Mufti Menk – Dhul Hijjah – The Days of Eating and Drinking

Mufti Menk
AI: Summary © The speaker discusses the importance of fasting during the time of Easter, as it is the 10th of molecular year. They explain that the day is known as Ashura, and that the day is recognized as the greatest day of Easter in history. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning from past events and sharing experiences to build tolerance and love within one another.
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My brothers and sisters, the days of tashriq,

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the days that follow the day of Eid,

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Those 3 days are days of eating, drinking

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and thanking Allah, remembering Allah Almighty.

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We've said that, but what we need to

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know, don't be wasteful. Number 1. Number 2

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is reach out to your friends and relatives

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and reach out to the poor as well.

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You distribute

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your sacrificial

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animal into 3 portions.

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A portion you partake from, a portion you

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give your family and friends and a portion

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for the poor. If you'd like to

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change that slightly, make sure the portion given

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to the poor is not made smaller. The

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rest of them you can you can make

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your portion smaller and so on, but not

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that for the poor people because we're supposed

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to be remembering the poor. The idea is

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not to eat so much that you get

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sick, but the idea is to eat enough

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to be thankful to Allah and to eat

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something different sometimes

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to be able to eat halal and appreciate

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what Allah has blessed you with. May Allah

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grant us all from his virtue and goodness.

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Now, what we need to understand is fasting

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is prohibited on the day of Eid. And

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the prophet Muhammad peace be upon him has

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told us that even on the days of

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tashrik,

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which are the 3 days that follow, we

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should be eating and drinking and praising Allah.

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So praise Allah.

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And I've mentioned how after every prayer we

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say,

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Allah is the greatest. Allah is the greatest.

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Allah is the greatest. There is none worthy

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of worship besides Allah.

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Allah is the greatest

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and indeed

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unto him belongs

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all praise.

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That's what we say. May Allah grant us

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from his goodness. My brothers and sisters, these

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were the days, the 10 days of Dhul

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Hijjah that we spoke about.

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And I mentioned quite a few points regarding

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these 10 days of Dhul Hijjah.

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May Allah Almighty bless us all with goodness.

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There are a few differences among the scholars

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regarding some of the matters. When you hear

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something slightly different, let's not make it a

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means of hatred and a means of name

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calling, but rather we learn and we follow

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what we believe is the most correct according

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to the scholars we've learned from and according

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to what we believe is taken from the

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authentic

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sources

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of Islam. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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make us all from among those who take

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heed.

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Let me explain.

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After the month of Dhul Hijjah, we will

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enter Muharram.

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Muharram is also one of the prohibited

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months. I remember in the first of these

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episodes, I said there are 4 haram months.

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For those of you who don't know what

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those 4 haram months are,

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they are

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dulqeda,

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dul hija, muharram

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and rajab.

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So 3 of them are in a row,

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the 11th month, 12th month, and the 1st

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month of the calendar,

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and then Rajab.

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Now those are the haram months and I've

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explained that in the first episode. But what

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I want to say now is once we've

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done with Dhul Hijjah

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and

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we've completed the year, we will enter Muharram.

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Muharram

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also has in it

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a beautiful day known as Ashura.

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We are going to get to that day.

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I want to touch on it simply to

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make mention of the

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greatest reason why it has been declared as

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a great day.

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It has been declared a great day because

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according to the narrations,

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Musa

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the prophet Moses and Banu Israel his people

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were saved from the pharaoh who drowned on

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that day. So it was more of a

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triumph

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of good against evil.

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That is the 10th of Muharram.

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On that day, we're taught to fast

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the day

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with a day before it or a day

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after it. So you have a choice of

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fasting the 9th and 10th or 10th and

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11th.

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That's of Muharram. It's still quite far away,

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but it's good to start making a mental

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preparation of it and learn about it. So

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that is the main

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significance of that particular day at the time

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of the prophet Muhammad peace be upon him.

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He taught that to us and he told

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that to us. And similarly,

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we must make sure we understand that in

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the books of history later on, on that

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particular day, there was a disaster that occurred

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that we also speak about and we're very

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saddened by where the martyrdom of Al Hussein

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ibn Ali radiAllahu anhu took place also on

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the same day. But

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like we say, we're very saddened. We need

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to learn lessons from what happened there. May

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect us all so

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that we don't repeat the infighting among the

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Muslims and we actually spread love

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and good understanding

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and tolerance within one another. May Allah bless

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every one of us, and I thank you

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for joining me for this beautiful short series.

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I hope we've learned a thing or 2

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and that we've spread it to others as

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well. Until we meet

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again.

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