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schauffele MBA will mursaleen said no Muhammad while he was savage

man. Welcome back everyone for the this episode of Boys to Men hummed

a lot of blimey last time we covered one of the main things in

our deen, which is Bihar. And the main things in Bihar will boo hunt

a lot of I mean we actually explained will do in detail for

those of you that didn't listen to the last episode. You can go ahead

and listen to that and Charlotte's recorded.

And we said that the heart chakra Amen half of Imen half of faith is

purification is cleanliness is hygiene. So, if it's half of the

deen, how much exactly was it emphasized in this Deen? Today

inshallah we're going to discuss that we spoke about will do and

today we're going to talk about the rest of hygiene inshallah.

Tada. So

we spoke about what makes it so today we're going to speak about

what breaks it. Yes, certain things break we'll do, what breaks

we'll do. That's what we're going to talk about today. So there are

a few things that do break we'll do.

The first is whatever exits from the front or from the back by the

way, there's no shyness This is the deen, we're talking about the

religion of Allah subhanaw taala. And when we talk about the

religion of Allah subhanaw taala it governs everything from how we

use the bathroom, all the way till how we run a whole country,

everything in between, is the deen of Allah, Allah subhanaw taala

gave us a prescribed method of living in the best possible

fashion we can live Subhan Allah, Allah did not leave us ibutton he

just to just to live and discover things on our own, but gave us a

method away. And not only that was sent us a man that successfully

implemented everything that he revealed Subhanallah with the

Isla. And this man who was Muhammad Ali Salatu was Salam. He

showed us how to implement it. And he proved to us that if we do

implement it, then we will be great upright people remembered in

history, and in the dunya. And in the era with good, just like

Muhammad sai Selim, a person can deny God as much as they want. But

can they deny the impact Muhammad Ali salatu salam had on the world

by following the book of Allah, by following the commands of Allah,

no one can deny that. And that's why it still is the fastest

growing religion, billions of people follow it and followed it

for the past 14 centuries, with hamdulillah Alameen, Wa Kafa,

Billahi Shahida.

So the first thing that breaks will do is whatever comes out from

the front and from the back private parts, anything that comes

out, so both of them break the loop. The second thing is falling

asleep, and I'm talking about falling asleep, right, not

sleeping lightly. Sleeping heavily will constitute sleeping heavily

is like perhaps laying down snoring or doing something of that

sort that completely breaks it. The second the third thing is they

are blocking when when your mind is absent. And that happens

obviously when people drink alcohol or they have a drug maybe

it's a prescribed drug even it doesn't have to be like haram

drugs, you know, maybe somebody does weed or marijuana, whatever

it is, no it of course that breaks the will do. But maybe someone was

prescribed certain drugs by a pharmacist. And when they took the

drugs they they felt high and they weren't in their correct state of

mind. That also breaks the will do sometimes people have like

epileptic seizures, and whatnot. And it's Alana Alfia, may Allah

protect us, but when they do have that, that breaks they will do as

well.

Sometimes people are like, like bipolar, or all these types of

sicknesses where where a person is not in their state of mind, or

they're not saying they lost their mind for a short period of time

than that what breaks the will do. Okay.

The next thing that breaks to do and so you can actually

this is something that the prophets I said I'm left for us to

decide like bleeding excessively, so when someone bleeds,

if if you feel that it's a lot of blood that's coming out, then it

breaks they'll do of course with it.

out there. This is according to the opinion of many, many scholars

in the past, if you bleed excessively than you break, your

will do. And what excessively means is what you feel is

excessive, if you know what I mean. So if you feel like it's

just a little blood, you can wipe it off, then it doesn't. But if

you like, for example, your playing ball gets scratched, some

blood comes out, you wipe it, it doesn't break your will do, you

can still run to the masjid or go go and make your Salah, just wipe

it off, don't have that blood on you.

But if you bleed excessively, then you definitely broke your will do.

And the last one is very it's

it's not agreed upon by all the scholars. But there is a Hadith

about camel meat eating camel meat, I know there is no camel

meat, here in America, but there is like in Saudi Arabia and, and

other countries like in the Middle East and Africa, they have camels.

So when they eat them, they have to make will do it again. And

there's a authentic hadith.

But not all, all the scholars agree on the authenticity, perhaps

some of the Hadith, or the obligation of making will do

because of this hadith. So regardless, you just do just in

case,

if you eat camel meat, I know it's a delicacy here. Some company here

in California opened recently. I don't know how recent it was. But

they said they sell camel meat, it's very expensive. So it's like

a delicacy people buy it. I don't know, it doesn't taste that

special, I ate camel meat plenty of times. It tastes like an

oversized cow. You know, it's it's not nothing different. But if you

decide to eat camel meat to just make although again hamdulillah

Blumen. So that's for what breaks the will do.

