Mubeen Kamani – Reforming the Heart

Mubeen Kamani
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The importance of understanding one's actions and emotions to avoid confusion and negative behavior is highlighted, as it is the driving force of one's life. The physical and spiritual aspects of one's body are the driving force, and one's desire to praise and praise a lot is a result of their desire to be worshiped. The importance of listening to music and keeping a clear eye is also emphasized. It is important to pursue a sound heart and be mindful of one's desire to attain a pure heart, work towards one's wealth and children, forgive one's mistake, and work towards unity among community.
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Somebody come to work.

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Praying Allah

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the one who is worthy of all our

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praise and our graduates.

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It is

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who is the most

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often forgiven. It's the

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law who provides us with sustenance and risk

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that we haven't even asked for is the

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law

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who controls the matters of our hearts.

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We ask

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Allah to turn our hearts to that which

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is pleasing

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to us. We then some peace and blessing

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upon the prophets of Allah,

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the one that was sent as a proper

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of

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how Allah

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wants us to live our lives.

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The companions of

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Rasulullah and his

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family

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members.

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A

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crime comes in our life, where we begin

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to question ourselves.

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And

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we begin to question ourselves.

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We ask ourselves that I have been worshiping

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a law.

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I have been a Muslim for

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20, 30, 40, 50 years.

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Of that half the time I pray for

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so

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long. I read Quran.

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I attend classes. I come to halakos.

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So how

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shit?

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It's ack or make.

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How is it that their benefit? I mean,

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I was told that you praise a lot

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and all of your problems go away. You

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praise a lot

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and you praise a lot and all of

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your problems go away.

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You praise a lot, you get closer to

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Allah. You make du'a

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and it brings you

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But here I find my

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After

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yours

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of practicing

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Islam to whatever.

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There really is.

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Right. Or a common question people ask is,

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feeling,

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deen,

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or I'm just meant to kind of coast

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through

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this

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is

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And the answer to this problem

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where we worship Allah

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but

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spiritually

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there is no growth.

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The answer to the problem lies within

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Hadith of the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Or as Allah salallahu alaihi wa sallam says,

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If

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you struggle

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with controlling your eyes. If you

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if

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you struggle with controlling your emotions, if you

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struggle with controlling your anger, you find yourself

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very often that

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like a light switch, my children say something

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and the next moment I'm screaming and shouting.

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The moment that I'm alone, these desires come

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into my mind. And sometimes in public, I

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cannot control my lust. If you struggle

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in your body, there is a piece

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of

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Your engine, this is

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the driving force of the remainder of your

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body.

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If this

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How do I get out of this? Shik,

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I'm talking to this.

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And

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their answer is

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And their answer is

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And

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rarely, this is your heart.

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And usually,

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we work on the rest of our body.

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A person focuses on every other aspect of

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their body, How is my hair? And how

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is my beard? And how is my arms?

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Or, you know, they spend hours in the

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gym correcting every single

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They will sit on a dentist's chair for

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hours getting it cleaned.

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And being dominated by 2.

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There are physical aspect and then our spiritual

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aspect

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and the

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body

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and the soul, the heart.

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The reality is the body will play a

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part until a certain period of time, and

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then it will no longer be needed.

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Stored. The soul,

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the rule is

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carried on from that as

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a

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prophet says

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that Allah

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will not let

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a person into Jannah if they have some

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sort of disease or some sort of illness

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in their heart. 2

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different

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aspects,

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our

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body

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and

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our

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heart,

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and

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you

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realize

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that

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vertically and there are other types of things

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that we consume as well. The sins that

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we commit, the things that we look at,

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the people that we talk,

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the music that we listen to, the company

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that we keep, all of this is things

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that we consume and each of them has

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a

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Listen to certain types of music.

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And your heart will turn that direction.

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You look at certain type of things, and

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your heart will turn to that direction. You

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say certain words, and your heart will turn

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to that direction. You sit in the company

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of good people.

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Right, which we mentioned here many times before.

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That you commit a sin, a black dot

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is placed on your heart until it slowly,

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slowly,

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it becomes a cluster, then it cancer, then

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it overpowers your heart. In other words, these

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that when

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it's placed on your heart.

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And now this

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becomes

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with black dots and white dots in which

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everyone overpowers

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in a way that their heart will

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and the spiritual low that you and I

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get, it's because of

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the.

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You're not always going to be on a

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spiritual high. That's what we want to be.

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But at times, you will be at a

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spiritual. You will be at a spiritual. You

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will get caught a lot. You will want

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to come to the masjid. You will want

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to praise a lot. We have Ramadan in

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less than 2. And just 2 minutes away.

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Just 2 minutes away, Rajab and Shaban, and

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we have them in the room. And that's

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where I'm

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Just 2 minutes away, Rajab and Shaban, and

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we have them in Ramadan.

