Mohammed Hijab – You Must Sleep With 50 Women Before Marriage

Mohammed Hijab
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The speaker discusses the potential risks of hedonism and the importance of identifying women early and not bringing them into one's life. He emphasizes the need for men to identify women early and not bring them into one's life. He discusses the benefits of having multiple women and the risk of embarrassment in a family court. He advises against relying on online dating and suggests finding a partner who is not religious. He also discusses the importance of finding a balance between attractiveness and desire in relationships, and suggests that men should have a similar amount of personal attributes to be in a position.

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			The prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam told us,
		
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			whoever builds a mosque for Allah, Allah will
		
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			build for him a Sim at a house
		
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			in Jannah.
		
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			And we know the great reward that will
		
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			not only be gained but rather
		
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			will fill your grave after your death.
		
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			Whenever someone prays there, whenever someone gives shahada
		
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			in the Masjid, whenever someone learns something in
		
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			the Masjid,
		
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			yes,
		
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			that will be something
		
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			There is no evidence that having * with
		
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			a lot of women translates into an ability
		
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			to understand women
		
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			in the context of a committed relationship or
		
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			a longjevous relationship.
		
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			There is no evidence of that. So in
		
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			for for this is where
		
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			the red pill makes a lot of claims,
		
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			assertions but they're not backed. Because the idea
		
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			is I feel like there's just ad hoc
		
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			justifications
		
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			and rationalization
		
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			for hedonism.
		
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			Which is effectively just doing whatever you want
		
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			whatever you desire.
		
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			But really let's
		
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			assess this claim. The claim that if you
		
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			have * with a lot of women that
		
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			that's gonna lead to you
		
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			knowing women more and therefore having a stronger
		
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			relationship, more long givous relationship with some kind
		
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			of woman.
		
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			But there's no it doesn't seem to me
		
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			that there's any evidence to that effect because
		
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			I I was looking at some studies on
		
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			casual *.
		
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			Yeah. And I was looking at those like
		
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			5 or 6 of them that have been
		
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			done. And all of those studies, they're first
		
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			of all, they're mixed. They're contradictory, funny enough.
		
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			Some of them say that, yeah, they harm
		
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			women. Actually, most of them say they harm
		
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			women. Casual * harm women. That is a
		
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			consensus psychological finding. It harms men too, a
		
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			lot of these studies, but
		
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			it does harm men.
		
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			Some some of them say it doesn't harm
		
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			men. Yeah. But there's there's no study that
		
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			says it helps them in relationships. Do you
		
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			know what I mean? Yeah. Of course not.
		
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			And they would never run a study like
		
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			that because it would be considered unethical. Right?
		
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			And we know that, you know, when they
		
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			run these studies, they have to be politically
		
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			correct. They gotta get funding. They have to
		
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			do it in a certain certain way to
		
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			get the blessing. But what I will say
		
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			Mhmm. Is,
		
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			with the whole
		
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			body, sleeping with women or whatever it may
		
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			be, it's not necessarily to understand women better,
		
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			it's to understand the women that you don't
		
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			wanna necessarily be with. And I think that's
		
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			half the game because what ends up happening
		
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			right in a remember, I mean you're you're
		
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			in the UK so you know this too.
		
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			I mean the UK is going through this
		
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			as well. We live in a very hypersexualized
		
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			world where women are more promiscuous than ever
		
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			before. So my thing is, right, I look
		
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			at it like and I was just having
		
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			this discussion with Andrew. He's a devout orthodox
		
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			Christian and he saw my perspective on this
		
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			too. If you're gonna meet try to meet
		
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			a woman in the west where they are,
		
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			promiscuous, they don't necessarily adhere to gender roles
		
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			when it doesn't benefit them, they want a
		
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			man that makes money but they don't want
		
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			to necessarily submit, etcetera. I think it's very
		
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			important for you as a man to identify
		
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			these women early on and not bring them
		
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			into your life. Because
		
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			the the beauty of religion, right, whether it's
		
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			Christianity,
		
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			Islam, or Judaism is that it basically had
		
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			an institution of shame and it had what
		
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			I call training wheels to keep women honest
		
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			with their man. And, you know, it pretty
		
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			much shamed them for not doing things that
		
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			they were supposed to do. But these training
		
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			wheels are effectively gone. We live in a
		
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			secular world now. And unless you're a very
		
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			religious man and you're meeting a very religious
		
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			woman, it's gonna be very difficult for you
		
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			to find a woman that's virtuous. So my
		
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			thing is I think if, you know, is
		
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			and the other reason why I think this
		
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			is so important is because,
		
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			when you get married, right, luckily, you know,
		
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			in the in the in Islam, you can't
		
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			just go to a go to a mosque,
		
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			go to an imam, he'll marry you, boom.
		