By the way, if you have any questions, just comment on the

video, and inshallah I'll try to address them the next episode. So

please comment if you have any questions that show Allah Tala and

I will try my best to address them. The next

how we use the bathroom. And by the way, I said there's no shyness

in the deal. Okay, the way we use the bathroom, now you grow up your

adolescent, you're starting to think you're starting to

understand soon. Or if it didn't already happen, you're going to be

an adult, you're going to go through puberty, certain changes

are going to happen to you and, and we're going to talk about them

in Sharla in a little bit. But when you get to this age, you

should start, you know, sitting down, when you use the bathroom,

and I'm talking to the boys hear

you shouldn't use it when you're standing up, try to sit down

because when you stand up, of course, not sitting is going to

dirty you even more than standing up. But

when you sit down, it's less likely for an adjustment for the

urine to splash on you. And when it does, it means that you have to

wash it so that it can become pure and you can pray with it. Because

if you have urine on you, you cannot pray with someone that's

carrying impurity with them. Whether it's urine, feces,

something, anything of that any of the impurities, then you cannot

pray with it has to be washed off. Okay? The majority of

automatically you have to wash it once. So let's say just wash it

once. Some say wash it three times. But try to wash it.

Definitely wash it, make sure you don't pray with it. Because Allah

Subhanallah you're meeting Allah's Panipat so before you pray, you

want to meet Allah subhanaw taala in the purest form, okay, you want

your body to be clean your mind to be clean your heart to be clean,

everything has to be facing Allah subhanaw taala in a clean way. And

don't forget that you're meeting your Lord. Every salon is a

private meeting between you and your Lord. So show your Lord that

you care about yourself and show your Lord that half of your Eman

is complete by keeping high hygiene by keeping yourself clean.

Okay.

The next thing is having an intention when we do all this.

Right? Obviously when you're using the bathroom and we say it's

better to sit down and to stand up so you can stay clean.

Have the intention that you're doing it for Allah, you might be

used to it. Maybe you always sit down, but from now on have the

intention that you're doing it for the sake of Allah so that you can

complete your iman. Why? Enamel Armello Binya prophets why Selim

said, Indeed actions or by their intentions and for everyone is

what they intended. So if your intention was to please Allah by

sitting down, and your intention was to stay pure, so that when you

meet Allah

You you meet Allah and the purest in the purest garments, then you

will be rewarded for this. You'll be rewarded for it. But if you

don't have the intention, maybe it's just something habitual for

you, then you don't get that you get the periods of course and the

cleanliness and the hygiene but you don't get the reward. And

Allah subhanaw taala. So have the intention that you're doing all of

this for the sake of Allah, and keep that in the back of your

mind.

Where do we use the bathroom? I know, this is a very interesting

question. You know, sometimes we're in the woods. I know some

guys, you know, like, we go out camping, or sometimes we we go on

long, long distance drives, and we have to pull over and use the

bathroom. There are some guidelines we have to follow when

we do this. Yes, the Shediac told us guidelines to how we use the

bathroom depending on what what situation we're in and where we're

at. So let's say you're in,

you're outside, in the forest, it camping out, there's no bathrooms,

you walk to find a place to use the bathroom. There are few

guidelines you should follow. Number one, it shouldn't be on a

path where people walk.

Right? Number two, it shouldn't you shouldn't sit down or stand up

facing the Qibla.

Okay, so you got to know where the goodness that's if you know

inshallah jolly do know, of course, if you don't know, then

it's okay. But if you do know the cobblers then don't face the

camera. Try to do do it sideways. Okay. And don't don't let the

Qibla be behind you either. Just try to change your orientation.

Yes, that's in the Diem.

The next thing is do not

go mean to the bathroom, or use it under a tree that has fruits like

a tree that people sit under normally, that that shade that use

people use for shade on the side of a road. People often go up and

pick it has apples that has parents at something on it that

people pick do not. It's haram to use it under a tree like that.

Yes, that's all in the DNS. It's probably the first time you heard

it. But this is all in the field of Islam. When hamdulillah for a

complete

hygiene emphasizing Deen, like I said in the last episode, there is

no religion in the world that emphasized hygiene like Islam. So

don't be surprised when you hear details like this. Because these

details show us how hygienic our deen is, when Hamdulillah. Now

they're telling us to keep washing our hands over and over again.

