Channel: Mohammad Elshinawy
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person and we testify that no one is worthy of our lives, our worship, our dedication, but on walk alone without any partners, the Almighty true supreme King, the prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was indeed His Prophet and his servant and His Messenger.
The carrier and bearer of pure guidance and glad tidings and a morning before the coming of the hour.
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To begin, we continue with our special seven that our love will grant is shade the shade of his throne on the sweltering painful, lengthy Day of Resurrection. Our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to us, there are seven Houma Babu shame on their history on the day when there will be no shade but his sevaks when you're feeling the heat, yo man I love him.
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Just leader a young person who spends their youthful years in devotion to of love a man whose heart hangs in the masjid in the house of God. Two that love one another for the sake of love coming together on that, on his pleasure and going their separate ways on his pleasure. And today's our appointment with the fifth
of these special seven our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said what are the odds
that two months even with Gemini, Allah in the Alpha
Man, the fifth category, a man who was invited to hold on to an illicit relationship
by a woman of nonslip and Gemma, a woman of great reputation and a woman of great beauty, she combined between both, although beauty gains women reputation, and a reputation can cause someone to see a woman is very appealing and beautiful when she had both of them combined in her
father, but he resisted and said I fear a lot.
And so this is a man that was able to overcome the greatest challenge that a man is posed within his life, that a grown man youth onwards is posed within his life. The desire to suppress his love his lower appetites, that desire and only restricted were allowed permitted for him to express it. So this is someone that had beauty and of course this goes between men and women and women and men. The quality here is what is being emphasized on she had a duty and she had reputation due to her family due to her well she had all of this, but perhaps stronger than all of that the greatest factor which made it so difficult that made it such a hot situation for him.
resist an exchange. He didn't have to deal with the heat of the day of judgment, he will receive what was shade he said that is what was the law in Morocco and that's who the woman was the one inviting
because many times perhaps we can even argue most of the time. Those who do not commit Zina, there are so many that do. But those who do not commit Zina, they don't abstain. They don't resist just for a lot of zoji. They could resist because of some sort of emotional or psychological resistance. He doesn't like to feel rejected. A man does not like to feel that from a woman.
And also many times there's another factor and that's the social factor. A person just doesn't like to get caught. That's what stops them. As for not doing it for a while. This is extremely rare. Usually some sort of worldly factor that stops those who actually stop.
You leave now she'll even argue that this simple Radek concept, he says, Why is it that in the end when he speaks about the zuna, those who fall into adultery, those forms who sinner, he says as Nia towards zanni virginity, the woman who commit Zina fornication, and the man commit Zina that this is their punishment for him.
But when it came to theft, when it came to stealing
a la Zilla, Jim began with the men first and he said was sad. It was a sad it was up to the man who steals and the woman who steals so why the reversal in the order. He says perhaps the reason this is a very beautiful subtlety, he says, perhaps the reason is because most of the people that participate in theft, are men. So this is mostly something that is very perilous, very dangerous, requires, you know, climbing and running, and sometimes you're gonna have to kill somebody if you get caught and it's more prominent in men.
He says, And as for Xena, it's not that Xena is more prominent than woman. But the greater determining factor in whether or not Xena will happen, he says he's the woman household. Some people may think he is saying or that Islam says and this is very alien. This comes from other religions, that the woman is the root of all evil, or the concept of every downfall of man's clothes. But this is not Islamic at all. This comes from a completely different tradition that people might have assumed is the same exact perspective in Islam. And it's not. Because in Islam, the man and the woman have identical punishment, and identical punishment if they accuse someone of Zina. And if
four men would testify against one woman that she committed sin and their stories don't match up, they all get punished, and she goes free.
And of course, all of this is happens in a traditional system, obviously.
But the point being is he's not saying she is more to blame for Xena, he thinks she is the determining factor in Xena because the guy already has his mind made up anyway. He's just waiting for her to give him the green light. The man does not have the ability to resist unless there are other factors meaning ordinarily people without the fear of a law in their life without support.
