Mokhtar Maghraoui – Spiritual Purification #04 What is the NafsSelf

Mokhtar Maghraoui
Share Page

AI: Summary ©

The concept of the nafs is related to the physical and essential nature of the human being, and the way we look is based on the elements of the physical body. The "nafs" are a combination of pursued pursued pursued pursued pursued pursued. Shadiity, rage, anger, violence, and achieving happiness are the essential nature of the human being.

AI: Summary ©

00:00:19 --> 00:00:22
			A brief way, inshallah, ta'ala, to say a
		
00:00:22 --> 00:00:24
			few things about that is
		
00:00:26 --> 00:00:29
			that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala created us
		
00:00:29 --> 00:00:31
			and of the lata'is
		
00:00:31 --> 00:00:33
			that he created in us,
		
00:00:33 --> 00:00:34
			of these
		
00:00:35 --> 00:00:35
			subtle
		
00:00:36 --> 00:00:38
			divine creations that he
		
00:00:38 --> 00:00:39
			laid in us
		
00:00:40 --> 00:00:40
			to identify
		
00:00:41 --> 00:00:44
			us also as human beings, one of those
		
00:00:44 --> 00:00:45
			is the nafs.
		
00:00:46 --> 00:00:48
			The nafs is not a thing you can
		
00:00:48 --> 00:00:49
			touch.
		
00:00:50 --> 00:00:52
			The locus of the nafs is not something
		
00:00:52 --> 00:00:54
			you can pinpoint exactly.
		
00:00:56 --> 00:00:57
			It is this
		
00:00:57 --> 00:00:58
			Laplace
		
00:00:59 --> 00:01:00
			that has to do
		
00:01:01 --> 00:01:02
			with the overall
		
00:01:03 --> 00:01:04
			human
		
00:01:04 --> 00:01:05
			identity.
		
00:01:05 --> 00:01:08
			There is a ruah, there is a nafs,
		
00:01:08 --> 00:01:10
			there is a qalb, there is a haqal
		
00:01:10 --> 00:01:12
			and there are other things.
		
00:01:13 --> 00:01:14
			But these are the main
		
00:01:15 --> 00:01:16
			elements that
		
00:01:17 --> 00:01:20
			we can, we could deal with in this
		
00:01:20 --> 00:01:22
			in this, discourse
		
00:01:23 --> 00:01:25
			to help us understand our nature
		
00:01:25 --> 00:01:27
			and how our nature
		
00:01:28 --> 00:01:29
			needs tizqiya.
		
00:01:30 --> 00:01:31
			When we say tizkiyah
		
00:01:31 --> 00:01:34
			to nafs, the tizkiyah of my nafs, what
		
00:01:34 --> 00:01:35
			is this nafs
		
00:01:36 --> 00:01:37
			that needs tizkiyah?
		
00:01:38 --> 00:01:40
			And we need to answer those questions,
		
00:01:41 --> 00:01:42
			from the Quran
		
00:01:42 --> 00:01:44
			and from the sunnah of Rasulullah
		
00:01:45 --> 00:01:49
			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam essentially, and from that
		
00:01:49 --> 00:01:53
			which Allah subhanahu ta'ala graced some of his
		
00:01:54 --> 00:01:56
			servants of Ulana and Awliya
		
00:01:56 --> 00:01:58
			of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala of this Ummah
		
00:01:58 --> 00:02:01
			of Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
		
00:02:02 --> 00:02:03
			and their experiential,
		
00:02:06 --> 00:02:07
			experiences,
		
00:02:08 --> 00:02:09
			we learn many things about
		
00:02:10 --> 00:02:11
			these,
		
00:02:11 --> 00:02:14
			these essential realities of which is the nafs.
		
00:02:15 --> 00:02:16
			Now the nafs
		
00:02:17 --> 00:02:20
			inside of us, those traits and those tribes
		
00:02:20 --> 00:02:21
			inside of us
		
00:02:22 --> 00:02:23
			are many.
		
00:02:24 --> 00:02:27
			Those drives actually inside of us help us
		
00:02:27 --> 00:02:28
			identify
		
00:02:29 --> 00:02:32
			the, if you will, the different shades or
		
00:02:32 --> 00:02:33
			the different dimensions
		
00:02:34 --> 00:02:35
			or the different,
		
00:02:36 --> 00:02:36
			realities
		
00:02:37 --> 00:02:38
			of
		
00:02:38 --> 00:02:38
			nafs.
		
