Khutbah 12.22.2017
Mohammad Elshinawy – Jibreel A.S Advises the Prophet PBUH #02
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The speakers discuss the importance of remembering the history of Islam and avoiding clueless separation. They stress the need to prepare for separation and avoid embarrassment, as well as the importance of not being clueless and not giving too much information. They also touch on the worst-case scenario for a car wreck and the importance of having a father and being loved for one's own good. The conversation emphasizes the importance of not letting fear or fear alone in the decision to avoid separation and not giving children advice on what to do when death arrives.
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all praise and glory be to a lovely thank him and we seek His help and his guidance and his pleasure and his forgiveness. And we turn to him for help from the evil whispers within us and the evil consequences of our misdeeds. For whenever I love guys, no one can lead us astray and whoever I love leaves without guidance and can provide guidance for that person. And we testify that no one is worthy of our worship our lives. But Allah alone without any marketers, the true supreme king of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was indeed in truth. His Prophet and his service and His Messenger are people of human all believers have the taqwa of Allah, be consistent upon the fear
and obedience, love and consciousness, hope and regards from all times, as this is what he deserves, and do not die except in a state of complete and total, willing, loving surrender to a lot of state of Islam.
We began two weeks ago, our journey through the advice of gibreel in salt was salam to our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
when he came to him and said, Yeah, Mohamed, Nasheed, Romanians, own come and live however you wish, but know that you will die.
And we said the profits of a long running user learn is the most mindful person of depth.
And that applies the agenda filled our life with the remembrance of dead.
Throw those around us through the white hairs through the brittleness of the bones.
So many reminders, would you read on Instagram wanted the prophets of Allah while
wishing the very best for him that highest station which he had, and being the best role model for us which he was to hear it one more time, in an unofficial capacity from his lifelong friends he rerelease Auto Center
today with the second statement,
on to see what it meant Cheetah for English,
and love whomever you wish, but also know at the same time, you will separate from them, you will be separated from them. And a person may think this is the same advice as the first sentence. Obviously, if I know I'm going to die, then I know I'm going to be separated. But as we said earlier, the usefulness of remembering that is in the details. Isn't sitting there thinking what it's going to be like on an individual level.
There's a difference between saying yes, I know I will die and thinking about death. There's a difference between thinking about death in a monetary sense that I'm going to have a genetic one day
and between being pulled apart from my loved ones on that day, it adds another important shade to the picture that you need crystal clear.
Prepare for the separation between you and those you love most. For most of us, that's our family. How will separation happened between us and our family? Not will it How will it happen? What will it look like?
It will have no one of two ways. Either they will be exiting first. Or you will be exiting first. And only about knows will it be the young who buries the old or the old who very young will be the child who buries the parent or the parent who buries the child. That is how unpredictable This world is.
You know we see it's very linear
I'm going to grow up, and I'm going to get married, and I'm going to have children.
And they're going to grow up and they're going to be successful. And I'm going to make them comfortable, and then they're going to bury me, after a long happy life. Though we have 1001 reasons to believe it doesn't exactly after like that.
A very good friend of mine.
Or a good brother that I know from the Ministry.
He was the best of his siblings.
On his way to finishing the poor and polite and accomplished in dounia, indeed,
19 years old, you'd never think it would happen like this. In an instant he slipped his hat on his head, and fell unconscious and slipped into the pool and nobody was home. And just like that it happened and how many of the stories that are like is and so at that moment of separation, when it happens from top to bottom or bottom to top tie into elder elder to child, how are you going to react to this, this separation? When it happens? It will it's just a matter of when
will it
take you away from Allah
many times we see people that become Muslim, and they struggle a great deal clinging on to some hope that their parents will die
after having become Muslim, and then they don't and their love for their parents is makes it an extremely difficult test. One of the most the hardest tests to imagine and that's why I was religion tells us in the for Allah to console us that right before the waves separated between noon and Sunday for the rest of people had to go through this sometimes separation between your holiday Sam and his son for had Aveda human knowledge right before that he was still had hope. He said yep, today my son please ride with us. It'll come on.