I'm sure I'm not gonna get caught. I'm sure she's inviting there's no resistance from her and she's not gonna reject me, she will determine whether visit a happens or not. And perhaps this is why a lot began with her son kind of what's odd.
And so this is huge. This is Islam recognizing reality, that the reason why there are these barriers, why there is so much fear that should keep people from allowing these these appetites take control of their life is because of an inherent weakness that is more prominent in men.
And so when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for example, says in the hadith
of it, and Muslim men are up to fitness and baggy, he grew out of the journey. I have not loved a temptation, a trial a challenge after me, after I go that will remain with my own that is more difficult or he says more harmful on the men than women. It's because of an inherent weakness in the man. And that's why I was only spoke about Xena until about from Xena he and the guidelines for dealing for gender interactions. He explained why and something he said and he said what's really funny, unsettled life because the human being is weak. Many of the early Muslims they said that they understood he had to have more aku for it and he said because his mind his judgment is impaired when
he has free rein in front of in front of the opposite gender. And so for you to think you can
With this fire without getting burned,
this is the slippery slope that has taken so many, throughout human history in this room outside of this room, you know, even our children or our youth or our peers, they are criticized a great deal openly and like implicitly with gestures growing up, how don't you date?
You have to just try it out, like just, they don't they refuse the notion that this is so dangerous, that this is playing with fire. They say how are you going to get married, if you don't think you don't have some sort of neediness, some sort of relationship, or relationship. And this, to be honest, is the most difficult besides the book, but it's the most difficult argument to accept if you're in your right mind. But if you're governed by this leaning, which is natural, and you don't have enough fear of a lot to wake you up, you will be susceptible to it. Because how ridiculous is it to say that dating will ensure a good marriage? You know, some of the journals, I believe, was
the University of Pittsburgh, Pittsburgh journal mentioned that less than 1% 1% of people actually go and reach a point where they marry their their first love their first days, right? So how's that gonna help anybody? You know, that means that means you fall in love with someone. And there's more than a 99% chance that you're going to go your separate ways you're gonna hate each other after, which means you're gonna let go of each other's secrets, you're going to try to get vengeance against one another, and all of that. And then let us say, we are insane enough to make on the 1%. What is the percentage of marriages in this culture that lasts?
Depending on where you are? You're talking between 50 and 60% of the marriages fail anyway. So where is the fruit of this dating process? How does it even work? Rather, this is something that was dictated by opening the floodgates on these desires by just letting it go and releasing it without balance a lot. So agenda saying, Do not come near it, you will get burned when he says to kind of pull it out and whatnot. Sakuraba Xena, he did not say don't do it. He said do not come anywhere near this interval can affect Asia, it's a heinous thing. It's a wild beast, you know, don't come near it as if you normally say Don't come near the animals gauge, the animal sticks is automatic. It
says if you if you come within the vicinity,
you will be pulled in you will not be able to resist if you get close. And then he says we're sad as Neela and this is an ugly, ugly, ugly road once you fall into it will not stop there.
And so for a person to be in denial about this and say yeah, we can this is fine. But just so long as it doesn't get to that you are relying yourself. You know, when I was I was insisting that the use of Elisa Lam says what he does to define the case.
Us buoy way hidden away akumina jt, this is used to rally salaams wisdom, wisdom atmosphere above that he said, Oh Allah, if you don't turn this away from me, if you don't protect me from this, he wasn't coming close. It was chasing after him. And he sees still despite that, if you don't protect me, I will fall I will put us in a in I will fall to them, I will fall to their invite, they invited these women that are trying to seduce me when I committed jetty and I will be able to foolish because certainly someone is foolish. If they think they can do it on their own. They can play with fire and not get burned. Or you're certainly foolish of the Jedi. If you think your only problem is
that no one's gonna find out. If you think getting caught is the only problem, right? Because at the end of the day, mother see her the husband of the woman
would have called them in it given him analysis would have caught them. The worst that's gonna happen is he's going to kill him. That's the worst that's going to happen.
And many for many people, that is a relief.
It will just take the way he's doing it. But what happens when someone suffers from a loss of kinda without what happens when you develop a mindset where it's okay, so long as the people don't catch me.