00:02:40 --> 00:02:41
			The human being
		
00:02:42 --> 00:02:44
			as an essential reality
		
00:02:44 --> 00:02:47
			is not what the physical body is.
		
00:02:47 --> 00:02:51
			Our physical body in essential reality, as we
		
00:02:51 --> 00:02:53
			look deeper and deeper at the human being
		
00:02:53 --> 00:02:55
			the essential reality of the human being physically
		
00:02:55 --> 00:02:56
			speaking
		
00:02:57 --> 00:02:59
			are protons, neutrons, and electrons,
		
00:02:59 --> 00:03:00
			Atoms and molecules
		
00:03:01 --> 00:03:03
			which every other living creature
		
00:03:03 --> 00:03:05
			shares with us. Even stones,
		
00:03:06 --> 00:03:07
			non living creatures
		
00:03:07 --> 00:03:10
			share that property of being made of protons,
		
00:03:11 --> 00:03:11
			neutrons,
		
00:03:12 --> 00:03:13
			and electrons.
		
00:03:14 --> 00:03:16
			And the way we look and the way
		
00:03:16 --> 00:03:18
			a tree looks and the way an insect
		
00:03:18 --> 00:03:19
			looks and the way
		
00:03:19 --> 00:03:20
			a cow looks
		
00:03:21 --> 00:03:22
			or a hyena looks,
		
00:03:24 --> 00:03:25
			The differences
		
00:03:26 --> 00:03:27
			between those physically
		
00:03:28 --> 00:03:30
			is based simply upon the
		
00:03:30 --> 00:03:30
			arrangements
		
00:03:31 --> 00:03:31
			of those
		
00:03:32 --> 00:03:35
			molecules made of those atoms made of the
		
00:03:35 --> 00:03:37
			same protons, neutrons, and electrons. So we look
		
00:03:37 --> 00:03:39
			the way we look because of that
		
00:03:40 --> 00:03:42
			different arrangement. And essentially,
		
00:03:42 --> 00:03:43
			physically,
		
00:03:43 --> 00:03:44
			we're the same.
		
00:03:46 --> 00:03:48
			Now what characterizes me as a human being
		
00:03:48 --> 00:03:50
			is what I am inside.
		
00:03:51 --> 00:03:53
			What I feel inside. What I know inside.
		
00:03:54 --> 00:03:56
			What I harbor inside. The traits inside
		
00:03:58 --> 00:03:59
			of me,
		
00:03:59 --> 00:04:00
			that's what characterizes
		
00:04:00 --> 00:04:01
			me.
		
00:04:01 --> 00:04:04
			And those are where our study of the
		
00:04:04 --> 00:04:05
			nafs comes.
		
00:04:05 --> 00:04:08
			So we have drives inside of us that
		
00:04:08 --> 00:04:11
			are, for example, in essential reality,
		
00:04:11 --> 00:04:13
			no different than those of a
		
00:04:16 --> 00:04:16
			livestock
		
00:04:16 --> 00:04:17
			animal,
		
00:04:18 --> 00:04:18
			cattle,
		
00:04:20 --> 00:04:22
			cow, forgive me, please forgive me, or a
		
00:04:22 --> 00:04:22
			pig
		
00:04:23 --> 00:04:24
			or an insect.
		
00:04:26 --> 00:04:27
			Some of us,
		
00:04:27 --> 00:04:28
			if
		
00:04:28 --> 00:04:29
			in our lives,
		
00:04:31 --> 00:04:32
			our essential
		
00:04:32 --> 00:04:32
			focus
		
00:04:33 --> 00:04:35
			and our essential drives
		
00:04:36 --> 00:04:37
			and the quality
		
00:04:37 --> 00:04:40
			average time that we spend in the pursuit
		
00:04:40 --> 00:04:41
			thereof,
		
00:04:43 --> 00:04:45
			if we are like that, then our essential
		
00:04:45 --> 00:04:48
			reality is no different than the essential reality
		
00:04:48 --> 00:04:50
			of that other creature.
		
