Mohammad Elshinawy – How To Balance Ups And Downs Of Life

Mohammad Elshinawy
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The speaker discusses how one woman, known as ateenth century Muslims, used to use her father's commandments to avoid suffering from sadness and suffering. She describes how she used her father's commandments to obtain forgiveness and gain rewards, even though she was still suffering from pain. The speaker suggests that forgiveness is not just a question of actions, but also comes from actions and intentions.

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			So how do you suggest that someone can
		
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			balance the pursuit of happiness with positivity
		
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			while acknowledging you know and accepting sadness grief
		
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			stuff like that of this world you know
		
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			because
		
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			it will happen. You will become sad. You
		
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			will grieve somebody, but how do can you
		
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			balance happiness with that as well?
		
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			You know, it is reported that one of
		
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			the Salaf, one of the early Muslims,
		
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			a righteous woman,
		
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			she was seen smiling after she cut her
		
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			finger.
		
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			She cut her finger like that.
		
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			Or she may have cut it off entirely.
		
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			And they said to her, how can you
		
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			sort of, like, manage the pain?
		
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			So it is reported that she said,
		
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			that the sweetness of the reward
		
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			caused me to forget. It's sedated for me.
		
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			Like sedatives?
		
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			It's sedated for me
		
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			the bitterness of it being cut. The prophet,
		
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			salaam, said, there is no Muslim that goes
		
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			through nasab, which is fatigue, walaawasab,
		
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			nor sickness,
		
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			walahem, nor any anxiety, concerns about the future,
		
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			nor any sadness or grief, meaning about the
		
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			past,
		
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			except that Allah
		
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			cleanses them of their
		
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			misdeeds
		
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			by that
		
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			even the prick of the thorn. You stub
		
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			your toe. You bang your finger. Sort of
		
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			you you you chip your nail, whatever it's
		
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			gonna be, except that Allah will expiate of
		
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			your sins with it. The hadith ends by
		
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			saying
		
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			and, like, afflictions,
		
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			you know, will continue
		
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			adhering to the servant, like they're inseparable from
		
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			you, until you walk on this earth
		
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			without a sin to atoll.
		
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			You can be sinless the way angels are
		
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			sinless,
		
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			simply by the things that you didn't even
		
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			initiate getting forgiven for. Allah sent them your
		
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			way to make sure you get rid of
		
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			them. And that's not reward, that's just forgiveness.
		
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			Then if you anticipate the reward
		
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			because you need to be having intentions to
		
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			be rewarded,
		
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			then there's reward. So you're actually getting all
		
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			of this
		
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			potentially within a single incident.
		
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			So is there other instances like like this?
		
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			Like,
		
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			because
		
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			I I already knew something like that where
		
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			it's like if you're injured or something that
		
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			you you have your sins forgiven, but is
		
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			there any type of other instance where?
		
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			Maybe it's not being injured or maybe it's
		
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			not grieving that you can also gain reward
		
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			without even knowing or being forgiven without even
		
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			knowing?
		
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			Yeah. Absolutely. I mean,
		
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			the
		
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			scholars like Ibn Qayy and Rahimahullah,
		
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			he counts,
		
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			and don't test me on this,
		
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			11 stations of forgiveness, like different ways Allah
		
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			ensures your forgiveness in this world and then
		
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			different ways Allah ensures your forgiveness
		
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			when you're beneath the earth in your grave
		
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			and then different ways you could be given
		
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			a pass of forgiveness in the next world.
		
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			Like, 11th day, like,
		
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			the odds are stacked in our favor in
		
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			incredible ways.
		
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			I'll accept someone bent on self destruction.