Morad Awad – A Fleeting Journey

Morad Awad
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The speakers discuss the concept of "medicals and how it impacts one's life," emphasizing the importance of staying focused and being honest in speaking to oneself. They also discuss the concept of "refuge" and how it is difficult to overcome. The speakers encourage listeners to develop these habits and make them successful, highlighting the benefits of staying focused and being honest in speaking to oneself.
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You know, one thing that we definitely don't have that the

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Sahaba of the Allah Tala and him had is the presence of Rasulullah

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sallallahu ala he was him.

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And

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for them

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they had an exemplary mindset, to measure them themselves to so that

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they know how to conduct themselves in this world and how

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to be in it.

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And how their mindset should be one reacting with the nature of

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it.

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The prophets Allah, Allah, Allah wa salam would often be seen

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saying things like, Maddie when he had the hidden dunya What is it

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for me in this dunya

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and the prophets, I seldom would be heard saying things in NEMA and

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if he had he duniya ki, ki. Corrado Stovall, lotta Shudra

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right. I am in this dunya like a man who was traveling, and then

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found a tree to get some rest and then move on.

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And then he said, Ashford dunya can Nikka hurry, arbiter Seville

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be in this dunya as if you are strange, or as if you're at a

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pitstop.

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And this is a very unique analogy that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam gave us that we need to really reflect on because he

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wouldn't give us something like this except that every aspect of

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the analogy studied because the prophets Allah said him was given

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profound speech, right and concise speech, Joanne al Kalam.

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And inshallah we're going to live with one of these meetings.

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I was sitting with some kids.

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And, you know, one of the one of the things they asked about,

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and something you know, children always ask about is the enjoyment

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of this world.

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And it's very easy for a child for something small to become a very,

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very big deal. Could be a toy for a year, it could be a bike, it can

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be a little statement that they heard, something that they watch,

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but something very small is a very, very big deal. Come on to

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their level. And likewise, adults, whether they perceive it or not,

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certain things in this dunya

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the AR scene are regarded as meaningless or worthless are seen

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as a big deal by adults. So I wanted to give them an example in

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the story.

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Building off of the analogy of Rasulullah sallallahu Danielsen.

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So,

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when a traveler stops in a pitstop, there's a long

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there's a long journey

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and the final destination is known.

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And when a person stops in this pitstop

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upon entry, there are so many things and provisions that a

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person needs to carry on the journey so that they can

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successfully reach the destination they're trying or striving to

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reach.

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Upon entry of this pitstop, they receive

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a list of recommended items to get so that they can successfully

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complete the journey

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and are asked or are requested not to indulge in everything in this

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pitstop

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but to follow the list so that they can successfully get to their

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destination.

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And they're told if they eat too much,

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then they probably won't make it. They'll have to stop on the way

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and they won't make it in time. If they drink too much, they sleep

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too much. If they indulge or waste their time, too much in this

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pitstop

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they have very limited time.

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But if you get the exact items given to you in this list, you

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will be out in time and you will have exactly what you need to

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reach the destination.

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And for everyone is their own list.

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There are common items but there are items that are specific to the

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person, him or herself.

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There are people

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that as soon as they enter this beautiful pitstop that they never

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seen the likes of because they don't have experiences, it's the

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only pitstop they have in the whole journey from beginning to

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end.

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Some get distracted, some forget, some look at the list that the

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owner recommended. And they ignore it. Say, now I know what I want. I

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don't need any list.

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I never seen anyone complete the journey, but I don't have to. I

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care about the now.

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And as they enter

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there are two types, the ones that took the advice of the owner and

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the ones that rejected the advice of the owner.

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And there is no doubt that the ones who rejected the advice of

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the owner will not make the destination because this owner is

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experienced in travelers and wayfarers seen who made it and who

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did not knows exactly what they need for this journey to be set

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and for this destination to be arrived to.

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Brothers and sisters.

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One of the

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common themes or repeated themes in the Quran

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is the word Metallica. We hear it in many different contexts and we

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read it in many different contexts in the Quran.

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Allah subhanaw taala referred to Mata as enjoyment,

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right like woman Hayato dunya Illa Mata Allah Hora right Omen higher

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to dunya fille de la Mata and there sometimes it means

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provisions. Right.

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Terracina Mata Anna, right like in the story of Yusuf Ali Salam,

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Matera means provisions, but the oldest use of Matera for us. So it

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could mean enjoyment or provisions. The oldest use is the

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the first thing that Allah told Adam Ali his Salam, when coming to

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this dunya

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that's the oldest use of this word. But when Allah subhanaw

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taala Anna,

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sent Adam Alayhis Salam and his wife Hawa to this dunya

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What did he tell them? He said, welcome Phil early Musa Quran.

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Juan Mata on Ilahi. So it's the first thing this metallic concept

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is the oldest concept for us as Benny Adam.

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So when Allah said well, I can fill out the MasterCard, you have

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settlement, you can settle in this world. And you have mutter,

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mutter, in this context means provisions.

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All we are doing in this dunya brothers and sisters is gathering

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them at the provisions we need to set off on this journey. I ask

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everyone,

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our soul, which is the most unique creation of Allah subhanho wa

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taala. And Allah said, Whenever to be human Ruhi it's from Allah

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subhanaw taala. So it's Allah subhanaw taala soul that was blown

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into this body, then it was given life, this soul, was it created

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with our birth, or before our birth?

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A lot before our birth way, way before 1000s of years before our

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birth. Before our bodies were born from the wombs of our mothers,

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this soul was there, like,

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so it's 1000s of years old.

