Morad Awad – After School

Morad Awad
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The stressful tests of life can affect one's life and ultimately determine one's future. It is important for people to stress the tests and not just memorizing them. The importance of stressing the tests and not letting people into one's dreams is emphasized. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of achieving peace of mind and fulfilling life through the tests of life, and gives two hacks for students, including a specific test and a test of life. The speaker gives advice on healthy behavior and achieving goals for future life.
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We praise Allah

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We seek

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His assistance.

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We ask His forgiveness, subhanah.

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And we send our peace and blessings

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upon our beloved prophet Muhammad alayhis salatu wassalam.

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And I remind myself and yourselves on his

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blessed

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and joyous day of yomuljumu'ah

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to fear Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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As Allah reminds us to fear him in

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many ayaat, in the Quran.

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Where he tells us, O you who believe,

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fear Allah the way he should be feared

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and do not die except in the state

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of submission to him.

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We ask Allah that we die in the

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state. Amin You Rabbi Al Amin.

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Brothers and sisters

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in Islam,

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there's no doubt

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that towards the end of the year,

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we go

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through

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some stressful times.

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Especially for those

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who are students,

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whether it be in school, or in college,

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or university,

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or

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work in the academic field,

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in academia

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in general.

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Because now

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it's time

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for examination.

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Now,

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the next

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This week

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and

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perhaps last week, in the weeks coming,

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are the times

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some of us,

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or our siblings,

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or our children

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will be taking exams.

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And there's no doubt

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that these long, strenuous hours of studying

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and preparing

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all come down to one

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moment, 1 hour or 3, or 4, or

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5 hours.

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Whether it be the SATs,

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or it be a state, a general state

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exam,

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or it be the MCATs,

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or whatnot.

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These exams

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are but tests.

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Points in life that define our future,

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that orient

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it, that perhaps in some

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cases

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dictate

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a certain The outcome of these exams dictate

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a future to us,

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and decide which direction we're going to go.

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And because of this,

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we find that

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it's a very stressful time,

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You know, it's even hard for myself like

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to, you know, gather volunteers or see where

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the youth are. Oh, we're taking test this

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week. It's gonna be hard for me to

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come because I have exams. I have to

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sit down. I have to study.

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But there's one exam

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there's one exam that we can all relate

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to.

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Whether we're in school or we're not in

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school.

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There's one test we can relate to.

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Whether

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we're young or old,

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rich or poor,

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strong or weak,

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whichever

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state of iman

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we're in,

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we are all taking this one test.

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And that is the test of haya,

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the test of life.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala made this

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a life

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that is simply a test.

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And that's all

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we should see it as.

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The difference between the test

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of the life and the tests that we

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go through in life,

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is that these tests that we have in

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school, that we have in life,

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we have a chance to make it up.

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But the test of life, we have no

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chance to make it up.

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The tests that we take in life

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may or may not affect the ultimate outcome

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of our living.

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But the test of life will

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really 100%

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affect

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the outcome

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of ourselves.

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Not only

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for a specific duration,

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not only for 50 years, 30 years, 20

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years or until we get our act together

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and move on from the result and outcome

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of that lively test.

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But the test of life

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dictates

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eternity to us.

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It impacts where we'll we'll

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where we'll sit,

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where we'll stay, where we'll sleep and wake

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up, where we will live for eternity,

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our final abode.

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Brothers and sisters,

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these

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these tests that we go through

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are no without a doubt stressful because

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we can physically see and touch

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the

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the outcomes. We can see

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someone who failed

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and someone who didn't fail.

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Someone who passed,

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and someone who didn't pass.

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Someone who got high grades, and someone who

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did not get high grades.

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And we see physically with our own eyes

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their outcome,

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their livelihood,

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their salaries,

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the type of jobs they have, the types

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of houses they live in, the types of

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peace of mind they have, the types

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Everything, we see it. And perhaps that

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is the driving force behind us

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focusing

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Allah on our tests.