00:04:51 --> 00:04:54
			For example, forgive me, a cow or or
		
00:04:54 --> 00:04:55
			a or a llama or a camel or
		
00:04:55 --> 00:04:56
			a pig,
		
00:04:56 --> 00:04:57
			whose
		
00:04:58 --> 00:04:59
			main pursuits
		
00:05:00 --> 00:05:03
			and that what makes that creature
		
00:05:03 --> 00:05:06
			satisfied and pleased and therefore we say happy,
		
00:05:07 --> 00:05:08
			is the attainment
		
00:05:08 --> 00:05:10
			and the acquisition of those
		
00:05:10 --> 00:05:11
			means.
		
00:05:12 --> 00:05:13
			Eating, drinking,
		
00:05:14 --> 00:05:16
			sleeping, playing, copulating.
		
00:05:17 --> 00:05:19
			And if we are like that, then a
		
00:05:19 --> 00:05:22
			quality time is spent in that way, then
		
00:05:22 --> 00:05:25
			we have nafs. We call this the essential
		
00:05:25 --> 00:05:28
			reality inside of me is a behemi nafs,
		
00:05:29 --> 00:05:31
			is a cattle like nafs.
		
00:05:32 --> 00:05:32
			Because,
		
00:05:33 --> 00:05:35
			as as I think I mentioned before,
		
00:05:36 --> 00:05:37
			Allah tells us in the Quran
		
00:05:38 --> 00:05:40
			and when he speaks to us about happiness
		
00:05:41 --> 00:05:41
			and about tazkiyah,
		
00:05:42 --> 00:05:44
			he relate them together. Tazkiyah
		
00:05:49 --> 00:05:50
			is related to happiness.
		
00:05:51 --> 00:05:54
			Now what is this happiness that I want
		
00:05:54 --> 00:05:55
			defines the process
		
00:05:56 --> 00:05:59
			or the elements of the process of my
		
00:05:59 --> 00:05:59
			tazkiyah
		
00:06:00 --> 00:06:02
			If I want to be as happy in
		
00:06:02 --> 00:06:03
			my essential reality
		
00:06:04 --> 00:06:05
			of happiness
		
00:06:05 --> 00:06:07
			as, for example, a cow
		
00:06:07 --> 00:06:10
			or a pig in the sense of my
		
00:06:10 --> 00:06:13
			emphasis in life is to work and strive
		
00:06:13 --> 00:06:14
			and do things to ultimately
		
00:06:15 --> 00:06:18
			eat and drink and play and copulate and
		
00:06:18 --> 00:06:19
			sleep,
		
00:06:20 --> 00:06:22
			then my pursuit of happiness
		
00:06:22 --> 00:06:23
			is
		
00:06:23 --> 00:06:27
			not distinct in essential reality from that of
		
00:06:27 --> 00:06:29
			of a cattle. And then we have
		
00:06:30 --> 00:06:31
			another level of another nafs.
		
00:06:32 --> 00:06:33
			A nafs that is
		
00:06:34 --> 00:06:36
			those tribes inside of us and if we
		
00:06:36 --> 00:06:38
			seek to satisfy them and we live a
		
00:06:38 --> 00:06:40
			style of life that is
		
00:06:41 --> 00:06:42
			congruent to these,
		
00:06:43 --> 00:06:43
			following
		
00:06:44 --> 00:06:46
			traits, meaning in this case the following traits
		
00:06:46 --> 00:06:47
			that are predatory.
		
00:06:48 --> 00:06:50
			A predator finds
		
00:06:50 --> 00:06:51
			satisfaction
		
00:06:51 --> 00:06:52
			when killing,
		
00:06:53 --> 00:06:54
			when usurping,
		
00:06:56 --> 00:06:56
			when
		
00:06:57 --> 00:06:58
			killing the competition,
		
00:07:00 --> 00:07:01
			when stealing,
		
00:07:02 --> 00:07:02
			when
		
00:07:03 --> 00:07:04
			overwhelming others.
		
00:07:05 --> 00:07:06
			And
		
00:07:07 --> 00:07:09
			a hyena, when it does that, or a
		
00:07:09 --> 00:07:11
			wild dog, when they do that in nature,
		
00:07:11 --> 00:07:13
			they do that and you look at them
		
00:07:13 --> 00:07:15
			after that and they look so cute
		
00:07:15 --> 00:07:16
			and so peaceful.
		