In. Do not be not with those who drowned. Don't be with those with disbelief. Because it's so much more difficult to drown in a pool or drowning in a sea. That's just your opinion is over. But to imagine that your son has been separated for good.
Don't be with the caffeine. Caffeine is an extremely difficult moment in all of our lives. Julian is set up is selling the province all set them love wherever you want. But to make sure you don't forget that you will be separated from this person.
This doesn't mean to disconnect from people emotionally, it actually would mean the very opposite in reality. It just means love your family, love your loved ones, love them passionately. But do not be controlled by this love of your loved ones, because it will fail you if you become controlled by him, or one of them. No it was reported about him that use the Z layer of Boca can offend. Don't be tied down burdened by your loved one yet who will look at TED events telephone and do not be destroyed by your hate meaning love and hate mother's a little bit, sometimes even hard to comprehend. I remember very young before I even knew exactly what I was saying. I was repeating
words to a brother that I used to meet with late at night.
a childhood friend whose mother was in terminal illness and I'm telling him how to prepare as if I know as if it's just taught and I'm telling you just try to realize that God created us all don't see this moment child see there's all creatures of Allah try to disconnect somehow so that it doesn't destroy you. Too much lovable will destroy you. They'll say no too much hate will destroy you.
And then those that you love if they destroy you because of that love You will then hates them on the day of judgment because they dragged you down those your fault that you love them a little too much.
And this is a bit of a course conversation I know it is it may ruffle some feathers what is meant here you know it himself used to say this he would say the paddy back at home mmm I said you're cooler but he'll
love your loved ones mildly not too much. Yes, love passionately. But don't go overboard. Unless they become less they become your enemies. You're those that you ah one day, because opposites do that every action has an equal and opposite reaction. You know people that become overly happy they become overly sad. And those that
become too loving, they become so vulnerable by that love that it turns into something very devastating later.
at the same exact time, part of what it means to prepare for the separation of your loved ones, then leaving you were still in the first then leaving you then going first is that if you help them prepare for that journey that you cannot do for them.
If your child or your parent goes before you, they've started through that very long, very dark tunnel without you. And you cannot do it, your parents wish they could die for their kids, some kids wish they could die instead of their parents, all parents wish they could, they could do it instead of their kids, you will not be able to do that.
You will not be able to. And so you need to do what's right for your own. So that perhaps they may see this and be prepared for their journey when they are separated from you. You know are prophets of Allah wa alayhi wa sallam he said to us, and well I do match bennettswood
Metropolitan maxima to measure Hannah.
And this is a very
inch listening Heidi, and you have to understand the right of all the other I have to say they're listening of this world, children and the likes, he says, but children are much better. They are a source of cowardice, meaning sometimes you may be too afraid to do the right thing because you love your kids so much. So you're not going to spend in this cause or you're not going to stand for justice out of fear for your kids. Right. And then he says they are megafauna, our reason for stinginess, once again, you would hold
out of fear for your children. He says max center, and they are a source of sadness. If they fall sick, or they die before you it is it is a great test. And he says marriage had a source of great ignorance, meaning we become very foolish when it comes to our children. Why? Because we don't want to face what differentiates us. From love whoever you want, but you will be separated. Somebody's gonna go You are them. Someone's going to get off the train first. We do we do that? Do we sit there and imagine
our child dying?
Do we imagine our parents easier? Imagine your parents
God forbid statements like this. You can't sit there and imagine it. But you may need to a little bit for your safety and for their sick
because they might go before you. This is the first half of act dementia.
So that if they go, you only do as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did when he lost his baby, when he lost Ibrahim Ronnie said, he said the it is we love Absolutely. The eye tears and the heart is saddened, but to what point to the point that we're going to blurt something out that can cause us our ear after he says what to eat.
