Morad Awad – The Prophet Despised These Type of People

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The speakers discuss the characteristics of shirts and dresses that cannot coexist in the heart of a person, including shirts and dresses that are Marketing-related. They also talk about various prophets and actions, including giving shada 49% and giving away butter. The speakers emphasize the importance of proper behavior and behavior to avoid negative consequences, particularly in Islam.

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			Today inshallah Allah is gonna
give a short talk
		
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			because Dr. Yasser is traveling.
So today we're going to talk about
		
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			a characteristic
		
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			that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam not only disliked but
		
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			despised.
		
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			And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam said, in a hadith that
		
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			this characteristic cannot coexist
		
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			along with iman in the heart of
the believer.
		
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			It cannot coexist.
		
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			And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam day and night will seek
		
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			refuge from Allah from this
characteristic.
		
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			What is this characteristic?
		
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			Albon stinginess. stinginess is
one of the worst characteristics
		
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			that a person can have.
		
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			stinginess is the characteristic
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam said, cannot coexist in the
heart of a Muslim
		
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			with a man like a man and
stinginess cannot exist together
		
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			and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam would say in a
		
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			day and night Allahumma Imia are
becoming an HMI Wellhausen woman.
		
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			alloggio Alcacer women are Gibney
waldvogel he would seek refuge in
		
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			Allah from what? From cowardice.
And from what? From misery
		
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			miserliness being stingy, or
stinginess,
		
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			the top level of the stinginess,
and we're going to talk about a
		
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			few types of insha Allah and give
some examples.
		
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			The top most is a shoe, a shoe is
when a person is stingy on their
		
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			own self, not others, but their
own self. They have what they they
		
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			have enough to spend on
themselves, but they choose to not
		
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			give themselves and their own
families, except what is the
		
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			minimum.
		
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			Except what is the minimum. This
is the worst type it's called
		
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			shoe.
		
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			And the short here, when we say
short, it is a complex that is in
		
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			the mind of a person. Why is it so
bad? Why is it so evil? Some of us
		
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			can, like okay, I don't want to
spend my money. What's the big
		
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			deal? No, the big deal is that it
almost negates telecoil from the
		
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			heart. Because a person who was so
stingy, cannot truly have reliance
		
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			on Allah subhanaw taala. Because
if they did have reliance, then
		
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			they would give a know that the
one who gave them first is going
		
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			to give them again. But the one
who has this shirt in them, it's
		
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			as if they are saying, No, Allah
will not give me again. So I don't
		
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			want to give from what I have.
		
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			Do you see the and this is where
this is how it becomes so so bad,
		
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			and so evil. And this is how it
cannot coexist with iman and faith
		
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			in the heart of a Muslim.
		
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			The worst type of stinginess is
the stinginess of what what do you
		
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			bet from things that are funded
like what like Zika prison does
		
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			not want to give Zika when they
come and give Zika is heavy on
		
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			them.
		
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			It's only two and a half percent
of the wealth that is above the
		
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			nisab the specific amount that
stayed with you for a whole year.
		
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			And it's two and a half percent.
But even that comes out heavily.
		
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			And they try to find loopholes and
ways out of even that. This is the
		
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			first level of stinginess, another
level of stinginess, is what
		
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			stinginess from the Mr. Hubbard
things that are extra
		
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			supplementary, so that person does
not give sadaqa. Right? Does not.
		
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			does want to give sadaqa but it
can it does. It's not only
		
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			specific 12 The Prophets Allah
Allah wa sallam said in a hadith,
		
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			he said, Ebola nurse Mundaka
Salam, the most stingy of people
		
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			is the one who doesn't even give
salam.
		
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			The one who doesn't even give
salam you know, sometimes you see
		
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			somebody walking next to him
walking by and like, hey, salaam
		
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			alaikum. It's not like they should
start with salah. But not only
		
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			that, some people don't even give
salam back. They just look at it
		
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			like, you know, like pork.
		