And you're completely oblivious to the danger the possibility of a loss of the kitchen. But let us see we are in a situation of use Alexa to take it one step further. Because this is the thickness of our times every age headed sweetener. Perhaps this is the fitting of our time to sell house agenzia some quality or hypersexuality that we have in our age. What if you're resisting, you're not playing games, you're saying 100 meters back and it's comes chasing after you because that is the age we live in, isn't it? You know a lot of you when you read that
I think the prophets of Allah said
that before the Sabbath for the last hour of this dunya, you found him while you learn Gen Y X fusina work for cotton.
But right before the our knowledge will be uplifted, and ignorance will become settled, and Zener will become
proliferated, pushed in every direction. So open up vs available, and killing will be everywhere. Well, why don't you see today's age? And you read that I didn't you say?
You really are the Mr. Trump online a software setup? There is not there are no for more depicting elements of today's age than those for people being killed not knowing why they're killed or why they're killing Xena like you would not imagine ignorance and the upliftment of knowledge and the ABCs of common sense, forget revelation, and religion. All of that being challenged. He foretold this on a software setup. So what do you do when you find yourself in this situation
where you're running away from it, but the women in the age, for example, or the men, they are chasing, throwing themselves at you from every single direction, at school, at work in the restaurants online, in your pockets, my mother comes to me, my mother doesn't sign up for coupons or go on websites or people, they they grabbed your email address, and they send you things and she came to me and said to me, I found invitations, things coming on certain applications, I could not believe it.
I could not believe that people see this stuff, people are invited to these things. So what do you do in this situation? When you run from it as best you can, you're you're not just saying I'm going to stop at Zener because that'll never happen. You're not just saying I'll have a casual relationship. You're not saying I won't touch you're not saying I won't be alone. You're saying I'm going to lower my gaze might not even want to look, I'm not even want to look, but it still comes your way.
It's still found accessible to you. And you're inclined, rather to move up a little bit because we have a big crowd today.
of youngsters Mind you, this was completely unplanned By the way, apparently, there's no school today.
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what happens when this desire is so accessible like never before. And you find yourself inclined to it because to be in denial that I can I'm not going to become inclined. That's also incentives. Right? A lot of soldier says about us and about the solution what to do. He says what happened.
And he was inclined to her. And we're not for the fact that he saw the sign of His glory. We're not for the fact that he's a man his faith is higher, he's honest, shame is tough was fear of love. layered? He would have had it not because this is reality. It's not like there was something wrong with him. And so he didn't desire let's say he was perfectly normal, perfectly human, perfectly manly, he had this word not for the sign of a love that he was able to see.
Why was he able to see it? Why would Why did he find external help? It was external help that I must step in and protected him from this because he had a balance with a love He had a record and account with a loss elegent because Allah says in the very next words in that same area, why did you see them that flare color can then you can also define who Sue one fracture. This is how we diverge from him that we did it. We turned away from him as Sue Ellen fascia, evil and indecency. Why enamel Can I mean imagine a Muslim scene because he was of our servants that were chosen. You know most of this means you devote yourself to Allah. Most loves is one of love chooses you. Most of us means you're
sincere you choose a love as the aim behind your actions. Most of us is when our love chooses you to protect you to purify to make you one of his close slaves. And these go hand in hand. When someone devotes himself to a love He is inviting us protection He's inviting a was aided his life.
But when a person does not have this relationship with Allah, this devotion to him subhana wa tada
where's he going to find the help from if he insisted not to invite him to his life if she insisted not to do this subjecting herself or himself to this time and time again, if a person is not preying on time, if a person is not devoting himself to above boundaries, recognizing them
observing them, if they're not doing this, that how can I was diligent how in terms of fairness, not in terms of ability? How can a love guide a person that is not asking for it, protect a person that says I can do it on my own. It won't happen.
You somebody says that I'm going to fall. And then he said, You know, when a person invites a lot, then the most vicious, most vicious, aggressive desire inside of you, whatever it may be, you can overcome. Whether it's greed, whether it's
anger, whether it is the desire for food for drink, but the most aggressive desire for most of us is this desire we're talking about today. Sure, the most basic desire necessary desire for human beings with a drink.
