Mufti Menk – Lost a Loved One

Mufti Menk
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The speaker discusses the importance of hope in the mercy of Allah, citing personal and professional experiences. They stress that while deeds and deeds are nothing, the pleasure of Allah is what matters. The speaker also warns against stressing too much and suggests doing things on your own.
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Then my beloved mothers and sisters,

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another very interesting point is

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the hope in the mercy of Allah.

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Like I said earlier,

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personally,

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we should be having hope in the mercy

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of Allah. We are

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human, we are mumineen, believers.

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We have faith.

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The fact that we are human, we sometimes

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We make mistakes.

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We sin sometimes, but we turn back to

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Allah.

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That's the difference between a believer and a

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non believer. So I have hope in the

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mercy of Allah that when I die, I'm

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going to

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by the mercy of Allah, by His mercy,

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not necessarily by my deeds. My deeds are

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nothing. Your deeds are nothing. Those are only

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an attempt to please

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Allah. The actual pleasure of Allah is what's

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going to take you into jannah.

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So if you have lost a loved one,

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have hope that they have gone to Jannah.

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Have hope that you are going to meet

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them very, very soon. Did you know that

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for them, time passes so fast?

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But for us who are alive, time takes

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long to pass.

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Quick example is that of

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2 people sleeping on a bed.

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One has dozed off and the other one

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is tossing and turning, and tossing and turning.

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Before you know it, it's already 6 o'clock

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in the morning, 5 o'clock in the morning,

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the alarm rings, the one gets up, the

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other one is like, I haven't slept.

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This one says, oh, to me it felt

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like 2 minutes. I'm already up.

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And the other one says, what do you

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mean 2 minutes? It's been 20 long hours.

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Why? Because one was awake, one was asleep.

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The same example happens when someone passes away.

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You're on earth, time takes long

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to pass. You've passed away. It's a few

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moments and you're gonna be on the day

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of Piyamah. Few moments. So don't worry. They're

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in a good place.

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Make dua for them.

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Seek forgiveness for them. Do a charity perhaps

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on their behalf.

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Leave it in the hands of Allah. Don't

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stress beyond that point too much

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because it's not in your hands beyond that

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point. You can do whatever you can do.

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The rest of it, have hope in the

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mercy of Allah. Allah will grant you. Allah

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will open your doors for you.

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Keep going,

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and Allah Almighty will open door after door.

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You'll see the goodness.

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