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			Done. You don't gotta worry about the state
		
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			being involved. But most people don't get married
		
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			that way. They get married through the state.
		
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			And with with the way the family courts
		
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			are set up, with the way divorce is
		
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			set up, with the way it's basically an
		
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			entire industry against men, I look at it
		
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			like if you're gonna go ahead and you
		
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			wanna have a family one day, which is
		
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			the nuclear family, which is the backbone of
		
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			society,
		
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			and you wanna get married, you are taking
		
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			on a tremendous amount of risk and I
		
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			don't want you to go in blind. However,
		
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			if you're getting married and the state isn't
		
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			involved and, there's no severe consequences to you
		
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			financially,
		
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			then sure. Go ahead and be less sexually
		
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			experienced than me to 1 because at least
		
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			you're not gonna be severely punished for it.
		
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			But my thing is the reason why I
		
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			even gave that idea like, hey, get with
		
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			more women so that you understand them is
		
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			because I just don't want men to deal
		
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			with the the horrors of the family court.
		
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			Now is it the best solution? Probably not.
		
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			But I think it's a pragmatic one given
		
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			the the world that we're now.
		
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			So what here's the thing, I just wanna
		
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			know what the evidence is. So of for
		
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			example having * with multiple women.
		
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			What benefit like let's say 50 or 30
		
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			what
		
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			what benefit are you alleging that it has
		
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			on the man? What benefit are you alleging
		
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			it? Well, that's a that's a fair question.
		
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			Every man has different competence. Right? So, like,
		
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			one one guy might be able to hook
		
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			up with 10 girls and be like, okay.
		
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			You know what? I get it. Like, I've
		
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			I don't, you know, it is what it
		
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			is. But another guy, you know, might be
		
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			incompetent, might be an idiot. Every everyone's, you
		
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			know,
		
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			level of adaptation is different. So I'm not
		
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			saying, oh, have a hard fifty and don't
		
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			get married. It's like no, if you find
		
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			a girl that's worthy, that's fine. And I
		
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			would argue that, like, our podcast is like
		
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			we're able to kinda fast line it where,
		
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			you know, remember this information hasn't been out
		
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			for very long, so people are kind of
		
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			learning now through us talking about it on
		
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			our platform, etcetera, so they might not necessarily
		
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			have to even hit 50 because they're learning
		
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			from our mistakes. You know, the Chinese But
		
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			what if they do get 50? What's what's
		
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			the benefit of that? What do they get
		
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			from that?
		
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			Well hopefully depending on the individual they are
		
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			able to identify women that are worthy versus
		
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			ones that aren't. In in a sexual capacity?
		
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			Well I'm also assuming that this person would
		
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			be seeing this woman if they're just looking
		
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			to have * then obviously it's just gonna
		
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			it's gonna be a waste. But I'm talking
		
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			about,
		
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			you know, you're obviously corning this woman, you're
		
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			hanging out with this woman, etcetera. You're seeing
		
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			because look, my my friend had your book,
		
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			I was trying to look for it myself.
		
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			It's called Oh nice.
		
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			I was trying to find something and Yeah.
		
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			And actually I was flicking through it right
		
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			before I spoke to you. And I like
		
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			the the, like, you know, the
		
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			the the the statistics you have on here.
		
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			One of them that you had on here
		
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			was, for example,
		
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			that a man will will spend 30 hours
		
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			or something like this
		
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			doing 30 hours doing
		
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			speed dating online in order to just get
		
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			one date, 1.46
		
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			date in
		
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			the year or something like that. Now what
		
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			I'm saying is that to get 50 women
		
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			look you know it's a numbers game and
		
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			I know it's a numbers game.
		
