Mufti Menk – Don’t Let Distractions Corrupt Your Life

Mufti Menk
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The speaker discusses distractions that can make people lose their path, including media, social media, and movies. They suggest not using distractions as a distraction and recommend focusing on good things to benefit others. The speaker also advises against distractions that make people feel quiet and suggests addressing them by showing them how to interact with family and friends.
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I want you guys to work hard. Why

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I talk about distractions is today there are

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so many things that can make you lose

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your path. Can you name some of them?

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Can you name some of them? Yes. The

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boys. Name some of the things that may

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would make you lose your path. Yes. Stand

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up and say it loudly.

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Media. Media. Possible.

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Social media, it has a good side to

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it, a bad side to it.

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Do you know what?

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You need to make sure you if you

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are using it, you use it properly or

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don't use it. But don't be from among

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those who uses it in a bad way.

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You want to do some good something that's

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going to help you, benefit you, something that

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you might do to benefit others mashallah.

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But the minute it's a waste of time

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or something haram, something destructive,

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you're not there.

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Who can tell me some other distractions? Yes.

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Did you say PlayStation?

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Yes. PlayStation, like I told you, how many

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hours do you spend on it?

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1. 1. 1. Masha'Allah.

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1. 1.

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How many hours do you guys spend on

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it gaming? 1.

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5. The guy says 5 hour. 5 hours

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a week or a day? No way.

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No. 2 hours. We can compromise. 4 hours.

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Woah. Come on guys. The more you are

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into gaming the less you are going to

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be able to do other things. And then

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what happens it becomes a distraction. If it

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distracts you from your prayer, your salah, it

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distracts you from reading the Quran, it distracts

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you from your

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studies and so on. Then it's going to

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be a problem. Sometimes

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it makes you a person who

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goes into a shell because you don't want

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to talk to anyone, you don't want to

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see anyone, you're in your room with your

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phone or with your little laptop or with

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your little iPad and you're just playing games

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with people you're never going to meet. And

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your real real people around you who live

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with you, you hardly see them. You come

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down for food. And what else? What else

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do you come out of your room for?

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Toilet. Yeah. Okay. Alright. Toilet. What else?

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School. Water.

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You need to come out of your room

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to talk, to play, to interact with your

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family, your brothers, and sisters, maybe your parents,

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whoever it may be. Don't become a person

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who locks yourself in your room, and just

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chills on your phone throughout the evening. Don't

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do that.

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Those are distractions.

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Name me another distraction.

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Yes.

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YouTube.

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Yes. It can be a distraction when you

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are on it for more than how long?

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1 hour. More than 1 hour a day.

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You can't be on all of that. What

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what's another distraction?

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Xbox.

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Xbox. Another distraction.

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Yes.

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Phones. Another distraction.

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These are all

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Yes.

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Yes.

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Alright. Put your hands down.

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Do you know what? Notice how the distractions

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are being mentioned by little kids who barely

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know about distractions.

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You're noticing?

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But the people whom it's supposed to be

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closer to the back, they're quiet. They're just

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silent sitting.

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That's it. They're saying what? Shin. Shin.

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Before Shin, there is alif

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You go all the way to Shin, then

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you go to Shin. But we don't even

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have all of those. May Allah Almighty forgive

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us.

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