00:07:18 --> 00:07:21
			And that's the way their nature is. In
		
00:07:21 --> 00:07:23
			addition to eating, sleeping and so on, this
		
00:07:23 --> 00:07:26
			is a predatory nature. So if I as
		
00:07:26 --> 00:07:27
			a human being
		
00:07:28 --> 00:07:29
			follow a course of happiness
		
00:07:31 --> 00:07:32
			To be satisfied
		
00:07:33 --> 00:07:34
			by certain means
		
00:07:35 --> 00:07:36
			that are
		
00:07:37 --> 00:07:39
			such as let's kill the competition,
		
00:07:40 --> 00:07:42
			such as usurping others,
		
00:07:43 --> 00:07:44
			such as
		
00:07:45 --> 00:07:48
			being enraged against against others, Part of the
		
00:07:48 --> 00:07:50
			traits of a of a predator, of a
		
00:07:50 --> 00:07:53
			wild beast and animal is rage and anger
		
00:07:53 --> 00:07:54
			and violence.
		
00:07:55 --> 00:07:57
			When those are expressed by me and I
		
00:07:57 --> 00:08:00
			find satisfaction in that, and, and we are
		
00:08:00 --> 00:08:02
			happy and we celebrate that and we party
		
00:08:02 --> 00:08:04
			because we have killed the competition, for example,
		
00:08:05 --> 00:08:08
			then in that elation, in that happiness of
		
00:08:08 --> 00:08:11
			mine, in essential reality, I'm not different than
		
00:08:11 --> 00:08:12
			a predator.
		
00:08:12 --> 00:08:14
			So that's a qualitative
		
00:08:15 --> 00:08:18
			and quantitative sometimes way for me
		
00:08:18 --> 00:08:20
			to gauge what I am inside.
		
00:08:28 --> 00:08:30
			I could be one whose pursuits of happiness
		
00:08:31 --> 00:08:34
			lie also in addition to the previous ones,
		
00:08:35 --> 00:08:36
			could lie also
		
00:08:37 --> 00:08:39
			in the traits and the characteristics of a
		
00:08:39 --> 00:08:40
			shayatan,
		
00:08:40 --> 00:08:42
			of an Iblis, of a devil.
		
00:08:43 --> 00:08:45
			And what are some of the characteristics of
		
00:08:45 --> 00:08:45
			a shayatan?
		
00:08:46 --> 00:08:46
			Arrogance,
		
00:08:47 --> 00:08:48
			delusion,
		
00:08:50 --> 00:08:50
			ostentation,
		
00:08:53 --> 00:08:55
			love to be the head of others,
		
00:08:56 --> 00:08:57
			deceit,
		
00:08:58 --> 00:08:58
			lying,
		
00:08:59 --> 00:09:00
			backbiting,
		
00:09:00 --> 00:09:02
			sowing seeds of animosity,
		
00:09:04 --> 00:09:04
			shirk
		
00:09:05 --> 00:09:06
			of all sorts.
		
00:09:08 --> 00:09:10
			And then I find pleasure in that.
		
00:09:11 --> 00:09:13
			That's a Shaytani pursuit.
		
00:09:14 --> 00:09:15
			Lying,
		
00:09:15 --> 00:09:16
			cheating.
		
00:09:17 --> 00:09:19
			Every time I express such a thing, such
		
00:09:19 --> 00:09:22
			a huluk, such a character, such a trait,
		
00:09:22 --> 00:09:24
			I am actually, in a sense, wearing
		
00:09:25 --> 00:09:26
			the heart of a shaitan,
		
00:09:26 --> 00:09:29
			the personality of a shaitan. My nafs at
		
00:09:29 --> 00:09:30
			that moment,
		
00:09:31 --> 00:09:33
			my inner reality at that moment is shaitani.
		
00:09:34 --> 00:09:36
			That's a shaitani nafs.
		
