Mubeen Kamani – Importance of knowledge

Mubeen Kamani
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The importance of learning and making changes to one's schedule for success in life is emphasized, along with the need for personal comfort and a desire for children to understand what knowledge is. Personal comfort is emphasized, along with the importance of giving children the right tools and knowledge to achieve their goals in college. Learning and embracing knowledge is also crucial, and dedication and intention are emphasized. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning and bringing value to children, and offers resources for parents to help their children reach their potential. The importance of learning and adapting to the environment is also emphasized.
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Hi, all alfella.

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Alhamdulillah.

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We start out by praising Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, the one who is worthy of all

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our praise and our gratitude. It is Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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who is

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aware of all the things that are in

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between the earth and the skies. It's Allah

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that nothing escapes his knowledge.

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It's Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala who is capable

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of everything. It's Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala who

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holds the keys to the treasures

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of the world.

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With then some peace and blessing upon the

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prophet,

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the one that was sent as a mercy

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to mankind

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and an example for us of how Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala wants us to live our

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lives.

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We then send peace and blessing upon the

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companions of Rasoolallahu

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alaihi wa sallam,

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his family members, those who helped him and

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aided him, Ahmed,

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thereafter.

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We come to a unique time of the

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year where

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within the next week,

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life for many of the people around us

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will change,

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And

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this is because our children are now going

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back to school.

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In the past couple of months,

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we stepped out of our schedule.

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Usually, we have a set schedule. This is

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when you sleep. This is when you wake

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up. This is what you do during the

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day. You go to school. You run errands.

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But over the past couple of months,

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we have stepped out of schedule.

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And now that things are

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going to go back to somewhat normal.

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It's important to

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understand

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that when the schedule comes back to the

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way it's supposed to be, there has to

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be some sort of changes.

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If you go back to last year's schedule

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and this year,

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the school year of 2023

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2024

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is the exact same of the previous year,

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then all you're doing is rinsing and repeating,

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and there's no change.

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There's no improvement.

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And that is not called a life. You

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can't do the same thing over and over

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70 times and call it a life. That's

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not how it works. There has to be

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some sort of change, some sort of improvement.

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And now when it comes time to the

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new school year,

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the improvement that's needed is the understanding of

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the value of knowledge, the importance of knowledge.

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And this knowledge can be of any type,

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whether it's our children that are going to

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school for them to understand

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that the knowledge you will get, whether it's

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English, science, mathematics, soul studies,

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any of it,

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it brings a value to your life.

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But on top of that, if you can

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add Islamic knowledge, then that is even more

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important.

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Why? Because Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam hadith, it says,

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The way

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that ours 5 times salah is mandatory.

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We have to do it.

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The way that fasting in the month of

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Ramadan, the way that zakat, the way that

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hajj, the way they're taking shahada, all of

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these things are mandatory. Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam says

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that learning knowledge

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and the important part to understand here that

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this is not just for our children.

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Rasool Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam did not say

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that learning knowledge is mandatory for your children,

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but he left it general that learning knowledge

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is mandatory.

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The Arabic saying

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is Some people associate

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some people

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associate with the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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but it's not a hadith. But the saying

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is that seek knowledge

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from your cradle

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to your grave.

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We think that the prime age of seeking

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knowledge is 20, 20 5, 30. After that,

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there is no seeking knowledge.

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If somebody is in college

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if somebody is in college after this or

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somebody is taking classes after this, we look

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at this person and say, what's wrong with

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you?

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Your day of studying are over.

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But you look at the companion of rasulullah

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam, and what you will

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see is the companion of the prophet salallahu

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alaihi wa sallam,

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they made a sacrifice

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for knowledge

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no matter what their age was.

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And that's the key word.

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Knowledge requires

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sacrifice.

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If you think

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if I think

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that knowledge will come to me without any

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sacrifice,

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that it should be as easy as ordering

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food off of Uber Eats, you're wrong.

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There is no Uber knowledge.

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We don't DoorDash knowledge to you.

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That's information. You can get information online.

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It's different. There's difference between knowledge and information.

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Knowledge, you have to make a sacrifice. Knowledge,

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you have to go out of your schedule.

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Knowledge, you have to stop everything that you're

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doing and bring your kids to gain knowledge.

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And the difference between knowledge and information is

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knowledge is something that gives you benefit.

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Knowledge of the Quran,

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knowledge of

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Islam, the Hadith, what the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam is is saying. And

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our masjid, ICF,

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we're at a point where now all of

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the,

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you know, educational programs are about to start.