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			At least give salam back that is
the most stingy act the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
right? And the prophets I send
		
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			them said in a hadith as well.
Mankind I mean Koyomi of Allahu
		
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			Allah mill acid for you cream.
		
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			Well waiver. If you believe in
Allah and the hereafter, then be
		
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			generous to your guests. Some
people Subhanallah the guest comes
		
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			over, nothing, not even water. And
some people water but look at the
		
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			look at the stories. I was
preparing for the status and the
		
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			story think it's a true story. A
man, a man. He wanted to buy, you
		
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			know, a guest came and this guest
was very dear to him coming from
		
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			out of town
		
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			He said to his son looks on,
here's some money. I want you to
		
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			go and get
		
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			a quarter kilo of meat for my
guest quarter cube. That's, you
		
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			know, long was that, you know,
that's enough quarter kilo. So the
		
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			sun goes and he said, Look, give
me a quarter kilo of meat and I
		
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			want good meat. The Butcher told
him I'll give you me. That's so
		
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			good and so tender. It's as if
it's butter. So the kid obviously
		
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			he's the son of his own father,
right apples don't fall far from
		
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			the tree. What does he do?
		
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			He says if the meat is like
butter, I might as well buy
		
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			butter. It's cheaper.
		
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			So I look at this flawed logic. So
he goes and he buys butter from
		
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			the bucket tells them hey, can you
give me the best butter you have?
		
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			Because we have a guest? It's
okay, I'll give you butter that's
		
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			so pure. It's as if it's water.
		
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			We have water in the house. Why
should I get butter in that case?
		
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			So he goes home. He goes home and
he tells his father he comes empty
		
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			handed he's like that. I can't
empty handed he said why? He said
		
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			you know he told him the story the
butcher and then the butter and
		
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			and then you know the butter is
like water so I came back we have
		
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			water. He's like you're so wise my
son. You're just like your father.
		
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			But you know what? You're still
not quite like me. He said why? He
		
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			said because look, you you used
your shoes to go run to the
		
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			butcher shop so you know some of
your shoe is gone now because
		
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			because of the running around he
said live our look. I took the
		
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			guests shoes and I wanted to
		
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			show it's so sad you know some
people are like this alongside
		
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			they live like this no telecoil no
reliance Nestle Allah Allah vo
		
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			Salam, they don't give salam they
don't give. You know, they don't
		
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			give smiles. The prophets I send
them said smiling is what? Sadaqa.
		
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			So what is the make frowning?
		
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			Frowning is the opposite of that.
You were going around not giving
		
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			so the cuddle to anybody? Yucky
smile? No, I don't want to smile.
		
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			Why are you cheeping like that so
stingy. At least you can put
		
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			happiness in the heart of
somebody. Right? At least you can
		
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			put happiness. Sometimes people
are very hard to use. They they
		
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			want what they have, what they
possess, like they're eating, you
		
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			know, you go to somebody and you
know he's eating in a restaurant.
		
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			And you don't want to invite them
over. Right? They happen to one of
		
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			the guys, one of the people that
are known in the history of Islam,
		
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			I will ask what do any of us want
to do Ali? Who knows of last one?
		
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			The least known
		
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			person in the history of Islam.
He's one of the greatest
		
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			grammar scholars in the history of
the auto is one. But
		
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			unfortunately, he was known for
his stinginess. It's just
		
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			something a characteristic that
happened to be in him although he
		
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			was a linguist. He was a master in
Arabic. Right? He did grammar. He
		
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			was one of the people the first
who did the the NA NA Quran, the
		
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			fat hubba Maka Surah, sukoon. All
that. But he was stingy. So one
		
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			day a man came to Him out of their
bed when he came up to him. When
		
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			the Arabi was looking and, you
know, he came close to us what was
		
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			eating? And he looked at him and
he's like, Man, this guy piqued my
		
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			food.
		
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			You know, my food is good. I don't
want to give him any of it. So
		
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			Robbie said, Hey, how you doing?
		
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			Good. So the man tried to start
conversation. He said, I saw your
		
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			family when I was coming here.
He's like, Yeah, they were on your
		
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			way.
		
