Mubeen Kamani – Riyad Ul Salihin May 31 2022

Mubeen Kamani
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The speakers discuss the importance of achieving perfection in Islam, including striving for personal success and being presentable. They stress the need to learn to be presentable and stay hungry to reach the star. The importance of achieving perfection in every aspect of one's life, including killing and living in a perfect way, and the need to do a personal request to achieve it. duess for one's mother is also mentioned.
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Today's hadith is narrated by Shaddad bin

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He says

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When

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you hid the, uhhadukum

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shafratuhuwal

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yuri zibhatum

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Rasool Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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has written perfection

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in Ihsan

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upon all things.

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So when you kill, do it well, and

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when you slaughter,

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slaughter well.

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Let one of you sharpen his blade

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and let him spare the suffering to the

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animal that he slaughters.

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The concept of ihsan in Islam has been

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mentioned in many different hadith and many different

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verses in the Quran.

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The very famous hadith of Hadith of Jibrael

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where Jibrael sat wasalam and comes and ask

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the prophet a series of questions.

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One of the questions that he asked Roshallahu

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alaihi wa sallam is that what is Ihsaan?

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And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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he points out

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a very

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important concept.

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And the concept he actually breaks into 2

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tiers.

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The first tier is to

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worship Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala as if you

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can see Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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And this is the prophet this is the

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best tier that you actually reach perfection

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in whatever you do.

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But then the prophet

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breaks it down to tier number 2 and

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says, look, if you cannot actually reach perfection,

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then that's okay.

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Because you will not be the perfect person.

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You will not have the perfect children. You

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will not have the perfect Ibadah. Your salah

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will never be perfect. Your home, your your

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career will not be perfect. Why? Because

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perfection

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is not meant

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for the dunya.

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All of this,

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maybe once off you might reach it. But

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then they'll be up and down. And this

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is why the prophet breaks it down to

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the second tier and he says,

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If

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you can't reach the greatest level of perfection,

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then bring it down and understand that

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Allah He has commanded you to be just

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and to have perfection

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and to have goodness in what you do.

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In another place, Allah

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he praises a certain groups of people

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and he says, وَالصِيمِيم وَالصِيمِيمة اللهِيم وَالصِديمة اللهِيم

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وَالْتِيمةي

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وَةَةِيمِيمِيم وَالْصِيمةِي

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صِيمِيمِيمة

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even better.

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Allah

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loves those people that strive for perfection.

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Now in this hadith, Rasool Allah

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says, Allah

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has written Ihsan

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upon everything that you do, not just your

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Ibadan,

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not just

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your reading Quran, or coming to the masjid,

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your salah, not just your fasting. But here

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are law the prophet says, any aspect of

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your life, look for perfection.

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Says, in Allah

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is beautiful himself.

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You hibbul jamal, and he loves beautiful things.

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So whenever you do something,

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strive to make that

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beautiful

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strive to make that perfect in whatever aspect.

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Times what we tend

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to do is that we say that inside

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is what matters, outside doesn't matter. And a

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lot of times what happens is that people,

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they hide behind this

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concept that brother, as long as my inside

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is okay, the outside really doesn't matter. You

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know, I can drive,

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you know, a beat up car. I can

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wear tethered clothes. I can, you know, keep

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myself unkept. This shows my Zohad.

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This shows my disconnection to the duniya.

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Whereas, if you look at the Prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallallahu alaihi wa sallallahu alaihi

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wa

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sallam, and his hair was tethered. His hair

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was messy. His clothes were messy.

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Fix yourself.

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And then come. That it's not just your

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inward side, but it's also

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the external as well that loves beautiful things,

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and he loves that person. Strives for perfection

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that tries to be a good, presentable

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person. Now,

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if you look at the Prophet

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Now, actually let's finish off the Hadith's first.

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When this person comes back,

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now,

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beards brushed up, hair is nice and combed,

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wearing good clothes, perfume, and the Prophet

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says, is this better or looking like the

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brother of shaitan better? And

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he says, is this better or looking like

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the brother of shaitan better? And you see

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this in the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, this

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common theme that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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always

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work towards perfection even when it comes to

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like smelling good,

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right? The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, and one

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of these said that from the things that

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he loves from this dunya is

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good smell.

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And Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam instructs us that

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even when you come to the masjid,

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don't bring any harsh smells with you, brush

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your teeth. Do me swap. Why did Raul

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Allah send when the final thing Raul Allah

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does before he passed away is he performed

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this walk. And this is Raul

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telling us that, look, even when you present

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yourself,

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strive for a purpose,

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your Ibadad, but even your presentation of yourself

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and Rassoulullah actually took

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very detailed care about with his presentation.

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From the sunnah of Rassoulullah

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said that the prophet would take oil and

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before he applied it to his hair, Rassoulullah

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would take some and he would apply some

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first to his eyebrows,

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and then to his eyelashes. And then he

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will take it and apply it to his

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hair. The prophet he

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he instructs us that,

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who if you have

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hair, take care of it.

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This is perfection. Allah Subhanahu wa'an in the

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Quran says,

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Adam, all children of Adam, when you come

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to the masjid,

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make yourself presentable.

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Now, this perfection is not just only in

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Ibadat and not just only in presentation, but

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we also see in the akhlaq of Rasool

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Allah

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teaches us to have the best of akhlaq.

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And this is why Rasool Allah Rasool

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Allah says, If you believe in Allah's Day

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of Judgment,

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first

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find perfection in your speech.

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Let him speak good or

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remain quiet. And then the prophet carried on

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the same hadith.

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Let him be a good member of society.

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Let him be a good neighbor.

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Right? Take care of your lawn.