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Quran Academy is gonna start. The HIFT program

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is gonna start. We have Safwa. We have

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Uswa. We have Sunday school. So many rare

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learning program, so many different educational program that

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the masjid has, but the sad thing is

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many of us are actually unaware of it.

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But imagine how sad it is that even

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though the masjid has a program, we don't

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utilize that program.

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So many different places. If they had a

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small program like this,

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we

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have maybe 10 different education programs.

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Without any exaggeration,

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ICF has around 10 different educational programs running

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through the school year.

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And for a masjid that's not in, like,

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Dallas,

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a single one of those programs will be

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so greatly appreciated.

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And now if we say, wait, sheikh, we

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appreciate the program,

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You have to back up those words with

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actions.

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Ask yourself, how many of these programs do

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I attend or do my children attend?

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So many times we look for comfort.

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And comfort in other things

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is okay.

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But when you show comfort in things when

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it comes to religion,

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that's the message that you're sending your children.

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If I tell my child that, Berta,

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it's gonna be hard for me to take

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you from home to Masjid and take time

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out, and because of this, what I'm gonna

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do is I'm gonna put you in front

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of a computer for my comfort,

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and you're gonna learn with somebody overseas

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that through a screen and you ask yourself,

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if you were to take an online program,

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how effective is it?

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If I were to as an adult, if

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I were to take an online program versus

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in person, which one is more effective?

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And the answer is, of course, in person.

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And now you take that and you put

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that to a 10 year old

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who has an attention span,

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you know, a very minimal attention span.

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And you ask yourself

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then you ask yourself the question, why isn't

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my child learning Quran

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online?

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The message that we've sent to our children

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is that there is no importance here. Comfort

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comes before

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knowledge.

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Whereas the salallahu alaihi wa sallam 1 hadith,

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he points out

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he says whoever sets out on the path

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man salakah. Whoever sets out on the path

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that look, this journey of knowledge will not

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be easy. It'll be difficult.

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Some people take their children and drop their

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children off in a foreign country. Why? So

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that they can gain knowledge.

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And when hadith

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says, the best amongst you,

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is a person who has knowledge of the

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Quran. In the Quran, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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says,

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Is it possible? A rhetorical question.

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Allah

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is asking, is it possible that these two

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people can be the same?

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A person that has knowledge versus a person

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that doesn't have knowledge. He's saying,

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absolutely not.

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There are 2 different levels.

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And we're number 1, we it's important to

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make this intention that this is what I

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want for my child.

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I want my child to get their knowledge

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from not behind a screen,

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but from heart to heart,

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where they understand

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what it is coming to a class, where

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they make a connection to a teacher.

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Start them off with Quran. Start them off

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with Qaeda. Start them off with basic information.

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The Sunday school, actually the safwa. And then

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for ourselves as adults,

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it's important that we stay hungry for knowledge.

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Rasoolallah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam in one hadith,

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he says, manhoomani

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lahayasbahal.

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He

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says, there are 2 hungry people

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that there's nothing that sashates them.

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They will never be full. 2 people

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that will

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always be hungry.

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And he says,

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Number 1,

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when a person gets a true hunger for

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knowledge,

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this person can never have enough.

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Once you understand what knowledge is, you just

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want to learn more and more and more.

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So many times people think that, oh, I

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already know this.

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Allah

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in the Quran says, upon everybody that's knowledgeable,

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there's somebody that has even more knowledge.

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But knowledge comes with a responsibility.

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And that responsibility

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is,

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number 1, to act upon them.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in the Quran

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no.

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A lot of times we think that if

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I make my child hafiz,

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I've

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secured their jannah.

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Or if I give my child

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information

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or knowledge or if I bring them parents

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come and say that my child was in

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Sunday school.

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How come they're doing this?

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My child was in the Quran program. How

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could they do this?

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The reality is knowledge

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is not your certificate to Jannah.

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It's the tools that you need to get

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to Jannah.

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Then it's up to you.

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You have all the

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tools. You have everything that you need,

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but imagine that person

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who takes these tools away from their child.

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Imagine

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buying

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a bed from Ikea,

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taking the instructions, and telling your child, go

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make that bed.

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It's not gonna happen.

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It's already hard enough

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to make that for an adult.

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It's already hard enough for an adult like

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you and I to earn a place in

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Jannah. It's not easy in this world. It's

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difficult. Then how do you expect to send

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your child out without the right tools, without

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the right knowledge?

