Mufti Menk – Someone Harmed Me, What Do I Do
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The speaker discusses the importance of focusing on one's own successes and failures in order to overcome challenges and break apart. They stress the need to be more cautious when discussing personal experiences and to focus on one's own successes rather than others. The speaker also mentions a book called "The ADKAR" that focuses on finding the cure and not blaming anyone.
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Somebody said that everything's going wrong in their lives.
They say I think somebody has done something to me. Someone told me that one of my relatives did something. What do I do?
So Allah So, this I learned from none other than suresmile Mufti himself
one of the things that the devil does when he speaks or communicates with a karate or with a person
is to convince that person that it is the relative who has done this to them in order to dis unite and break apart that relationship. So they will come to you and say your mother did it to you, your father did it to you, your spouse did it to you. And Allah Subhana Allah to Allah says, In the story of Sulayman article salat wa salam Fattah Al Amin, amin, Huma, you've heard we're gonna be here banal Marie was LG, they would learn that which would cause a split between a man and his wife. So this is the job of Satan. United we stand divided we fall, when the devil speaks, he is a liar. So whatever he says is a lie. Don't take it at, don't take it and believe it. But instead of focusing
on where it came from, who did it how it happened? Focus on the cure. And that is the recitation of the Quran, the ADKAR focus on this, don't focus on where it came from and how it happened. Yes, in future you may want to take a bit more precaution with regards to people and what you say to them and what you show to them. But at the same time, don't specifically blame someone, only Allah subhanahu Attallah knows and sometimes you may come to know even in that case, focus on who focus on the Creator. Focus on the cure. And Allah subhanho wa Taala will grant you a cure Baraka Allah.