00:09:36 --> 00:09:38
			And some of us human beings
		
00:09:38 --> 00:09:39
			feel elated
		
00:09:40 --> 00:09:41
			and are happy
		
00:09:41 --> 00:09:43
			on account of having fulfilled
		
00:09:44 --> 00:09:45
			such
		
00:09:45 --> 00:09:45
			drives
		
00:09:46 --> 00:09:48
			inside of us, instead of
		
00:09:48 --> 00:09:51
			the tazkiyah process to help us
		
00:09:51 --> 00:09:52
			liberate
		
00:09:53 --> 00:09:54
			our hearts
		
00:09:55 --> 00:09:57
			from these characteristics that are nafsani.
		
00:09:58 --> 00:09:59
			Because otherwise
		
00:10:00 --> 00:10:01
			the heart
		
00:10:01 --> 00:10:02
			will become
		
00:10:03 --> 00:10:03
			a nafs
		
00:10:04 --> 00:10:05
			when these traits
		
00:10:05 --> 00:10:06
			that I mentioned
		
00:10:06 --> 00:10:08
			of the nafs are predominant
		
00:10:09 --> 00:10:12
			inside of me, in this in this projection
		
00:10:12 --> 00:10:12
			into
		
00:10:13 --> 00:10:15
			2 dimensions as we sometimes do on the
		
00:10:15 --> 00:10:16
			board,
		
00:10:16 --> 00:10:19
			this projection of the beyond 2, 3 dimensions
		
00:10:19 --> 00:10:20
			and 3 dimensions
		
00:10:20 --> 00:10:22
			projection into 2 dimensions,
		
00:10:23 --> 00:10:26
			then this heart is taken over by the
		
00:10:27 --> 00:10:27
			nafs,
		
00:10:28 --> 00:10:31
			and I become a nafs. So I say
		
00:10:31 --> 00:10:33
			I love you, I hate you,
		
00:10:34 --> 00:10:37
			I dislike you, I agree with you, I
		
00:10:37 --> 00:10:40
			disagree with you, this is right, this is
		
00:10:40 --> 00:10:41
			wrong, I feel,
		
00:10:41 --> 00:10:44
			Which is I that does all of that?
		
00:10:45 --> 00:10:46
			This I could be simply
		
00:10:47 --> 00:10:47
			a combination
		
00:10:48 --> 00:10:49
			of one of those three
		
00:10:50 --> 00:10:52
			selves or nafs.
		
00:10:52 --> 00:10:53
			Luckily,
		
00:10:54 --> 00:10:58
			there is another nafs, another state, the angelic
		
00:10:58 --> 00:10:58
			self.
		
00:10:59 --> 00:11:00
			The angelic nafs.
		
00:11:01 --> 00:11:02
			1, since it is angelic,
		
00:11:03 --> 00:11:04
			an angel's nature
		
00:11:05 --> 00:11:06
			is to find satisfaction
		
00:11:07 --> 00:11:10
			and pleasure and happiness in that which is
		
00:11:11 --> 00:11:12
			lofty,
		
00:11:12 --> 00:11:13
			spiritual,
		
00:11:13 --> 00:11:14
			moral,
		
00:11:14 --> 00:11:15
			ethical,
		
00:11:15 --> 00:11:16
			knowing
		
00:11:16 --> 00:11:17
			to know
		
00:11:18 --> 00:11:18
			is angelic.
		
00:11:19 --> 00:11:20
			To know the divine
		
00:11:21 --> 00:11:22
			is the ultimate
		
00:11:22 --> 00:11:23
			goal of knowledge.
		
00:11:24 --> 00:11:26
			And then to be in response
		
00:11:26 --> 00:11:28
			to that grace of knowledge,
		
00:11:28 --> 00:11:31
			to be in zikr, in dua, in kindness,
		
00:11:32 --> 00:11:33
			in subqa, in truthfulness,
		
00:11:33 --> 00:11:35
			in humility, in humbleness,
		
00:11:36 --> 00:11:38
			to be always that way and to pursue
		
00:11:38 --> 00:11:39
			that path.
		
00:11:39 --> 00:11:43
			That's an angelic nature. That nafs is,
		
00:11:44 --> 00:11:45
			malaiki nafs.
		
00:11:46 --> 00:11:48
			And it is either this one or a
		
00:11:48 --> 00:11:50
			combination of the other ones
		
00:11:50 --> 00:11:53
			that will take over the identity of what
		
00:11:53 --> 00:11:54
			we call
		
00:11:54 --> 00:11:55
			our heart.