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Where they're going to college, they're going to

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high school, and they're being challenged about their

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deen, tell us what makes Islam

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the right deen.

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But they don't have the tools to answer

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that question.

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Why don't they have that why why don't

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they have the tools?

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Because I never made it a point to

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give my children

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the correct knowledge that they need. I thought

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to myself, if I bring my child to

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Sunday school,

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I've done my

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part. That's it.

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I'm gonna pick my child up outside.

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At 2 o'clock, when

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is happening, I'm gonna tell my child to

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come outside

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so that we can get home quickly,

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but that's me doing my responsibility for the

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full week.

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The child gets into the car, and you

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ask them, Berta because you want to be

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a parent that

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engages your child, you ask your child that,

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Berta, what did you learn?

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And the child says, I learned the importance

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of salah.

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Can we go inside and pray?

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It's salah time. I just learned the importance

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of salah, and you're asking me to come

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outside.

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So what we understand

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is,

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number 1,

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is that giving your children the knowledge

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is investing in your children in a long

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term.

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Because one day, they'll be they'll be able

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to act upon the knowledge. Allah, subhanahu, in

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the in the Quran, he says

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that the example of a person who has

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knowledge but doesn't act upon it,

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kamathalilhimariyahmilu

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asfarah.

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Allah subhanahu wa'ala says, imagine that there is

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a donkey, himar,

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and on its back is

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as far as are these huge

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books.

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You have the Quran, you have

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Bukhari,

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Muslim, Nasai, whatever,

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an encyclopedia.

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But does that animal benefit from it?

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No.

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Until you don't

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act upon that knowledge.

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Until you and I don't act upon that

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knowledge.

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Now, one point I wanna make, a lot

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of times people

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we, not people, but we make this excuse.

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We often say,

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but I don't really have time.

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I work.

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I own a business.

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I spend time with my children.

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I go to the gym.

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I have to be at my work 9

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to 5, whatever it is.

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I don't have time to, you know, attend

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the halakas. I don't have time to take

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a class.

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And what comes to my mind

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is

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the example of

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He narrates a hadith and he says that,

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me and my

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unsari brother,

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me and my unsari brother,

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we had this deal.

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And the deal was

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one day he would go and learn from

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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and at night I would

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take the information from him. He would share

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what he learned.

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And the next day

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I took time off of work,

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and I went and learned with the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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And then at night, I shared with him.

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Abu Hurirahu alaihi wa sallam.

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People ask Abu Hurirahu

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you lived a very short period of time

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with the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. How

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is it that you've narrated the most Hadith?

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And Abu Huria's uzan says that, my Ansari

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brothers, they were busy in the farms,

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My Muhajid brothers, they were busy

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in the market.

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There were those people that had businesses, they

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had restaurants, they had, you know,

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clothing stores, and there are those people that

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that were laborers, they worked. But he said,

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I

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I understood that this part right here is

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where I need to maximize and just learn

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as much as knowledge as I can.

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And, he said, I didn't work in the

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farms. I didn't work in the market. I

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dedicated my time to prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam.

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I mentioned this all the time that every

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time that you see

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a Sheikh or somebody up here,

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every time you see somebody on this and

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you in your heart, you feel

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this gosh, only if I wish,

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Which is fine.

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In one hadith Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam says that you are actually allowed

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to have hasad

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on 2 people, to feel envious of 2

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different people. He said number 1, the person

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that you're allowed to feel envious of is

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a person who Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has

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gifted with wealth and then that person spends

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it in the right path.

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They donate.

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They give.

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They share.

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And the second person is a person who

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Allah

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blesses with knowledge.

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That you are allowed to be envious of

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this person. So every time you see a

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person on that, every time you see a

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person standing on this member, and you feel,

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I wish, gosh,

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my child was there.

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What if my Ahmed was there?

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What if my Aisha was the one that

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was giving the khatra?

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Understand

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that gosh, that wish,

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it requires

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dedication.

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Dedication

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along with intention that you as a parent

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have to make.

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And that intention has to be followed. So

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number 1, your child has to be dedicated.

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Number 2, you have to have the intention.

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Number 3, you have to lead by example.

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When you show this hunger

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for knowledge,

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then your child will have the hunger for

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knowledge.

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And you open the path, and then you

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give them the option.

