Mufti Menk – Is Islam Making You Harsh

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The speaker discusses the importance of practicing and understanding before practicing. They stress the need to be mindful of others' actions and to be careful when inviting others. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of being considerate when inviting others.

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			It is important we develop
		
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			the outward and the inward.
		
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			Many times when people begin to practice after
		
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			they were not practicing,
		
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			They become very harsh on others
		
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			who have not yet seen the light in
		
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			the way they have. And the prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wasallam being told about how to speak
		
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			to those around him respectfully
		
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			and understand
		
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			you need to have mercy, you need to
		
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			know that guidance is in the hands of
		
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			Allah. Your duty is just to deliver the
		
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			message. So don't belittle people. You can convey
		
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			the message.
		
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			Sometimes you can convey it in in a
		
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			very direct way. But remember, when you apply
		
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			wisdom and tact,
		
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			it is far more
		
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			reaching than that which is lacking the tact
		
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			and the wisdom. It will reach a deeper
		
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			place in the heart. SubhanAllah.
		
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			Don't belittle people. We have an issue with
		
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			practicing brothers and sisters who belittle those who
		
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			may not yet be practicing.
		
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			It is something serious.
		
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			No need to belittle.
		
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			By all means, give them da'wah, which means
		
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			invite them to the good cause in a
		
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			beautiful way. Allah speaks about the people of
		
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			the book and the non Muslims. And Allah
		
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			says when you're inviting them, you should call
		
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			towards
		
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			the the cause of Allah with wisdom,
		
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			and you should present beautiful
		
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			arguments to say, You know what? Well, why
		
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			don't you consider this and that? In a
		
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			beautiful way,
		
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			engage the mind, engage the heart. Try and
		
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			speak to the person with love and care,
		
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			with affection and concern.