Mufti Menk – As A Father, Which Side Would You Choose
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Speaker 2 describes a situation where a man named Muhammad sallahu alayhi wa was approached by a woman in his house and he threatened to remove her from his name. The woman eventually left and the man eventually asked for permission to go back in. The man eventually asked for permission to participate in a moment of joy and the woman eventually asked for permission to do so. The woman eventually asked for permission to do so and the man eventually asked for permission to do so.
AI: Summary ©
There was an incident in the life of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam wherein him and Aisha Radi Allahu anha. They were talking in
the house in Madina, Munawwara and I shall the Allahu Anhu was
speaking quite loudly it seemed like they were quarreling and Abu
Bakr Siddiq Radi Allahu Anhu happened to be passing the home.
So he enters the house after seeking permission, and he
immediately began to admonish his daughter How dare you speak like
this to Muhammad? sallallahu alayhi wasallam How dare you raise
your voice in this quarreling sort of attitude. And the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came between the two of them, and he
defended his wife, and he said, Do not speak to her in this way. And
Abu Bakr Siddiq Ravi Allahu Anhu looked at the two of them and went
away. Obviously, he was asked in a nice way, without making mention
of those words, you know, to leave basically he left and a little
while later he passed the house once again and he heard her
laughing in happiness. So he knocked again on the door and he
asked for permission to go back in Abu Bakr Siddiq, probably Allahu
Allah and he was given permission. And he said the famous statement
he said, allow me to participate in your joyous moment, just like I
was made to participate in the moment of cuddling a few moments
back. Amazing. And from this, we learned something interesting that
the fathers of those who gave their daughters in marriage to
others actually trained their own daughters as to how to speak to
their own husbands today. The difficulty is neither does the
husband know how to speak to his wife, nor does the wife know how
to speak to the husband. And at the same time if the parents get
involved, they do not look at who is right or wrong. They just look
at who is related to them. May Allah subhanahu wa taala make us
from those who are better than what we actually are