses,
to our children, to our brothers and sisters,
to our family members, to our parents, to
our in laws, whoever else.
In laws, Subhanallah.
And every time we speak about in laws,
may Allah forgive us.