Mubeen Kamani – Isha Khatira

Mubeen Kamani
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The importance of the experience of playing without meaning and benefiting in life is discussed, along with the need for learning and sharing experiences to strengthen one's knowledge and connection with others. The "has adult" behavior is a combination of a lack of contentment and desire for more, linked to a belief that one should be content with whatever is given to them. The experience is temporary and requires understanding and sharing of experiences to strengthen one's knowledge and connection with others.
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Created us

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in the best form,

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in the best manner,

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in the what best way.

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And we went through some detail talking about

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why did Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala say this,

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and we went over how Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala gave you and I aqal.

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In today's reminder, I wanna bring up

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a verse where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala talks

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about

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this life that he has given us.

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So he says that you are the best

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of my creations,

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and the life that you live, Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala sums it up

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in one eye.

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And I find this very beautiful because at

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any stage in my life,

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I can pinpoint where in that ayah I

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currently am.

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And all the previous places,

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I remember those times as well.

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That one time I was in that stage,

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and one time I was at that stage.

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And the unique thing about this ayah is

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as it goes through the different stages

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that, in San, you and I progress through,

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each stage that we pass and move on

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to the next stage,

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we look at the previous stage and say,

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I was wasting my time.

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I wish I wasn't doing that. What I'm

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doing now is important.

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And Allah subhanahu wa'ala said in the Quran,

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verily, the life of this dunya is.

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The first two stages, and you can bring

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them both together,

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is playing without any meaning, without any benefit.

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I have a 2 year old son at

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home.

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My 2 year old, Mohammed,

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he has a toy where he presses the

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button.

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The toy pops out.

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He laughs,

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and then he closes it again, presses the

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button again, it pops out once again, and

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he laughs. And he could do this for

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hours,

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and it would just drive me crazy,

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but that's what laryb is,

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playing without any meaning, without any benefit,

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just entertainment.

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Tells us that from you then go to

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Lahun,

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and this type of play is

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while y'all were coming in, you probably saw

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some kids playing basketball outside,

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and that type of play, it had benefit

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for them.

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You

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know, they're they're

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telling themselves, if I can play more basketball,

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I might lose some weight, I might build

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my cardio up, I might build my stamina

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up, maybe I might have a future in

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this sport.

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And if you ask the person who is

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dealing with this youth now to sit down

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and play with their 2 year old, 3

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year old sibling with that toy,

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they'll say, absolutely not.

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That's a waste of time. Why would I

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do that?

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Now I understand what the ball is. Now

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I understand what the controller is. You know,

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if I play

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Fortnite or play, you know, the newest game

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out, I may be able to get into

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the competition and be, you know, be the

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best at it.

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Then Allah

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tells us that this stage of your life

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is only temporary.

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Then the next stage,

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This now youth becomes a teenager.

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And he looks into the mirror and he's

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impressed with what he sees.

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And he spends time.

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Now, this person will spend hours in the

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gym.

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You ask a person that's beyond this stage,

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you wanna spend hours in the gym? They

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say, absolutely not. You know, my wife married

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me and where that say, halas.

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I don't need to be in the gym.

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This person will spend hours online looking at

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tutorials

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how to tie their hijab

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or how to put on their makeup. Why?

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Because everything

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is about

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zena. It's about beautifying yourself and making sure

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that you actually

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play the part

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when you walk into a room that you

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are the center of attention,

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that you are presentable

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in front of people.

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But then Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says this

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part of your life

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is temporary as well.

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And then you move on to the next

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part

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where

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it's

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where it's competition

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with one another.

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Where are they going to on vacation?

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What kind of house do they have? What

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kind of car do they drive?

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The job that he has, the bank balance

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that he has. And Imam Ghazali

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looks at this one

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phase of our life,

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and he gives it a title

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of a disease in the heart.

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In his ahiya ululunuddin,

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now Imam Ghazal alhamtulillahi, you have to understand

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that,

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he

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went through a phase of his life where

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he was a top scholar,

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absolutely top scholar. People came in thousands of

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miles to come learn by Imam Ghazal

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He had authored many books at the age

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of 20.

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And at one point, it was like Imam

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Ghazal

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sat down to speak like this,

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and after saying, Alhamdulillah,

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Allah took his tongue away.

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He wasn't able to say anything.

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He wasn't able to communicate,

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share the thoughts

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that he had, share the reflection that he

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had, teach.

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And Imam Ghazalah alayhi actually takes a sabbatical

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for roughly around 10 years.

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During this time, his brother, Ahmed Ghazali,

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writes a poem

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to his brother and says that, how long

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will you be the stone that sharpens

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blades,

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that sharpens swords?

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That you sharpen everybody else, but you yourself

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remain

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dull.

