Mufti Menk – The Way Of Correcting Someone

This is what it is. You need to

feel the honor. If I'm telling you, my

brother, you are wrong. I don't say, hey,

you know nothing. You're going straight to *.

That's what some people are saying.

They come to Muslims who pray 5 times

a day, who read the shahada. We might

have a few differences of opinion, and they

come and say, You're a kafir.

What did you

say?

That is strange. SubhanAllah.

How could you utter those words

when the Prophet

says quite clearly

that,

when the Prophet

says quite clearly

that you're not supposed to say a single

word that is abusive, that is harmful

to 1 another.

So I want everyone to look into their

hearts right now, right here,

and to promise yourself

between you and Allah that you and I,

we will improve the way we speak

to our spouses,

to our children, to our brothers and sisters,

to our family members, to our parents, to

our in laws, whoever else.

In laws, Subhanallah.

And every time we speak about in laws,

may Allah forgive us.