Mubeen Kamani – Jumada al ThaniPassing away of AsSiddiq

Mubeen Kamani
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The importance of being a role model for people on social media is emphasized, with a focus on loyalty and finding one's own ideal. L loyalty is seen as a fundamental aspect of Islam, not just physical loyalty. It is also crucial to show willingness to face challenges and change behavior. The speaker describes various women and their experiences with similar behavior and friendships. The importance of following Prophet's advice and forgiveness for mistakes is also emphasized. A youth program and seminary school for adults is also announced, with a plus-up offer for donating.
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So many

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We start out by praising Allah,

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the one who is worthy of all of

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our praise and our gratitude. It is Allah,

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who watches over us. It is Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala who listens us who listens to

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us and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala who showers

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us with his mercy and bounties.

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We send peace and blessing upon the upon

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. The one

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that was not only sent as a mercy

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to us,

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but as an example of how Allah, subhanahu

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wa ta'ala, wants us to worship and how

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Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, wants us to interact

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with 1 another.

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We then send peace and blessing upon the

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companions of the prophets of Allah,

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those who helped him. They aided him.

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His family members, Ahmedabad

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thereafter.

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As the New Year comes in,

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many times what happens is that we look

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towards other people,

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And we look for successful people. People that

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are doing good in life.

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Whether this is in academics,

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or finances,

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or physique,

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Any

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realm you take, we look to somebody

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that

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we can then take on as a role

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model,

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as an idol,

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Who I can be like.

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And this is where the whole concept of

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influencers

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and

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people famous on social media,

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it stems from, because we're all looking for

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somebody

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that can be a motivation to us.

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You look at a person

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who is into education

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and their feed on Instagram will be a

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people that are excellent in this

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field. You look at a youth who wants

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to work out and, you know, build a

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physique,

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on his feet he will have body builders.

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Likewise,

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Islam holds a strong importance

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in having

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good role models.

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And, this is why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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in the Quran over and over brings different

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stories

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of the prophet Ambi Ali mus salatu was

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salam to leave us with a role model.

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That look, if you inspired to be like

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somebody,

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then be like one of these.

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Ambiale Musilatu wasalam,

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the prophet, he leaves us a group of

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people that can all be

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taken as guiding stars.

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Companions

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around the prophet are all role models that

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if you take any one of them and

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follow them, then they will guide you to

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the straight path.

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Usually,

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one thing I like to do is look

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at the Islamic months and bring some of

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the history of what happened in these Islamic

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months.

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Other months, what are the main events that

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happened in this Islamic month? And you look

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at And one of the greatest events that

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happened was the passing away of a

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You can have a

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2 khutba is not enough.

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You can have

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a different lesson

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from every phase of his life.

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And some of us might think, well, okay.

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The khutba is just gonna be about a

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companion, which was 1400 years ago. How is

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this relevant into my life? But the reality

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is, some of the struggles that Abu Bakr

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Siddiq, Adeel Tala went through is are the

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same struggles that you and I go through

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today.

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Problems that we have would go away. One

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of the biggest qualities that Abu Bakr had

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was, of course,

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is that he was a loyal friend to

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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And Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, to

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the final moments of his life,

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his loyalty, his sincerity, you know, our problem

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is

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and today we follow this person. Today, this

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person means everything to us. But the moment

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that this person makes a small mistake, we

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drop them like a bad habit and jump

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to the next person, and then the next

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person, and the next person.

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Relationships are very similar as well. Today, you

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are my best friend, and that person my

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best friend. Today, I'm with this person. Tomorrow,

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I'm hanging with that person. And our loyalty

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and our sincerity

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sincerity. Religion is about loyalty. The companions ask

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Yarra Surah, who should we be loyal to?

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And the prophet

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then went on and said,

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Right?

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Allah

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to them. Be loyal to Allah in your

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religion, in your faith in Allah and we

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spoke about it before that this loyalty doesn't

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and then for the leaders of the believers.

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And then for the common person, each of

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these, there has to be some sort of

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loyalty.

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And the loyalty of the

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that he was with the prophets

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from day 1.

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Teams. There was no okay, today, I'm with

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you tomorrow. And that was

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So in the life of the prophets Allah,

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what he was saying.

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He comes to the emotion.

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This is after he can no longer lead

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salah.

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He

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wasn't physically able to pray and lead salah.

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So he's now praying at home, but somehow

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with the aid of couple companions, he comes

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to the masjid,

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and he

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says, is there anybody that I owe something

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to?