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Allah in the Quran, very beautiful, once again

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says,

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that Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala took us out

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of our the wounds of our mothers.

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You didn't know anything.

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When Allah took you out the wound of

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your mother, you didn't know anything, but today

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Allah has given you knowledge

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of the dunya.

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Pair that with a knowledge which is even

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more important

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of the.

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This deen talks about learning good in this

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dunya and learning good in the hereafter.

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Where the prophet says,

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Oh, Allah

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I seek protection from knowledge

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that is of no benefit.

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And the reason why I shared this because

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when I was a child,

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the reality is that my children versus when

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I was a child, my children are much

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more smarter

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than I am.

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If you're a parent, you agree.

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You give a 5 year old a tablet

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and they know exactly what to do.

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They pick up knowledge.

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They learn. They adapt more than what we

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did.

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Now the reality is either they fill that

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hunger, that void

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with knowledge of which which is an information

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that has no benefit.

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Child comes and says to me

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that, Sheikh, let me tell you the stats

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of Don Luka Donacic.

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How many rings LeBron James has won?

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How is that gonna benefit? Alhamdulillah.

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May Allah give them more but that doesn't

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benefit.

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And so either your child learns knowledge

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about Pokemon,

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about

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Minecraft, and God knows what,

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or you give them knowledge that will actually

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improve the quality of their life.

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And this is actually an investment in yourself.

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Because the very famous hadith where the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says when a person

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dies, you and I are not here to

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stay.

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The next generation will take our place.

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But the prophet says when a person dies,

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their book of deeds is closed

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except for

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a few different ways.

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Number 1,

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knowledge that

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is passed on.

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Number 2,

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security that you give

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that

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people benefit from. And then the prophet says,

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a child

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that will make du'a for you after you're

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gone.

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So you learn something, you teach your child

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that your child passes on, and then when

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you better the quality of your child's life,

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when tomorrow

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your child inshallah

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is firm in their deen.

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They will go outside, they will go to

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work in a non Muslim environment, and as

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a Muslim, they're proud.

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I know my deen is true. I'm fine.

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I believe in the Quran and not just

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because, you know, that's what I was taught

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by. I understand the Quran. I understand the

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Hadith. I understand the value that my religion

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gives to me.

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Your child will raise their hand and make

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du'a for you. That my Abba

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chose the right path for me.

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Those classes that my mother used to take

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me,

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she had food on the stove but she

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left the house and brought me to the

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masjid. I appreciate that.

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The sacrifice that my dad used to make

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when he brought me to the halakas,

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the sacrifice that my parents made taking me

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to classes,

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I appreciate that and they made dua for

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you after you're gone.

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So the importance of knowledge

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again, this topic is very broad,

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and how it affects our society,

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and how it affects our children.

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But we come to a part of the

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year where

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things are about to go

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back to

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normal, back to schedule.

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So this is where you choose,

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do I actually bring a difference?

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Add in some Quran classes for your children.

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Add in, you know,

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for yourself.

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Adult classes.

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If your child are not in the Sunday

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school, enroll them in the Sunday school. The

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masjid offers this.

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If you don't utilize it,

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then

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what's the benefit?

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Oh, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. We ask for

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your infinite mercy. Oh, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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We ask that you give us knowledge that

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is a benefit. Oh, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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We ask that you make us people

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who take the path of knowledge ourselves,

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that we become good role models for our

00:31:03 --> 00:31:05

children and give them knowledge. Oh, Allah

00:31:06 --> 00:31:08

We ask for knowledge of the Quran. We

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ask for knowledge of hadith. We ask for

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knowledge

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of this dunya and of the hereafter. Oh,

00:31:13 --> 00:31:15

Allah, give us knowledge of this deen. Oh,

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Allah, give us knowledge of this dunya as

00:31:17 --> 00:31:19

well. Oh, Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, we ask

00:31:19 --> 00:31:20

that you put our children in the best

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of schools, in the best of colleges, in

00:31:23 --> 00:31:24

the best of environments.

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Oh, Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, we ask that

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if there's anybody in our gathering

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that is going through any type of difficulty,

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32

that you remove those difficulties from their path.

00:31:32 --> 00:31:33

Oh, Allah, those of us who are struggling

00:31:33 --> 00:31:35

within our families, oh, Allah, we ask you

00:31:35 --> 00:31:37

give us peace within our families. Oh, Allah.

00:31:37 --> 00:31:39

Those of us who are struggling financially, oh,

00:31:39 --> 00:31:41

Allah, we ask that you give us ease.