But we only say we don't say anything except that which pleases our Lord and Master subhana wa Tada. That is the cap of wealth.
The second half of the equation. How many times have you sat and imagine your death? In terms of you being separated from your loved ones? You leave it to them?
What will your life be like? If you think about your death, you wonder is it going to be a sudden death? That's not necessarily a bad thing. By the way. It is important in the province of
Milton Fujairah it
that a sudden death. He said it is easy often to be moving around to the movement. It's an East for the believer allows us to frame it easy, painless exit, as opposed to going through difficulty on the way out. Though those who go through difficulty on the way out a lot perhaps is purify them so they lean him they reach him with a polished slate. But that's one imagination. Is it going to be a car wreck? Is he going to be a straight valance? What's it going to be?
Best case scenario when we imagine our depth and our separation? This is the best case scenario and it's useful to think about this that's why you're excited on a set up and didn't just leave it with you're gonna die. No, there's gonna be extraction separation, there's going to be a religion bonds. So best case scenario in your imagination is probably you sitting around with your family, bidding them farewell.
And then all being in your president's trying to comfort you cry down to love for you.
One of the early listeners had this experience, but look at what he caught. And I want you to catch it as well. He asked them, Why are you crying? What makes you cry? As he was dying, they all began to eat
the women and the children, everybody.
So she says, You've been so good to us, you know, never seen a bad day from you, and life will be so putrid without you And who's gonna take care of us like you? He was such a big man.
And his children, he asked them, Why are you crying? He said, because you were the best father ever. And there's nothing you withheld from us. And you were so protective. And now we're going to go off into a world without our father, orphans. He said, All of you are crying for yourselves, who is crying for me today? You're crying because you're going to be a widow. And you're crying because you're going to miss me. You're going to wish you had a father Who's crying for me that I'm going to get lower than a grave and be lonely, then I'm going to be set up by angels and the question that I am going to spend the journey now that will arrive me at Deliver me to 1pm we don't really think
about it that way. That's the other end of the separation that we need to think about.
When I was oh, God tells you in the whole animal, it will look like that they're not really as close to you.
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he captured this image for us so that we can keep revisiting it. No one is reaches this wrote the soul on the way out.
When to view the family those present at that moment are looking on.
Yes, it's tragic. Yes, it's devastating, but not as much as it is for that person.
The moment when they find out when the when the grades are revealed. To me that even you have that moment you are looking on. Then he says, What do you mean kumada?
And we are meeting with our angels. We are closer to him. At that moment. Then you even the family, but you just don't see it.
And yes, your family loves you. Absolutely. There's no doubt about it. But do they love you so much to stay inside the grave with you?
Do they love you enough to not walk away? The province of the law legal system says the man who had the enamelled is America on
the first night, the first moments, he says, when they walk away from him or her, and he could hear
the corner, the clipping when it's happening of their feet as it's getting softer. As they're leaving, there's going to be a separation, a very, very, very painful separation.
And here's another question. These people that love you very, very, very, very much. Are they after the genocide? Going to not eat food?
It would be hard for them to starve itself to death, you're supposed to eat food. But do you think
that they're enough for you is going to stop them from eating food, even if it wasn't how to starve yourself? Life will go on, it's supposed to go on. It does not stop for anyone. So you need to stop for your own good and sell yourself once it's gonna be like when I get pulled out when I'm separates.
And look at it through the lens of Susan. And when Alonzo just says what happened to Muna for the camera.
And you have certainly come back to us all the load. Just as we created you the first time around WhatsApp to learn how one nagu ma illegal
and you left back there.
All that we gave you for a short period. You left it behind your backs left and back there.
Why am I not on shoes? I
am a mother and says and I don't see all these parties. intercessors you don't care if that means someone that loves you so much cares about you so much that they're gonna step into say, Oh, I'd love for me. Let them go out carry their tag. There we go. Uh, once and I don't see any of your intercessors that you claimed had an equal right
To you, no one has a right to you, but Allah and that begins with your love for him. Because if you love Allah, there is no separation there.