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Do I owe anyone

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something?

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And a few people stood up, and the

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prophet had it paid off.

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Then Raul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam says,

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I have paid off everybody.

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Anybody that has ever done a favor upon

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me,

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I have taken care of.

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Except for

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Abu

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Bakr

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And the prophet

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Abu Bakr Adhana. And, the prophet

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he then goes into detail.

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He goes he married his daughter to me.

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He performed hijra with me. He believed in

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me when nobody believed in me. He spent

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his wealth on me. He spent his wealth

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on me. He spent his wealth on me.

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He spent his wealth on me. And as

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he's saying this, you know, and you and

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I were at this point, we're probably, yeah,

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this is what this is who I am.

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Oh, he says, What am I and what

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am I wealth except for you?

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You Rasool Allah. What am I and what

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am I wealth except for you? And this

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is the lesson of loyalty that Abu Bakr

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Siddiqui Adaiwa Talan.

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He leaves behind.

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Another lesson we learned from life of Abu

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Bakr

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is

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Abu Bakr Al Thalhan, more than he did

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good for himself, he first looked for good

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towards others. And this quality was not just

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recognized by the prophet and not just

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recognized by the companions. Again, the companions understood

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Abu Bakr was the person who freed

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He was the person

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who freed Chabab and so many different Sahaba

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and Dalmain were freed at the hands of

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Abu Bakr, but even the non muslims appreciated

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this about him. And

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but even the non muslims appreciated this about

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him.

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In the 10th year of Islam,

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Abu Bakr Siddiq, he goes to the prophet

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and he says,

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too

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much.

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There's too much happening

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and now goes to Raul Sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam. They

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just got out of this boycott and said,

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Raul Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, it's too much.

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Give me permission to leave.

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I'm gonna leave my car and go somewhere

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else.

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The pain that the prophet had in his

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heart saying, my best friend, the person that's

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closest to me after my family. And the

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prophet

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openly says this one time, a man comes

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to

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Prophet and said, Yeah, who is the most

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beloved to you? And he says, My wife,

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Aisha Adana. And they said, Okay. After Aisha,

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he says,

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So many different occasions, the Prophet

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he gives virtue of a book of Siddiq

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in an open gathering. In one narration, the

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prophet

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says, I have 2 friends in disguise that

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whenever I need them, I call upon them

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and they will always be there for me.

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He says, Jibrael and Mika.

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And I have 2 friends on the earth.

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Whenever I have called upon them, whenever I

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have I have summoned upon them, they've always

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stood up and he says that is Abu

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Bakr Sadiq and Umar bin Khattab.

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Now, Abu Bakr Sadiq goes to prophet

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I'm at a boiling point. I can't take

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it.

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Give me permission.

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As much as it hates me to leave

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my friend,

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and the prophet

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here, he's saying,

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I hate to see you go. You're leaving

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today. I hate to see you go, but

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I understand.

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And

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he

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meets with a man by name Abu Dhunna.

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Abu Dhunna was not Muslim.

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He says,

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so Abu Dhunna I said, Abu Dhunna, where

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are you off to? And Abu Dhunna says

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that my people have left me no choice

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but to leave.

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It's a worker, a man like you.

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Not

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because you

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come from a good family, not because you,

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are prestigious in their community or a leader.

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So the man like you

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who helps others,

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who's always in the service of the people

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around you,

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that person should not leave, and

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we should not let that person

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You want to leave Frisco? Absolutely not. There's

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no way we will let you leave Frisco.

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Why? Because our community

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needs people like you.

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There aren't self centered.

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There aren't just worried about myself.

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But we need people like Abu Bakr Siddiqui,

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and they're always looking out for others.

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Abu Dourner says, do you know what? I'm

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gonna do everything in my power to make

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sure a man like you stays in Mecca.

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Why? Because

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you raise the value of Mecca.

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And

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he goes to the middle of Mecca and

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he says,

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I

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give my protection to Abu Bakr.

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Abu Bakr said, even though now think about

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this. Their

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theological beliefs are different.

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He's not Muslim.

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But he can appreciate this quality that this

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person

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is good to

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others.

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Now, you might say, okay,

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this was maybe in the early stages in

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the life of a book. But what about

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when Abu Bakr

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became in the narration, a very famous narration

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of Omar Ibn Khattab. Omar Ibn Khattab says

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that

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every morning when Abu Bakr was Khalifa.