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And that's when people are usually on a

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spiritual high. But before that, after that, or

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kind of in the middle where we're at

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right now, you and I may be at

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a spiritual low, which is

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as long as you keep getting.

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As long as you're on your

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and then you work on this.

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Majority of us just said, well, I'm a

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Muslim, so I don't worship anyone but

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in your desires as well.

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Well. You give preference to what motivates you,

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what that or

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what worst is.

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Have you seen

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that person?

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Have you seen that person who takes his

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own desires

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as his God? Now, of course,

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but his desires are his motivation. It's his

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are his motivation.

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It's his driving force.

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So,

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to

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attain a pure heart, a sound,

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and you have to first, when it comes

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to worship, only connect yourself to a loss

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of Whereas

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in

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physical,

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spiritual action has to be just to a

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loss of honor.

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For a sound heart, the only role model

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that you can

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have, have, the only person that you can

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have, the only person that you can have,

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the only person that you can have, the

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only person that you can have, the only

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person that you can have, the only person

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that you can look up to, the only

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person that you want to live, the only

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person whose footsteps you want to follow in

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must be the Prophet or anybody who follows

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the footsteps of the Prophet

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the role model that you choose, the path

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that you walk is the path of the

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And number 3,

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when it comes to your relationship

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with people, your heart must be pure for

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any type of

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illness towards

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whether it's anger, whether it's jealousy,

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whether it's

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malice,

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any type of and there are so many

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books written about the disease.

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And the protester law when he's on many

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different occasions, he

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giving this young boy's

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choice. If you're capable

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It may not be easy.

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But if you're capable This is one of

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my favorite.

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Courageous towards people, heart. Now, if you look

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at this hadith of prophet saying, look, as

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you wake up in the morning, your heart

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will lead you. Why? Because If your heart

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is in the right place,

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morning, when you

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wake up, look at yourself and make sure

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your heart is in the right place. Turn

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it. Today, my day could be led because

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of my anger towards people.

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Right.

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And you're about to finish your day, once

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again, you may have picked up some dirt

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on your heart throughout the day.

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A second time and

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the daytime they called him, they called him,

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they called him, and at night time the

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prophet looked into his heart and he forgave

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the example.

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Situation.

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Your

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Allah subhanahu

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wa'am

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But

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a seal is placed over

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their

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place in the Quran.

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Their eyes don't become blind, but it's their

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hearts that

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final

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versus

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a

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where a law of harm with us as.

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Today when you're in trouble. There are 2

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things that you turn towards your

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car accident that will protect.

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And you turn to your wealth, can I

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fix this with my

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on the day of

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judgment, your wealth and your children will not

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help you?

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In many different places in the

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Quran, law, SubhanAllah says, as for the person,

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He will say as a person who gets

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a book to deal left handedly say, I

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wish I never got this book of deal.

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He'll say, where's my well,

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What about

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my 5 bedroom the 3 car garage that

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I had? Can I give any of that?

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Can I trade any of that? Take everything

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from me.

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My children, my spouse, my parents, everything.

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Just let me off the hook.

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I also wanna go back to that first

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verse and he says,

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Wealth,

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your house, your children may benefit you on

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that day.

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Yours

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don't just go into a blind.

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You know what's going to happen. Allah Subhanahu

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WaNam in the Quran, he tells us another

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place,

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What has made you forgot about

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the meeting that you have with your Lord?

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Go and become a shayr. I'm not telling

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you to grow out of your I'm not

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telling you to become a 5 times salah

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musali. If you can, alhamdulillah. All I'm telling

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you is.

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Except for that person who comes to a

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lot with a sound heart.

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Work on your relationship

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with Allah, your relationship with the prophet

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and the relationship

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you have with those that are around you

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when it comes to your heart.

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Our hearts from the diseases that lie within.

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Help us against our anger.

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Help us against

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the grudges that we have.

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We ask that you give us actions that

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are pleasing to

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you. We ask that You protect

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our children.

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We

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ask for unity amongst our community.

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If there's anybody in our community who is

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struggling, we ask

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them

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In our community, Brother Ibrahim Zeva is having

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surgery. We ask that you make this journey,

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successful. Oh, Allah, Brother Imad, our security guard

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in his wife, have been ill for some

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time. Oh, Allah, we ask that you give

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them

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My brother Muhammad,

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the father, brother Omar Isah, brother

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Abdul Kalbar, brother, they have passed away. We

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ask that you forgive their sins. Oh, Allah,

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we ask that you make their grip in

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their garden.

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We ask that you remove those difficulties from

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their past. Oh, Allah, we ask that you

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forgive our sins. Oh, Allah,

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we ask that you overlook our shortcomings. Oh,

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Allah, we ask that you pardon our. Oh,

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Allah, we ask that you pardon our. And

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the action that will bring us closer to

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Oh, Allah, be pleased with us. Oh, Allah,

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be pleased with us. Oh, Allah, be pleased

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with us.

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