Alhamdulillah we already do it. And by the way, don't wash your

hands. For those out there that are washing their hands just for

the sake of washing your hands. Wash your hands and have the

intention that you're doing it for the sake of Allah, because every

time you do it, you're getting a job for it. But if you're watching

it to protect yourself from the virus, that you'll get that Insha

Allah, but you won't get the reward. But if you have the

intention, and it's for Allah, you will protect yourself from the

virus, and you'll get the reward from Allah subhanaw taala. Don't

forget the intention, it's very, very important.

So

so when we get to this age, we start noticing changes in our

bodies, right, we

start getting pimples First,

we start growing sometimes some people that are one foot grows

faster than another one leg one.

Some people their arms grow faster than their legs or their legs go

faster, they look, you know, boys start to look a little interesting

in this age. And that's because they're growing, they have a lot

of hormones running through their bodies, and things are changing.

But there are there are things that you have to pay attention to.

Okay, like what, when your armpits start having here, you start

growing here and those in these places in the heart, armpits and

the private part. When you start having hair in the armpit

or the private part, then that's one of the major signs of you

reaching puberty. That's one of the major signs. Okay, and the

last and final sign and I want you to listen to this is having a

dream or something where that makes you makes something come out

of your private part other than urine. Okay, so I don't want to go

past that. But you all know in sha Allah what I'm talking about, when

this happens, then you officially reached the age of puberty. Okay.

You guys got to watch out for this because when this happens, this is

when everything becomes obligatory. Allah subhanaw taala

from that moment on, is going to hold you accountable for things

for things that you do.

work that you do wrong that you do, right that you don't do at

all, Allah subhanaw taala is going to hold you accountable for all of

them. So I want you to just pay attention and there are way there,

there are ways to deal with this. Inshallah, we're going to talk

about that. So when you have hit hair, on your armpits and you have

hair on your private part, what are you supposed to do?

Obviously, it's part of Islamic hygiene to do what

what we call the acts of fitrah natural disposition, like in order

to be

in natural disposition. fitrah you have to do these things, what are

and these things are always mentioned in the book of

purification, the chapter of Bahara, or purification, in all

books and stuff, just to show you how and the book of purification

is the first chapter in every Facebook, there is no flipbook, at

least that I know of that begins with other than the heart of

purification, because purification is the base of everything. And

that I once again, re emphasize how important purification and

cleanliness is in Islam. 100 a lot of blasphemy. So this was

mentioned, what do we do with the hair in our armpits, or, or on our

private parts? So the prophets, I send them used to pluck it. And I

remember when I when I first heard this, I was like, 19. And yeah, I

was young, because I didn't before that I didn't really have like,

when I was 18 or so I didn't really have hair over there. But

when I first heard about,

about plucking the hair, I was like, I think I was 19 years old.

And I heard the prophets, I seldom used to pull it out and not not

shave it. I was like Allah what that must have been hard. So I

went, I tried to do it. And I said, Oh, man, it's so painful.

How they do it, they must have been strong, you know, to do it

with all their hair and do it every 40 days, because that's how

often we have to do it every 40 days.

Anything more than 40 days, we're actually held sinful for it. So

pay attention. Now that number 40 is very, very important. Okay, so

you can make it a habit every two weeks, three weeks. But if it

passes 40 days, then you actually accumulate sin. And we don't want

to do that, right. So the prophets, I said to Mr. Pull it

out. And then I found out how they used to do it, they used to

actually go train with the swords, and they used to sweat a lot. And

when they sweat, obviously the pores open. And when the pores

open, they used to pull the hair out. And it wasn't painful. And I

tried that and it really wasn't painful. By hamdullah. You know,

you don't have to pull it out. You can shave it. And that's what we

do, right? And it's much more convenient to just shave it. So

you can go ahead and and shave it by some shake. Gillette or

something Schick or Gillette. Yeah, those are two big companies.

And

you can shave your, your armpit and your private part with that,

but make sure it doesn't pass 40 days. And this is very important.

