Mufti Menk – Never Belittle These People

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The speaker discusses the importance of being a good Muslim and gives an example of a Muslim woman who gives importance to poor people. They also talk about how society is pressuring individuals to wear what they are wearing and how society is judging them based on their physical appearance. The speaker also talks about a sister's struggles and how she is being pressured to wear what she is wearing.

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			My brothers and sisters,
		
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			like I said, when we talk of being
		
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			a good Muslim, there are so many things
		
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			that come to mind. The verses of the
		
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			Quran are full. But we haven't read that
		
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			Quran. We haven't gone through the sunnah of
		
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			Muhammad
		
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			Look at his life.
		
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			He was the best, he was a shining
		
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			example. We are talking
		
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			of him for the last few days, and
		
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			we are speaking about him today as well.
		
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			And we would like to emulate his entire
		
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			lifestyle.
		
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			He gave so much importance to people. He
		
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			helped those who were his enemies as well.
		
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			And he made sure that he greeted people.
		
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			In fact, Allah
		
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			tells him to go out of his way
		
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			to greet the poor.
		
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			Allah says, when the believers come towards you,
		
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			tell them, salaamun alaikum. He's telling Muhammad
		
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			If you look at the reasons of revelation
		
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			of that particular verse, amazing how?
		
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			Allahu Akbar, Allah
		
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			is
		
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			instructing Muhammad
		
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			to give greater importance to those who are
		
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			seemingly downtrodden,
		
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			yet their hearts
		
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			are full of iman.
		
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			Never ever turn away from such people. Today
		
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			you see a person who's a little bit
		
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			poor. They might have tatty clothing and so
		
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			on. And people tend to give the wealthy
		
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			a little bit more importance.
		
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			A good Muslim
		
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			will spend a moment
		
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			even giving importance to those who have tatty
		
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			clothing.
		
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			A good Muslim is he who gives importance
		
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			to little children, knowing
		
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			that the future lies in their hands.
		
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			A good Muslim is he who understands the
		
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			position of the sisters,
		
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			and has it in his mind, that I
		
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			will never abuse the respect of the sister
		
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			of mine. Subhanallah.
		
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			The world out there teaches you that a
		
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			woman is just an object of sexual amusement.
		
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			Believe me, they can say what they want,
		
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			but that is how the women are being
		
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			treated. Like I said yesterday,
		
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			in one of the programs I had.
		
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			People say Muslim women are being forced to
		
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			wear what they are wearing. The reality is
		
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			the rest of the world is being forced
		
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			to wear what they are wearing.
		
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			Why? It's a different way of forcing.
		
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			It's just a more intellectual smart way of
		
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			forcing.
		
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			You see a sister or someone, perhaps in
		
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			a different part of the world,
		
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			wearing
		
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			heels
		
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			that are this high, and they become higher.
		
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			She cannot walk. Look at how high it's
		
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			becoming.
		
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			She cannot walk. She has calluses on her
		
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			feet.
		
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			She's struggling.
		
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			But because the telly has brainwashed her,
		
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			society has conned her. The movies have really
		
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			knocked her brain out.
		
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			The big brothers and reality shows have really
		
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			taught her
		
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			something
		
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			and made her believe it's her freedom. Yet,
		
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			it's knocked her out because she's suffering in
		
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			those shoes. But she will not leave her
		
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			home without those shoes.
		
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			Who was forced? Who is being forced?
		
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			She will wear a miniskirt,
		
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			so mini that it becomes a maxi shirt,
		
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			rather than a miniskirt.
		
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			Really.
		
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			And she will do it, why? Because of
		
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			the same thing. She's out with a telly
		
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			everyday.
		
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			The games she plays, everything on there is
		
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			showing her how short the skirt should be.
		
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			May Allah protect us.
		
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			And then when she goes out, she looks
		
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			at everyone else and says they are forced.
		
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			Sister,
		
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			you were forced and compelled to do what
		
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			you are doing, but in a smart way.
		
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			Remember that. May Allah protect us. They are
		
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			judging you based on the texture of your
		
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			legs.
		
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			This is what they are judging you by.
		
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			They are judging you by how your hair
		
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			flies in the wind. I've spoken about this
		
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			in the past at length. And I've even
		
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			told you about pantine and head and shoulders
		
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			and everything else. Masha'Allah.
		
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			Molten brown and what have you. May Allah
		
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			protect us.
		
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			We don't want to be molten red in
		
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			the fire of Jahannam. May Allah
		
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			grant us goodness.