Mufti Menk – Hajj Will Help You Quit Bad Habits

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The speaker discusses the importance of building habits and habits to survive in life. They emphasize the need for good things such as sleep, food, and clothing to build oneself and strengthen one's bodies. The speaker also mentions the importance of working hard to build oneself and strengthen one's bodies.

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			So the hujaj, they are pelting. The 1st
		
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			day, 7.
		
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			They call it al Kubra,
		
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			the big one. The major
		
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			bag that you have within
		
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			you, can you get rid of it?
		
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			Can you think about it?
		
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			There must be about 7 big things you
		
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			need to get rid of in your life.
		
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			7 big ones. What are they? You know
		
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			them. Count them. 1, 2, 3. So I'm
		
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			taking this pebble. Boom. What happened? 1 of
		
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			the bad ones went. I said, Allahu Akbar.
		
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			I take another one, the other one's gone.
		
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			The other one, the other one's gone. This
		
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			is something automatically
		
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			you should feel because you're in Hajj. You're
		
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			there. And for us, we are celebrating what?
		
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			The sacrifice of Ibrahim alaihis salam. We're putting
		
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			a knife to our bad habits.
		
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			Or we're going to enjoy the fact that
		
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			the knife was put on the bad habits.
		
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			You may not have your own animal if
		
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			you cannot afford it, but at least somehow
		
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			you will get to benefit from it and
		
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			enjoy the celebration.
		
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			So this is Allah. This is the beauty
		
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			that Allah has given us. It's up to
		
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			us
		
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			to search within us. What are my bad
		
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			habits?
		
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			What am I hooked onto that I'm not
		
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			supposed to be hooked onto?
		
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			It could be *. It could be adultery.
		
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			It could be alcohol and gambling. It could
		
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			be whatever else it may be. If I
		
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			need to stop something I'm addicted to for
		
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			the sake of Allah,
		
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			I should do it without even waiting for
		
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			a season. But Allah gives you a season
		
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			to become more conscious of it. To say,
		
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			you know what? Come on. This is the
		
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			id of sacrifice. What are you going to
		
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			sacrifice?
		
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			My bad habits.
		
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			These seven things quit.
		
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			That's it. It's gone.
		
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			And next day, they take 21 pebbles. They
		
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			have 7, 7, and 7. So big habits,
		
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			middle habits, and smaller habits. But they all
		
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			need to go. Obviously,
		
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			primarily in the hadith, this is not mentioned.
		
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			I'm only telling you that as a person
		
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			who wants to cleanse himself, it's important for
		
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			you to think of what bad you need
		
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			to eradicate. To eradicate it. Many of us
		
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			have jealousy in our hearts. We see someone
		
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			with $1
		
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			more and we can't stomach it. You can't
		
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			sleep at night. You need sleeping pills. Why?
		
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			Because the guy has a dollar more than
		
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			me. He bought a car
		
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			2023
		
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			and mine is 2022.
		
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			Oh, I can't sleep. Come on, man. How
		
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			can you be connected to the world? Take
		
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			that out. The pebble needs to be thrown
		
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			onto that pillar and you say Allahu Akbar
		
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			and that Satan is out of your system.
		
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			So what?
		
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			That's what it should
		
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			be. Are you living? Yes. Did you have
		
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			food? Yes. Do you have clothing? Yes. Are
		
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			you okay? Yes. Thank Allah. Work hard to
		
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			build yourself. Yes. By all means, everyone wants
		
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			goodness, but build yourself in 2 things, not
		
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			just one. You don't build yourself only that
		
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			I need better food, a better transport, better
		
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			clothing, better place to stay. We fight in
		
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			our lives from birth to death because we
		
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			want better to survive for the few years.
		
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			Better. But we've already got the necessity.
		
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			If I ask you, do you have clothes?
		
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			Yes. But I need better clothes. You have
		
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			food? Yes. But I need better food. Yes.
		
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			Do you have a house? Yes. But I
		
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			need a better house. Do you have a
		
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			car? Yes. But I need a better car.
		
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			What are you fighting for? Better. That's what
		
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			the whole
		
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			the whole sacrifice is about in the case
		
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			of those who are weak. May Allah strengthen
		
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			us.