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Perhaps,

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someone in high school

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who's about to take their SATs,

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or took them and is about to get

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the results,

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was about to get their final exams and

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wants to maintain a specific GPA because they

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want to enter in a certain university

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that everyone in their family went to, and

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they want to go to. But they have

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to have this GPA in order to get

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there.

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It's very stressful.

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And the reason it's stressful is because

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we can see with our own eyes, and

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hear with our own ears

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the people

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that didn't go there,

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and the people that did.

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The ones who graduated from that university,

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the ones who didn't. The ones who entered,

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and the ones who didn't.

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And perhaps the reason we're not focused more

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on

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the test of life which is by far

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way more important

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than these small tests that we go through

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in life. That wallahi,

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you can fail right now, stress it for

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a week, and I can guarantee you in

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10 years, you're not even gonna think of

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this test. And you won't even remember the

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information that was on that test. And I

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could

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We can bet on that.

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I'm a civil engineer myself.

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What? Do I remember how to do, you

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know, all that calculus that I studied? Calc

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1, 2, 3, 4, whatever.

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Differential equations. I don't remember any of that

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stuff.

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Can I remember? Yes, I can. Did I

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pass it? Yeah. Alhamdulillah. I did it.

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But do I remember it now 10 years

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later? Absolutely not.

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You know why?

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Because khal, that was a test, they passed.

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But you know what?

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The test of life,

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you're either going to remember it and say,

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Alhamdulillah,

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I used

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it the right way. Alhamdulillah, I prepared for

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it. Alhamdulillah, I studied for it. Alhamdulillah,

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I tried my best in it. Alhamdulillah, I

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dedicated

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my whole life towards passing it. Because you'll

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either spend eternity

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happy that you did what you did, or

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eternity

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in remorse and regret that you didn't

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pass this test of life.

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We ask Allah that we all pass this

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test of life. And that Allah unites us

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in jannahul firdos.

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Brothers

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and sisters,

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the reason I draw this correlation between the

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test of life

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and the tests of within this life, the

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small tests in school and other tests and

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what not,

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Because we can make this relationship.

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But what the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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told us in a profound hadith that I

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wanna share with you today.

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Very profound hadith.

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And I want everyone who stresses,

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is stressing, or has stressed

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an exam that they're going to take in

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school, or in college, or in university,

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or beyond that,

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I want them to pay close attention to

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this hadith.

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Because what the Prophet

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is telling us here will affect both

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the test of life and the tests within

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life.

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The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said in

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a hadith narrated, Anzayd ibn

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radhiyallahu ta'ala Anhu That the Prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wasallam said,

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He said whoever

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whoever

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stresses the dunya most.

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Like meaning their most stress comes from what?

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The dunya and things that are within it.

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Allah

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will scatter their affairs.

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Pay attention to this. Allah will scatter their

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affairs.

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Meaning, they wouldn't know they're stressing this dunya.

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The dunya is always going to come with

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new tests. You're done with 1, a new

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one's gonna come. You're done with the stress,

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another stress is gonna come. Another stress is

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gonna come. Because you're following the dunya, and

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the dunya is just a bunch of stress.

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So the prophet

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is saying, whoever stresses the dunya most,

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then Allah will scatter their affairs. Number 1.

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Number 2,

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And Allah will make their poverty between their

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eyes. Meaning anyone who looks at them sees

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that they're not content, sees that they're not

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satisfied, sees that they're not fulfilled by anything

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they were given. Although,

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they're running like a beast in the forest,

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they're working like lions day and night. They're

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studying. They're working. They're putting in everything

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that they have.

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But because the dunya is their only stress,

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everyone who looks at them, or at least

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the ones

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who are seeking the akhirah can see

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that their faqr, their poverty is between their

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eyes.

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He's not living it up.

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He's so stressed.

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Look, he's so unhappy.

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Trying his best, you know, but he's only

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seeking the dunya, nothing more.

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The only thing that matters for this person

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is the dunya.

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Tests, examination, since we're in that week, you

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know. The whole kutb was focused on that.

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And then number 3,

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said scatters their affairs. Number 2

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is, makes their poverty between their eyes, meaning

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visible for everyone to see.

