Mufti Menk – Can I Prove Something Important To You

Can I prove to you that your children actually do not totally

belong to you?

Your parents actually do not totally belong to you. You're

allowed to say my mother, my father for a short while for a

while. But let me tell you when you die, when you hear that

someone passed away, what's the first thing you say? Can you say

it?

In Allah? Why Nyla Rajan? What does it mean? We belong to Allah

and Unto Allah is our return Subhanallah your own child, if you

had total, you know, ownership of that child and it was your own

property, you would have been able to have more say when the child

was about to die, but you had no say the child died when Allah had

the say, you didn't have a say, the child was given to you as

Allah will not as you will. So whose child is it in actual fact,

meaning who is the owner of that particular person? It's Allah

Subhana Allah, Allah lends you Allah gives you some he doesn't

give some he gives only female some only male some both. All of

that is a test of Allah pass it and you will get it the connection

that you have sometimes between yourselves and your family members

is such that you make a dua Oh ALLAH gathered us in Jana bring us

together in Jana unite us in paradise. Why? Because Allah gave

you a good time here on earth with each other. So you're worried

about you know, being together in Jana. I always say my brothers and

sisters worry about getting to Jana. Once you're there, whatever

you want. You will get anything you want. You get it there.