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Right? So at this point,

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he is ruling the Muslim.

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Very important decisions are being made by

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sending out armies with

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These people have rejected Zakat. Go and take

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care of them. He's a Khaled person right

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there, Musayla Al Khaddab, he claims to be

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a prophet. We have to deal with him.

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Go and deal with him.

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He now gets the message that about Omar

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Al Adha, that we should compile the Quran

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in a book form.

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In the daytime, he's making this very important

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decisions.

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That every morning after FUDGER, I see Abu

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Bakr Al Latan, instead of going home trust

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me, after FUDGER, everybody wants to just go

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home.

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Right? Instead of going home,

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he goes to the outskirts of Medina

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on the opposite direction.

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I see this one day. I see this

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2 days. And curiosity kind of gets to

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me that, where is he off

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off to? Where does he go? And you

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and I would probably jump to some crazy,

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you know, assumption. You know, maybe he goes

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to do something.

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And if you sell somebody else, but of

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course, you can't think about that.

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So one day, I follow-up.

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Woman and stops this. I followed

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him.

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I stayed at a distance where he was

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at the end of where my eye can

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see. I was at a good distance.

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And I saw him go into a house.

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Old lady there with a bunch of children.

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And I ask this old lady, Masha, what's

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your situation. And the lady says,

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I'm

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old,

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I'm blind.

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And I have these orphans

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I can't do a lot of the work,

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the day to day chores.

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He then asked us, who is this man?

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She says, this man comes every

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day and he does the following.

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He sweeps my floors.

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He washes my dishes.

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He

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cleans our clothes. He fills up the water

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bag. He kneads the bread, and he makes

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breakfast for us, and he leaves.

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Omar Ibn Khattab al Adani asked the lady,

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do you know who he is? What's his

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name? He has never told me his name.

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He has never told me his name. He

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has never told me his name. He has

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never told me his name. He has never

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told me his name. He has never told

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me his name.

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He has never told me a name.

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He hasn't told me a name. I don't

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know who he is. I just know that

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there is a blessed soul that comes here

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to the outskirts of Medina, a place where

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nobody even knows about us,

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he as he finishes, Hadid says that, after

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you, what can we do?

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Like,

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how can we top that?

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How can we do better than that?

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And this is the example that will buckled

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on leaves for us.

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As this new year kicks in,

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you ask yourself,

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how is your loyalty?

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How much

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service are you in other people?

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Another quality of a book that will be

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out loud,

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and this is a quality that

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many of us, including myself,

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if he does test us, he gives us

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strength

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and patience

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to put up with those hardships.

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Composure. You change the real side not change,

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but the real side of you will come

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out.

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Come out of you will come out of

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you. You get to know a person when

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you see them facing difficulties. And that's why

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in one of these Bob said, love how

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do you have some sense that when you

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travel with somebody and they're faced with these

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difficulties, they're

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not in their comfort zone, you see the

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real side of the and the

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In the 3rd

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in the 23rd year of Islam,

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one day he comes he goes to Prophet

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Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalam, and says, you've been ill

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for some days. You've been

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been sick for some days. Today, you're doing

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better. You have a little better.

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Is it okay if I go and spend

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time with my wife? And the Prophet Sallallahu

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Alaihi was saying, sure. Go ahead. And the

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prophet always sends a sure. Go ahead.

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And I always think about this one point

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that his whole life,

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he was with the prophet.

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But this one day,

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12th

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12th of the year old, when the prophet

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breathes his last breath of was not

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there. When he hears his news, he comes

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back to Madin to Manawara.

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And

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he goes to Rasool Allah Sallallahu Alaihi wa

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Salam, where the body of the prophet Sallallahu

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Alaihi wa Salam is. And when I asked

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this question, why wasn't he there?

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The answer that I can think of,

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because Allah knew

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that we needed Abu Bakr on that day.

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The Muslim Ummah needed somebody

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who had a job.

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If he was there and he saw the

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prophet and as the prophet breathe his last

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breath, I don't know how Abu Bakr

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how I would feel if my if I

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had to see my close friend in that

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situation. And he kisses the forehead and he

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says, you've lived a beautiful life. The example

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that you've left behind for every single Muslim,

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no matter where they are,

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no matter what age they may be.

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It's forever it's beautiful.

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So you lived a beautiful life and you

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passed away a beautiful death.

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In a moment where other companions have lost

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their composure, Adi Latan is no longer speaking.

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Adi Arthan is no longer speaking.