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			The feasibility, the amount of man hours that
		
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			you're gonna need to put in to have
		
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			* with 50 women that are not prostitutes
		
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			according to your statistics that you mentioned. Right?
		
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			The amount of man hours we're talking about
		
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			like if he's gonna use Tinder or some
		
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			kind of an app. And according to these
		
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			stats, he's gonna need to do a lot
		
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			of that. Right? And the and the question
		
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			of benefit here is an important one. Obviously
		
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			from a religious standpoint,
		
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			Muslims, Christians, and Jews all agree that *
		
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			shouldn't even be done outside of marriage. Now
		
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			it is still possible to marry 50 women.
		
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			I mean I'm not saying you cannot marry
		
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			and divorce 50 women. It's a possibility.
		
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			But I'm not necessarily saying
		
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			that one should do that. Of course not.
		
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			We wouldn't agree that one should do that.
		
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			The point I'm trying to get at is
		
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			that there isn't actually any good evidence
		
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			that having * with that many women
		
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			would give you a kind of benefit in
		
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			the relationship. In fact you could argue for
		
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			the opposite.
		
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			Because
		
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			if you get * very easily
		
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			going back to the idea
		
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			of virtue
		
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			then you can be less restrained in your
		
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			sexual appetites.
		
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			And this is something that in virtue ethics
		
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			is referred to as temperance.
		
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			So if you're less restrained you don't have
		
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			as much
		
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			restraint
		
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			for example. You don't have self control.
		
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			And if you don't have will power and
		
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			self control in one area
		
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			you're less likely to have it in other
		
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			areas. And I've read that in a book
		
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			called willpower funnily enough by Roy Baumast.
		
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			Very fantastic book I recommend it. But he
		
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			mentioned the point that if you have willpower
		
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			in one area for example he mentioned fasting
		
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			religious fasting as an example.
		
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			Roy
		
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			Baumeister.
		
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			If you have will power and discipline in
		
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			one area it's transferable
		
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			to other areas.
		
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			The idea of getting 50 women having *
		
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			with them which is difficult anyway according to
		
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			these stats because just because you're dating a
		
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			woman it doesn't mean you're gonna have *
		
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			with her. As you know like for the
		
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			average person you guys not might not be
		
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			the average person because you know from a
		
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			status perspective you guys have got you know
		
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			big channel good money coming in. The guy's
		
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			wearing a nice Rolex red face. I like
		
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			it. It's fresh.
		
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			And you're wearing a nice watch as well.
		
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			You know, you guys are well put together.
		
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			Thank you bro. Thank you bro.
		
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			So not everyone is fresh and not everyone's
		
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			myron gains. Yeah. And so it's not gonna
		
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			be easy to get * like that. So
		
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			for them to put 30 hours to 50
		
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			hours to get one a date
		
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			and then after that to get like a
		
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			100 of those dates maybe 30 I don't
		
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			know how many what the numbers would be
		
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			conversion rate. 5 dates to 1 woman having
		
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			*, maybe? I don't know. Is that my
		
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			way you know more about this than I
		
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			do? Keep in mind. Keep in mind. Right?
		
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			Because people tend to, criticize my, you know,
		
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			my idea that you should have * with
		
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			50 women. But there's a bunch of other
		
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			things I tell the guys to have in
		
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			place as well. They should make a certain
		
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			amount of money, 35 years old, be in
		
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			shape.
		
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			They need to have a bunch of things
		
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			in line so that they can be in
		
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			a position. And the reason why I say
		
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			this, like so here's it. Here this is
		
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			what it is. Yeah. Make a 100 6
		
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			figures a year or more, have 6 months
		
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			or a year of savings, be in shape,
		
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			50 women and then be 35 years old.
		