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			Cuz, you know, he wanted to try to
find something, you know, a reason
		
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			for us what to invite him to eat.
He said, You know, I saw your
		
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			family on your way up on us what
said, okay, yeah, they were on
		
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			your way. You know, your wife was
pregnant is like, yeah, that's how
		
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			I left her. And, you know, she
gave birth. He said, of course,
		
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			any pregnant woman is going to
eventually give birth.
		
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			You know, she had twin boys,
Mashallah. He said, Yeah, you
		
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			know, that's how her parents they
gave birth to twin boys. So, you
		
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			know, she's just like her mother.
		
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			He said, one of them died, said
SubhanAllah. You know, it's, it's
		
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			the cada, you know that Allah
subhanaw taala took one of them.
		
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			He said No, the other one died.
He's like, of course, out of
		
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			sadness, from the first dying,
said, you know, and then the wife
		
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			died. She said, of course, how can
she lived with the pain of losing
		
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			two children?
		
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			And he said, I like your food. He
said, I like it, too. That's why I
		
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			ate all of it.
		
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			They didn't want to give him any
of it. It's a famous story of
		
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			Ebola. So it's unfortunate like
some people even are stingy with
		
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			what Allah subhanaw taala provided
them the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam. He was a commonness,
the most generous of people and
		
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			the prophets I send them would be
very clear with that and he didn't
		
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			under any circumstance.
		
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			didn't want to be known as someone
that stingy on the day on the day
		
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			of her name after the Battle of
her name a lot of people who are
		
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			recent in Islam, they just entered
Islam from Mecca. They want in the
		
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			Battle of her name. And after the
Battle of her name, all the war
		
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			booty came, they went around the
prophets I seldom gathered around
		
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			him and started to pull and shove
when they want SubhanAllah. The
		
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			prophesizing was traveling until
somebody took his ID that you
		
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			know, his his cloak, someone took
it in rent.
		
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			Then the prophets I seldom stood
up and he said, oh, people
		
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			returned to me my cloak for
Wallah. Even if my body wasn't
		
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			parts, I would give it away and
you will not find me to be a
		
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			stingy man. Give me back my cloak,
you will not find me to be a
		
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			stingy man. If the only thing I
had was my body to give, I would
		
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			have gave it in parts. And you
will not find me to be stingy. The
		
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			prophets I send them was very keen
on not being found to be that way.
		
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			Subhan Allah so no, we have to
work not only
		
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			be generous, it starts with having
token having reliance. And it
		
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			starts with in hand with the hilum
you know, and all hookers, but the
		
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			Hulk. When you want to get a
characteristic or attribute and
		
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			you want to learn it, what do you
do you practice it, practice
		
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			generosity around your family and
teach it to your kids, teach it to
		
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			your families, let those around
you know, so we're not like this
		
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			father who sent his kid to buy
meat, or like a Walesa who don't
		
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			want to invite someone to his
food. No, let's do the opposite.
		
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			And let's give insha Allah to
Allah and not be known for this
		
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			character. For this
characteristic, we ask Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala to make us
generous. We ask Allah to bless us
		
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			with generosity to make us from
those who give for his sake, we
		
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			seek refuge in Allah from
miserliness and from stinginess
		
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			and from cowardice. We seek refuge
in Allah subhanaw taala from these
		
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			negative and evil attributes, I
mean, you're obliged me and Lama
		
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			Salah Salem, or Varrick Allah said
the Muhammad shahada Juana and
		
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			hummed a lot of blood Amin
		
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			in Mussolini now almost Lima D one
meaning Mina quantity now not only
		
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			that, he was slowed in pain I was
born in Poland he was slobby Rena
		
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			was Slavia before she you know
		
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			what unfortunately no one was
watching. The one downside the
		
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			lino one downside being thought it
was all me now it was all in
		
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			one hand have you Lena photo
downhome one Hatfield law D was
		
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			that good enough along I guess you
know what's going on? I don't know
		
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			hula
		
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			nauseam.