Because without food and drinks, we die very fast, and people who go years on end without marriage, so it's not the most necessary, but if you get close to it, it becomes the hardest to resist. But even that one, when you come close to Allah, there will be ease in resisting it, he will not let you fight that fight alone.
And this was the man of the prophet SAW Selim speaking about in this heading. He was invited and he was able to not just say, No, I fear of law back off, not gonna happen. He doesn't just return her. He declares his principle. Right. He declares his principles like you, somebody said, I once did. He said, in Abu Dhabi, love the refuge of allies, he, he is my Lord. I sentiment like he has taken care of me in the hope that he will never allow me to succeed someone that betrays him.
I can't do this. Because, you know, if you somebody said I would have said to her, I can't we could get caught or I can't, your marriage will say or divorce my husband for you. Right? But he declares it from the get it's impossible not going to happen. And all throughout the history of this woman, there are people that capitalize on this, you know, beautiful theme,
a beautiful personality. In the chapter 11 Kufa, on our beloved Massoud came to a goof up and he saw a Robbie how much He fasted and prayed that night and devoted himself to a lot. He said to him had the Messenger of Allah.
And if this isn't like the testimony, I don't know it is. He said, If the Messenger of Allah had met him, he would have loved him and his photos. And so some of the people that were resentful of our hobby or spiteful because if you exist, holding to your principles you make by contrast, people look at that argument. And so people don't like others that are playing by the rules. If they're breaking the rules it it makes them conflicted. And that by the way, is the reason why believers need to always go into the massage and always need to get keep good company. Because you will see where you need to pick up the slack you will see by comparison where you're falling behind that can conflicted
feeling is good for you. Don't run away from it.
And so these people did it, these people wanted him to be like them. And so they went to the most beautiful woman that they could find that they used to purchase she was she was
she worked in prostitution. And they said to her, here's 1000 dinar a fortune. She said for what they said to get from a robbia one problem
that's it. She said I'll give you much more than that. And she went to him and said to them I have a question I need affects what and when he did that she revealed herself in a corner of the street revealed herself to him
and so he screamed scream that he said what are you insane he's a tour capability like what would you be like if you catch a fever tonight? And it changes that beauty of yours in this fingers?
And how many people are one sneeze or one fever away from looking with a completely different person the next time you see them? He said wonderful. It'd be like one medical no danger love that comes to you and he grabs you buy your habit worried your junk living and what will it be like when nicomachea the two ages in the grave since you love to interrogate you. And he kept yelling at her like this until she the sincerity of his words took her from within and she ran off. And she had made a beautiful Toba repentance what lies telegenic she became known as
the most devout worshipper of Kufa. And those that had aid her the money used to say we sent her to a ravine to ruin a beer and our beer ruined her for us He ruined our business.
was captured by the fools captured by the the army of version one of the campaigns during this
They, they tried everything to get him to leave his religion. Because he was they were told this is one of the remaining people from the firsthand companions of this man hung in the valleys.
And they will admit women upon him. And this, they did this for centuries, actually. But this was the first generation. So however they saw this, they would sit with women to take care of their wounds and tend to them until
you build an affinity. And then she would offer herself to him on the condition that he'd become one of theirs, he become their religion. And so when they did this to him, she tried everything and she walked out.
And she said to them, I don't even know if this man knows that I'm a woman.
He didn't, which didn't turn nothing. He shows no signs no in this. And they tried to throw him in a burning cauldron of oil to boil him to death, if you will. And that didn't break here. And so the men didn't want to kill him, it would be a waste he wanted to humiliate him. So they've got it, the commander of the Virgin said, I'll accept from you to kiss my head, and I'll set you free.
I'll settle for that. Kiss my head for everybody.
glorify me, I'll set you free.
And so he said only if you promise to release all of my brothers, the rest of the Muslims. And there were about 80 of them that were taken captive after that battle.