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Take care don't leave your garbage cans out.

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Don't have your bushes like going over, you

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know,

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where they where it becomes an eye sore.

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But you're a good neighbor.

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Take care of your neighbors. Surah

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instructs us that when you when you, you

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know, cook and you make gravy, add a

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little bit extra water and send some to

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your neighbors. And then the prophet

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who believes in Allah

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then let him be

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generous to his guest.

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And again, this is how we're going to

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every aspect of our life

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that control your tongue, find perfection in your

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speech,

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Be a good member of society.

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Be generous.

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And this is in all of our aspects.

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Now,

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if you look at this particular

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when you kill,

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then kill in a good way.

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And as we know, killing is

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when the worst thing that person can do.

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Right? In, so many cases, there are only

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very few cases where it's actually permissible. And

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then the prophet drops it down and says,

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when you sacrifice, the

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then the prophetess drops it down and says,

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when you sacrifice,

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let your sacrifice be done in a perfect

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way as well. Now, in Islam, what we

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have is,

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and is the principle

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and Foroo is

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the examples.

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Right? A lot of times what happens is

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people get stuck with the example and they

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mention this hadith

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next month in Eid ul Adha.

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This hadith gets mentioned in Eid ul Adha

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because

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the Baftum.

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But the the is just the example and

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this is how the prophet would teach people.

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He would give a concept and then break

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it down to an example that look, even

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when you do something like killing an animal,

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then

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find perfection.

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Sharpen your blade.

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Don't let your animal feel pain.

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And this is just one example, but now

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you take that same concept

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and you apply that to everything that you

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do, the way that you deal with and

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interact with your parents. The way that you

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interact with your children, the way that you

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interact with your spouse, your akhlaq in general,

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your presentation, your Ibadad,

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your work ethics, everything,

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find perfection

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in that or strive to perfection. And if

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you don't reach perfection, then the prophet says,

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look, that's that's a upper tier. If you

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don't reach that, then at least you have

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the 2nd tier. And this is why we

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say that, you know, reach for the star

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reach for the stars.

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If you don't get the stars, you at

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least get something great. You at least do

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something good. And this concept we talked about

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before is to stay hungry,

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to actually

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keep going. Don't become content. Have qna'at when

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it comes to what Allah has given you,

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but besides that, a person should

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try to perfect themselves in every aspect of

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their life. This we act we make dwell

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that lost one that gives us the ability

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to act upon what has been said, you

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know, just a

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personal request.

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Today, the day that

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6 years ago,

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He he he willed that my mother returned

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back to him.

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It's a very tough day.

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So I just personal request, I made Dua

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the you know, we I request everybody to

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make Dua for the

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makes her great from the garden of paradise.

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It unites

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us. When he reunites us, may she be

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proud of what she has left behind.

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She was a person that always encouraged us

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for

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encouraged

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us for

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I don't mean this to be

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a form of me praising my mother.

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But

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she came from a Hindu household. She wasn't

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Muslim. She wasn't born Muslim.

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But when she accepted Islam, she didn't know

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much.

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My mother, she knew one Surah,

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Sura

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and she taught me Sura and then she

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knew one

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And

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as a kid, these are the only two

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things,

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Islamically, my mother had to pass on to

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me. And that's why I always when I

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start a class and I could pitch that

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and I pitch it in so that this

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reward goes back to my, my.

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But even though she wasn't born with so

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much. She wanted perfection

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in her

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carry on that legacy that she left behind.

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And the thing that she would preach the

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most to me wasn't,

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you know, perfect grades.

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That was great. That was great. But

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her main concern was have perfect

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If

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your grades are up and down,

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that's fine.

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But if your are up and down, that's

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not acceptable. And

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she would preach perfect.

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You know,

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one time my mother, Raima Loeb,

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she said to me

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that Allah

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chose Islam for her

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and she know she says, I know which

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of my characteristics. She goes, I had brothers

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and sisters.

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She comes from a big family,

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you know, around 10 siblings.

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And she goes, I know why Allah Swanda

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chose Islam for me

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and gave me chose that I be famous.

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And she says that when I was a

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young girl, what I would do is

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she actually tells her mother my mother my

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grandmother, she didn't she did not accept Islam.

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She passed away as a non Muslim.

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But she did that. I was telling my

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mother that when I was young, when I

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was a little girl, I used to steal

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from her.

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I would take food rations,

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some sugar, some rice, some flour. And as

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as she would walk to school, she would

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find the poor people on the street and

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give it to them.

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And she said that sometimes what I would

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do is that I would

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take off my slippers as I've passed somebody

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that didn't have slippers. I would take my

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slippers off and continue walking

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and, you know, tell my mother that I

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would, you know, my slippers broke.

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You know, I would lie to my mother.

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And she is telling her Hindu mother this,

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that I used to steal and I used

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to lie. And she is telling her is

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telling her Hindu mother this, that I used

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to steal and I used to lie.

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But before you get mad, this is why

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I did it.

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And my grandmother said to her that her

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name previously was Gita. So Gita, that from

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the day that you accepted Islam, you have

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been nothing but a shame to

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us. From the day that you accept Islam,

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you have nothing you have been nothing but

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ashamed to us. But what you're saying now,

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it gives me pride.

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My mother said, it was this quality of

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perfection

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that

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Allah chose Islam for her. So just a

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personal request I make du'a that I request

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everybody to make du'a for her. I made

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du'a for her. Her offering may Allah forgives

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all of her shortcomings may Allah overlooks all

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of her mistakes

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May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Resurrect her resurrect

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her amongst the prophets, amongst the saliheen, amongst

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the shohada.

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