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And the third is,

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And the only thing they will get from

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a dunya, after all this hard work, after

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leaving salah,

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and not fasting,

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and not giving sadaqa,

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and not doing zikr, and not getting closer

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to Allah, and not going to the duroos

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and the gatherings by which they get closer

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and closer to Allah dropping all of that.

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So they can focus on these dunya matters.

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What happens?

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The only thing they will get is what

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Allah already wrote for them.

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Is what Allah already wrote for them. They

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were gonna get that regardless.

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Not regardless of of of

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any

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We're not saying that a person shouldn't study

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or shouldn't try their best. That's completely contrary

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to this point.

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Matter of fact, the person should try but

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the moment they divert

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and their focus becomes only the dunya and

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they're distracted from Allah. That's when it becomes

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regressive.

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That's when it takes us back. That's when

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we're starting to fill the test of life

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to pass some of the tests in life.

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If you get what I mean.

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And then the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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continues

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and says, And

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whoever

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has the akhirah, the hereafter as their main

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and sole intention,

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what they care about,

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what they're thinking about,

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what is on their mind,

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What does he say?

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He said,

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See all these scatteredness?

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Allah will gather it for them. They're worried

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about the akhira.

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This dunya

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is just gonna line up the right way

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without them knowing how or why.

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How this thing came in time?

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Why this person got to know you today?

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And how we introduce you to that person

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who then got you a job, and then

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this person wrote you a recommendation, and you

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somehow got into that university. And Allah will

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bring it together. You don't need to stress

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it

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because when you're focused on the akhirah, Allah

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will gather.

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It's not us.

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Who gathers better? If I tell you, Okay.

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You

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have 2 options.

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Either you organize your life and you write

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it you write your decree the way you

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want it to be.

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You Allah told you, 70 years. Write your

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seerah,

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your biography.

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Okay?

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Before,

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when you turn 15, take your pen and

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paper and write your biography.

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And Allah tells you either you write it

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or I write it for you.

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Who will choose themselves over Allah?

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Not a single sane mu'min

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that believes in Allah, His compassion and mercy

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will choose for them to write their own

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decree

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than Allah.

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Why? Because

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Allah

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Allah is more compassionate and loving and merciful

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than our own mothers, fathers and humanity combined,

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and more than ourselves.

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So Allah is writing our decree. Why should

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we be stressed?

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This is it.

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Allah wrote our bayah. He guided us. Did

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we ask for

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it? He brought us to Jum'ah. Did we

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tell him, you Allah, I wanna be in

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Jum'ah?

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I wanna be forgiven. Did you say, I

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wanna be forgiven for my sins? No. Allah

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gave that to you. He's given you gifts.

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He's bringing you. He gave you life. He

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gave you wealth. He gave you health. And

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then he told you give me some of

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it back, and I'll give you jannah. And

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some of us still say no.

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Allah is giving us everything. And that's

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why

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Allah will organize and order all of their

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affairs for them. He says,

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and Allah will make their wealth And I

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want everyone to focus on this. Allah will

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make their wealth

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in their hearts.

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Meaning,

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no matter what situation they're in,

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they will be wealthy in their heart.

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Imagine you walk in, and I've been in

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situations like this.

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I sat in big circles.

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Like when I was in when I lived

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in Saudi Arabia in Riyadh, there was a

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lot of,

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you know, like, I was invited to a

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house,

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you know, big mansion.

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Rich brother. And I'm not talking a 1,000,000

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or this guy has 1,000,000,000. Like they're talking

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about, let's open an airport and buy make

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an airplane company. You know, like that that

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type of

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stuff.

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And

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when you see the stress,

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oh my, I lost this much last week.

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Man, the stocks. I can't believe it. The

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stress and see all this shit, and I

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almost got a heart attack and I went

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to this and

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Stressed.

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And wallahi, I would look at

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the Abd al Fakir.

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The qari of Quran. The one, you know,

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who's from the halaqa, lives down the street

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in perhaps a mud house.