And so he agreed and he was able to release him emancipate these 80 plus people and when they got back to Medina or mahabodhi lavonne said, it is everyone's duty to get up and kiss this man's head.
For what he did, he was able to resist a lot liberates you from being tied down by these things that will fail you.
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we must understand that no matter what age we live in how difficult the challenges are a la silla Jetta has given us everything that we need to get out safe.
And he gave us a very simple formula we always repeat and must memorize for holophone body in colorful Nagar so that
if a cell phone number is the nation's before you will destroy because they allow the prayer to fall apart.
And so they began following their desires. When you don't Lower your head for a lump, your head will be lowered for so many other worthless things.
And you think about what our children will not one month we feel so bad for them sometimes the things they see I had an eight year old come up to me on Friday saying I like a boy. And I don't know what to do. And I know that hormones just conditioned she's told that someone called my attention over the weekend to some ridiculous series on on YouTube that has hundreds of millions of views. Just some homemade ridiculousness about relationships between Spider Man little Elsa from Frozen, two teenagers acting up the scenes.
Elsa's pregnant, spider man's cheating on her with spider girl, oh, this is just insanity.
And then when you add to that, that we go through what we go through, and there's no quality, maybe there isn't even consistency in our salon
and confidence to stand our principles when we're faced with this societal pressure.
And then there's movies. I had a girl here in Pennsylvania who came to me right after she tried to kill herself. And her parents don't know, or at least her father didn't know. Because she got stuck in a relationship. And she's telling me this long story about how they couldn't get married in the end because he's a Hindu. And she's and she's a Muslim. And so she gave him you know, her diary as an apology that she has to walk away and he tried to kill himself and she tried to kill herself. And I'm This is the movies we watch on the real right. I told her do you do you watch? I asked her a certain kind of I told you watch Bollywood these types of movies indian love stories all the time I
was raised on.
Can you imagine like, Can you imagine inviting two people into your living room? parents think about this. We are we cannot just like back to the children expect them to be thrown into the ocean with their hands tied and swim. Would you invite two people to kiss in your living room on a couch? What's the difference of this small piece of glass between you and them? It's a movie screen. And then a guy runs away with a girl and some movie and your heart is racing because the father is chasing the two of them. And right before the Father kills him like he jumps out of the hotel room or that whatever it is, and you're just like, you just signed with this and you just find it with
the fornicator you identify
By the shape on in that moment you normalize this. And you know how rated are
now it's pG 13. And the standards keep changing. We all know this. You mix all of that together. This is what have we done.
And so the issue is not just Xena. The issue is not just pornography, the issue is many of the things that we do on a daily basis, make us think it's okay. And we're watching the worst of it is not anything here in the dunya.
I'm already three minutes over our profits of a loss of audio sentiment shown six scenes from the company in the grave after McCarran Nikita. He said I seen men and women that had no clothing, yet to let them know that we're in an oven with a tight top and a wide bottom. And the fire we drive them with lift them upwards Bow Bow and they would scream hysterically. And just when they think they're going to get out the fire lessons again, and it repeats this until the day of judgment, then it may get worse. It continues like this until the day of judgment. He said all he saw was setup.
And you know that it's sort of the norm. When he talks about the light of guidance of Allah that He places in the hearts. That's the same surah that speaks about lowering the gaze and married early and wearing hijab, and then not taking permission before you enter your the doors of your family, your parents. All of this. It talks about Xena talks about all of this why it's interconnected. If you allow a person to become like this, if we subject ourselves, our family to this, we are no longer human. If you don't learn to work with others, they see your eyesight lower, you will have no vasila you will have no insight here, you will not be able to invite the light of your heart and
nothing will satisfy you with that. Don't you know that the most famous women on earth that everyone is jealous of their husbands?
All these husbands have cheated on that woman.
And the list I just saw recently they're all these women accused her husband of cheating, it will not satisfy you. It is a lie. And so our prophet SAW Selim is saying Do yourself a favor before we leave this is our fifth of those shape number eight, don't burn yourself here and then the heat will get turned up there by just inviting a lot into your life. Understanding that let it be on these terms is lifestyle. Not yours. Nothing else will work.
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