Mufti Menk – Do You Enjoy The Suffering Of Others

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The speaker advises the audience not to say that they have deserved something because people are jealous and would be glad if it happened. They also suggest reaching out to people who have lost loved ones because they are helping others. The speaker emphasizes that helping others means giving oneself permission to help others, rather than just awarding them something.

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			Many people many people
		
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			would prefer to see another
		
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			being destroyed
		
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			or going down. They it would make them
		
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			more excited
		
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			when they see something
		
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			bad that happened to someone, they begin to
		
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			say,
		
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			You're
		
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			supposed
		
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			to
		
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			say,
		
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			You're supposed to be sad when someone else
		
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			is suffering a loss.
		
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			But unfortunately,
		
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			we are witnessing a growing number
		
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			who show happiness at the loss of others
		
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			simply because
		
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			they're jealous, or they've had a difference of
		
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			opinion, or they might have had a little
		
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			bit of
		
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			an altercation,
		
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			and now suddenly they're excited that this brother
		
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			or this sister has suffered.
		
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			We should never say they deserved it. No.
		
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			Don't say that.
		
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			Even if you think they did. No. Because
		
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			the next person in a problem could be
		
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			you.
		
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			Try and reach out to them.
		
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			Offer some help because when you're in a
		
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			disaster you will also find others offering help.
		
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			And that help when Allah puts it in
		
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			your heart to reach out to others, remember
		
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			it is Allah helping them through you.
		
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			We always say this. I remember in this
		
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			hall, I spoke last year and I remember
		
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			saying, in fact earlier this year. And I
		
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			said,
		
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			when you pledge to a certain cause that
		
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			is
		
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			a necessity,
		
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			people are struggling, you've pledged, It's Allah who's
		
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			giving them but He loves you so He's
		
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			put it in your heart to give
		
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			to the right place. So you can earn
		
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			a reward
		
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			while helping them. That's what it is. But
		
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			if Allah wanted, He did not need to
		
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			use you.
		
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			He's giving you an opportunity.
		
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			And when you help, you will always find
		
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			that the Almighty will help you in other
		
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			difficulties and hardships. And in your own life,
		
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			like the prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him,
		
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			says,
		
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			Allah continues to assist
		
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			a worshipper for as long as that person
		
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			is busy helping others.
		
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			So if you help others you will be
		
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			helped. In what? In your own matters, in
		
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			your own affairs.
		
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			So thank Allah for this.