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Does the soul have an end?

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No, eternal. And that's what's unique about the soul. It goes

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from one form to another, we're in the body and then the soul goes to

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the better stuff. And then after that, the day of judgment and then

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after that gender or not, we seek ALLAH subhanaw taala is refuge

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from a non mineral blank.

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So the soul is eternal

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is this dunya that we live in? is but a mere short station in the

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lifespan of the soul and the duration of its existence. And the

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only way we can successfully

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gather our provisions in this dunya is if we understand it to be

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this way.

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Brothers and sisters you know, I think sometimes

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the more

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We forget

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the lifespan of our souls, the easier it is for us to be

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heedless, to be forgetful, to be distracted, to indulge in this

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world. And the more we remind ourselves of the eternal nature of

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our soul, and the impact that every single statement, every

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single action, every single indulgence, everything we eat,

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drink, say, is going to impact our eternal life.

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It's easier for us to keep ourselves in check.

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So, how do we keep ourselves in check?

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You know, this is perhaps one of the most difficult concepts in in

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our life. You know, some people, they get it early, and they you

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know, there's always that student in class that kind of just

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understands, okay, this is how I do it. It's, there's like a

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formula. There's a logic behind it, they get the logic they apply

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and, and then there's ones that get it later. And there's ones

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that just don't get it.

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And likewise, in this dunya, there are some that get it in the

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beginning, later, and some don't get it at all.

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The main thing, and this is perhaps the concept we talked

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about, and I'll just talk about one thing. Yesterday, Dr. Yasser,

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he was talking about

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a Tober right in the journey of the skeleton knifes

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say, Okay, you have to repent, and go back to Allah seek forgiveness

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for your transgressions, and know your sins, acknowledge them, admit

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them before Allah. But a lot of times, okay, how do I actually do

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that? Brothers, you know, we, if we don't know how to properly

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speak to Allah,

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how the soul goes back to Allah, how, you know, sometimes when

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you're shopping, I don't know, you know, we kind of like the dopamine

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level go goes up, we go in the shopping market. For one thing,

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all we want is this particular tool, but then we see 10 things on

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the way we know all we need is that tool, everything else is

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extra, it's probably going to sit in the garage for 10 years, we're

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not going to use it. But because we got a good deal, because it

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looks nice, because it seems worth it. We're just gonna get it.

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How do you stay focused in this world so that you don't, you know,

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this is one big thing. And one thing, one concept that I found

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very effective is and something that I so seldom did, and

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something that's a habit of the law and who did and all of the

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solid in after them did.

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They would speak to themselves

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on their own.

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They would speak to themselves on their own and this is perhaps what

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Russell Selim used to go to her Hara and do it the 100th Perhaps

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he would go sit in the graveyard and do all by himself. The Sahaba

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would speak to themselves, you know, not in a crazed way. Speak

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to yourselves like walking in the street talking No, it's to to be

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in seclusion with Allah subhanaw taala to go find a place visor and

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speak to your knifes

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speak and say, Yanni, enough's also, what's wrong with you?

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What's wrong with you? Where are you going?

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You've been far from Allah indulging and, and eating and

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drinking and distracted from Rob Bell Alameen wa ala he the sin

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became so easy for you. Speaking to yourself,

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you're talking to yourself like you're so weak. Jana is there and

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you insist on being distracted? Look at everyone around you. The

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caravan left you behind look at these righteous people look at

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these Zahi Dean is RBD in his worshipers, praying to Allah,

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memorizing, learning, studying being elevated in ranks and you

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you're not even sure of your rank.

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What Allah He Walla he a session of just introspection, a session,

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going to the park, going to the lake going to the seaside by

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yourself, looking at nature, and speaking to yourself for 10

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minutes 10 minutes

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would be enough to set everything back in place. You know brothers

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and sisters we need to develop these habits. If we want to return

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to Allah.

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We could listen to this talk.

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And we can go back to the same habits we're doing.

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We can pass through Ramadan stuffer Allah to belay and we

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could listen to Ramadan. Zentrum avanza Ramadan

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To come Inshallah,

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we may hear the concept of doba and think it's about a mere

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utterance of a tubal Ilica Allah, Allah I repent to when it's so far

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from it's just the mere word. Repentance is beyond that. So

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let's take this show Allah and make it an action item and will

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likely no one will understand until they try it. Sitting alone

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admitting and talking to your knifes and being completely

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honest,

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completely honest with you as I'm being raw and being rough with

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your own knifes and then that session will be inshallah The

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reason and the means to an accepted Toba, we ask Allah

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subhanho wa Taala to accept our Tober We ask Allah to make us from

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those who repent and go back to him. We ask Allah subhanaw taala

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to make us from those who understand this journey and only

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take from it the provisions they need to get them to their

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destination and to make our destination genetic for those.

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You're obliged to me and we ask Allah to guide us to guide our

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offspring to guide our spouses, to guide our parents and have mercy

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on them and to unite us all in general for a dose and to make us

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successful in this journey. I mean, it'll boil I mean, Allahumma

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salli wa salam, wa barik ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa Dhawan and

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hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen.

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In Mussolini now almost Lima Do you want to know meaning I mean it

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will quantity now I look on it the more slowly been I was born in

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Poland the one saw the Rena was Slavia right the one before she

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you know before she

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was before she I mean I was watching The one downside the lino

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one downside the party was slow on me now was all in

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one heavy Lena photo gentlemen one Hatfield was the was the getting

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along, I guess.

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Was the guild or I don't know who

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was Jehovah nauseam?

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