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So happy that he's just invited to this

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palace, you know. And then he's drinking shay,

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and then he's invited after that to some

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food and tamiz, and like, you know, some

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some bread. They're just very happy.

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And wallahi, I lived with both.

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And when it comes to happiness and wealth

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in the heart, I would choose that poor

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kid that eats ful and tamis. You know,

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ful I don't know if you know for

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the beans and and and the the the

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cheap 25¢

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bread.

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The happiness that they have sitting around, joking

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around, eating it, And the amount of satisfaction

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Allah gave them

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is more than

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these guys can ever pay for. Because who

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is the one who brings the happiness?

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Who puts it in the heart? It's Allah.

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So let's go back to Allah for it.

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Why not look for Allah?

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And the third and last one,

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he said,

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Allah And this

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further

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solidifies my first point. Allah said

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Oh, the prophet says,

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the duniya will come to that person, Meaning

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if their akhirah is their focus. Right?

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The duniya will come to them by force.

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Meaning Allah will force the duniya to come

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to them.

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You know how we're chasing it? We're trying

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to get that job. We want that salary.

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We wanna climb that ladder.

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Stress it. Don't look it up. It's good.

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You strive.

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Try to be your best. Do what you

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can,

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But your heart

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should only be connected to Allah.

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And your focus

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should only be the test of life.

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Brothers and sisters,

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these are stressful times.

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We're going to exams,

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and I gave you

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the number one life hack when it comes

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to exams.

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You know what it is?

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Focus on your relationship with Allah And when

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you enter like that, that peace of mind,

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that you're getting what Allah wrote for you.

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And when you enter like that,

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that peace of mind will give you clarity

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in your thought,

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will give you tawfiq

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and will make you satisfied with any result.

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And you will live a happier, more fulfilled

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life and Allah will put the wealth in

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your heart. We ask Allah to make our

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hearts wealthy with His iman. We ask Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala to bless us with and

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through Islam. We ask Allah to forgive us

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and have mercy on us.

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Brothers and sisters,

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no matter what happens,

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you know, in the tests of life,

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us

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Tell my servants

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who have

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oppressed themselves, who have wronged themselves by committing

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sin.

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Do not give up on Allah's mercy.

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Allah forgives all of sins.

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You see how we overcome when we slip

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up with the big test of life.

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But how can we

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say and

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overcome

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the wrongs that we did in this life.

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Failing the big test of life, but going

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back to Allah

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and getting our act together. But when the

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test of the dunya is failed, we can't

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get over it.

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How is that possible?

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And this is why no matter what the

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result is brothers and sisters,

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as long as we try our best and

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we use what Allah gave us, the resources,

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the mind, the time,

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the everything around us, we do our due

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diligence.

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We do what we can.

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As long as we do what we can,

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the result is that in our hand?

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No.

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Know that the result is in the hand

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of Allah and the only reason He gave

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you that result is because He wants you

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to go somewhere that he wants you to

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be at, that you'll be better at.

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And that you'll fulfill your purpose in life

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with.

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You never know.

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You never know

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where

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is better for you but the one who

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decreed your life and who wrote your biography

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before you were born is Rabbil Alamin Waarhamr

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Rahimin

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The most compassionate and merciful.

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So be confident

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and put your your trust in Allah

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And know that

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each time you get up after a test

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or an exam or something that you failed

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with a stronger mindset,

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you're only going to increase in perseverance.

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And you're going

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to increase in in

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in longevity, basically, in in how long you

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keep going, and how persistent you are.

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I don't know if you guys know about

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the the the the frog and the frog

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test. They they said some scientists I forgot

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what the test is called, but you know,

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some scientists were experimenting

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and they put a frog in a cup

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of water, a big

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cup of water

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or a tub of water. Right?

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And they they let it swim, and it

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kept swimming and swimming and swimming and swimming,

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until it eventually

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drowned.

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And it was

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about, say, less than 2 hours later, it

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drowned.

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And right before it was about to die,

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the scientist took out

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and the frog lived.

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Okay?