I know this is stuff that like parents, or friends often feel shy

to talk about. But there's there's no shyness in the deep. There's no

shyness. This is the religion of Islam. This is how you keep

yourself pure. So please, please keep the number in mind 40 days

anything past that you'll be held accountable for and the last

planet died if you pass the age of puberty, you are going to be asked

another thing is brushing teeth. You know, sometimes in this age as

well, like our odors in general we start smelling a little funky. So

like we start sweating a little bit more than we were used to, or

we were used to when we were younger than that, but

hamdullah you have to be hygienic and you get credit for this by the

way. Go buy some Old Spice buy some Gillette

deodorant, and Bismillah you know use it all the time. Keep yourself

smelling good Do not be seen smelling bad. The Prophet

sallallahu Sallam

used to love plebe one of the things he loved the prophets like

Selim said, one of the things I love in this dunya is sleep is

what good smells good. Like perfumes colognes and whatnot, not

colognes because they had they had Oh, it's like oils. So the

prophets I send them love beautiful scent. So don't you want

the prophets I send them to love the way you Smell, smell good, and

have the intention. Don't forget what I mentioned before. Don't

have the incorrect intention. When you put some deodorant on when you

spray some cologne on do it for the sake of Allah don't do it. So

some people can smell you and be like, oh Masha, Allah you smell

and very good. I like how you smell this or get compliments from

you people for the wrong reasons. Do not do that. Have the right

intention. You're right

Can upon good deeds. So don't waste your time with this, okay?

Only do it for Allah because it's all going to be on your skills in

the day of judgment. And like we said in the beginning and in the

last episode, it's half of Eman, chakra, amen. So, go grab yourself

some juillet grab yourself some good deodorant, and keep yourself

smelling good. Buy a nice cologne and get used to spraying it

because guess what, you're only going to sweat more, and your odor

is going to change and you're going to be all funky and

everything, make sure you're smelling nice and do it for the

sake of Allah. You also have to start brushing your teeth. More

often probably, you know, when kids are young if they weren't

have the habit to brush their teeth. When you get to this age,

you have to because your your mouth odor is going to change as

well. So make it a habit to brush your teeth, two or three times

Alhamdulillah. You know, when doctors tell us about brushing

teeth, the Prophet SAW Selim, he said, if it weren't hard on

people, I would have ordered them to brush their teeth before every

single meaning part of will do. The prophets I send them wanting

to make brushing the teeth part of the part of will do itself. That's

how Islam high emphasizes hygiene. Of course the Prophet SAW Selim

knew that some people might have difficulty with this. So he said,

it's a matter that you get a budget for doing for the sake of

Allah and you'll get reward for it. It's not part of hamdulillah

because it would have been a hardship. But it shows you how

important it is to brush your teeth. Imagine five times a day.

The prophets I send them brushed his teeth five times a day.

And now we even we have

you know, we have to we have toothpaste and whatnot back then

they didn't have toothpaste. But I remember when I when I lived in

Medina.

There are two types of miswak there was a regular miswak which

was the bland one. And then there was a varnish there was the one

they called a budget of 100. So varnish, everybody liked the

Bahamas, and like what is it several 100 It's very, very spicy.

It makes the Mel's burn. And it turns out it's like this menthol

taste right? It doesn't have a taste, but it makes the gums burn

after and it feels very good. There's like this nice sensation

to it. So

like it was their form of like, let's say, toothpaste or the

prophets I seldom used to use miswak before every salah. And the

one more thing, actually to one more thing. Let's just do one

more. Cutting the nails. So in this age, our nails start to grow

a little faster than usual, we should have been cutting our

nails, you should not be biting your nails off those who have the

habit. It's a very bad habit to bite your nails because, guys,

honestly speaking, that's where all that bacteria rests. If you

keep biting your nails, you're just gonna get sick, your immunity

is gonna go low and

not not too good things are gonna enter your system. So don't even

do that the prophets I send them said this is part of the fifth.

cutting your nails, your toenails and your and your fingernails.

Make sure they're always cut, smell fresh, have deodorant

cologne on, okay, trim your hair, don't have hair all over the

place, shave up and look clean and look fresh, because you know

you're doing it for from last time and not for anyone else. Right And

last thing we spoke about,

we said, we spoke about the hair growing from the three places from

here, here and then from the private part, but we didn't speak

about

the next sign of,

of puberty, right which is, which is having a dream or a stimulating

or like how being stimulated to a point where something other than

urine comes out of the private part. This is a very, very

important subject by the way. So we're going to cover it next time

and Shala we're going to speak about also what is hostile how

important it is how do we do it and

run through a few other things Inshallah, stay tuned because

these episodes are very important. We're going to get like in depth

in the next episode, guys. Like if you thought this was deep, stay

tuned because next time inshallah which is every Monday and

Wednesday, we're going to get go all in. So Zack maloca for tuning

in today. And if you have any question, like I said before,

please leave it in the comment section. I will try to address it

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