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Omar Arthan is dealing with it in his

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own way.

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1 man got up and he held his

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composure,

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teaching us when hardships come to you, calm

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down, relax. Instead of taking it off on

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your children,

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in

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Instead of taking it off on your children,

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instead of unleashing it on your wife or

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on your husband,

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things to it. Oh, He gets up and

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he says,

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He gets up and he says,

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that whoever worship the prophets, the

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prophets, the prophets,

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has passed away.

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But we're worship Allah

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The law

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is alive and Allah

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does not.

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And the

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when we heard a book on say that

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it brought life in to

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lived for 2 years after the prophet, sala,

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and

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He asked his daughter Aisha Adana. He says,

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Aisha, what day is it?

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She says, can you imagine?

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He's sick. He's ill. He's on his death

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bed,

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but yet his mind is just

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on the prophet salallahu alayhi wa salam.

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He says, Aisha, what day is it? And

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she goes,

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aba.

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It's Monday.

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He says, Monday was a day that my

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beloved

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and loved. And they was a day that

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the prophets, allah,

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It says today, I will join.

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You and I would fight for it. Give

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me one more day. Give me one more

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hour. Give me some more time. Allah Subhanahu

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in the Quran says that when the time

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of death comes, they will say, no, no,

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give me a little bit more extra.

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But he says, if my beloved, if the

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prophets, allah, left

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on this day,

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then this is the day that

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And he was buried next to the prophets

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And of course, when the time

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came, was buried next to.

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And 1 final hadees of

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prophet says, on the day of judgement.

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When the second blowing of the trumpet will

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be done. So first, I will stand up

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for my grave. And Al

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Tharand.

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And then after him, Omar Ibn Khattab.

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Then the people of,

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and then everybody else.

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This man, because of his loyalty to the

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Prophet Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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because of his love for the Prophet Sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam, because of this quality of

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wanting to do good to others, his sincerity

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again, the list can go on and on

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and on. There's a lot more here in

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this. But because of his

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There's a lot more here in this. But

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because of these qualities that you and I

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coming into this new years can implement into

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ourselves,

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you want a role model?

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Oh, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. We ask for

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your infirm mercy. Oh, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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We ask to have mercy upon our community.

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Oh, Allah. Have mercy upon our parents. Oh,

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Allah. Have mercy upon our spouses and our

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children.

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Who do good for others, who give preference

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to others

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before ourselves. Oh, Allah, we ask that you

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make the companions and the prophets, the role

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models for our children. Oh, Allah, we ask

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that you

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give us the characteristics

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peace and blessing upon the prophets, Allah,

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and companions.

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If there's anybody going through any type of

00:31:22 --> 00:31:24

difficulty, oh, Allah, we ask you to remove

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those difficulties. Oh,

00:31:25 --> 00:31:27

Allah, we ask you to forgive our sins.

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Oh,

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Allah, we ask you to pardon our mistakes.

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32

Oh, Allah, we ask you to overlook our

00:31:32 --> 00:31:34

shortcomings. Oh, Allah, we ask you to overlook

00:31:34 --> 00:31:34

our shortcomings. Oh, Allah, we ask you to

00:31:34 --> 00:31:37

overlook our shortcomings. Oh, Allah, Oh, Allah, we

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ask you to overlook our shortcomings. Oh, Allah,

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we ask you to overlook our shortcomings. Oh,

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Allah, we ask you to forgive all of

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your

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sins.

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Ask that you give their their hands. Oh,

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Allah Subhash

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Just,

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a quick request

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for the who

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is,

00:38:04 --> 00:38:05

a frequent volunteer

00:38:06 --> 00:38:07

here at the Masjid.

00:38:07 --> 00:38:10

His son, Atem, is a volunteer as well.

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I mean, his father-in-law has passed away in

00:38:14 --> 00:38:14

India,

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on Monday. We ask Allah

00:38:18 --> 00:38:20

that forgives all of us. And we ask

00:38:20 --> 00:38:21

Allah raises his rings in Jenna, rather Allah

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gives a Raises his ranks

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

gives the family strength and patients during these

00:38:27 --> 00:38:28

hard times.

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Also,

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another announcement tonight, we we will be having

00:38:37 --> 00:38:40

our youth program, VIPs of Islam after.

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We'll be talking about the

00:38:47 --> 00:38:47

2 neighbors

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in. And inshallah, after that dinner

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dinner be served. This is to all the

00:38:54 --> 00:38:55

youth community.

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