00:31:41 --> 00:31:42

Oh, Allah. Those of us who are struggling

00:31:42 --> 00:31:44

with our health, we ask that you give

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

us a cure. Oh, Allah. Those of us

00:31:46 --> 00:31:48

who have lost a loved one. Oh, allah,

00:31:48 --> 00:31:49

this past week,

00:31:51 --> 00:31:53

lost his father. Oh, allah, we ask that

00:31:53 --> 00:31:56

you give them peace in their heart. Oh,

00:31:56 --> 00:31:58

allah, we ask that you fill the deceased's

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grave with with and light. Oh, allah

00:32:03 --> 00:32:04

We ask that you be pleased with us.

00:32:04 --> 00:32:07

Oh Allah be pleased with us. Oh Allah

00:32:07 --> 00:32:07

be pleased with us.

00:38:47 --> 00:38:48

There's a few Duwah requests.

00:38:49 --> 00:38:51

The mother of brother Anurag Khan,

00:38:52 --> 00:38:55

had a surgery yesterday and has not woken

00:38:55 --> 00:38:55

up yet.

00:38:56 --> 00:38:57

Also, brother Sayed,

00:38:58 --> 00:39:00

Aluudin Ahmad Laiq.

00:39:01 --> 00:39:02

He's in the ICU. Brother Mohammed

00:39:03 --> 00:39:04

Najib, he's in the hospital.

00:39:05 --> 00:39:06

We ask Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, give them

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

a quick a quick complete shefa.

00:39:09 --> 00:39:11

Duay mafarod for number 1, of course, to

00:39:11 --> 00:39:15

follow Sheikh Dunas Jangda. Also, for Sayed Diwar

00:39:15 --> 00:39:16

Hussain Qadri,

00:39:16 --> 00:39:19

brother Andaz, Raza, Sifat Ibrahim, all of them

00:39:19 --> 00:39:21

have passed away. Ask Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:39:21 --> 00:39:23

give their family patience and strength during their

00:39:23 --> 00:39:27

hard time. Allah forgives their sins. Also, inshallah,

00:39:27 --> 00:39:29

later on today after as as salah, we

00:39:29 --> 00:39:29

have a,

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

back to school program for younger kids. You

00:39:33 --> 00:39:36

can find the details outside. It's a anti

00:39:36 --> 00:39:37

bullying program,

00:39:37 --> 00:39:39

which we were talking to our children,

00:39:39 --> 00:39:42

about how to deal with bullying at school.

00:39:42 --> 00:39:44

After Madhub, there is

00:39:44 --> 00:39:45

a middle school program

00:39:46 --> 00:39:47

as well, a trivia program. So, if you

00:39:47 --> 00:39:49

have children in the middle school, you wanna

00:39:49 --> 00:39:51

bring them after If you have children in

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

elementary, I'll tell you, you're gonna bring them

00:39:53 --> 00:39:54

after Assar.

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

Just like a little hair shake. Just a

00:40:04 --> 00:40:05

couple more announcements.

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

Firstly, we'd like to invite, all of our

00:40:07 --> 00:40:09

members to sign up to be recurring monthly

00:40:09 --> 00:40:11

donors, even if it's a small amount, $20,

00:40:12 --> 00:40:13

$50, any amount helps.

00:40:14 --> 00:40:14

Seminary

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is also taking enrollment for middle and high

00:40:17 --> 00:40:19

schoolers. You can sign up for that program

00:40:19 --> 00:40:20

at friscomustache.orgforward/suffwa,

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

or attend the open house on August 12th

00:40:24 --> 00:40:25

at 2:15

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PM,

00:40:26 --> 00:40:29

Husswa Seminary, which is an adult education program

00:40:29 --> 00:40:32

for the introduction to chronic sciences with shiksalah,

00:40:32 --> 00:40:34

is taking registration as well. You can sign

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up for that at go.friscoamashjek.orgforward/uswacharonic

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sciences.

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We also have a Thanksgiving umrah that lasts

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from November 18th 27th,

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46

and that is going to,

00:40:46 --> 00:40:48

you can sign up for that at tinyurl.comforward/icfumrah2023

00:40:51 --> 00:40:53

or by checking out the flyer on any

00:40:53 --> 00:40:55

of the tech boards in the lobby or

00:40:55 --> 00:40:56

the top of the stairs.

00:40:57 --> 00:40:57

Everybody.

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