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They took out all the water that was

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in it and it continued to live. But

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the next day,

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they put the same frog in the same

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bowl of water.

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And the frog,

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it swam

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and it swam and it swam and it

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swam. You know, for how many hours?

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Except for 16 hours before it drowned. Why?

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Because this frog,

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it already knew that

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it swam a lot.

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And it was confident

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that it could do more and it didn't

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want to drown like it did before. So

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that

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drowning that it

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that it went through and experienced the first

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time

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only made it stronger the second time so

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that it can

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go 15 times more than it did the

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day before.

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Ikhwan, when we don't do good on an

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exam

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or a test,

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it should only be fuel for us to

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do better next time.

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It should only drive us to study more.

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And to say, you see this feeling of

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not doing good? I'm never gonna feel it

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again.

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It should only translate into ambition, to zeal,

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and to into hard work, Insha Allah

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And I wanna give you 2 hacks that

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worked for me

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in in,

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in my studies.

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The first is a dua that the Prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam taught us when we're

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in a hard situation.

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The dua is

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Oh Allah. There's nothing easy except what you

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make easy, and you make the saddest situations

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easy

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with your permission. So make the situation

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easy for me. That's the first dua.

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The second

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is

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Right? The the Khutbatul Hajj.

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Before you take an exam, these these 2

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duas,

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they work like a charm.

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Like every time And you're gonna realize that

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when you say

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it, the clarity.

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Put your trust in Allah. Make the akhir

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or your ham.

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Before. But do your due diligence, study your

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best. I ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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on this blessed day of Yomul Jum'ah, in

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this blessed month of Shawwal,

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which is the month the first of the

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months of Hajj,

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to

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give

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our

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students success,

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najah, and the best of grades in this

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upcoming,

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weeks. We

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ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to make the

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students of East Plano, insha Allah, the Muslims

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of epic masjid

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excel in all of their studies, in all

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of their exams. We ask Allah to give

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them tawfiq. We ask Allah to give them

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success. We ask Allah to give them the

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highest of grades, and to make them examples

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for everyone around the country and around the

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world. We ask Allah

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to grant them success

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in their studies, and to grant them what

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they love and what is good for them

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in their futures. We ask

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Allah

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to bless them with rizq between their eyes

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and in their chest. We ask Allah

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to gather their affairs that are scattered, and

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we ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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to make them from those who are connected

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to the akhirah

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more than this dunya and do not stress

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this dunya more than the akhirah. We ask

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Allah to forgive us. We ask Allah to

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have mercy on us. We ask Allah to

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show us a straight path. We ask Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala to help and bless our

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brothers and sisters who are defending Al Masjid

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Al Aqsa. We ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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to destroy their oppressors,

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to get rid of the occupiers, and we

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ask Allah

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on this blessed day of Yomul Jumu'ah

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to free the Masjid Al Aqsa from its

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occupation,

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and to uplift all of the oppression

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that our brothers and sisters from the east

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to the west are going through. To feed

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the hungry, and to quench the thirst of

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the thirsty, and to clothe those who are

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naked and need to be clothe. And we

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ask Allah to make us reasons

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for their up the uplifting of their hardships.

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Go ahead.

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Still still what to do.

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We want to make dua

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for,

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mercy and forgiveness

00:36:20 --> 00:36:23

For our brothers, Muhammad Yusuf Kamal. He is

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the cousin

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of,

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one of the brothers here in the epic

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congregation,

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brother Asman.

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And also the cousin of,

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brother Abdullah

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Shigal. We ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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to have mercy on them.

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For the tarbia program,

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we're going to start it back up,

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for the month of May. So today at

00:37:01 --> 00:37:03

6 to 8 PM inshallah.

00:37:03 --> 00:37:06

For those who are enrolled, signed up in

00:37:06 --> 00:37:07

the terbiyah program,

00:37:07 --> 00:37:10

do bring your kids inshallah today at 6

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

o'clock. We'll start

00:37:11 --> 00:37:14

before Asar, which is like in another hour

00:37:14 --> 00:37:15

from now be basically.

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