Allah says
now that the the bonds of kinship of love of a warm up these soldiers, they all get ripped apart
hamdu lillahi wa salatu salam ala
rasulillah.
Salam said, Oh, Hamlet, no live however you want, but know that you will die and love whoever you want, but know that you will be separated from. So prepare yourself for the day that you will be separated from them. And also prepare them for the day when they will be separated from you.
You know, just mentioned.
And this story has been circulated and
I guess reflected on for many different angles through in many different cultures. But there is once a very powerful king who had a very great sized family.
And he married four women,
consecutively.
But of course, by all kings, he had to die. And so we felt that before him.
He went to the fourth wife when she loved the most and would do absolutely anything to please. He was insanely in love with her.
And he went to her and said I love you more than all the rest. Will you be with me in my grave when I die?
She said never. Absolutely not. And she right away.
He was very hurt by this because he was most invested in his love with her. And so he went to the third wife, oh, he love a great deal, but not as much, but not as much. And he said I love you my entire life. I've been with you the longest. And I need a favor. Now. Just one thing I need you to be buried with. keep me company that artists of the grave.
She said no, this is your death, not mine wife is too beautiful. And she walked away.
And so what is next, the next wife, which he did spend as much time with. But she was the most loyal. She was a woman that did not treat others the way that others treated her.
And so he said to her I've ever come to you in a tight squeezes that you've come through for me.
And I need you now more than ever. Please accept what they've rejected, please be buried with me.
She said I can't I'm sorry.
All I can promise you is that I'm delivering to your grave I'll attend your Jeunesse I'll make Nike drive for you. But that's it. I'm sorry, forgive me. As she walked away.
There was one more wife in the story that he had neglected for so long that he even forgot he was married to her he wouldn't even feed her wouldn't spend on her without acknowledge her with a visitor.
And so he hears a voice saying I will go with you.
And so he turns around and remembers, oh yeah, this another woman here in my life. And you're gonna come with me, I should have loved you more than all the rest, I should have to carry more than all the rest. Everybody's true colors come out. And now I know your value. I'm so sorry.
I wish I could make things better. I wish I could change them. And then he died.
This story is obviously a metaphor. It's an analogy.
This fourth wife that he loved insanely. We all have that wife.
that marriage is our marriage to ourselves. You love yourself more than anybody. And you'll do for yourself, which you won't do for anybody. But when the time of death comes the very first thing to be trading you is that self of yours that you love so much.
The third wife
is your property and your wealth. You loved it your entire life. But you know deep down inside a day is gonna come when it's going to be separated, you're going to be separated from it.
Because it would not have gotten to you until the left the person before you and so it has to leave you to get to the person after your life will go on for money, not for you.
And the second way that you don't really have a good relationship with are your family relationships. You don't really your good friends, your family. You don't really give them what they deserve.
But they're always there to advise you, they're always ready to accept you. That's your family.
But at the end of the day, all your family can offer us I'm sorry, outreach and as I'll link to that I have to go.
Life has to go on.
And that last one that is weak, that is frail, that is malnourished, that is ignored. These are your good deeds.
These are your good deeds. The ones we should have focused on for so much they're what last they want to remain. They are the only ones that will accept will agree to enter your gradebook up
and so love whomever you wish would know you'll be separated from
but if you love online serving Him, you will never be devastated you will never be disappointed a lot So Jen will make it up for you and then so just be for him at his expectations and he will be for you above anything you expect of him and that's why the advice will this I close
it one is built on the other he says literally however you wish but no you will die. Then he says wait, that is not just some screens earning off love whomever you want know that you're going to be separated from them. And then what's the next statement which we will leave to our next in Sharma and do whatever you want of deeds know that you will come to meet them.
Each statement is built on the one prior so don't lose your step in this life.
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