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			The reason why I say have these 5
		
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			things in place is because
		
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			most women,
		
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			right, will look at you as a higher
		
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			status, more attractive male, which in will inevitably
		
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			put her and her feminine puts you and
		
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			your masculine so the relationship ends up,
		
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			actually working because we all know what happens
		
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			when you deal with a rambunctious woman. Now
		
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			Mhmm. I mean that if a person reaches
		
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			10 bodies, 20 bodies, 30, 40, and he
		
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			has other things in place, oh, no. Sorry,
		
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			baby. I can't commit to you because I
		
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			I need to hit 50. No. And like
		
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			I said before with our podcast, we might
		
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			be able to curb it where they don't
		
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			need to necessarily hit that number but I'm
		
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			speaking from a general perspective from most people
		
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			and then also with the as far as
		
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			the book goes with the, the dating stuff,
		
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			this is why I'm such a big proponent
		
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			of not relying on online dating. I tell
		
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			people meet people meet meet girls through your
		
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			friends, meet girls when you're out, meet them
		
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			out in real life, use Instagram. We have
		
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			multiple different,
		
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			ways that you need to go ahead and
		
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			source women. Now with that said, of course,
		
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			if you're religious, then this might not necessarily
		
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			apply to you because you're,
		
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			you're going against your religious beliefs. But my
		
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			thing is this, if you're a religious guy,
		
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			right, and you can't do this, that's totally
		
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			fine. The only thing I ask is I
		
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			want them to make sure that they don't
		
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			get married with the state. You don't need
		
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			to hit this body count number if you're
		
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			getting married and it's just religious strictly No
		
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			I see. I see. Look a lot of
		
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			what you said there a lot of what
		
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			you said there is very reasonable. I don't
		
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			think it's wrong for a man to aspire
		
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			to make a certain money like a certain
		
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			amount of money. I don't think it's wrong
		
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			for them to put themselves in the I
		
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			think it's actually quite praiseworthy frankly. You know
		
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			there's nothing wrong with that. My only issue
		
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			is that the reason why I mentioned the
		
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			50 body count thing
		
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			is because I this is my analysis, Brian.
		
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			You could tell me what you think. We're
		
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			living in a time historians refer to as
		
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			Pax Americana. Yeah. It's a time where America
		
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			is a superpower and as a result
		
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			western countries have not had to have wars
		
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			where they themselves are in danger in the
		
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			ways that they had in the past. Okay?
		
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			It's more like incursions or invasions or whatever
		
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			it may be. As a result we in
		
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			the west are living in a state of
		
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			relative ease and comfort.
		
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			Arthur Schopenhauer, a famous philosopher, he said that,
		
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			human beings or humankind, mankind
		
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			vacillates
		
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			between
		
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			extreme boredom and extreme fear. Okay? I think
		
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			now we're living in an age of extreme
		
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			boredom because we're not fearing
		
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			that someone's gonna kill us. Yeah. In a
		
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			war context. As a result
		
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			we are missing what most cultures in the
		
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			past referred to as rites of passage for
		
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			men. This is where the masculinity crisis comes
		
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			in. Because before a man could prove that
		
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			he is a man by stepping on the
		
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			battlefield.
		
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			Now that that kind of opportunity
		
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			is no longer afforded to us on the
		
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			same kind of level.
		
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			And as a result we have invented rites
		
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			of passage for men
		
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			So that they can feel like they have
		
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			gone through a certain process and now they
		
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			are men. And what I see with the
		
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			red pill movement is that they've invented arbitrary
		
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			and ad hoc rights of passage.
		
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			Which actually feed more into hedonistic
		
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			liberal thinking
		
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			than anything else. Which they're scanty to no
		
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			evidence
		
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			that will improve them as an individual, virtuously
		
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			or otherwise.
		
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			The lack of which we've just mentioned the
		
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			50 body count thing which I know comes
		
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			from the rational male because I've that was
		
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			the first place I read. I don't know
		
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			if you got it from there as well.
		
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			Yeah. So the point is is our number.
		
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			He just calls it plate theory. Yeah. I
		
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			mean what I'm saying to you is in
		
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			the the time it would take you to
		
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			find non prostitutes
		
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			that are 50 in number that you can
		
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			have * with in the west. You can
		
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			spend making money for yourself.
		
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			You can spend working on yourself. You can
		
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			you can spend improving your bravery. You improving
		
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			your
		
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			your proficiency, your strength. Because the thing is
		
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			I feel like there's an underlying assumption with
		
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			the red pill movement. Yeah. And the assumption
		
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			almost is that we should live our lives
		
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			to make ourselves most marketable for women.