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And then that's why Imam Musa, he takes

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some time. He refocused himself, and he comes

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back and he writes, And

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in his

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he writes

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a a bridge version,

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which is called,

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the beginning of guidance. And in beginning, guys,

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ma'am,

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he takes the disease of the heart, and

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he summarized it into 3.

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And in these 3, he talks about as

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hasad

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with one another.

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You know, one is keeping up with the

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Johnsons,

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but the other is hasad, which is a,

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you know, he says it's a more

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more it's a greater

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disease than that.

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And that he defined hasad is when you

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see somebody else with a nirm of Allah,

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and not only are you jealous or envious

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of it, but you don't want that person

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to have it as well.

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And the prophet

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shared many different hadith about it, about hasad.

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He says that hasad and iman cannot be

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combined in a believer's heart.

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Another hadith,

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near by Imam Ahmed Abdul Ali, Imam Raulsula

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam says the hasad,

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it burns away

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your good deeds.

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The same way that a fire you have

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a bonfire,

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you have a campfire, and you put some

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dry wood in there. And with a crackle,

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within 10 minutes, within 15 minutes, that wood

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is absolutely ash.

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And Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wa sallam said, this

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is what hasad does to your

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aamad.

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Now a lot of times we look at

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hasad and a one direct one dimensional

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approach

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of our property,

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of our materialistic

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things. But you have to realize that hasad

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is actually beyond that.

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Sometimes the hasad that we have is a

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someone's knowledge.

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Sometimes the hasad that we have is somebody's

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control or power

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or the say that they have in the

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community or the effect that they have, the

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following that they have.

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And people now, it's

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competition

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with one another.

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And then then Allah subhanahu, in the last

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part, says, the last stage of your life,

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you went through playing without any meaning and

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playing with meaning,

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beautifying yourself and competing with one another, but

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then comes a time in your life where

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you become old.

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And all you want is

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All you want is to gather

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your wealth and have your children around you.

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You wanna be in communication

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with your children.

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A person now puts a price tag on

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their life. I lived a life of 50,

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60, 70 years.

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What do I have

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to show value of these 60, 70 years?

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How much money have I saved or how

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obedient or how close are my children to

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me?

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And

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this quality,

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this space

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can be

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categorized as the lack of ganat,

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the lack of contentment.

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And we talk about contentment.

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A great scholar comes to mind by the

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name of Ibrahim bin Adam.

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He was a king of bulk.

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Ibrahim bin Adam Rahmatullah.

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His situation was that at one point, he

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was a king

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and he had a huge gathering at his

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in his palace.

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And people were drinking, people were having fun.

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It reached a point of the night where

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everybody was passed out. Ibrahim bin Adam, he

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hears on the roof

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some footsteps.

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So he said, do you want let me

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go and check what's happening.

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He finds a person,

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and this person is looking around here, looking

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around there. Ibrahim adham asked them, what are

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you doing?

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Said I'm looking for my camel. I've lost

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my camel.

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I'm looking for my camel.

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And Ibrahim Ben Adam said, what kind of

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biblical are you?

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That you're looking for your camel on top

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of my palace. How would your camel get

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past my detail,

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climb up my spiral stairs, and get up

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here on top of my cam on top

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of my palace?

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And the person replies back, if I'm Bilqwuf,

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then who are you?

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You're looking for Allah

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within

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your palace.

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I'm looking for my camel on top of

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your palace, but you're looking for Allah

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as a king inside of your palace.

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And if by then,

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the next day he wakes up and he

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says to people, guys,

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I'm

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done. I resigned from my position.

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And many years later,

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Ibrahmun Adam is walking.

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And this is what panat is. Panat is

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to be content with whatever liver little you

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have.

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With the

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at that point, once you have it doesn't

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mean anything.

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You're not worried about gathering more, but whatever

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little you have, you're content with that. He

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takes a piece of bread, dips it in

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the water. There was a river there. The

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river,

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the name said might be dipped in the

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water, and then he eats it. And the

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people around him said that, do you want

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just a few years back, you were the

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king. And you had maidens that were feeding

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you, and meals were being prepared for you.

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Many many different types of bread and many

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different types of meat was prepared for you.

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And today, look at your state. You're dipping

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water you're dipping bread into water just so

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it can be moist and it can go

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down your throat.

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And Ibrahim,

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he replies back by saying, if the kings

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of this dunya

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knew the pleasure

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and the simplicity

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of being a servant to Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala,

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they would come with their sword and they

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will wage war for this pleasure.

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And this is the last stage

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where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala talks about the

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Quran.

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Where

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we just want to gather more and more

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and more. But there is a combat to

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that, and that is to be content with

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whatever little little Allah

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gives us. We pray that Allah makes us

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from those people that make the most of

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the sages that we are in and prepares

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to meet him on the day of judgement.

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