Mufti Menk – How To Greet Someone With Manners

Mufti Menk
AI: Summary © The speaker discusses the importance of being greeted with a quranic or a statement of war, and how it can be used to grant acceptance. They also mention a woman who prayed for peace and was given a powerful greeting, but was corrected by a subsequent woman. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being genuine and not giving a false impression.
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To be able to greet

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is an islamic teaching. To be able to

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respond to a greeting

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is a quranic injunction. You have to. Someone

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says, assalamu alaykum. You like it or you

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don't like it, you have to say, Waalaikumus

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salam. The minimum.

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You like it or you don't like it,

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you have to say, Waalaikumus salam. The minimum.

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May Allah grant us acceptance.

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Why?

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Why do we say that's the minimum? The

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minimum because

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someone made a prayer for you, may peace

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be upon you. Wow,

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what an amazing way of greeting people. May

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peace

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be upon you. I'm in search of peace.

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So are you. May peace be upon you.

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Assalam.

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All types of peace. I pray that you

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have good health, I pray that you have

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contentment, I pray that everything goes good for

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you, you have a good job, I pray

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that you you know, sustenance from Allah, your

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worries are taken care of by Allah, difficulty

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is taken away from you, and so and

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so much more. I pray for that, and

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the blessings and the mercy of Allah upon

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you. That's a Muslim when I'm just saying,

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Hi.

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That's what it

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is. That's the reason why I won't say

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hi and bye. I start off with assalamu

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alaikum.

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It's our way of greeting.

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Powerful. And when someone says all of that

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to you,

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I mean what is peace?

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Peace extends all the way to the hereafter.

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May peace be upon you on the day

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of judgement. Why not?

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Assalamu alaikum.

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I say,

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you should feel that it should hit you.

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I am so happy. Someone prayed for me.

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I remember there was a brother who didn't

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reply and I told him, why didn't you

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reply to that guy? He's an enemy man.

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He's lying. He said, just say,

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what's the big deal? What did you lose?

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So what if they're lying? He says, but

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but then I'll be lying as well.

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I said, well don't lie. Try and make

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yourself genuine. Who knows? The dua might be

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accepted. Imagine someone hating you saying, may Allah

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bless you.

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Come on, come on.

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You know, you gotta he's gotta just say,

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Amin, and that's it. But

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you have to reply back. Imagine when someone

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gives you such a powerful greeting every day.

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Do you know, you look back at the

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predecessors.

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If they were walking and the wall came

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between them for a moment, when they met

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back after the wall they would say, salamalaykum.

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Do you know that?

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Go and read the stories.

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The companions used to greet each other like,

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subhanallah you won't believe it. We just came

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back. Salaam Alaikum. I just came back again.

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Salaam Alaikum.

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